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OLAJADON:
a girl told you she is no more interested in you, you still went back to beg for her love, you have spoilt everything by going back then assuming you have acted like you dont care she would have been the one begging for your attention.
from the above
1) maybe you are not spontaneous enough in the relationship
2) even if she said no guy is getting her attention there might actually be a guy in the background that has her mumu button
3) I won't advice you do anything for now, give her like 2or 3 weeks her action will determine your reaction because you know her better than me but remember that whatever you do, you are a man, you are in charge, you can't allow a girl to be giving you sleepless night.

tnk u sir, I'm so grateful

Godmother:
Op, I feel your pain, but the truth is your girlfriend may not be so into the relationship as you still are. She has made it easy for you to move on severally but you arent getting the gist.

My advice to you would be to sit your girl down and you both have a heart-to-heart. In the meantime, it might do you a world of good to start distancing yourself gradually so if you finally breakup you won't be broken.

Truth is, your girl has most likely broken up with you in her heart. She's just hanging still cos her family keeps forcing her to do so.

exactly wht I feel. so grateful for this.

lastmessenger:
Move on brother. Life can be like that sometimes. Everything with a beginning have an ending.

tnx

Kingpinukecy:
i wish i cud help u.....because am passing thru same issue like u.

but u need help n u r advertising for GLO Network abi u dey work wit GLO?


My advice is dat we shud leave all dis super Love story aside and try to move on wit life. There are alot of chances ahead n beta opportunities also.

Don't kill ursef while u r still living alive.


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tnx sir. wasn't advertising oo, just trying to justify the fact dat we communicate so regularly. tnx sir.

ojun50:
Friendzone for many years is nt my portion oh, game over, o boy game over.

Op u hv seen d sign nw that u guys are nt married u still want to put yr head.
O boy game over oh peace

I never knew it wud turn out to be like this. anybody can be a victim of love.

1234IKECHhukwu:
exactly my thoughts she has started seeing her friends get married ,& from ur side I don't think u any where ready to settle down,my advice to u disconnect from that lady asap b/cos if u insist to remain with her,she 'll cause u so much pains that u'll regret knowing her in the first place.

going through the pain already, dat is y I posted it here to learn from pple's opinion

Nma27:
Never force anyone to love you. Someone who truly loves you won't put u through all these.

tnx

NairalandCS:
The part where he said the food fell down and he started feeling heat had me like:

it got to do with emotion bro

Yuneehk:
She no longer loves you. The feelings, the spark.. they're no longer there. No need being in a relationship with someone who's stopped loving you. You'll have to let her go plus there's no point postponing the inevitable really.
Six years is really a long time but you'll heal.. Might take a long time but you eventuall will.
How's does the Glo thing work too? I could use it to communicate with my brother abeg

tnx sis. lolzzz u want to use it to communicate ur brother? lolzzz. its contract sim. call customer care for enquiries

sehin79:
HAA you don dull ur self

1,its either she as taste the forbiden apple with someone else.
which i doubt she would confess that to you.

2.or she just got bored of you as in she does not see any excitement in the relationship anymore.note because most women are good at been
supportive of a mans vision or dream, you must be dynamic in your leading them,if not they would want a change.

solution looks like the mistake as been done, because u dont seems to have any leavage to work on now. becus she the one breaking up,

in r kelly words when a woman is fedup.

if i were u wen i had the chance i would have insist on sex with her early on.

but now what you can do now is to move on, which is an attraction on its own too because if she knows you can do without her she might come back.

all the best.

I really appreciate this.

tnx sir, I really wish to move but its like my hrt is glued to hers.

on the sex issue, im stil very sure shes stil a virgin. I don't just want to disrespect her wish, I just love her

dingbang:
lol na dat one u go see.. abeg op tell us ooo... Make we subscribe to the ministry

its contract sim sir, u can make enquiry from GLO service center

dingbang:
When last did you two go out ..... Have u guys had any form of intimacy apart from sex? Like kissing etc...

we used to do all the romance but she forbids sex

ikp120:
She has been considering the difference in academic status between the 2 of you and it is giving her the impression that she should not have dated you in the first place. She's confused. She's considering marriage and when you will ever be ready for marriage.
She is thinking that she should have been dating someone who is ready to settle down.

I don't want to say this, but I have to say it. That girl is starting to think you're not up to her status. Those thoughts alone killed her feelings for you.

Just ask her to confirm.

Abeg how did you go about that Glo tariff stuff?

I tot as much sir, even her sis asked her dsame tin but she keeps saying no that if that was the issue she shud have left bfr nw. she claimed she can't explain the loss of interest

pls, kindly read my story. I will summarize it as as possible. we met and became friends in 2011, in early 2012, we started the relationship proper. she is a replica of everything I ever wanted in a woman. she stood by me during my trying times especially when I was looking for admission, though, she is ahead academically (now a masters student). she has bn so supportive morally, financially, spiritually etc. I love her with passion. I seek her consent on everytin I do, I respect her wish of no sex relationship despite the fact that i am sexually active (she is a virgin). I always try my best to pls her. I have introduced her to my family likewise she.

the problem started in april 2015, after a jolly conversation with her on phone, some hours later she sent a hrtbroken message asking for breakup without any quarrel oo. I tot maybe somebody used her phone and made mistake, I called to confirm and she affirmed it. the food I was eatin fell down and I strted feeling heat. after calling her severally without pickin, I called her sisters and a fend for intervention. dey were able to help and we settled. we continue again until last month. we spoke in the morning and later in the evening she started rejecting my calls for no reason. after several persuasion on WhatsApp to tell me wht was wrong, she later said she lost interest in our rltship and wnts us to be frnds, I pressed further to knw why she lost interest, she lack reason, she swear with bible that she didn't have any boyfriend anywhere that she just lost interest, I asked maybe its the time factor, she said no. then I hanged the call trying to control my emotion.

she knows well that I so much love her, so she called back begging that I shud not hurt myself and she was crying. she called early in the following morning still crying. her mum and sisters got to knw and rebuked her actions. she promised to work on her feeling and we settled again. since then, each time I asked abt the development, she always say we shud hold on to God.and be praying about it. she don't say I love u again either on fone or chat.



I'm just depressed and dejected. I wish I can brkup but I don't have the strength, I have bn captured and enslaved by love.

I'm 28, she will be 26 later this year

pls help me nairalanders.
pls mod, help me.

NP: communication is not our problem, we use one tarrif on GLO dat allows us to talk for full month at the cost of just #500.