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Does she have the qualities you are looking for in a woman ? Are you ok with her smoking shisha? How come you never knew until you saw her status ? It means you do not know her well enough .. There may be other things you are to find out . Please do find it out from her before you become surprised tomorrow. If you can tolerate the smoking shisha part of her. Then make your decisions .we can not decide for you . You will live with her not nairalanders

gentleguy1975:
What about the kids?Any possibility of having an ss kid

Never . You can't have SS kids . The thing is be prepared for the challenges that comes with her health issues .is not always easy to deal with .

Am I the only one who cares less about Christmas . This pressure we mount on ourselves because of Christmas is not worth it. Christmas will always come and go just like any other day . Everyday is Christmas

TheFreshVanilla:
Go for women within your level or those who share your values. Some are very comfortable drinking and doing what you term "stupppiidd" with their partner. Certain women you don't date because you do not have the mental capacity to handle them, leave them for men who can. If you can't handle a club girl, then don't go for her.

How do I second this post , often times people judge what they have no idea about ..This large world that contains everyone yet they want to make choices for people ..someone is happy partying with his woman , another out there is trying to tell him he is not doing it right .Do we need to remind this poster that a whole lot of ex beauty queens are doing great in their homes .. like you said , let everyone date his type. Life is about choices . If you do not like clubbing , go and marry a churchy girl . There must be someone that lives your kind of life ,find her and settle with her . But do not come and make it look as if you are the one that made the best choice while others made bad choices . I dislike people trying to force their choices on others .I feel they are people with low esteem and they lack confidence .

Fiscus105:
Abi oooo, infact, as a wife, you must be free to attend night club daily and ur husband must understand your feelings and choices, you are neither servant or slave nah.


After all, you didn't marry insecure broke ass man as husband.




NB. Whenever u see a female defending a point, base on insecurity on part of a man and that the man is broke to express his own opinion. ........
Run away for your good. It's a term for wayward women to console themselves and proof a point.

If is not you poor mentality , you will stop.forcing your opinion and choices on others .people and start respecting their choice as well ..Everything is not about degrading your fellow.human being and talking about them in a condescending manner ..Some married people go to clubs together and they are living just fine ..Oluchi mnet face is married, Agbani darego.is married .Bianca ojukwu is still doing good for herself ..Are they not achieving greatness or have their husbands come.to.tell you they are wayward . If you cannot handle great and strong woman ,you maintain your lane .life is that simple ..Everyone has choice . Stop feeling intimidated by a woman's success . Everyone must not live the kind of life style you live ..it does not make them bad people and it does not make you more fulfilled than them. The hood does not make monk

How is this possible ..
Will the air craft run on water

blaise26abj:
50 Naira is small compared to the cost of using cash . Go to POS to withdraw 10k . Na 100 Naira . Go to your nearest bank ATM , transport fare or fuel will be more than 50 Naira .

I know they are just making things harder for Nigerian but again voting bad people in or allowing them get away with rigging has consequences. Apparently things one of them

ATM no dey even pay money self..fidelity bank ATM asked i withdraw less than 5k yesterday
Na laugh .I laugh commot from bank premises .

Ojagun:
Ehhh!?
When Saint Obi die??
Na wa o!

Are you for real ?

OChimex:
They might be doing it posthumous.
People still wish good for their loved ones, posthumous.

If they meant it that way , they will clearly state it in their birthday wishes but theses set of people do not . They are the ones who do not comment or like someones post .They may even be commenting on someone's old account without knowing it .

You are talking about wishing dead one happy birthday . What about those that like obituary posts or accidents posts..someone will make a post of loosing a loved one, person go get mind love the post . It's crazy

calabaman:
Gla something.

Not sure.

Doc said it's accumulation of fatty acid.

Sadly it happened at the back of my neck

Wishing you a successful one .

Poster its either you are a baby in adult body or you do not know what you want . You di not need an advice

SenecaTheYonger:
You no be yahoo boi but you wan chop yahoo boy money

That one follow., I hope you are not a yahoo boi though .

calabaman:
It should be fairly simple.

But a doctor said it may lead to being crippled.

It's larger now and needs to be removed.

Let's do it.

Which surgery are you going for

This man should just get out

GboyegaD:
Apparently, his experience of life could have made him a man early enough.

