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Hisduchess:
one day now someone go marry these ones as wives and they keep on shouting about how u should forget their past.one day an unfortunate lady will marry this toilet ugly boy.mtchewwwww.this is the main reason why I will like to marry a virgin man(if any exist) not a community sharer like this dirty boy.mtchewwwwwwwwwwwww

Those ladies there once said this thing your are saying.. here they are today. Now your are saying this

I believe Seun will eventually answer the questions when he eventually comes online. But if he doesn't, then I must say I'm disappointed in him.

sarahade:
Exactly not everyone has it including you. You think coming on line and asking silly questions will make you enter alujannah.

I've seen people misleading others with evil hadith and I know what I'm saying next thing op will create another silly thread If it's ok to eat before noon or how many times should he feed.

What has naming a child got to do with hadith or if the father dies they will go and ask him what the name of the child is in the grave.

Nairaland is not the place to ask questions go to your imam. We have lots of terrorist and boko haraam people here.

And your sense didn't still tell you that there are lot of reliable ulamas here right? It's obvious you have limited knowledge on Islamic rulings. Allah ya gfarce ki

sarahade:
You have a problem.
Nonsense they will give you one hadith that will tell you to feed you child flesh of the deceased you want to name your.child after.

Mtcheew

This is a very insensitive and senseless comment coming from you. Anyway, sense is not common. Not everyone has it.

cingelai:
SCAM! She will just use jamb result slip format and edit it, by writing your sister's details and desired scores. And it won't be in jamb database and she won't even write her school's putme, because jamb won't send her name to her selected institutions and she won't also have the original jamb result which requires her passport on top. I CAN EVEN DO IT. Desperation is the main cause of falling victim of scam

Thank you for your contribution. Thanks

Long story cut short

So my younger sister that I'm sponsoring completely missed out writing jamb this year due to health reasons. She was hospitalized 2 days before the day she was supposed to write her exam.

On the day she's supposed to write the exam, I went to Jamb national headquarters in Bwari Abuja to inform them. They told me to write officially in that regard and attach doctor's report to the letter. I did that 2 days after and submitted.

The day of reschedule came only for her not to be rescheduled to write the exam. So in process of thinking of the next line of action, I met someone who claimed that she can assist.

So today she sent me a PDF file of my sister's result 'upgraded' result with mouth watering scores and demanding for 30,000 naira to upload it to the web for printing.

So my question is, can this be possible? Or could it be a scam? Pls have anyone experienced such before? Your say will be appreciated. Thanks

QueenSuccubus:



There's nothing wrong to visit orphanage... But as u said u wanna have a "GOOD TIME" & she knows what u mean that's why she stylishly put that on a side.

Birthday Sex is not for everyone

Girls with envy and jealousy

Saff:
Can I know what’s going on here please?

austyn0:
You can go to a brothel with a video camera and send the details to her...Goodluck.

Thanks but no thanks.

Tallesty1:
Tell her to take a chill pill na. It is too early, you will soon meet a lady who ticks 85% of what you need in a woman and then there will be regular misunderstandings.

Truth is that you're being tested by her. She wants to get you angry to see how you handly issues when your blood is hot. Ladies do it.

You do have a point bro

tee59:
Really?

Honestly. You seemed surprised right?

shammahyaro:
I wish my boyfriend can see this....

Patience and mutual understanding will solve it all my dear.

So yesterday, my girlfriend (fiancee) that we've been together for about 3 months now, told me that she wants the relationship to be more interesting by me hurting her. She said she deliberately offends me atimes so I'll be mad at her but I'll conceal it and wave it off.

This girl scores over 80% of the requirement I seek from a lady. Most of all, she is loyal and submissive. So for that reason alone, I try as much as I can not to hurt her deliberately. For about 3 months we've been together, we've never had a serious misunderstanding not to talk of quarreling.

So guys have you experienced this before? If yes how did you manage it?
Thanks.

phemmyfour:
lazy youte

Hardworking youth, go and learn spellings first then we'll talk.

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Wherever your location is, use it as the sample location I don't mind. If you are interested let me know so we can negotiate the price. Thank you in anticipation.

delishpot:
Be careful what you wish for.

