 Christianity Etc › Re: Nigerian Pastor Attempts To Heal A Mentally Unstable Man by Mani100: 7:22pm On Jun 02 |
For Jesus to heal at least one person e mean say he be son of God Tru Tru. Imagine na now Jesus come e come b naija. No wonder e no reach this side. Pharisees and sadusees and bad belle for no let am breath obembet:
Just in: Powerful Nigerian pastor spotted attempting to heal a M£ntaIIy unstable man!
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| Politics › Re: 5 Life Lessons I Have Learnt From Peter Obi - Odewale Adesoye (Green Man) by Mani100: 10:26pm On May 27 |
PO u no go win no reason am. For the fact say u no even dey rugged and brutal u can't win tinunmbu with ordinary democracy and debate. Ppl will vote for u and u will win but batman no go do like gej to call and accept defeat . THE KIND RIGGING WEY GO HAPPEN 2027 eh, e go take maybe 50yrs to counter am. Ladies and gentlemen tinunmbu go rig and rig and rig. Na look we go just dey look. Odewaleadesoye:
[font=Georgia]...whether we agree with his politics or not, Peter Obi has definitely made a strong impact on Nigerian politics and youth participation. |
| Politics › Re: 5 Life Lessons I Have Learnt From Peter Obi - Odewale Adesoye (Green Man) by Mani100: 10:21pm On May 27 |
Finally he was not calculative and patient. As a matter of fact, I'm from Anambra state. Just like good luck Jonathan, Peter obi made the same mistake okadigbo made. PO should have endured and repeat the combo with Atiku for a second time rather than going to LP. They would have fucking won tumumbu. Every time I see and feel the hardship and pain in this so called Nigeria, I blame Peter obi . He should have waited a bit from VP, he could have been the president perhaps by 2027. Rather gra gra and all that .now this is where we are. Nothing! I repeat nothing will make timumnbu the fool relinquish power not at this moment when everything is favoring him. PO na u cause am. And the consequences b say we go suffer am for naija. I am personally suffering it btw. So PO u fukk up by thinking LP will give u president at that time even house of rep u no get and u think u would have won the presidential election in 2023? Oga I go like make u win I know say na u better pass other presidential candidate but it can't happen. Not when tumumbu still dey breath! Odewaleadesoye:
[font=Georgia]...whether we agree with his politics or not, Peter Obi has definitely made a strong impact on Nigerian politics and youth participation. |
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| Politics › Re: Pictures & Videos From APC Presidential Primaries Across The Country by Mani100: 8:39pm On May 23 |
Hausa na una truly get naijariya. Tinunmbu thank you for the shege in arrears...quote author=Melezenawii post=139499399]The Chief Whip of the Senate, Senator MT Monguno, participated in the presidential primary election in his hometown, Monguno Local Government Area, Borno State
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| Politics › Re: Pictures & Videos From APC Presidential Primaries Across The Country by Mani100: 8:38pm On May 23 |
Hausa na una truly get naijariya. Tinunmbu thank you for the shege in arrears... ddippset:
All these crowds in the North highest 2 million.
There are over 50 million adults in the North. |
| Politics › Re: Pictures & Videos From APC Presidential Primaries Across The Country by Mani100: 8:37pm On May 23 |
Hausa na una truly get naijariya. Tinunmbu thank you for the shege in arrears... Melezenawii:
VIDEO: Kogi State United Behind President Tinubu’s Second Term, Reform Agenda – Gov Ododo
Obidient eyes go first blur before 12pm in the day of election 😂🔥
Results of the APC presidential primary in Galadima Ward and Kayaye Ward in T/Mafara LGA, Zamfara State, where former Governor of Zamfara State, Sen. AA Yari, voted:
Galadima Ward:
President Tinubu: 10,678 votes
Stanley Osifo: 0
Kayaye Ward:
President Tinubu: 4,897 votes
Stanley Osifo: 0
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| Education › Re: 15 Courses In Nigeria Where First Class Is Not Optional by Mani100: 8:34pm On May 23 |
Y'all did not mention Music! IJAYA001:
You get it right, it's one of useless course in this millennium. |
| Education › Re: 15 Courses In Nigeria Where First Class Is Not Optional by Mani100: 8:33pm On May 23 |
It can brother man. flexyrule:
A first class in any subject doesn't guarantee you success in life. |
| Crime › Re: Thai Police Arrested Six Nigerians For Involvement In Romance Scam Network (pix) by Mani100: 6:01pm On May 23 |
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| Politics › Re: President Tinubu Votes In APC Presidential Primaries by Mani100: 4:16pm On May 23 |
Mandatory mandate.when your agbado and rice is sure. When I hear money is not everything I dey vex. If not for Moni , who would support timunu? naptu2:
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| Politics › Re: What Will Happen To Nigeria If Peter Obi Wins In 2027? (20 Bold Predictions) by Mani100: 10:50am On May 23 |
Allegedly...and more and more bombing will be sponsored by APC and it's cohorts. Bsssss:
If Peter Obi takes the oath of office in 2027, let’s be honest: the era of "business as usual" will end the very next morning. It won't be a magic wand performance, and it won't be an overnight fix—but it will be a level of disruption that the establishment is not prepared for.
If you are expecting a "soft landing" for the corrupt, think again. Here is exactly what we should expect during those first 100 days:
1. The End of Waste: Say goodbye to endless convoys and frivolous foreign junkets. The era of government-funded luxury is ending.
2. Audit Season: Ministries and agencies will face serious heat. Expect hidden contracts and inflated budgets to become front-page national scandals.
3. The Subsidy Reality: The conversation will return immediately. It will be painful, but this time, there will be a structure behind it.