@princesammy02,
Take your time and plan yourself well before leaving that house. Endure what you are going through however, keep praying and plan your next move. Be grateful however, don't be too comfortable in your current state.

I am not even arguing with you on this.

happney65:
Bianca has always been an extremely beautiful woman. Dammit. She was beautiful then in the 90's and still as beautiful till date

Don't know if her father later forgave her before he died for marrying ojukwc because I knew he was vehemently against the marriage..

They made up

Villa12:
or he is using AI

Anyway, he's free like a bird to deny it.

Could be someones story he copied to paste here ..Even if he is using Ai , Ai is too stereotyped . He is sounding like a full fledged matured adult. As such he does not need advice.

Dear poster, you do not sound like a teenager to me .. you are more than the age you stated here .. thanks

EmperorCaesar:


That kin family

What kinda value are they trying to instill in their children with this kinda action taken to punish a 'righteous' brother

How Bible take talk am sef. This one has lost his family for the sake of truth, hin go get another families in 10 folds

Is how foolish the lady is for allowing her family use her for their selfish reasons. Eventually when it will backfire, they will turn against her That lady is the biggest shediot of the century

idahme:
Until it gets to equality in financial contributions that's when equality is thrown out of the window

We all know how marriage works there is no married man that will say he Carter for his wife needs 100% women contribute financially as well . Someones past does not only include affairs you don't expect someone daughter to come and marry an ex con, or a rapist or a fugitive . So when you are asking about someones past lives, make sure you are strong emotionally and psychologically enough to handle the truth when it comes out . Some have inherited curses heaped on their spouses without knowing it . Some have had one or two psych issues self. If the intending couples are matured enough to handle the truths the seek for , they only find solution to whatever it is that may hinder the success for their homes. That's why some go for deliverance, seeking for forgiveness from those they have offended .people will always do what works for them because they past will always keep crawling one way or the other . So it's better they trash it once and for all before walking down the isle .

100% she is correct ..that's the highest level of hypocrisy.. you no be ashawo , you wan chop ashawo money . She choose her path irrespective of how bad it Is .. you condemn her and judge her and criticize her then come to beg her for the same money she got in a way that is bad . That's how some are quick to call others ritualsts and still come to beg them for money

Ringstonermasks:
This thing dat year sha... only d distraction can stop d hiccup

It you have hiccups you drink fluid preferably water.

If you can't handle don't ask . You should also come out clean while asking

Gerrard59:
As for women, two panties per day. One before going out and one after returning. Change panties after defecating. During menses, please always change per second billing. Have like 100 panties, please. Some of us give head.

Per second billing ? No matter how many times one changes undies .it does not stop them from being dirty . As you dey like give head make sure you go for tests from time to time oo

Ibehchizzy:
he can walk naked in his house at night

You are not serious jare ..if you say sleep naked is a different thing .

Ibehchizzy:
Daily is okay

How , like after the days activities he still have to wear the same boxers to bed . It should be twice for someone that has been out all day

Emmaari:
Tomorrow if I the go work I will go with an extra 2 boxers. Thank you for the enlightenment

😃😃😃😃😃😃😀 You sure say na work you wan go so

Zonefree:
Correct woman.

A married man sitting with his wife, yet, he foolishly followed a useless asoebi girl to the front.

I wonder the offence this innocent sweet woman committed that God decided to punish her with a foolish husband.

May God not reward our sins with senseless spouse!

Her hubby was not forced jare , she should blame her hubby and leave the babes alone ..is for the fun of it sometimes all na arrangee.

onadana:
I never said there were no good people on both sides.We are humans nor cars,created to be higher than animals in our actions.

You got my point and message loud and clear so if you like.follow your woman around anywhere she goes, if she is a hooker ,she will always find her way around . I see no point in condeming someone's else business or a place one chooses to go to because few individuals who made themselves food for the public comes there once in a while..

onadana:
Or you both go to the gym.The kind of nonsense that happen there from both sides leave you to imagine the sexual depravation of humans.

A loose woman is a loose woman ..she will straff in the church , gym ,office ,market even at home . People go to gym for different reasons . There are still decent women and men that gym . A car can be involved in an accident anytime irrespective if how good or bad the road is .

Mryacks:
Smh...I don't know where some Nigerian men get this notion that beautiful women can't be of good character or behavior.

High level of insecurity .. funny most of the guys that reason this way are always broke . Rich nihgas make no noise