Some human being ehnn.. in fact you are a monkey. You pray for me, I accepted the prayer wholeheartedly. Now you are telling me to be careful. Is like your sense is paining you bah

kimbraa:
You're simply stupid. They didn't bash you well. Look at your mouth like 99% of girls aren't loyal when you're a dog!. Your girlfriend did well 'cause you don't deserve a loyal woman.

So the world has actually gotten to the stage that one lady will come out from no where to insult a MAN because it's internet right?? The last thing I'll do is to engage in exchange of words with a whôre. I'll leave you here, I wouldn't insult you back because you are a lady

delishpot:
Who give you kai kai drink this early morning? May men like you meet your daughters, sisters and any female dear to you

Amen to that!! For sure I know I am very caring and a loving person. I strongly stand for every woman, not just the woman I love. I have fought for and have defended so many women, both the ones I know and the ones I don't know. And I do all this because women are the weaker sex, hence it pains me when women demands for equality with men

Greene66:
If u have multiple partners, why shouldn't your girlfriend(s), have theirs?

You advise men to have many girlfriends.. It's okay, but do not come to nairaland and lament on how ur girlfriend cheated on you with someone old enough to be your dad when u have many girlfriends.

People cheat.. Male and female. But do not rub it in the face of your partner. Male or female. Keep it secret. And when you get caught, accept your errors and move on, and if you catch your partner, well, if u aren't so holy, don't be a hypocrite. And if u are holy, forgive and move on.. Don't come to nairaland.

P.s you just graduated and can't foot the bills of one girlfriend yet u are practicing polygamy? Please what school did you attend?

#Peace

First of all... I'm not lamenting about my gf cheating on me which is the reason for the title "Kamar..." Perhaps you were too hasty to pass a judgement hence you didn't notice..

Secondly, to avoid severe heartbreak, if you have the heart to contain more than one woman, guys don't hesitate to do that. With the way I love that girl, had it been I had no other girls, na another story we for de talk now. But other girls augmented for the loss.

Finally, about footing bills, I stated up there that that I try my very best within my capacity to foot her bills. But I can never pay a woman's house rent or her fees, except she's an orphan

P.s try not to type without reasoning and digesting what you've red. I tried to be very modest in reply you. If you form itk for here, we might end up bashing ourselves

So 3 days ago, I opened a thread ( https://www.nairaland.com/4335765/feel-heartbroken-right-now-it) on how I felt so heart broken because my loyal girlfriend or perhaps the lady I intended to marry is no longer loyal, with just six months distance relationship, the whole relationship changed. The 2 yrs old relationship ended yesterday anyway.

(Kindly ignore spelling and grammatical flaws. )

However, I learnt something from the thread I created. A handful of nairalanders act like saints but they are arse holes in real life, infact they are monkeys. They will wait for someone to just create a thread and narrate similar things they are doing oo they'll start bashing the person with vulgar and derogatory words. Well... In case you do that here, we'll probably end up being banned because I'll re-bash you too

Well... I'm going to make some revelations about my relationship life just for fun, meanwhile my girlfriend left me to date older men that can pay her fees and house rent. I'm just a fresh graduate awaiting youth service and I tried my very best within my capacity to foot her bills.

In the previous thread I created, I made mention of having another girl apart from my girlfriend, that was what caught the eyes of all. But meanwhile, apart from my very girlfriend, I have 4 other girlfriends I just didn't mention that there.

Before I go further, I wish to advice fellow guys. Don't you ever date 1 lady else the day she will be taking a leap, if you are not emotionally strong you might be considering swiside especially if you've invested a lot in the relationship. Only 1 in a thousand ladies can be 99% loyal. During my final year in school, I have 2 girlfriends in school. And they both know about each other. They are both behaving very fine, each trying to win my heart completely. Since my religion permits polygamy, I was happily learning how to practice polygamy if need be. Brothers, it was fun.

So related to the heading of this thread, I recalled that I once had a romantic affair with somebody's woman. Their wedding then was just less than a month. She is my course mate. We were so close and she sometimes 'jokingly' tell me how she admires me. So on a very good day, I decided to take the bull by the horn. I made some moves and request and my request was expressly granted but I couldn't pass through the heaven gate. But the heaven wall was good to hang on anyway, so I enjoyed it while it lasted.
So when my girlfriend, the I intended to marry (by 2020) was flirting, after the heartbreak feelings my thoughts revealed to me that Kamar is real. So we broke up yesterday amicably.

