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Politics / Re: 426 FG Workers Risk Sanctions For Ignoring New Postings by mainman7(m): 5:46am On Nov 15, 2021
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Seif Al-Islam, Gadaffi’s Son Joins Libyan Presidential Race by mainman7(m): 4:21pm On Nov 14, 2021
angry

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Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello, Moghalu, Lead Atiku & Others In Silverbird Tv Presidential Polls by mainman7(m): 3:56pm On Nov 14, 2021
Ok.

Health / Re: This sudden Stuttering Problem is making me depressed by mainman7(m): 3:55pm On Nov 14, 2021
Enter into 3 Days Dry Fasting, preferably in MFM Deliverance Program. Before you start, ensure to cry to your CREATOR that HE should wash your sins and the consequences aways by the Blood of MESSIAH that was shed to destroy the Works of Satan. After that just be shouting as much as you can that every Arrow of Dumbness should backfire and destroy the power that sent it to you. By the end of the Program, your Tongue must have become completely Free! After which you must Daily Pray that HOLY SPIRIT of MESSIAH should take permanent Ownership of your Heart, the Source of your thoughts and use you for the Glorious Purpose HE Created you. If you daily Sincerely Pray this Prayer, anyone that try to afflict you shall be automatically destroyed because you have become aligned with Highest AUTHORITY above all Authorities

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Celebrities / Re: BBNaija's Tacha Parties & Competes In Twerking With Her Male Friend In Paris by mainman7(m): 8:48am On Nov 13, 2021
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Family / Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by mainman7(m): 6:28am On Nov 13, 2021
cool I knew it! All the intelligent Ones still on NL have observed your style too. I only checked the Name after reading and I was like yeah, I knew it! It's Obembet the Satanist again! Ever subtly programming minds of the gullible ones among Nairalanders against Marriage, God and anything godly. I Testify of you that over the years, you have planted seed of demonic deception and hatred for Marriage in the hearts of gullible young ones on Nairaland, you have sold many Souls into Demonic eternal Trap/Bondage by encouraging many to have multiple Sex-partners instead of settling down in Marriage, you have captured many Souls into Homosexuality for Satan your father, etc. You have truly faithfully served the purpose of Satan your father and captured unguarded Souls for him here on Nairaland. Yes, you have enjoyed your earthly rewards from Satan even at the expense of your Eternal Soul! However, I Announce to you on this Day: Saturday 13TH, November 2021 the Sabbath Day of our CREATOR that your End is no more Near, your End is Here already! For it is written that "you that led to Captivity for Satan shall surely become a Captive too!" The CREATOR of Humanity is about to Reward you according to the Destinies that you have slaughtered through subtle demonization of Marriage, popularization of Immortality and deceptive Dignification of Immoral Lifestyle!
obembet:
At 23 I got married immediately after my first degree. Had my first kid at 24, got a master's degree in my area of study, yet without a job. My ex was doing well in his business and he carried all the financial responsibilities of our home while I shoulder all the manual work; ranging from cooking, laundry, cleaning, buying groceries, making sure that every bills are paid, school runs, etc. All he does is to provide the money to carry all of those. I'm all- must -be -tidy kind of person so I made sure to maintain that.

I'll make sure I keep the house clean, prepare his favorite meals which I do by following the meal time table cos he loves three different meals for each day. Most times he will come back with a different meal to be prepared for him after I must have made dinner. This must be accompanied with fruits or nuts to crack, extract, slice and serve. As this continued I became perplex and may complain but he never listened or appreciated all my efforts.

As years come by our population increased and I begged him to buy a washing machine. This is a no go area as he believes it makes one lazy. After much begging and no compliance for about two years I stopped washing his main clothes, but washed only his inner wears. I saved some money and got myself one. He was happy I did so and gave me 25% of the amount I bought it. I later learnt that that was a bribe to start washing his clothes again. All my married life I never had a full house help. His relatives will come, stay for some time and leave. Even while they're still around I prefer to do some things myself for some reasons.

