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"And when the ignorant address them [harshly], they reply with words of peace." (Quran 25:63)

The Importance of Restraint and Tolerance Against Provocation in Islam: Lessons from Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)

Islam emphasizes patience, tolerance, and wisdom in the face of hostility, teaching Muslims to respond to provocation with dignity rather than aggression. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) demonstrated this through his actions, even when faced with severe persecution. Below are key Islamic principles and historical examples from his life that highlight the importance of restraint.
1. Quranic Commandments on Patience & Tolerance

Allah commands Muslims to respond to evil with goodness and to avoid unnecessary conflict:

"Repel evil with what is better, and suddenly the one whom you had enmity with will become like a close friend." (Quran 41:34)

"Restrain anger and pardon people—and Allah loves the doers of good." (Quran 3:134)

"If they incline to peace, then incline to it as well." (Quran 8:61)

These verses establish that Islam promotes peace over retaliation unless absolutely necessary for self-defense.
2. Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) Examples of Restraint
A) The Meccan Period: Enduring Persecution Without Retaliation

For 13 years in Mecca, the Prophet and his followers faced torture, boycotts, and mockery, yet he forbade violence.

When Uqbah ibn Abi Mu’ayt strangled him with his own cloak, the Prophet did not retaliate.

He prayed for his enemies: "O Allah, guide my people, for they know not." (Bukhari)

B) The Taif Incident: Responding to Cruelty with Mercy

After being stoned and chased out of Taif, bleeding and wounded, the angel Jibreel offered to destroy the town. The Prophet refused, saying:
"Perhaps from their offspring will come people who worship Allah alone." (Bukhari)

C) Conquest of Mecca: Victory Without Vengeance

After years of persecution, the Prophet forgave even his worst enemies (like Hind, who mutilated his uncle Hamza).

He declared a general amnesty: "Go, for you are free."

D) Dealing with Hypocrites & Provocateurs in Medina

Abdullah ibn Ubayy, a hypocrite who constantly slandered the Prophet, was never punished harshly.

When a Bedouin urinated in the mosque, the Prophet calmly instructed that the area be cleaned, saying: "You were sent to make things easy, not difficult." (Bukhari)

3. Islamic Rules on Responding to Provocation

No Retaliation for Personal Insults: The Prophet endured being called a "madman" (Quran 68:2) and "liar" without violence.

Self-Defense Only Permitted Against Physical Harm: Even then, proportionality is required (Quran 2:190).

Forgiveness is Superior: "Whoever controls his anger while having the power to act upon it, Allah will fill his heart with contentment on Judgment Day." (Tirmidhi)

4. Modern Implications: Why This Matters Today

Prevents Escalation: Reacting harshly to provocations fuels conflict; restraint fosters peace.

Upholds Islamic Dignity: The Prophet’s patience earned him respect even from enemies.

Counters Extremism: True Islam rejects violent retaliation against insults (e.g., cartoons, blasphemy).

Conclusion

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) embodied mercy over vengeance, proving that true strength lies in self-control, not aggression. Muslims are commanded to follow his example—responding to provocation with wisdom, patience, and, when possible, forgiveness.

Key Lesson:
"The strong is not the one who overcomes people by force, but the one who controls himself in anger." (Bukhari)

BlackViper:
Why did muhummad order his followers to cut off the legs and arms of an old woman called Umm Qirfa who was 120 years old, for no other reason than the fact that she composed poetry which mocked him?

The story of Umm Qirfa is often cited in polemical attacks against Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), but its authenticity and context are highly disputed among Islamic scholars and historians. Below is a detailed analysis of the historical accounts and their reliability:
1. The Alleged Incident

Reported in: Weak and contested narrations, primarily from Kitab al-Tabaqat al-Kubra by Ibn Sa'd and Futuh al-Buldan by al-Baladhuri (neither are primary hadith sources).

Claim: During the expedition of Zayd ibn Haritha (7 AH / 628 CE) against the Banu Fazara tribe (who had betrayed a peace treaty), an elderly woman named Umm Qirfa was allegedly killed in a brutal manner.

2. Problems with the Narration
A) Weak & Contradictory Chains of Transmission

The story is not found in authentic hadith collections (Sahih Bukhari, Muslim, etc.).

Ibn Sa'd and al-Baladhuri relied on single narrators with weak or unknown reliability (majhul).

Contradicts Quranic and Prophetic teachings on wartime ethics (e.g., prohibition of killing women, children, and the elderly).

B) Historical Inconsistencies

No early sources: The earliest biographies (Ibn Ishaq, Ibn Hisham) do not mention Umm Qirfa.

Exaggerated details: Some versions claim she was tied between two camels and torn apart—a method never sanctioned in Islam and contrary to the Prophet’s strict rules of war.