So right now, I've switched my tentacles to my 4 other girlfriends on who among them I'll marry. 2 out of the four are Vgin. Out of the 2 vgin, I've attempted to break one's Golden gate with the golden hammer between my thighs but I haven't been successful, she always tell me about some certain promises she promised her parents bla bla bla and the other, I've never attempted. The other 2 are "just demand and it shall be given unto you)

My final submissions...
1. I'm advising guys, do not rely on one woman if you want to live long. Only 1 in a thousand ladies are 99% loyal
2. Girls, if you compare yourselves with guys, you'll look stewpid. There's nothing like gender equality. If your man have multiple girlfriends, that shouldn't give you the right to have multiple men as well. A popular African quote "If a man sleeps around with different women, he is seen as a boss but if a woman sleeps around with different men, she'll be seen as a whole" this should tell you that men and women can never be equal.
3. If you have multiple women, don't throw away any of them, even the one you least love, hold unto them all until you get married. Because as it stands now, I think I'll be marrying the one I least love for now. She is very loyal and I've never attempted to touch her. She've been the one doing the loving and now I'll learn how to love her too

johnydon22:
You are an idiot

Thank you and may God reward you with what you deserve

nothalfbaked:
Listen to yourself. Technically, you are cheating on each of the ladies. Stop complaining.

Alright thanks for your time

nothalfbaked:
You wanna marry them both? If you cant marry the side chick due to racial/religious/tribal/family differences then why keep holding unto her. Or is the side chick only for sex and support? Bros leave story you're dating two ladies and complaing that one is cheating. You're very selfish and immature.

Thank you Mr Mature.
Mr Mature, if you are also matured in your reasoning and comprehension, you'll get to read where I said my other girl was with me when my main girl left. For the fact that my main girl came back and I still love her shouldn't mean I will just call it off with my new girl. And for the fact that I can't marry my new girl due to some reasons shouldn't mean I will send her away. I will always respect her for being there with me and elated me when I needed someone most. Hence it'll be her decision to take a bow outta the relationship not my decision cos she also know we can't get married

pocohantas:
She left you for richer guys, then came back later.
And you chose to marry her over the one that stuck with you?

You deserve all the heartbreak you're getting

My dear always pray that you shouldn't experience other people's predicament. Always wish people well even in hard times. Perhaps your culture or family will permit you to marry anybody you randomly come across irrespective of region or race, but other people's culture/family wouldn't permit that.

pocohantas:
Why is it that lots of you men can't take what you steadily dish out, as regards cheating. You have a side chick, and you're now heartbroken over her side guy?

Just look at how you both are distributing body fluids upandan.

Chai!
Thank God I am a refurbished virgin.
HIV is real...!

Pls read my first reply below you and let me hear your verdict

kunlesufyan:
Baba you funny, you are dating her yet you have a side chick she knows about. Don't you think that deep down shes hurt knowing that you sleep with some other girl..
She did the same now and she don turn bad person.. I'm a guy o, I know you can't trust women and all that but bros you self check am na...

You've ignored where I said "it's a long story on its own" if I should narrate that, my narration will become an epistle. But in a nutshell, she left me at some point to date richer guys with cars, then I moved on with another girl. So when it got sour over the other side with her, she came back begging. Then I told her we can still continue but I can't leave my new girlfriend because she was with me all through the time you broke my heart

Gebbson007:
first of all YOU ARE MAHD cux you gave her the go ahead to satisfy her urge with someone else now you are complaining saying it WS a test.
dude you really need to grow up n all. cux I'm very sure you ll do the same if she also try "TESTING" you ... you having another gf is bad enough now ya now presenting your self like a saint guy no vex me oooo

Bro don't talk because you want to talk, try talk reasonable atimes in line with the subject matter. I needed to know how far I can trust her, how far my mind is going to be at rest when we are far apart. That's there essence. It doesn't mean I gave her licence to sleep around

Y0ruba:
.

