RadicallyBlunt:
Obviously he's hiding something but he has feelings for you..he avoided you with d excuse of work. He doesn't even know how to express his feelings for you. The dream thing is a lie..its just a nigerian way of winning ur heart. When he said meddle, u shd knw that he just wants u guys to be have a mutual adult feeling for each other. And d way I see u, u don't sound experienced for runz. Perhaps u shd learn d risk in runz 1st so u can knw hw to avoid them like pregnancy, abortion, pills and drugs etc. Don't fall in love with man weh get wife and pikin for naija o

firstking01:
UntiL when you grow up come back for my advice

mamagee3:

mamagee3:
Hi all, I met this guy seven months ago at school and we exchanged numbers. Since then he's been calling me but I have been ignoring his calls and avoiding him because I am not ready for any sort of commitment right now. But all my deeds seemed abortive; he wouldn't stop calling. So he called two days ago and said I should come over so we'll meddle. So I drove up to his house and we were talking. He said he wants to get married and have children and that's why he invited me over but throughout my stay, he didn't talk about any serious discussion. He didn't even ask me my age or anything. He wanted me to pass the night in his house but I told him I was going to work the following morning.

So yesterday(Valentine's Day) I called him and he said he was at work and he would be leaving work at 7pm. So at 7pm, I texted him that I was coming over. And he said okay. Few minutes later, he told me he was going to work and that he was posted on the other side of town. So I said okay that I was going there.But then he said, he was working and stuff and do I need to see him work?. So I said okay. I decided to go home since he wasn't home.

So he called me this morning and told me he's off today and said he saw me in his dream last night. Mind you, we already hung out once. So I asked him what it was and he said he wants to tell me the dream in person. He said he's very close to God. So I said I'll meet him later today.

I have a very good feeling that he has a wife in Nigeria and also has a daughter. I know this because I went through his Facebook profile and I saw a photo of a toddler on there though he told me she was his cousin or whatever.

So I have a question, does this sound like a serious relationship or is he just trying to get in my pants?

Adonis3:
wait first

Is it that it's your own ideology to always off pant for any guy you think is serious



Coz from this story, nigga hasn't asked to see your stinking blood stained maggot infested pantDude take it easy on her na!!


And you're here already assuming



Have you been fantasizing about him??



#Adonis3HasSopken

raumdeuter:
How old are you and how old is the guy

mamagee3:

I'm 21, he said he's 27 but he looks older.

raumdeuter:


Then flow along, date him enjoy the ride. You never know.

You might end up liking him

mamagee3:

The problem is he could be married with a daughter.

That's the problem.

raumdeuter:


Why not ask him pointedly if he has a wife and daughter. if he is currently married. Add the wife on facebook and ask her what kind of relationship they have

mamagee3:

So why do you think he avoided me on Valentine's Day?

RadicallyBlunt:

Did he promise to hang out with you on val's day?

mamagee3:

No.

He didn't even mention it at all. You would think if you just met someone, you would at least know things about them.

He doesn't even know my last name. He didn't even ask me things about me. I am the one doing the asking.
We have no personal discussions at all.

All he talks about is how impossible it is for someone to live without se.x.

I went to his house yesterday and I kept hearing noises coming from his room like there's someone there. When I was about leaving, he refused to see me off saying I made him mad.

It's very obvious to me that something is not right about the whole thing.

RadicallyBlunt:

Hmm ok. He has skeletons in his cupboard. I'm a guy and from what I read here he has someone he's hiding..mayb his wife or perhaps his side chick but frankly 7months of ignoring is advances is quite a long time. He probably approached you based on how things were then. A lot would have happened btwn then and now..he may have had more than 1 girl by now, he may not be as free as he was then, even a preg would be 6months old if he fuccked a girl after a month of his first move towards you. I think the long time changed a lot of things but he doesn't wanna let go of u.

However he thinks u're freaky abt sex or at least you know what's up. He's just gonna discover he has to start from the lowest point with you. But don't be too committed I'll advice, so u won't be pained much later on

mamagee3:

But honestly, even during those few months we first met. He wasn't calling me much.

He would just call out of the blue after about three months. And it wasn't even serious.

So I don't know if it's wise to continue seeing him especially after skipping Valentine's Day.

He doesn't even know anything about me and frankly doesn't care.

I'm confused as to what to do.

RadicallyBlunt:

Ok just be on a low key and give him polite answers till he becomes serious

Leriebloom:
You are the one making all d moves

Synzu:


Lingerie love. Part 1 and 2.

Then it continues with; Leave My Panties. Part 3 and 4.


Very interesting movie bro

firstEVA:
lmao

raumdeuter:
try fuckkingg him first, you would tell if he is serious

If he looks into your eyes while doing you then he is serious, If he doesnt look into your eyes, he is fake run from him

Are you serious?

I should have se.x with someone to see if they're serious.

You can't be that edgy?

RadicallyBlunt:

Ok just be on a low key and give him polite answers till he becomes serious

mamagee3:

Okay.

But even if he does have a wife, why would she chose to hide inside her own house because of someone?