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ruthyyy:
hahaha, u wicked oooo. no atom of sympathy for the op.

hahaha, u wicked oooo. no atom of sympathy for the op.

dats his opinion though.

Seunosewapenis:
plis when it has reach grave call me for burial plans

tnx too. but anybody can be a victim

ruthyyy:
see irony of life oo. somebody loved and respected u and u still broke his hrt.
op, take hrt and move on

tnx sis, I will try.

ruthyyy:
op I feel your pains, its not easy to be with a girl for 6 good years without touching. I know some guys who broke up with ladies for sex. you really tried. just try and move on, u may find better one that will love you.

we actually quarreled over sex issue several times becus it wasn't easy but still I tried to abide by her rules. I will do Everything in my power to get over it if it doesn't work out. but the memory will remain green forever.

ruthyyy:
and the wise one said its good for the man to love more. I hope this lady will not eventually fall for the guy that doesn't love her. from all indications the op seems to really loves her.

some ladies sha. I hope she doesn't regret ooo

I hope so. my mom used to say it o that its better for man to love more. I pray she doesn't regret her action sha.

ruthyyy:
op, your first mistake was the fact that you did not sleep with her before she lost interest. it is a fact that a woman will never forget whoever breaks her hymen, hence, making her heart to always be with the guy. I am talking from experience. nobody should quote me pls.

it wasn't my fault sis. I actually love her and I don't want to do any thing against her wish. I never knew it will end like this. she really promised to stay no mata the circumstance, so I trusted her with all my hrt.

MoraxLanre:
with time, you will get over it.

alryt tnx

shege45:
yes i do.infact mine was a 4yrs relationship, tot it was april fool cus she sent me d text on april first ds year...called to confirm and asked y.she told me.i was down ooo for a while but when i got busy,i got over it.wer r jst friends now.we talk once a while even recently she ask for moni n i gave her cus shez still in school n to show her i hold notin against her.finally i realised it was for d best cus as i dey so,i no dey distrb myself abt pesin wey fit dey bang anoda guy,no by force calls again. just facing my life.my guy jst get busy n in months u wld gt over her.i know it won't b easy cus i tot do too,bt its a phase u wld get over...shallom

hunnn, my soul is lifted. tnx so much sir

MoraxLanre:
She got tired of the love things, move on and find someone else.

I wish to move on but it sims imposibble. I see all ladies as epitome of wickedness.

naijajobx:
bury it and move on

tnx bro

shege45:
dnt let her stay wit u out of pity,u won't enjoy it

hummm, u really understood wht am facing

shege45:
c my guy,u shldnt av begged her d first time self.once a girl tells u dat,she must av carefully tot it tru

u are ryt sir. thought that wud wok

Alphamale2017:
lol u are right sha. shouldn't have put the Glo issue as first cos heartbreak hurts like hell.

tnx bro. u got the point.

Alphamale2017:
okay. I keep my help . aside that u should have allowed me share my experience with. anyways God heal ur broken heart amen

amen bro. if u actually wana help I tink u wouldn't have given condition for dat. GLO issue is a small tin that we wud have trashed out afterward. issue of hrtbroken actually came bfr GLO sturf

Alphamale2017:
give me the code to the the glo tarrif and I will tell you the only reason that can make her change her mind within 24hours.
I get 2k extra to call any network if I load 1k. but I still need this tarrif.

are u placing me on condition?? haaaa, see wht love has caused. read the comments somebody has already explained hw to get it. u can keep ur help though.

debspauly:
you need to toughen up guy..

i will try sis. I can't just brk somebody's hrt bcus I just hate it. but is there any lady that cannot brk a man's hrt

oluwashedy:
Don't worry sir..... Whoever leaves you wasn't meant for you, and whoever is meant for you will not leave you

tnx bro. this is helpful. grateful hrt

debspauly:
then you still have a Long way to go..

I'm just too scared of hrtbrk

debspauly:
oh that......but there are so many single fishes in the river ......just throw your hook and catch one again.

u are ryt sis but u knw is a bit difficult to move on just like that. I don't think I can love again bcus I hate hrtbrk with passion. I mean I hate it more than anytin else.

oluwashedy:
Something tells me these love birds are deeper lifers.... The GLO tariff on applies to members only..... Abeg OP let the lady be. I hate indecisive, confused ladies.

tanks bro. I'm seriously considering that bcus up till yesterday she was still saying we shud hope on God that the love may come again. the GLO sim is not meant for deeper life members alone ooo.

debspauly:
no p ....so what was your post all about again..

so u didn't read my post. anyway, im suffering from love. my gf said she lost interest for no reason after 6yrs.

debspauly:
don't worry God is always there to help ohhh..

tnx sis

uniquerotex:
Simple truth is, shes nt feeling you anymore, she aint seen some things she likes, and shes seeing an alternative tho she might nt yet commit herself but trust me shes seeing something else. You better dont kill yourself, how many houses have u built that somebody will be disturbing ur peace, bros, there are more achievements ahead, if its not working, MOVE ON, simple.

tnx sir. I will work on myself

Menzy86:
I dated a virgin like u 4 2yrs until she started behaving funny. After much pressing to knw wat was wrong, she spilled it "I saw som1 I've been chatting wit and my feelings 4 u went neutral." dat was d last time I ever used my hand to dial her number and its been almost two years now. She is 27yrs old now and single. Plus she likes all my fb posts and calls me still on festivities but I strangled all feelings 4 her d moment those words flew outta her lips. Women u haven't wronged will always feel ur absence in d long run especially wen u dont beg and behave like a pussy when they threaten to break up wit u. Let them go quicker and swifter than they expect. Its only devilish pride dat is making dat my ex not to come crawling bak (which I always resented about her). Truth is u may just find out ur life got better wen she left.

this lifts my hrt. tnx sir.

kindredspirit:
Op, listen to this story:

James and Oluchi were college sweethearts, having attended the same University. Even though Oluchi's parents weren't so well to do, she was always there for James, an indigent, who struggled through school. She would assist him to pay his school fees and split her allowance to assist him with feeding and all what nots.

