no, I dont have any ideas besides eloping.

if i elope, my family will kill me and will never speak to my husband again .

Someone suggested I invent a fictional reception venue and send this one to the people i don't want and keep the real reception venue address under tight wraps and on a need to know basis only. Na Wedding Planning James Bond style be that

Yes i want to do small wedding but if you invite A and he tells B, C & D about it, they will think they can attend even though they never received an invite and you never told them personally to come.

That's what i thought but will that work in Naija? Before you know what's happening, you will hear that you've offended your mum's cousin's aunty's sister's father's nephew!

Does anyone have any advice/strategies on how to prevent mo gbo, mo yas from attending a wedding? For those who don't know what mo gbo, mo ya is, that's people who are not invited to a wedding, hear about it and think it's ok to just turn up.