₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Na everybody wey marry Ned dey get drug problem. There is a video of Regina taking weed right by his side. So it is very possible he knew and was enjoying it side-benefit _energetic knack. He is only mentioning it now because she wants to leave and he has to defend his image.

cococandy:
Yes it is. As well as with older paternal age.

But for the longest time everyone thought it’s just maternal age due to propaganda.

If you recall that women are born with all the eggs they’ll ever have in their lifetime. The female eggs last decades therefore it makes sense that eggs are more genetically stable than sperm cells that a significantly shorter time.

I think the problem is that the longest time, women have been made to believe their age is the only concern with reproduction. That men are good to go at any age. Unfortunately they are finding out now that it’s not true. Maybe if men prioritized youthful reproduction like they told women to do, we would have less birth abnormalities overall. The excerpt below explains it better than I can 🙂.

cococandy:
Women’s eggs do absolutely stand the test of time. Older women may find it harder to get pregnant but when they do, the age of the egg doesn’t affect the pregnancy outcome.

But men’s sperm age absolutely does affect pregnancy outcomes including but not limited to chromosomal abnormalities, miscarriages and even the symptoms the woman experiences while she’s pregnant.

All credibly researched and documented by the way. The guys just believe whatever will soothe their egos.
I don’t think I blame them anyway. If I grew up hearing that I don’t have a biological clock, it would be hard to convince me otherwise at a later stage in life.

IjeBos:
These are Bemeruca and Raumdeuter's "kids" in the group chat.
Raumdeuter, defending Racism one 30 year old kid at a time.

IjeBos:
I go there once in a while to take the pulse of Conservatives as well.
Surprisingly they are condemning it in strong words, maybe because they understand how bad it is and the light in shines on this new conservative movement.
But as you said, black peeps in this thread, crickets if they aren't calling it made up.

One unhinged poster called National Review "race traitors" for writing the article condemning it.
Those are the people, black people in this forum will fight day and night for.

IjeBos:
I did nazi that coming.
Just out in the open on Capital Hill.
The party Raumdeuter wakes up every morning to fight for.

https://www.politico.com/news/2025/10/15/capitol-police-investigating-swastika-in-gop-congressional-office-00609704

cococandy:
Y’all’s president

cococandy:
If the Government needs money to stay open, perhaps giving $20 billion to Argentina, $50 billion to Israel, spending $200 million on a golden ballroom & $100 million on a “free” Qatari plane while paying around $1 million per day for national guard to harass citizens in blue states is not the way to go? 🤷🏽‍♀️

But sure let’s keep up the delusion that the GOP is the
"fiscally Conservative Party". All while the farmers go bankrupt, inflation skyrockets worse than it worse, we lose 32k jobs in September, and the Epstein files are still being covered up.

benalvino3:
Well, Obama only became rich when he became the president.
Trump raised better children who don't smoke weed and get caught in public.

Obama challenged Trump to be a president. Trump, even if he does not drink alcohol, said, "Hold my beer."

cococandy:
At his very best, with all the money and power in the world, decked in gold and crowned in diamonds, he will never measure up to Obama on Obama’s lowest day.

That’s something that will haunt him until he kicks the bucket and it’s amusing to watch him struggle to come terms with the facts .

ObaIgwe1:
The obsession of Trump on Obama is insane my sister, but only in Maga's world will he be able to lace Obama's shoes.

cococandy:
So this is what that airplane gift was about?

Imagine if Obama accepted a plane from a Muslim govt in exchange for them building a base on American soil?

Oh boy. Shame on all of you Trump supporters. The more you support him the more he drags you people in the mud. Shame shame shame.

Never heard of in the history of America that another country gets to build a base on US soil. And for no good reason except that they “gifted” our president a plane

Onegai:
I did answer your question.

Karma is the wrong word, it's Hindu. Biblically it's justice. Scientifically it's how the universe works (Physics explains this better). Like throwing a ball at a wall.

Bad things will always happen to you and anyone.

However, there are things you do, that will always end up coming back to you.

If a tanker falls on you today on your way home, that's not karma.

If you stole all the money meant to fix roads in Apapa for years, bought land in your village, in Lekki, took nice holidays and sent your kids to school abroad and then one holiday they come home and a tanker falls on the car they're in, on one of the roads in Apapa that you should have fixed 15 years ago, what would you call that?

