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How can I explain to my kids that I tried ALL I could to make them happy in life especially this Christmas but now things haven't changed.
I'm just tired. I don't even have hope😔 else where except for miracle that is if it exist.
If you are reading this and you have anything that can help make me put smile on their faces(job,idea,money,connection etc)especially this season should pls assist.

Thanks

Okay.

But keep your sanity in tact.

Time still de

Don't be too hard on yourself bro. Keep your mind in intact, don't loose it . Avoid depression. If anything happens to you , these children will suffer more. Be hopeful and work around what you have. God in His infinite mercy will surprise you.

Exceed15:
Don't be too hard on yourself bro. Keep your mind in intact, don't loose it . Avoid depression. If anything happens to you , these children will suffer more. Be hopeful and work around what you have. God in His infinite mercy will surprise you.

Amen

Exceed15:
Don't be too hard on yourself bro. Keep your mind in intact, don't loose it . Avoid depression. If anything happens to you , these children will suffer more. Be hopeful and work around what you have. God in His infinite mercy will surprise you.

Amen

There will always be Christmas after Christmas.
They need to understand life could be perfect but it isn't perfect.
You can't always get what you wish for but with patience you can get something better

I don't know about your church, and that's if you're a Christian, but some churches usually hold Christmas luncheon on Christmas day for the needy, so you can take them to church, that's if your church holds such luncheons during Christmas.

You can even visit another church on that day to celebrate Christmas, they won't turn you away.

Christmas is not ending this year, if u can't afford anything for them this year, there is always next Christmas. Stay safe

Thank God I no dey do Christian again.

No pressure.

Even African traditionalists and Muslims celebrate Christmas together with Christians, so what do you mean you no longer do Christian?😅😅😅

Starboytwo:
Thank God I no dey do Christian again.

No pressure.

KlassicJ:
How can I explain to my kids that I tried ALL I could to make them happy in life especially this Christmas but now things haven't changed.
I'm just tired. I don't even have hope😔 else where except for miracle that is if it exist.
If you are reading this and you have anything that can help make me put smile on their faces(job,idea,money,connection etc)especially this season should pls assist.

Thanks

Tell them that Christmas has been postponed till next year

KlassicJ:
How can I explain to my kids that I tried ALL I could to make them happy in life especially this Christmas but now things haven't changed.
I'm just tired. I don't even have hope😔 else where except for miracle that is if it exist.
If you are reading this and you have anything that can help make me put smile on their faces(job,idea,money,connection etc)especially this season should pls assist.

Thanks

Do you know God doesn't count all these so called special days? Sir, take time to reflect and count each day as they come. Don't push beyond your ability...stay focused on what you need to do.... clothing and rice for Christmas doesn't impact anything, rather see how it's stressing you out.
Whatever they have teach them to be content with it...
Life's more than one season... after the Christmas now, school fees and rent issues pop up, those ones are constantly on our necks, so relegate Christmas until economy improves and you can afford it without stress. Cheers

Thanks everybody for your time and concern.Its highly appreciated.
Also want to use this opportunity to appeal for job, connection, reference or business that can also help out.

Am I the only one who cares less about Christmas . This pressure we mount on ourselves because of Christmas is not worth it. Christmas will always come and go just like any other day . Everyday is Christmas