Now this is my round the clock non paid job from from year to year. I'll wake up by 4:00 am to prepare children's snacks or meal for school, wake everyone up by 5:00 am for morning prayers, bath the children and at the same time have clothes rolling in the machine while breakfast sits on fire simultaneously. By 7:15 am I'm with the children on the road to school. Keeps them at school and gets back home to continue the outstanding works. I may come back to meet ex still sleeping or brushing his teeth. I will serve breakfast, help him choose his day wear and most times look for one document or car keys.

I tried to get a teaching job which can help me continue my “rat race” at home. None of them lasted for more than four months, reasons I couldn't figure out till today cos I believe I'm very good at that.

By the time I could say “ehee, time to rest” it's already 3 to 4 pm, time to get the children back from school. Preparing dinner, helping in homework, correcting complains from teachers if there's any, bathing and feeding them. Sometimes I still find time to play and tell stories with the kids. I buy everybody's wears including ex's, especially during festive periods. I guess that's the only time I have to get new things for myself. It never bothered me cos I'm happy putting smiles in the faces of people around me. I'm always preparing home-made groceries cos I'm good at most of them.

I could remember vividly a friend advising me on improving in my outward appearance which I gave little attention to.

By the time I'll retire to bed, it's already 11 or 12:00 midnight. And so it continues.

I never received any form of appreciation; either in kind or in cash. And to worsen it all, he became so abusive; verbally, physically, emotionally and would complain and blame me in every misfortune of his life. Life was so terrible living with him. Yet, I did not complain until he pushed me out and finally left.

Most times we focus all our energy into building our homes, that is wonderful, thereby neglecting ourselves which should come first, it's not being selfish. I celebrate every member of my family every year but I was never celebrated for the thirteen years we lived together. After reading a book, “what kids need most in a mom” by a retired white nurse; Patricia Standforth, I started changing my status but things have started going sour in my marriage and I was kicked out by hubby. He got a nullification note from the church, refused me access to the children, etc. Though I'm working towards getting a civil divorce from the court.

It's been two years now and alot of people could not believe it when they meet me, as a mother of five who's so young looking, energetic and sophisticated. I've got a lot of space and time to travel, learn new things, meet new friends and recently working towards getting an MBA.

And more importantly, I wouldn't want to be seen where I was left.

Edited : Obembet

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Politics / Re: FG To Pay Nigerians Transport Allowance After Fuel Subsidy Removal- Zainab Ahmed by mainman7(m): 3:45pm On Nov 12, 2021
grin Old format!
That old format still dey work?!
I believe Nigerians are wiser by now!

Like if you know that the Nigeria would have been better moved into Progress had it been we have this great Thinker as our visionary President than myopic shallow-minded Bubu that has brought nothing but retrogression!

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Politics / Re: Bianca Ojukwu Celebrates Her 27th Wedding Anniversary (Throwback Photo) by mainman7(m): 3:45pm On Nov 12, 2021
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Politics / Re: Bianca Ojukwu Celebrates Her 27th Wedding Anniversary (Throwback Photo) by mainman7(m): 3:38pm On Nov 12, 2021
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Politics / Re: Court Remands Chima Igwe, Ex-DG Of FIIRO For Certificate Fraud by mainman7(m): 3:33pm On Nov 12, 2021
This is serious!

In another news of Breaking News:
Like if you agree that if the Man below is President instead of Brhuari, he would make Nigeria far better and Greater than bubu that has being sinking innocent people into pains, sorrows and tears in this once peaceful Nation.

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Sports / Re: Asisat Oshoala Injured, To Be Out Of Action For Two Months by mainman7(m): 3:32pm On Nov 12, 2021
Get well soon female living Legend.

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Health / Re: COVID-19 Update For November 10 2021 In Nigeria by mainman7(m): 1:17pm On Nov 11, 2021
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower: Beneficiaries Will Be Paid October by mainman7(m): 1:16pm On Nov 11, 2021
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Politics / Re: Charles Soludo Will Be The Second Ex-CBN Governor To Govern A State by mainman7(m): 8:06am On Nov 10, 2021
Cool.

