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Shugavee:
lol please u better read all my threads i make it always clear that marriage is not achievement n will never be I know the kinda backlash I got 4 that!!! Marriage is a happy experience we all want male or female but not an achievement

You should be telling Amarabae this and not me.

Chikita66:
She feels because she is married she has arrived and she is matured enough to be a feminist.

A feminist that thinks marriage means you've fulfilled every purpose in life, is that one a feminist?

Don't argue with her again. She has concluded you don't have what it takes to be a feminist for reasons best known to her.

Amarabae:
Why you should be a feminist?
You as what kwanu?

You really have issues oh. Which kain talk be this? She doesn't have what it takes to be a feminist or what?
Because she's not married or what? You're unbelievable.

RuthDaniels:
And she keeps emphasizing on marriage and engagement rings like thats what live is all about! Makydebbie come and carry me away before i lose my calmness ooo

One question Amarabae What do you stand for! Who are you?

Now i realize the usefulness of MissCookie 's thread Sorry Miss You are right.

Lol, you'll only get angry the more, come and be going with this bicycle.

RuthDaniels:
Lol... I dont even know this Amara..until that Bliss incidence . I dont pay much attention to people like that .And honestly dont care!


Mzwrite so far remains the only Feminist on this thread,others are wannabes! She understands that feminism isnt about fighting the other gender,Its fighting for humanity.

You cant fight for humanity when you are inhuman! How do you preach love when you dont have? Equality cuts across all genders because humanity does. You dont correct violence against women with violence against Men.The world will be in chaos! These people just dont get it!

Lol, she's one of the feminists that'll open a thread and I'll read everything wholeheartedly.

How can you even preach about empowering your fellow woman when you're shaming them for something as cheap as sex?

Jeez!! Exactly!! You can't keep preaching love when you don't love all. If everyone focus on the female child and neglect the male child, the male child will grow up in hate, will hate the female folks. And probably kill us all because of this hate.


That being said, what's your favorite food and drink? You really deserve it right now. Too much sense in one post!

Chikita66:
Amarabae I dislike this direction that you keep going, so because some ladies have views contrary to your feminist opinion that means they are looking for men or husband on nairaland that is why they are talking like that.


Are you listening to yourself right now, you are better than stooping so low to spew this.

If you're not a feminist, you're looking for husband on nairaland. You're also sex starved.
Says op and Amara.

They've forgotten life has shaped us into what we're and what we believe in. And not everybody can be as 'sane' as you.

Lol, leave Amara, instead of you to try and win anti feminists to your fold. Make them understand why they need to be feminists, why feminism will help us all in this 21st century. She already assumed that it's husband they're looking for here.

RuthDaniels:
How can one defend stupidity, it simply means one is stupid too. That's the difference between the real/brilliant feminists and the dumb/confused ones. The latter all ran to her defense.

Lol.. I didn't even see that comment of hers before I concluded she's one of the dumb ones. (apologies amara, mincing words is not just my forte ).
That shows how warped their minds are. It's funny.. lol so because you are a feminist you shouldn't praise men kikikiki . Joke of the millennium! Babe make I just stop before I take whining cause trouble .

Lol... I won't anymore o, what you just typed about that woman weak me! I can't deal. Lemme come and be going

I feel Amara sometimes, I feel she makes sense on some issues. But I believe her ideology on feminism is flawed.

In the end, what matters is that we are all human beings, and equal in our humanness. And as human beings, we should have human rights. Not men's rights and women's rights. Not black people’s rights and white people’s rights. Not tall people’s rights and short people’s rights. Not strong people’s rights and weak people’s rights. That's really all there is to the mantra of equal rights and gender equality which feminism disseminates.

This was written by Miss.write in her thread on feminism.
This is what feminism is all about, it is for equality. But most of these folks have turned it to gender war. I saw a thread on fp where a feminist said, "The future is female" and I was like, as a feminist, the future should be any gender who is capable and has the nation's interest at heart. Not necessarily female. Whoever is capable should be it. I'm not a feminist but when I see posts from real feminists, I like and share.