Both of them finished university and whilst Oluchi got a job after a year, James, with Oluchi's assistance, went for a Postgraduate Degree because a job wasn't forthcoming. She continued to support him through school. In short, Oluchi formed an integral part of his support system and became his whole world. One day, he went to visit her and some dude called her over the phone. He thought nothing of the phone call and left.

Some weeks later, James paid an unscheduled visit to Oluchi and met her alighting from the car of a guy who had given her a ride from work. He asked her what her relationship was with this guy and she told him their offices were on the same road, and that he merely offered her a lift.

However, James started to notice changes in the way his girlfriend communicated with him over the phone and when they were together. It was obvious that the fire was petering out. He asked her if anything was the matter and she replied that there wasn't. This continued for months. Regardless of these, Oluchi never stopped lending her arm of support to her struggling boyfriend.

One day however, she dropped a bombshell. She said she wanted out of the relationship saying she needed time to be by herself. A distraught James begged her to no avail. Eventually, she opened up that she was seeing this other dude who had indicated her intention to marry her and considering that she was now 29 years old, she wanted to give this guy a serious look in. She pleaded that James should understand that time wasn't on her side. She therefore told James that she would continue to support him in whatever way that she could. That was it: the end of James and Oluchi. Within a year, Oluchi was married to this guy.

James our heartbroken friend nearly went mental when Oluchi broke up with him. This girl had been his life and he'd built his world around her. However, he just had to pick himself up, hard as it was. Now 33 years old, he got a lucky break later in life when he bagged a decent job that offered him a very comfortable salary and he bought a car in no time.

One rainy day, as he was driving home from work, he saw this very beautiful girl and offered her a ride. This girl wasn't interested in giving him her number because she had a boyfriend. However because she was everything he dreamt of in a woman, he continued to woo her persistently. Eventually, she came around and agreed to date him. The next year, they were married.

Pardon the long story. I just wanted you to understand the cyclical nature of life. Your girlfriend has to leave you. Odds are that she's about to enter into a stage of her life where you will have no role. It might involve another actor, likely another guy. If that's the case, just accept it as the Yarn that fate has woven for her. And you.

It will all make sense later in life when things start to look up for you. You're going to meet a girl who is meant for you. That girl could be leaving somebody heartbroken when she becomes yours.

It is the cyclical nature of life. Roll with it.

hummm, so touching. but I don't tink I can love again. I so much love her, respect and cared for her. if love is like dis, I don't pray for my dog to fall in love. its obvious I have bn enslaved by love. I will always remember her though. waiting patiently for wht will end it

jbaby123:
I also had a bf like DT,he was my first
But I still broke up wt him anyway cuz I felt he was no longer up to my standard although i refused to admit it to myself
She might b feeling DT way too

thought as much too. tnx

Erums:
They mumu urself na

I don't knw tomoro but up till dis moment I'm typing she's still a V. take it or liv it bro

Erums:
Bros... Keep quiet,
U cant be sure she's a V..... See i had a relationship and i was doing this mt babe forbid sex.... She ended up forking some dude and immediately she lost interest, despite the attraction we had.... It went off slowly till i accepted fate... Since den, mhen i must get down any girl wen come my way.. Latest i week, or else she be mami water... Aftef then we can now be doing love.... U claiming ure helping her keep her virginity? So do i assume you never dey blow since the past 6yrs too.... U go don mustabate die...... Pros shes np longer a V. I can bet my land on this....

ur opinion though. but I'm still very sure shes a V.

Ginaz:
I was in a 6year relationship......got to move on like I don't give a shiit! broke up last 2months (my first boyfriend) .Sometimes you got to do what's right, love doesn't cover it all.

O.p, leave her...she's tired she is tired she is tired!!!! What do you not understand? You don't love someone out of pity at all. Would you rather hold her against her wish cos she spent 6years of her life with you?

If she likes, she should spend 20years of her life in a relationship with you doesn't mean automatically she should spend the rest.

The only constant thing in life is change, love doesn't stand a damn. People change, as much as it hurts it's true.

My ex and I are still friends, we talk on phone, quarrel, still care about each other. That should be enough. O.p concentrate on the friendship and leave the "RE", if the love was never meant to die it won't.

Don't suffocate the poor girl. Love is fair in everything.

You broke up for no reason Tnx though

I am so grateful to u all for the advice.

dhantey324:
U should be used to her on and off by now. U can't force someone to be in anything with you. Don't try to bring her back into your life. Try and recover yourself, you have built ur life around her. Free her.

Tnx

OLAJADON:
no problem gee, like I said you know her better than we that want to give you advice so you in the best place to advice yourself but whatever you do use your brain.
don't allow a girl to start playing with your head

alryt. tnx