C) Violates Islamic Rules of War

The Prophet forbade killing non-combatants, as per multiple authentic hadiths:

"Do not kill women, children, the elderly, or those in places of worship." (Sunan Abu Dawud)

"Do not betray, do not mutilate, do not kill a child or an elderly person." (Musnad Ahmad)

If Umm Qirfa was indeed killed, it would have been against the Prophet’s direct orders, making it an individual act—not a sanctioned Islamic ruling.

3. Scholarly Rebuttals

Ibn Kathir (famous historian) omitted the story in his works, suggesting doubt over its authenticity.

Modern scholars (e.g., Dr. Ali Muhammad al-Sallabi) argue the narration is fabricated or distorted, as it contradicts:

The Quran’s prohibition of aggression (2:190).

The Prophet’s mercy even to enemies (e.g., pardoning Hind, who chewed his uncle’s liver at Uhud).

4. Alternative Historical Context

The Banu Fazara had violated treaties and supported attacks on Muslims.

The expedition was against combatants, not civilians. If Umm Qirfa was involved in warfare (e.g., inciting violence), she would not qualify as a protected non-combatant.

Even if the incident occurred, it was not by the Prophet’s command but possibly an independent action by a soldier—which Islam condemns.

5. Conclusion

The story is not reliably documented in authentic Islamic texts.

It contradicts the Prophet’s established mercy and Islamic laws of war.

If true, it would be an unauthorized act—not a reflection of Islam’s teachings.

Final Note:
Critics often cherry-pick unverified stories while ignoring the Prophet’s countless acts of compassion (e.g., freeing prisoners, feeding enemies, and forgiving assassins). His life was defined by restraint, not brutality.

saddler:
A model of kindness and leadership?

And yet married a 6 years old child?

Waged wars against people except they turn to Islam?


Told muslims its ok to beat their wives if they misbehave?


And the many more atrocities he committed?

Yes, Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) is widely regarded as the perfect model of kindness, compassion, and exemplary leadership. His life (Sunnah) serves as a guiding light for Muslims and non-Muslims alike in matters of morality, justice, and governance.
Kindness & Compassion:

1. Mercy to All – Allah describes him as "a mercy to the worlds" (Quran 21:107). He showed kindness to people of all backgrounds, including
enemies, orphans, and even animals.
2. Forgiveness – After the conquest of Mecca, instead of seeking revenge, he forgave those who persecuted him for years.
3. Gentleness – He said, "Kindness is not found in anything except that it beautifies it, and it is not removed from anything except that it
disgraces it." (Muslim)
4. Respect for Women & Children – He emphasized treating women with dignity, encouraged education for girls, and was affectionate with
children.

Exemplary Leadership:

1. Justice & Fairness – He established a society based on justice, declaring "Even if my daughter Fatima stole, I would punish her." (Bukhari)
2. Consultation (Shura) – He consulted his companions in major decisions, like in the Battle of Uhud and the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah.
3. Humility – Despite being a leader, he mended his own clothes, helped with household chores, and sat among the poor.
4. Trustworthiness (Al-Amin) – Even before prophethood, he was known as "The Trustworthy" (Al-Amin) due to his honesty.
5. Empathy for Followers – He said, "The best of leaders are those whom you love and they love you, who pray for you and you pray for
them." (Muslim)

Legacy of Ethical Leadership:

His leadership principles—such as accountability, transparency, and servant leadership—remain timeless. Modern leadership studies often highlight his methods as exemplary in crisis management, diplomacy, and community-building


The marriage of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) to Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) is often misunderstood due to modern cultural perspectives conflicting with historical norms. Here’s a balanced explanation based on Islamic sources and historical context:

1. Historical Context Matters

• Different Era, Different Norms: In 7th-century Arabia (and most pre-modern societies), early marriages were common due to shorter
lifespans, tribal customs, and socio-economic reasons.
• Age of Puberty: Marriageability was determined by physical maturity (puberty), not a fixed numerical age, which was standard across
many civilizations (Roman, Persian, Jewish, etc.).
• Aisha’s Engagement, Not Immediate Marriage: The nikah (marriage contract) was formalized when Aisha was young, but she only moved
in with the Prophet after reaching puberty (around 9-12, as recorded in hadith).

2. Aisha’s Status & Consent

• Aisha’s Father (Abu Bakr) Approved: Abu Bakr, one of the Prophet’s closest companions and a respected elder, agreed to the marriage.
• Aisha’s Willingness: Historical accounts show Aisha herself consented and later expressed pride in her unique status as the Prophet’s
wife.
• Her Legacy: Aisha became a leading scholar, narrator of hadith, and political figure—proof of her maturity and intellect.

