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Olaolar:
So as husband in the house the money I make is everybody’s money ..
But the money my wife make is her money
Even though she’s making money more than I do

Make responsibility kill man ??

You should ask your wife.

kushercain:
Pic 1 : what I watched and tried to attempt

Pic 2 : what I got


The issue was in the flipping. It kept breaking up. So on the second attempt in Pic 3 & 4 I used my nonstick grill pan

Eggs
Cabbage
Lettuce
Sausage
Tomato sauce

Yours looks tastier, for real.

Mindlog:
OP's childhood traumas which is really painful, has hugely contributed to the SzPD (Schizoid Personality Disorder) , he may possibly be struggling with now as an adult (note, this is not a diagnosis).

Winks2, I will encourage you to go read more about it, also watch YouTube videos on that and see if you can relate to the contents as that would be the first step.

Thank you.

Winks2:
🙏🙏🙏. Sometimes I cry with in secrets. I'm unfortunate

Everything can change for the better. Please believe it.

Winks2

It’s hard to find the right words but I pray you find help and heal. The scars will always be there but the wounds don’t have to be open forever.

I am deeply sorry you had to go through all of this and it’s sad that you didn’t meet one good soul when growing up. It’s good you have decided to open up now.

Mindlog, can you help here?

MonsterVerse:
what are you doing here.. 😂😂

What you see.

MonsterVerse:


While me from hungry to hungrier..

Grab a plate and have some langos then.

Langos. Ate it in Hungary some years ago and decided to try it myself. It was very satisfying. I didn’t make the traditional topping because I prefer it like this.

Crestaria:
May your pockets never run dry to buy more lol

Amen.

Crestaria:
This is definitely not Nigerian rice e long

My and my family‘s favorite. We always buy it.

Sandralight:
Looks so delicious, I am going to eat this tomorrow

Thank you. It really was delicious.

Enjoy!

Nnamdipapa:
This is how she always prepares for me and feels sad when I don't show.
You know what it means for a lady to treat you like a king while your wife is constantly taking you for granted?
I was planning not to show that day but when I received this, I made a u-turn and headed for her place.
Every experience with this chic is like heaven on earth.

You said your looks attract women. Show us your picture.

Nnamdipapa:
Yes we do. We face great temptations and occasionally we indulge in them and life goes on.
Most of the time I am being propositioned why beautiful successful women because of my looks and I am left with no choice than to indulge.

Pictures or I don’t believe it.

CodeTemplarr:
women worked in the ancient times. They did mostly from home.

Keep dodging the questions. I understand you need to save face. Too late.

The day when my children will move out to go to college will come soon enough. I will be crying my eyes out. I am not ready to part from them before this day comes.

CodeTemplarr:
it is useless mothers who complain about taking care of children when the mannis out looking for what they will use. If you like donate your brain to coven in exchange for fine skin and big chest na you knoooo

So all families that you know survive on one income? All the women you know don’t work?

budaatum:
But you never answered now, before tagging buda!

1. What qualities do you admire in people?

Honesty. Integrity. Brain use.

2. What is your super power?

My words are my superpower. One day I will say "Everyone! Be smart and intelligent", and everyone will suddenly become smart and intelligently use their brain. I'm working on it, as I don't want anyone left out.

3. If you could change one thing about you, what would it be (character or physical trait)?

Discipline. I wish I was way more disciplined than I am.

4. If you could be someone else for one day, who would you like to be?

I'd like to be God. That way, I can kill all the Gods and everyone would then need to rely on the sweat of their own brow instead of looking to the heavens for salvation and manna and their daily bread. Yeah, I know Gods are not someones, but heck.

5. What advice would you give your children or niece/nephew for choosing a spouse?

Learn to learn when you are young, and learning will become your nature and lead to you being wise.

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You are a character.
Your answers made me smile.

I will answer the questions when someone tags me.

CodeTemplarr:
come and force me to. It goes both ways.

No need to force you. The foolishness of your question is obvious. If you choose, don’t take care of your children. Just don’t complain later how they prefer their mother.

CodeTemplarr:
and why wouldnt a woman want to take care of her kids by releasing her money or contributing to provision.

Answer my question. Why wouldn’t you want to take care of your children?