How can you say the future is female and call yourself a feminist, you're a confused misandrist. Then a feminist will read this IQ reducing hogwash and say kudos? Nah that's hypocrisy.

RuthDaniels:
Lol... honestly she disgrace the real feminist biggest time. I'm ashamed self

Even one is typing shit about engagement ring, the irony does that mean getting an engagement ring is the highest level of achievement ?I thought she would threaten with something better. And that one is a feminist too? . People no go kill person with laughter o

Asin they can't come to defend her.


For her to think engagement ring is what makes a woman happy, you can see the kind of feminist she is.
One of her threads, she said something like, "Even though, I'm a feminist I still appreciate men". And I asked her why would she say that? Is feminism about giving and not giving men honor when due? She didn't reply. So my dear, you can see where her 'feminism' stand comes from. She thinks as a feminist, she shouldn't praise men.


No disturb your fine head this morning biko.

Nairaland version of feminism.

I stopped taking some of these dumb ones serious when I saw a thread of them 'shouting' their boyfriends must take care of their needs. Then you'll see them shouting feminism on another thread. They've redefined the true cause of feminism and given it another definition that suits their twisted mentality.

Take these kinds of feminists serious at your peril. The op just came to disgrace the real feminists.

OgahBohz:
..u must be a "weirdo" ...


errm, I'll like to have a Ghanian friend o ..if you don't mind..


block me if I pas my limits ...,

jez like to know how y'all world revolves ...


pls stop being scary ..

Lol, I'm definitely a weirdo lol.

Lol, no need for that I don't make offline friends here.
I'm not all that scary.

Shugavee:
no u dont expect anything from feminist lady!! U don't even hv that right!!

Fly out of my mention asap. Shouting like being a feminist, you've bigger and better rights than others. Be shouting feminist up and down here, don't go to the outside world and do what the real feminist do.

Chikita66:
I swear, they are very bitter and they really know how to shame their fellow lady online.

Lol, you need to see the reply this op gave SunshineG when he asked, apart from money what else can she bring to the table.

Please don't disturb yourself at all.

OgahBohz:
wow!
l knew it ...

Its like you took all the beauty and left a lil portion for your sis ...

pretty you, with a fresh brown lips .nice top.. bet how come you look younger ?..


...but....

your profile Info's are scary ...o!

Lmao

Yea thanks, I'm the last born.

Really? I like the sound of scary.

Amarabae:
You are taking it a bit personal.
You focused on the sex starved side which I didn't agree with because from my comment, I focused on the "pat on the back from men "
Which is true. I didn't write anything about being sex starved in my comment, did I?

My comment is harmless,
Picking out issues in it may indicate an ulterior motives from you.

Empowering women?
I empower every gender,
I don't want to list my humanitarian services in order not to sound like a bragging.

And finally.
If you open a thread on any pro -feminism postulation inorder to air your view and educate people who cares,
You are contributing to the cause.

The problem here is that the way you see feminism is not the way I see it.
You have a wrong and prejudice view about it.

No ma'am, you said kudos to this thread. That's what I came for. I was expecting you to counter the sex starved issue. This op's write up is full of flaws, I was expecting a feminist to counter it with something much better not clap for her like she has said something reasonable.

I know what feminism is about, I've read on it. I'm talking of the real cause, not the one some 'feminists' have redefined.

TheUpsetGirl:
this lady called amarbae once said her husband must provide financially and in any other way.. for you to be a feminist you must be an independent lady.. what even got me angry is when they said ladies who don't support the movement are single and sex starved.. in America and Europe where it started 53% of their ladies don't support feminism and the feminists there don't say these kinda words. I wonder whether these ladies screaming feminism on nairaland understand the real ideology of feminism
and for their stance that we are sex starved and single... 80% of feminists are single. and they're the ones that are sex starved, yeah you can see their hypocrisy here

My dear, don't disturb yourself. This op knows nothing about the feminism movement. They're 'nairaland feminists'. Arguing with these type of 'feminists' will reduce your IQ. They really know nothing about it, instead of them to open threads to empower their fellow women, they're shaming them.