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Politics / Re: Anambra: Soludo Dedicates Victory To Policemen Killed During Town Hall Meeting by mainman7(m): 6:49am On Nov 10, 2021
Congrats. Like if you agree that Soludo deserve the Victory. Share if not.


A Must Watch! Knowledge is Power! Shot Video of what is about to happen next Globally unless you and I courageously Resist:
https://www.bitchute.com/video/tRrJ3gzmvMt8/?fbclid=IwAR2D5NG5EQaxSR5XgqVdjao3oY-8Yo6mplxDcg3le0vjK8BO60_k04oRHpI

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Politics / Re: Aviation Fuel Price Rises By 70%, International Airlines May Raise Fares by mainman7(m): 6:47am On Nov 10, 2021
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Politics / Re: Osinbajo: To Address Inequalities, Social Benefits And Profits Can Co-Exist by mainman7(m): 6:44am On Nov 10, 2021
A Must Watch! Knowledge is Power! Very Shirt Video of what is about to happen next Globally unless you and I courageously Resist:
https://www.bitchute.com/video/tRrJ3gzmvMt8/?fbclid=IwAR2D5NG5EQaxSR5XgqVdjao3oY-8Yo6mplxDcg3le0vjK8BO60_k04oRHpI

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Foreign Affairs / Re: It is One minute to Midnight on Doomsday Clock- Boris Johnson(Pics,Video) by mainman7(m): 7:57pm On Nov 02, 2021
Real Miracles has become scarce in our Days because Astral Authority of Man divinely domiciled in the Mouth is monumentally destroyed lost through...
Wise ones that still retains truely Original Intelligence, we Know that mastered Romantic Fingering of the Right Spot(s) works far better than the demonically popularized perversion of putting Mouth to the Place that is so Close to Anus! For allowing yourself to be an active Satanic tool to further Humanity Degredation, Polution and Pervertion, you urgently deserve to be most violently and ferociously Shot 7 Times in the head with your brains splatter out on the Street by the bullets. You are either a persive agent too in the hand of the Devil to get guys to start sucking the Place from which smelly Mensuration comes out or you are outrightly Soul-decayed agent of Satan! Either way, Satan is fully using you to pervert gullible Souls. Sound Sultan was captured by similar thing you posted, he sucked Pekus, and just like many Men that was not publicized, he got Cancer of the Throat!!! It has been scientifically proven that Cancer of the Throat is becoming very rampant among Males. Why?! Why was it not so during the Time of our Fathers when human part Join to the part Created for?!
Maryliola:
Hey guys

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Politics / Re: Doyin Okupe Shines At The PDP National Convention by mainman7(m): 7:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
Wise ones that still retains truely Original Intelligence, we Know that mastered Romantic Fingering of the Right Spot works far better than the demonically popularized perversion of putting Mouth to the Place that is so Close to Anus! For allowing yourself to be an active Satanic tool to further Humanity Degredation, Polution and Pervertion, you urgently deserve to be most violently and ferociously Shot 7 Times in the head with your brains splatter out on the Street by the bullets. You are either a persive agent too in the hand of the Devil to get guys to start sucking the Place from which smelly Mensuration comes out or you are outrightly Soul-decayed agent of Satan! Either way, Satan is fully using you to pervert gullible Souls. Sound Sultan was captured by similar thing you posted, he sucked Pekus, and just like many Men that was not publicized, he got Cancer of the Throat!!! It has been scientifically proven that Cancer of the Throat is becoming very rampant among Males. Why?! Why was it not so during the Time of our Fathers when human part Join to the part Created for?!
Maryliola:
Hey guys