3. Misconceptions & Criticisms Addressed

• Modern vs. Ancient Standards: Judging 1,400-year-old events by 21st-century Western norms is historically inaccurate. Even in 19th-
century Europe, the legal age of marriage was often 12-14.
• No Moral Scandal: Unlike some historical figures who married minors for exploitation, the Prophet’s marriage was a social bond that
elevated Aisha’s family and provided her lifelong respect.
• Health & Longevity: Aisha lived healthily into her 60s, narrating over 2,000 hadiths and advising caliphs—unlikely if she had been
traumatized.

4. Islamic Ethical Framework

• Quranic Guidance: Islam set progressive limits for its time, emphasizing consent, maturity, and marital responsibility. Later scholars
derived minimum marriage ages based on these principles.
• Prophet’s Example: His other marriages were mostly to widows or for diplomatic unity, countering accusations of personal desire.
Conclusion

While controversial today, this marriage was socially and morally acceptable in its context. Aisha’s scholarly contributions and the Prophet’s impeccable character make it clear this wasn’t exploitation but a product of its time. Islam’s broader teachings on women’s rights, consent, and justice remain universally applicable.

Throughout history, many prominent figures—kings, religious leaders, and scholars—married young girls, reflecting the norms of their times. Here are some well-documented examples from various civilizations:

1. Ancient & Medieval Europe
• King John of England (1166–1216) – Married Isabella of Angoulême when she was 12 (he was 34).
• Joan of Arc’s Contemporaries – In medieval France, noble girls often married at 12–14.
• Margaret Beaufort (1443–1509) – Gave birth at age 13 to Henry VII (founder of the Tudor dynasty).

2. Jewish Tradition

• Mary (Mother of Jesus) – Some Christian traditions (e.g., Protoevangelium of James) claim she was 12–14 when betrothed to Joseph.
• Jewish Talmudic Law – Permitted marriage at puberty (often 12+ for girls), practiced in medieval Jewish communities.

3. Hindu & South Asian History

• Rajput Kings – Child marriages were common; Rani Karnavati of Chittor was married as a minor.
• Dharmaśāstra Texts – Hindu scriptures like Manusmriti recommended marriage for girls by puberty (often 8–12 in ancient times).

4. Christian Saints & Figures

• Saint Elizabeth of Hungary (1207–1231) – Married Louis IV of Thuringia at 14 (he was 21).
• Theodosius II (Roman Emperor, 401–450) – Married Aelia Eudocia when she was ~15.

5. Pre-Islamic Arabia & Middle East

• Byzantine & Persian Empires – Noble girls often married at 12–14 (e.g., Empress Theodora’s early life).
• Ancient Greece & Rome – Girls like Julia, daughter of Augustus, married at 14.

Key Notes:

• Life Expectancy: In medieval times, average lifespans were ~30–40 years, so early marriage was practical.
• Puberty = Adulthood: Most cultures considered puberty (not age 18) the threshold for marriage.
• Political Alliances: Royal marriages were often strategic, not based on modern "romantic" ideals.

Why This Matters:

Criticizing only Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) for a practice universal in his era reflects a double standard. Historical context shows that early marriage was normalized across civilizations until recent centuries

Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) did not wage wars to force people to convert to Islam. His battles were primarily defensive, aimed at protecting the Muslim community and establishing justice, not imposing faith. Here’s a detailed breakdown:

1. Wars Were Defensive, Not Aggressive

• Early Persecution: Muslims faced 13 years of brutal persecution in Mecca—torture, economic boycotts, and assassination attempts—
before being allowed to fight.
• Permission to Fight Came Later: Quran 22:39-40 allowed fighting only in self-defense:
"Permission [to fight] is given to those who are attacked, because they have been wronged…"
• Key Battles (Badr, Uhud, Khandaq): All were responses to Meccan armies attacking Muslims first.

2. No Forced Conversions

• Quranic Principle: "There is no compulsion in religion" (Quran 2:256) was revealed in Medina, during wartime.
• Treaties with Non-Muslims: The Prophet made peace agreements (e.g., Treaty of Hudaybiyyah, Pact with Christians of Najran)
guaranteeing freedom of worship.
• Conquest of Mecca (630 CE): After victory, he pardoned even his worst enemies (like Abu Sufyan) and did not force conversions.

3. Jihad Was Not "Convert or Die"

• Protected Minorities: Non-Muslims (Jews, Christians) under Islamic rule paid jizya (a tax) in exchange for exemption from military service
and full protection of life, property, and faith.
• Example of Egypt: When Muslims entered Egypt, they preserved Coptic churches and allowed Christians to practice freely.