Amarabae:
Wow kudos for this thread.

I'm not coming out for you because of your feminism stand. But because of this statement. For you to be a feminist, you must embrace the 'sisterhood' that is, fighting for your fellow woman.

The comment brought out the hypocrite in you, a feminist that believes women who are not for the feminism movement are sex starved, is that one a feminist?


Sometimes it looks like you just want to rub it on people's faces that you're a feminist. As a feminist, I hope you've been empowering women around you and not just 'screaming on nairaland', that you're a feminist.

Hmm..

This is coming from someone who was asked what she can do for her man, and she mentioned house girls duties.

Cc Greiboy.

TheUpsetGirl:
and to those kids on NL who think I'm using MTN night plan; like I stated earlier that I'm working for a biscuit producing company, bottled waters and juice are also produced in the company, I'm a student at uniben + the working keeps me busy, not everybody have time for nairaland 24/7 I'm not an addict.. I've been working at the company since when I was in my 1St year I'm now in my 3rd year. I work only 4days in a week and I'm currently receiving 13k monthly. that doesn't mean my bf shouldn't spend, my ex have a Lexus 350 ,he's fvcking rich.. he never wanted me to work in any shiit called company but I disagreed.. don't be decieved he was very willing to spend on me.. my salary over years are just being used for helping fellow ladies that are very helpless in school... I've everything I need..

Fear nairaland guys.
They've bullied you to the point where you've to validate yourself for them. Who asked you for your life history now?

These nairaland guys gat no chill mehn.

See me laughing out loud by this time of the night lol.

Thegamingorca:
you can tell me nah I will not tell anyone

No please, I'm a virgin.

Thegamingorca:
so you like secular violence

Amebo.

DonPiiko:
But we aren't friends, are we?

Is it cool to kill your enemies?

reality17:
We will do ours in a modern way. No handcuff and whip. Instead will replace it with chocolate

Abeg come and be going.

CeeJay9ja:
Adonbelivit

I lied, my handwriting is jagajaga.

reality17:
I better be a partaker than to knw so that wat i dnt knw will not kill me

Lmao, I cannot kill somebody's son abeg.

DonPiiko:
I want to die happy

I don't want you to die.

My handwriting is fine sha.

reality17:
Chei sorry for asking u a personal question publicly.... I shld av asked petsonally

Apology accepted.

DonPiiko:
I want to know too babygirl

It's better not to know, what you don't know won't kill you.

reality17:
Yes o... Thank God u av confirmed it urself... But wait o av u ever done it?

That question is personal abeg.

RuthDaniels:
Madam,no vex. Our friend was high on boredom, and does not really know people well to know who is behind which moniker.

On behalf of Bliss, We tender a since apology . Please don't take her actions to heart.

cc : Makydebie

No mind am, I found this thread funny till sleeky was dragged in lol. Bliss just dey take people catch fun and it's funny.

mhisbliss:
Its like you debbie has serious comprehension problem, wtf are you apologizing for? I ain't the accuser, I saw the accusation and i only asked a question which he confirmed, why would even be bothered about what alternates she has?

It's right to apologize because you mentioned her for something she has no idea about. She only reacted and that's what I would've done.

mhisbliss:
I ain't the accuser naw, or you don't see where donstan said shuga is sleeshuga? what do i care anyways?

bia, is it me you're doing the face for?

I'm not seeing where donstan mentioned anything oh.

RuthDaniels:
Lol.... Just leave Bliss with her spoon of trouble ooo .

I only pity those whose blood dey boil because of her comments

Lol, I just pity those who take her serious, babe is bored. No one should take her serious for their good.

mhisbliss:
don't mind me jare, i needed entertainment and i got it, sadly amarachi took it to heart

Madam e don do.
Sleekyshhuga is not an alternate account and is too busy to create this kind of thread alright?