And most of us wouldn't remember you were once the Commissioner for Roads (or whatever they called Amaechi) 15 yrs ago. We won't even know the name of the people who died in that car. It would be a blip on our radar.

CS Lewis gave a very good example of God's justice in his book "The Horse And The Boy".

armyofone:
look don't make me laugh.

ObaIgwe1:
Ask the committee that awarded Obama that question. But for sure, he was not desperately looking for it or campaigning for it compare to Trump, everyone knows Trump wants it badly.

cococandy:
They really live in a weird different reality where up is down

cococandy:
In what world except the world of the deluded is Trump fit for a Nobel peace prize?
His gestapo are out in the city harassing innocent citizens. They shot a reverend in the head with pepper balls. He never came out to condemn that conduct.

Onegai:
Let me give a real life example (I'm going to get dragged )

In university, I dated someone for almost 4 yrs. We knew each other's parents, friends and at graduation we were supposed to relocate together and then marry.

Then a huge issue happened, it affected us badly and we didn't handle it well. Coupled with distance, we started having fights over the phone. And in my loneliness and sadness, I started hanging out with a friend of a friend (let's call him A) of my bf (uh oh). 2+2 led to 4 and I dramatically broke up (after one night of cheating) with my bf and swore I was in love with friend A.

Now, what I did followed the 80: 20 rule. And that rule is usually what a lot of people who dramatically end their marriages for another person or are cheating follow. And it will NEVER work out.

Did my "love" with A work out? 'Course not! He denied and rejected me so publicly (whilst privately hooking up) because he didn't want his reputation damaged. I went batshit crazy holding onto A who was emotionally unavailable, tanked my grades, my reputation took a nosedive, friends left. I kept making worse and worse decisions to dig myself out of the hole but only ended up deeper.

And it only ended 3/4 years later. Which is why they say "the Love no go last" when you look at all the couples doing this.

For my relatives who did this in their marriages, by Year 7 of being with the 2nd wife, you won't have guessed that they even liked that woman in Year 1 so much.

All the bad decisions I took whilst with A ended up derailing me for years. But you wouldn't have seen it if you weren't my friend, I was seemingly balling in the USA (I wish I could go into how bad things were but you'd all scream and almost all of you will quickly run to kneel down and pray for forgiveness and go and apologise to people you've wronged ).

And that's how karma works. You plant the bad seeds, you reap the bad harvest.

I've seen it happen too many times around me, to doubt it. But from the outside, they're balling.

God will always forgive you, but you must reap what you sow. Period. Like I said, it's in every religion and it's even scientific.

PS: 20 yrs later, my bf and I are still friends. And I regret breaking up with him. I haven't even talked to A once again.

Onegai:
Here's the thing about karma:

Most of us on the outside will not see it.

That's why people don't believe in it. But it's real, even biblically, every religion states it, it's even scientific. You reap what you sow.

If you've ever screwed up and hurt someone, you paid for it somehow. And most likely how you paid wouldn't look related to what you did. And it won't show to the outside world either, when I got my karma for hurting my ex-bf, it was like a series of screwups that kept snowballing till I ended up in a bad place, 2-3 yrs later. But you won't have guessed from any picture I posted online during that period.

A lot of politicians have very messed up private lives or are battling something very bad personally. You're not going to see it unless you're in their private circles.

A lot of women I know who were secretaries to rich men and then 'upgraded" to 2nd wives, most didn't enjoy that marriage or there was an issue with their kids. I met these people when they had turned 45+, 55+, 65+ till death, you would have been surprised to hear that the husband beside them hated his 1st wife so much and chased her away for these 2nd wives. And at least one of their children had k-leg in their lives.

God has always promised to forgive you if you repent. But He never said that you won't face the consequences of your sins. The Lord said the sins of the father shall be visited unto the next 3 generations, just look at Chief Gabriel Igbinedion, his son and Natasha Osawaru.

So does karma exist, absolutely. Just don't expect it to show itself to you most times. And if it does, then your cup was realllyyyy overflowing.

Paragonpric:
I know i messed up but it was just an in the moment kind of thing. It looks suspicious and if tables were turned I'll never accept it. I like to use scenarios to check myself too.

If she doesn't come back I'll accept my loss and move on. I have pleaded and it's falling on deaf ears. I have stopped begging and let her be.