You have a couple of options and I’ll list them:

1. Play ignorant, discard what the other guy told you and continue with your girlfriend mentally undisturbed.

2. Do not let your emotions control your actions and speech. Be quiet and step away, just disappear forever.

Note: whichever you choose or whatever you decide to do, there’s the likelyhood the other guy will foook her a few more times or she gets it from someone else. Also, keep in mind that making it obvious you’re hurt/upset is enough to feed her ego which will eventually put you in a bas place. It is up to you to decide at this point.

You spoke reasonably. Thanks brother. I'll go with your second point

greatnaija01:
oh ma lawd... THE WORLD IS FINISHED

You who had a side chick and you felt she "understood"? NA WA O... maybe u both are animals... relationship is actually an EXCLUSIVE WORD not a PLURAL.

and she forgave u and coped with you and the side chick till u made an innocent virgin get addicted to sex.... then now she tasted someone else... and you are here RANTING.. such WICKEDNESS... even the devil does not have it.


Pls u better pause the wedding and go for Proper counselling on WHAT MARRIAGE really entails. My gawd... you are in a sexationship but well, in 20years you will understand how primitive you have handled this. Chai, I pity the lady... an honest smooth talking player like you has created a new player in her.

Well no matter how u do it, WHAT YOU SOW IS WHAT YOU WILL REAP.

Try and be modest in addressing people. You can't call people animals. You don't know this girl, you don't even know if she might be your sister. But meanwhile, you've ignored the part I said "it's a different tale entirely" regarding the other girl I have. Kindly read my first reply

thesettingz:
Young man shits happens and once it happens is either u move on or bears the cross.

On the aspect of the guys confession what If the guy is only taking advantage of ur insecurity to high jack ur Bae knowing fully well u would want a break once u find out....... U typed as if u caught ur girl naked with the said guy

The guy didn't just spit it out. He tried to hide it. I only got it out from him at the last minute

Before I say anything, I'll advice you never to trust a woman. Not even your wife.
I'm going to be brief and straight to the point. In case you come across spelling or grammatical error, kindly ignore

I have a girlfriend I've been dating for 2 years now. We met in school and I was 1 year more than her in school. I graduated last year and she will graduate this year. When I met her, she was a virgin and has never been exposed to sexual life. I deflowered her and ever since our love life flourished more even though there were challenges and misunderstanding along the line which is something that is bound to happen anywhere. But I sincerely love her. Even though I have another girlfriend which she knows about (the reason for the other girlfriend is an entire story on its own)... Before I finally went home last year, our frequency of sex increased to the extent that my gf was telling me that she is now addicted to sex. The day she told me that, I smiled but deep down me, I knew I was in for a trouble. So in order to test her loyalty, I seriously advised her to get another bf at home who will satisfy her urge and let me know about the guy. She seriously kicked against that then I felt elated within me that I'll be safe

So last week I visited her in school and planned on spending a week since I have friends who can accommodate me for the time, only for me to find out that she has a very close male friend who was my 2 year Junior in school then, same department. This night upon visiting her, in order to clear my doubt, I called the guy talked in length with him on how serious I am with my girlfriend, and mentally threatened him that if he betrays me he'll regret it. So he opened up to me that although they are close friends, he has only slept with her once. And then he apologized. I thanked him for being sincere. Then I went back to see my girlfriend, I demanded that she should be honest and sincere to me, she should tell me all that has happened while I was away. She still insisted that nothing happened.

I took time to narrate this and to source for advice on what I should do cos I'm into a serious relationship with her. My family are aware of us and hopefully we'll be getting married after her youth service. She is in her finals now. I feel really heartbroken and disappointed

That's how every playbook charger is brother. Even if you open 100 of it.

JULIE1925:



Uuumm squirting...

I see one nasty epesiode from watchmyexgf ( sex scandal) where the girl was squirting nonstop but every time she squirt her man was sucking it as if he was juz drinking in the fountain of life

Well, bih ur lucky coz not every girl has the ability to squirt .. Keep ur NUNU lock & loaded

Ladies watch porrno too ??

I hope PDP are going to play their cards well to emerge victorious in the 2019 general election. Baba you need to go back home and rest. Thank you for your efforts so far. Nigerians and grateful

Pls does anyone has an idea of their state of origin?