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Leriebloom:
You are the one making all d moves

[color=deeppink]How?[/color]

RadicallyBlunt:
Ok just be on a low key and give him polite answers till he becomes serious

[color=deeppink]Why is he unserious with me?

I'm confused.[/color]

RadicallyBlunt:
Hmm ok. He has skeletons in his cupboard. I'm a guy and from what I read here he has someone he's hiding..mayb his wife or perhaps his side chick but frankly 7months of ignoring is advances is quite a long time. He probably approached you based on how things were then. A lot would have happened btwn then and now..he may have had more than 1 girl by now, he may not be as free as he was then, even a preg would be 6months old if he fuccked a girl after a month of his first move towards you. I think the long time changed a lot of things but he doesn't wanna let go of u.

However he thinks u're freaky abt sex or at least you know what's up. He's just gonna discover he has to start from the lowest point with you. But don't be too committed I'll advice, so u won't be pained much later on

[color=deeppink]But honestly, even during those few months we first met. He wasn't calling me much.

He would just call out of the blue after about three months. And it wasn't even serious.

So I don't know if it's wise to continue seeing him especially after skipping Valentine's Day.

He doesn't even know anything about me and frankly doesn't care.

I'm confused as to what to do.[/color]

RadicallyBlunt:
Did he promise to hang out with you on val's day?

[color=deeppink]No.

He didn't even mention it at all. You would think if you just met someone, you would at least know things about them.

He doesn't even know my last name. He didn't even ask me things about me. I am the one doing the asking.
We have no personal discussions at all.

All he talks about is how impossible it is for someone to live without se.x.

I went to his house yesterday and I kept hearing noises coming from his room like there's someone there. When I was about leaving, he refused to see me off saying I made him mad.

It's very obvious to me that something is not right about the whole thing.[/color]

raumdeuter:
Why not ask him pointedly if he has a wife and daughter. if he is currently married. Add the wife on facebook and ask her what kind of relationship they have

[color=deeppink]I asked him and he said no but all finger points to the opposite.

Btw, did you read the details I included with the post?[/color]

raumdeuter:
Then flow along, date him enjoy the ride. You never know.

You might end up liking him

[color=deeppink]The problem is he could be married with a daughter.

That's the problem.[/color]

raumdeuter:
How old are you and how old is the guy

[color=deeppink]I'm 21, he said he's 27 but he looks older.[/color]

firstking01:
UntiL when you grow up come back for my advice

[quote author=teatym13 post=42967562][/quote][color=deeppink]Ignore what signs.

Btw, I'm not desperate.[/color]

RadicallyBlunt:
Obviously he's hiding something but he has feelings for you..he avoided you with d excuse of work. He doesn't even know how to express his feelings for you. The dream thing is a lie..its just a nigerian way of winning ur heart. When he said meddle, u shd knw that he just wants u guys to be have a mutual adult feeling for each other. And d way I see u, u don't sound experienced for runz. Perhaps u shd learn d risk in runz 1st so u can knw hw to avoid them like pregnancy, abortion, pills and drugs etc. Don't fall in love with man weh get wife and pikin for naija o

[color=deeppink]So why do you think he avoided me on Valentine's Day?[/color]

omarithmetics:
Common sense isn't common. Couldn't pick his call but can drive to his place? I guess we all know where the itch needs scratching. Hey can I get your number 2?

[color=deeppink]So what do you mean?

What are you trying to say?[/color]

mayonnaise:
Mamagee i miss you oh. All your yeye post. Is this the white guy that was poking you?

[color=deeppink]No that one is on facebook.

This one is Nigerian.[/color]

Edwinmason:
pls op wat the name of this movie?

[color=deeppink]It might sound like a movie but it's not.

This is my current situation.[/color]

[color=deeppink]Hi all, I met this guy seven months ago at school and we exchanged numbers. Since then he's been calling me but I have been ignoring his calls and avoiding him because I am not ready for any sort of commitment right now. But all my deeds seemed abortive; he wouldn't stop calling. So he called two days ago and said I should come over so we'll meddle. So I drove up to his house and we were talking. He said he wants to get married and have children and that's why he invited me over but throughout my stay, he didn't talk about any serious discussion. He didn't even ask me my age or anything. He wanted me to pass the night in his house but I told him I was going to work the following morning.

So yesterday(Valentine's Day) I called him and he said he was at work and he would be leaving work at 7pm. So at 7pm, I texted him that I was coming over. And he said okay. Few minutes later, he told me he was going to work and that he was posted on the other side of town. So I said okay that I was going there.But then he said, he was working and stuff and do I need to see him work?. So I said okay. I decided to go home since he wasn't home.

So he called me this morning and told me he's off today and said he saw me in his dream last night. Mind you, we already hung out once. So I asked him what it was and he said he wants to tell me the dream in person. He said he's very close to God. So I said I'll meet him later today.

I have a very good feeling that he has a wife in Nigeria and also has a daughter. I know this because I went through his Facebook profile and I saw a photo of a toddler on there though he told me she was his cousin or whatever.

So I have a question, does this sound like a serious relationship or is he just trying to get in my pants?[/color]

dani3:
then go and collect the engagement ring. Mitchewww

[color=deeppink]But I think he has a daughter in Nigeria.[/color]

dani3:
no he is trying to use u for ritual

[color=deeppink]He said he wants to marry me and be friends.[/color]

[color=deeppink]Hi all, Did Kanu Nwankwo and his wife have premarital se.x?[/color]

firstking01:
to fvck you naw, what else

[color=deeppink]Is it possible he's trying to use me for se.x?[/color]

[color=deeppink]Hi all, I was just wondering, should you believe your gut feeling. For example, I have a strong feeling that my neighbors' attitude would change and they'll become friendly with me.[/color]

[color=deeppink]Gorgeous!!![/color]

[color=deeppink]Gorgeous!!![/color]

[color=deeppink][size=18]Happy Valentine's Day!!![/color][/size]

[color=deeppink]Gorgeous!!![/color]

[color=deeppink]Lovely[/color]

[color=deeppink]Amazing!!! [/color]

[color=deeppink]Thank God!!![/color]

[color=deeppink]Hi guys, what does it mean when a guy calls you to come to his house to meddle?[/color]

[color=deeppink]What the heck is this? [/color]

[color=deeppink]Whatever![/color]

[color=deeppink]Hi all, I was going through social media when I came across photos of Kanu Nwankwo's wedding. And I noticed his wife isn't a celebrity before they got married.
And I thought how did she manage to meet someone like Kanu Nwankwo especially due to the fact that they weren't on the same social status.

So how did they meet?[/color]

namuguibe:
Well it serves a purpose. NEPA carry light for my area and I cannot sleep b/c of heat. Na then I come open your profile pic and 5 mosquitos die for my room

[color=deeppink]Dies.

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