CodeTemplarr:
Why will he help with kids when he has to work extra hard to dig a borehole, generate electricity and pump water as against you going to the streams to fetch as it is in the books that inspired the provider role of man?

He also provides milled rice + grains and not the raw ones you have to go mill yourself like it was in biblical times.

He probably bought blenders, miicrowave oven, freezer, and washing machine which were never under the role of provision by provider in the bible. He probably pays the electricity bills for all those.

No wonder household level Yahoo is trendy today. There has to be spiritual shortcut or support for the man to meet those numerous emanating needs outside the original purview of the provider. They can agree on any kid or young maid around as victim. Any new innovation falls under the role of the provider.

If a machine that baths and dresses babies is created today, it becomes the man's job to provide and power it. Most likely within the city where the means to rapidly expand productive output in exchange for more money is highly limited. Tell me which brand of phone did Sarah use? What channel of satellite TV provider of their time was her favourite?

Is domestic battle even harder than field battles to start with?

Because they are their kids. Why wouldn’t you want to take care of your kids?

Zonefree:
A female Nigerian student would slave for her school boyfriend for 4-5 years without complaining.
-She'll cook and serve the young man and his friends.
-Wash his clothes.
-Clean and tidy his rooms/kitchen.
-Wash his toilet.
-Attend to sexual needs in marvelous ways.

All these for free!

Same girl will get married and start to complain after just 8 months that house chores are too much for her. Same chores she was doing for her school boyfriend for years without complains!


If you want to practice feminism, stay in your father's house! As long as marriage is in your dictionary and you're getting married in an African settings, get ready to work!

Lazy dimwits!

Why don’t you guys stay with your female students then? Just don’t get married.

okoroemeka:
it is a sad reality but adultery to man is as inevitable as death and sunrise

Speak for yourself.

Just saw an old thread and thought it would be nice to play again.

Please answer the questions and tag a person to answer them too.

1. What qualities do you admire in people?

2. What is your super power?

3. If you could change one thing about you, what would it be (character or physical trait)?

4. If you could be someone else for one day, who would you like to be?

5. What advice would you give your children or niece/nephew for choosing a spouse?

budaatum

Jollof. The only type of rice I am crazy about.

noble71:
Weight loss diet.

Looks delicious.

Just saw an old thread and thought it would be nice to play again.

Please answer the questions and tag a person to answer them too.

1. What qualities do you admire in people?

2. What is your super power?

3. If you could change one thing about you, what would it be (character or physical trait)?

4. If you could be someone else for one day, who would you like to be?

5. What advice would you give your children or niece/nephew for choosing a spouse?

descarado

Ringstonermask:
Ini Edo... this ur claim nor valid.

D plausible explanation to ur singlehood, is because no one wants to wife you. Or maybe u look down on people or they observed your character ..


It is every woman's dream to get married and have a partner(husband) for life.

Or is ur own spiritual?

That’s your only explanation?

Maybe she has learnt from others.

https://www.nairaland.com/8238008/married-women-share-battles-fight

No. No time for that. There are more important and more fulfilling tasks and activities to tend to.

Paragraphs please, my eyes hurt.

cococandy:
Maeve7, GboyegaD and other soup lovers here’s one for soup season. These ingredients make a big pot so adjust to your taste.

If anyone has a tried and trusted pumpkin soup recipe pls share.

Thank you so much sweetheart. I love soup at this time of the year so you just had the perfect timing. I need to do some shopping today.

I have a pumpkin recipe for you.

You‘ll need a pumpkin of course.

a can of chopped tomatoes
a potato
an onion
two cloves of garlic
vegetable broth
vinegar of your choice
sausages of your choice
and something to spice it up, I take habaneros or add my chilli sauce to my plate after it is cooked (you know why )

1. Wash the pumpkin and cut it into small pieces. Do the same with the potato. You can add one carrot too but it’s optional. Chop the onion and garlic and fry everything on medium heat in a pot.
2. Add the tomatoes and the habaneros if you want. Then add the vegetables broth until everything is covered. Add some salt and pepper and one table spoon sugar. Add one table spoon of the vinegar too.
3. Let everything cook for about 30 minutes.
4. Take from stove and blend everything with a hand/stick blender.
5. Add the sausage and allow to get warm in the soup. You can add some liquid (broth) if you think the soup is too sick. Also add some more seasoning if needed.

Enjoy with some bread of your choice.