4. Wars Were Against Oppression, Not Beliefs

• Against Treachery, Not Faith: Battles like those against Banu Qurayza (after they betrayed Muslims during the Siege of Medina) were for
treason, not religion.
• Retaliation for Broken Treaties: Some conflicts (e.g., against Jewish tribes) arose after they violated peace pacts by allying with enemies.

5. Comparison to Contemporary Norms

• 7th-Century Warfare: Tribes routinely exterminated defeated enemies (e.g., pre-Islamic Arabia, Roman conquests). In contrast, the
Prophet forbade killing women, children, monks, and even burning trees (Sunan Abu Dawud).
• Modern Parallels: Wars like WWII were fought for ideals (freedom vs. fascism), yet no one accuses Allies of forcing democracy on Germans
at gunpoint.

Conclusion
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) fought to stop persecution, not to compel faith. Islam spread rapidly because of its moral appeal—not coercion. Historians like Karen Armstrong and William Montgomery Watt confirm this.

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300 and 100 litres of drum... 17k
TV console 15k
Ups 2500. Battery needs to be changed.

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IceColdVeins:
TV 32 inches for sale 100k
Sound bar 70k

Not negotiable
Both bought new three months ago and average use time for both is below 15 hours cos I have two apartments and I rarely visit the other apartment where the gadgets are.

Your contact?

scrolldown88:
Available at akobo Ibadan

50inch LG Smart TV. Original bought from LG shop.: 250k

1.5hp LG ac.: 150k.

8kg Hisense top loader automatic washing machine: 140k

Microwave: 40k

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neutralmind:
Solar/ Inverter system for sale

Neatly used 150 ah batteries (2pcs)

1kva Inverter ( New )

30A Charge controller ( New )

Location: Agege, Lagos

Price: N200,000


Reach me via WhatsApp: 09131586136

150K

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I have both manual and automatic in stock in case you need it. It will also be fixed.

Show the manual and the price

800

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FutureFocus:
BATTERIES SOLD


2 years old batteries , gently used

Yesterday, we did a battery replacement for the inverter because the old Amaze battery required charging with electricity, I hate to charge with electricity because it’s very costly here

Battery Condition

battery back currently last 4hrs with a fan , a tall Samsun fridge and 3 bulbs loaded in the night, meaning it’s goes off in night around 2AM

This configuration was powered by 8units of 320watts panels, the engineer said we should be charging with both electricity and solar, no can’t charge with electricity because electricity is very expensive here

And so we decided to go for battery upgrade to original dry cell quanta gotten directly from Indian Impoter himself

Now the old wet amaze tabular batteries are up for sale



If I want to sell as scrap , it’s 40k each

The solar engineer himself want each for 40k but I feel it’s worth more because I’m the one using it , so I will give you these batteries if you add something, I can not sell this a scrap , beside it work seamlessly in the day time, when there is sun , but will fail in the raining season except you are charging it with electricity


1.I will be selling this batteries as scraps
You are buying scrap batteries

2. Only those who have deep knowledge of wet tabular batteries should contact me

3. You are buying these batteries as scraps

- If you buy it and get a good engineer to maintain it and it work like new, it’s your luck

- if it’s only continues shutting down when it’s raining, it’s also your luck, I will not give attention, so leave it for those know it to buy it

Novice should stay off as I do not want any drama

The above it the honest condition of the batteries


Expect advice

Use 12 panels
Use big solar charger controller to enable it charge fast

Location is Lekki
contact details on my profile

Available?

brownemmanuel43:
Nice deal here people
A. C is going for 150k
Inverter battery: selling as scrap, so name ur offer

Your contact number

Alhamdulillah!

Toby319:
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Dear friends,
the following quality barely used home items are up for quick sale at give away prices.


1.5 HP TECHNO FITNESS TREADMIL WITH MASSAGE AND ACCOMPANYING TOOLS…..200k

TV STAND….35k

DRESSING TABLE…..40k

SHOE RACK…..40k

Barely used 6by6 PADDED FRAME WITH SEMI ORTHOPEDIC MATTRESS WITH 2 Side stools…..280k

WORKING TABLE WITH DRAWS……40k

SCANFROST ENERGY SAVING FREEZER 225 Liters WITH 180 HOURS……230k

BIG AND STRONG BABY WARDROBE…55k

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150k for the FREEZER

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Fairly used water thank for sell..

Location is Nasarawa state..

Reason for sell, the borehole has issue,. Owner said he's not willing to fix again..

The thanks is 3000 litters..

Price is 90k

here exactly in Nassarawa state?

debbydams:
Haier thermocool deep freezer
319 lit
Works as new
120k
Kuje

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130k

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