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Politics / Re: Amarachi Iwuanyanwu: Imo Deputy Speaker Impeached by mainman7(m): 7:36pm On Nov 02, 2021
Wise ones that still retains truely Original Intelligence, we Know that mastered Romantic Fingering of the Right Spot works far better than the demonically popularized perversion of putting Mouth to the Place that is so Close to Anus! For allowing yourself to be an active Satanic tool to further Humanity Degredation, Polution and Pervertion, you urgently deserve to be most violently and ferociously Shot 7 Times in the head with your brains splatter out on the Street by the bullets. You are either a persive agent too in the hand of the Devil to get guys to start sucking the Place from which smelly Mensuration comes out or you are outrightly Soul-decayed agent of Satan! Either way, Satan is fully using you to pervert gullible Souls. Sound Sultan was captured by similar thing you posted, he sucked Pekus, and just like many Men that was not publicized, he got Cancer of the Throat!!! It has been scientifically proven that Cancer of the Throat is becoming very rampant among Males. Why?! Why was it not so during the Time of our Fathers when human part Join to the part Created for?!
Maryliola:
Hey guys

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Family / Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by mainman7(m): 7:28pm On Nov 02, 2021
Real Miracles has become scarce in our Days because Astral Authority of Man divinely domiciled in the Mouth is monumentally destroyed lost through...
Wise ones that still retains truely Original Intelligence, we Know that mastered Romantic Fingering of the Right Spot(s) works far better than the demonically popularized perversion of putting Mouth to the Place that is so Close to Anus! For allowing yourself to be an active Satanic tool to further Humanity Degredation, Polution and Pervertion, you urgently deserve to be most violently and ferociously Shot 7 Times in the head with your brains splatter out on the Street by the bullets. You are either a persive agent too in the hand of the Devil to get guys to start sucking the Place from which smelly Mensuration comes out or you are outrightly Soul-decayed agent of Satan! Either way, Satan is fully using you to pervert gullible Souls. Sound Sultan was captured by similar thing you posted, he sucked Pekus, and just like many Men that was not publicized, he got Cancer of the Throat!!! It has been scientifically proven that Cancer of the Throat is becoming very rampant among Males. Why?! Why was it not so during the Time of our Fathers when human part Join to the part Created for?!
Maryliola:
Hey guys

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Politics / Re: FG Spends ₦5 Billion To Feed 228,046 Children In Gombe by mainman7(m): 7:58am On Oct 29, 2021
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Politics / Re: DSS Denied British Consul, Ezeife Access To Nnamdi Kanu – Lawyer by mainman7(m): 7:57am On Oct 29, 2021
angry
The Day the masses' truly unite against their Oppressors, that is the Day we shall all know Peace.

Like if you agree.

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Celebrities / Re: Nkechi Blessing Sunday Arrives UK, Kisses Her Husband After Mum's Burial (Photo) by mainman7(m): 2:52pm On Oct 21, 2021
Tyson Fury demystified!

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Celebrities / Re: Cubana Chief Priest Reacts To Fayose's Photo On Okada by mainman7(m): 12:52am On Oct 21, 2021
Poverty is truly a thing of the mind. This picture proves that Cubana Chief priest is the truly poverty-stricken fellow here, for thinking Wealth is all about flaunting affluence to kill the masses with envy and "oh God why is my own life like this" demonic suicide mentally. Cubana Chief priest and his likes are the tools in the hand of Satan, the ones he uses to make many to sell their Souls with do or die "I must have money at all cost and flaunt Money" mentality.
Politics / Re: #EndSARSMemorial: Survivors Of Lekki Shootings Recount Ordeal (Video) by mainman7(m): 5:22pm On Oct 20, 2021
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Politics / Re: Armed Security Operatives Block #EndSARSMemorial Protesters In Abuja (Photos) by mainman7(m): 5:19pm On Oct 20, 2021
FactBoyz:
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Ol' Boy! Where is you?! Niggi, NLanders really miss your highly Educative Threads and Posts. Just echoing the unalloyed love in the hearts of many NLanders for you. Bring back our heroic FactBoyz that constantly fed us with knowledge. Love you much Bro.
#NoHomo
Sports / Re: Nigeria VS Ghana (Women's Nations Cup Qualifier) Today At 4pm. by mainman7(m): 9:15am On Oct 20, 2021
Cool.
Politics / Re: DHQ Seeks To Crush Bandits With Tucano Jets, Laments US Condition by mainman7(m): 9:14am On Oct 20, 2021
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