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Olaoke16:
Sent

Kindly forward to me bro. Osasbillion@gmail.com

frozen70:
You must have given them the impression that you don't have responsibilities to cater for

So they will always come to you for financial help

Stop exposing your money or yourself to them

If you have enough and don't know what to do with it

Go and buy a portion of land and start building house

Better still get married and you will know why the married ones comes to you for borrowing

Thks, I am going to get married sharpa sharpa

Acidosis:
Loan repayment is one of the most difficult things to do. In fact, 70% of people who fails to refund their benefactors do so because of greed and wickedness, not because they don't have a means to pay back.

Some genuinely don't have it; some believe since you have enough to borrow them, you'd be good even if they don't pay back. Others simply want to take you for a f00l especially if you're the type that talk less and finds it difficult to 'disturb' your debtors with calls, SMS.

To overcome them all, please go and learn how to say 'NO. There's no better antidote than a 'No'.

Many thks.

dominique:
I used to be like you op but my former colleagues taught me the hard way how to say NO to loan requests. They felt since I'm married and my husband appears to be well off, I have more than enough cash to spare. Whenever anybody comes to request for soft loan from me, I list all the expenses on my neck. Na them go pity me sef.

Thks alot, exactly what I will start doing

Jonathan:
Oh!
I thought as much!
Continue to prove to them that you’re not broke and they will continue to borrow money from you .
Nonsense .
At your age! You’re still scared of “what people will say”

This guy, u be bad guy. Thks, I nor go fear again of 'what people will say'

Jonathan:
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Why are they always asking you to borrow them money everytime
Okay . Here’s a solution.
Start asking people to borrow you money too .
Start from those same set of people you’ve borrowed money and other random people too. You will learn

Thks, but I can't be borrowing when I don't need it. If I do that, those same people will b d ones to gossip u, that u r broke, and that they don't know what u spend money on. Am sure u understand my point

techgeek12:
Don't stop ur good heart from doing what u feel it's right, you don't know what God has in plan for you, one day good always pays off, if u have enough you can lead someone, but if udobt have just sayu don't have, but don't say u don't when u are capable of doing otherwise, good always prevails, that been said, you have a good heart, don't ruin it cus of some people that don't appreciate it, some people outdeir does, even me my only sis is sick with cancer, and my boss don't wanna give me advance so at least I can get her drugs, humans are something else abeg, God help us all

Thk u

sholatech:
I can relate with this..But believe me, most people borrow money easily and find it difficult to repay back when they have the money.

Very common to hear 'I will pay you back in two weeks as im expecting some money in few days time'..Two years you are still chasing them. So many neighbours, church members, relatives, politicians, work colleagues. Business associates are on this list. Currently, I no longer loan out money I can't lose..Or else you will get badly heartbroken. You will even see some buy luxury items or throw owambe party while they still owe you far less...

Thk u.

Good day people,
I have observed with dismay that each time I lend money to friends, loved ones, it usually ruins the relationship. Is either they become angry at me when they can't pay back or they tag me a bad person when I refuse to give them the next time they ask.
In my office, my boss usually borrows from me b4 d end of the month because he feels I am still a bachelor. Once, salary is paid, I will have to remind him b4 he pays back. He does this month in , month out. On this particular occasion, I turned him down cos I needed to meet a personal financial need, that was d day he disliked me. He did all he could so I will leave d organization but God got my back, I was transferred instead.
So many cases I can refer to, wen u give them money, u r a very good person, but the day u turn them down, u become their worst enemy, forgetting all u have done for them in the past.
Is it wrong to lend people money especially when they are in need? Cos I have made up my mind not to, anymore.

This is probably not true. But if it turns out to be true, depositors' funds are very safe. No bank customer can lose funds again. The banking industry is very robust and has since passed that level. I have quite a few millions there, but I will still sleep soundly tonight. Panic at your own peril.

Skyebank all the way

antidisestablis:
The issue has taken another twist, another thread has even been created. I'm about to break it off totally with her.

Yea I followed that as well. Infact that, thread actually directed me here. so I exhaustively read all. Brother, make haste while d sun shines.I have been there b4, it hurts greatly, but u will smile again. God loves u so much, that's y he rescued u now. Materialism n greed is d commander in chief of most divorce cases today. if u notice an atom of that vice in ur partner, run, flee n run, and dont look back. I wish u well op

the OP kept using d phrase 'her quest for materialism' was d cause of her unfaithfulness. if u go ahead n marry her, u will regret it. I have a similar experience I will share very soon

What's ur take on this ladies in the house?
Lady says to fiance, no sex b4 marriage, then he later finds out she has been bleeping other guys. Then y that stringent policy on ur man. it's quite disturbing.

11th hour miracle loading.

Happy New Year folks. Patiently waiting for my medical invite. #strongfaith.

iamjustJOHN:
This is the most realistic comment i have read on this thread. I just had to comment.
You are favoured in Jesus name.
The job is yours. Take it!!!.

Amen bro. Its urs too.

Well, this NLNG job answers only to GRACE and FAVOUR. God let ur favour speak for me. Amen.

Kumashi2:
Lol.... Kaduna state. There is... I guess it's depends on d state.
Whc ever way... All d best to us.

OK bro. what is important right now, is d medicals. all d best bro

Kumashi2:
Maybe not on yours but there is on some others....
It differs though but majority carries DoB...

Oga, which state did u write urs? No DOB on FLSC. Only d year d exam was written. Check urs again Pls.

FYI, there is no Dob on FLSC

Rangojack:
Bros How far na? "The time is 4:49pm, 21/11/2017"

my brother, i tire. I said it in faith. let's keep hoping.

Zahrudin:
bro. its not funny at all.
I just they yarn nonsense, it even reach to d extend that i start laughing for ma self and all d board member join in laughing.
i really Bleep up. Who know they may like my sense of humour

They will like ur sense of humour. All d best bro

Only God knows what they were writing. it shall be to me for a testimony. Amen

iamjustJOHN:
Guys pls any idea wen they will send our subsidy?

Latest Tuesday

Nnamdi Kanu is such a big joke

anyone with an idea if interviews are also going on in port Harcourt. at least I can confirm Lagos n abuja

See the way this place quiet. Success to everyone

walexyboy:
U never answer those ones na

Nor vex bros

Walexyboy, where art thou? Keep those questions coming na! let's be sharpening our minds.

walexyboy:
Bros.. I av apologised and i know i did something wrong no matter who the person is... As for ur prayers.. Everything is in the hand of the lord...

I av sincerely apologized.. So just leave the rest btw me and God.. Thank u

walexyboy, I like u alot, although, I hvnt met u. Pls roll in those questions, don't chicken out, seize d moment, n continue to contribute to us all in ur own little way. Note, that those questions u raised r very very important. if in anyway, we r asked those questions in d interview, then almost everyone here will be able to answer correctly. As d spirit leads, just keep dropping them. Airsaylong is a very senior member. It might interest you to note dt he is not even in dis race but as a generous fellow dt he is, he keeps dropping one or two hints for us. So Walexboy, u r a real man. I like ur spirit. Cheers

walexyboy:
Says who..... Check past record b4 debunking everything... If u can't contribute, better u keep quiet...

if only u knew d person u r asking to keep quiet, u will rather be d one to keep quiet and let him do d talking. it's high time we watch our language, ur statement is offensive, I think u Shld apologize. I know u wil not anyway. I just dey watch u.