4. Market Sentiment: The Naira might swing wildly at first...but watch as serious investors start taking notice once they see fiscal discipline.
5. Silence of the Parasites: The political middle-men and "connection" contractors will go quiet once the supply chain of free money dries up.
6. Renewed Hope: The energy among Nigerian youths will shift the national mood. Hope is a powerful tool for rebuilding.
7. The "Old Guard" Resistance: Expect the status quo to fight back. The old elite will not give up their grip on power without a massive, noisy battle.
8. Institutional Friction: Expect tension between the Presidency and established institutions that have grown comfortable with corruption.
9. Competence over Godfatherism: Appointments will be driven by merit. The era of "Who is your godfather?" is heading to the exit.
10. Education First: ASUU and universities will finally get the attention they deserve, not just in words, but in policy and funding.
11. The Brain Gain: Nigerians in the diaspora will start looking back home. Stability is the only thing they need to return.
12. Corruption Headlines: Expect a flurry of cases in the news. The cleanup will be visible and loud.
13. Forced Transparency: Governors will
suddenly realize that "transparency" is the new trend.
14. Digital Revolution: The civil service will be forced to move from paper files to digital, efficient operations.
15. NASS Drama: Attempts to cut National Assembly waste will create enough drama to last a lifetime, but it’s a necessary fight.
16. Market Confidence: Watch the stock market. Confidence returns when investors see that the leader is actually in charge.
17. Initial Hardship: Fuel prices won't drop overnight. It will be tough, and the critics will try to use this to fan the flames of unrest.
18. The Media War: Once reforms touch the pockets of the powerful, the media attacks against Obi will intensify to an unprecedented level.
19. The Digital Battleground: Online division will hit an all-time high. The clash between those who want progress and those who want the status quo will be daily.
20. The Psychology of Leadership: Most importantly, Nigerians will finally feel a sense of responsibility from the top. That alone is a massive shift.
We are talking about a total reset. It won't be easy, and it won't be pretty for those feeding off our national wealth, but it is necessary for a New Nigeria.
What do you think? Will the establishment be able to stop this, or is the change inevitable? Let's discuss. |
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| Politics › Re: I Signed Obasa's Impeachment Notice By Mistake - Desmond Elliot by Mani100: 3:29pm On May 19 |
Damage control. Na lie. U no sabi read? naptu2:
The Cable @thecableng
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| Business › Re: I Received A Credit Transfer Into My Account From An Unknown Person by Mani100: 8:40am On May 18 |
Oya touch it andy4d2ofus:
Thank you but guy the thing is tempting |
| Politics › Re: Adamu Abubakar Wins APC Reps Ticket In Niger State by Mani100: 11:36am On May 17 |
Will you give the average mans child 10million for nomination and interest form MrEar:
Buhari's son has also secured a political ticket.
While the children of middle and low-income Nigerians resort to gambling and cybercrime, the political elite are strategically positioning their own children for power.
In time, it will be ordinary Nigerians' children who pay the price, inheriting a future even harder than the present their parents endure today.
Smiling and suffering continues.  |
| Travel › Re: 10 Things You Should Know About Enugu by Mani100: 1:33pm On May 16 |
Indeed, some ppl head no correct DMCA:
U forgot to add a very important point that it is also home to IPOB terrorists  |
| Education › Re: Oyebamiji Gives ₦1M To LAUTECH Best Graduating Student, Olugbenga Oladepo by Mani100: 2:55am On May 14 |
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| Romance › Re: Do Women Really Fall In Love? by Mani100: 8:53am On May 11 |
Women elsewhere around the world do fall in love... But Nigerian women, hell No! No money,no love. If you have Two mill, a Nigerian woman will dump you for who has 2.2 Mill. It's simple maths isrealoski:
“DO WOMEN REALLY FALL IN LOVE?”
Before some of you attack this thread emotionally, calm down first 😄
This is not a “men vs women” war post.
This is a deep observation about human behavior, attraction, survival, status, psychology, and relationships.
Inside this thread, we’ll be talking about:
• Why status changes how people treat you. • The hidden psychology behind attraction. • Why some relationships feel real until life becomes difficult. • Why many people mistake survival for love. • Why I stopped seeing relationships emotionally and started observing them mentally. • The 3 forces that secretly influence most modern relationships. • And the one relationship lesson I discovered after years of observation that changed my perspective completely.
Read carefully till the end.
The final part is the most important.
Now let’s begin.
I grew up in a very comfortable environment.
Not billionaire level 😄 But comfortable enough that life treated us differently.
My father built houses. My father built a church in Somolu, Lagos. At conferences and gatherings, people treated us with respect. People rushed to carry luggage. Seats were reserved. Doors opened automatically.
As a child, you don’t understand these things deeply.
You just think: “This is normal.”
And because of that environment, getting girls back then was extremely easy.
Very easy.
At that age, I genuinely believed love was simple.
I believed attention came naturally. I believed attraction was pure. I believed people simply liked people for who they were.
I was young.
Life had not educated me yet.
SECTION 1: “Love Is a Lie. This Is the Reason.”
Years later, life changed.
I left home. The comfort reduced. Reality became louder.
And suddenly, the same world that once felt soft became difficult to understand.
Conversations changed. Attention changed. Access changed.
That was when I started observing human beings deeply.
One day, one of my guys told me something that stayed in my head for years.
There was this girl that had been turning him down consistently.
No attention. No interest. Nothing.
Then one day, he borrowed his boss’s car.
Everything changed instantly.
The same girl suddenly had time. The same girl suddenly became responsive. The same girl suddenly became interested.
By the third date, they had already slept together inside the car.
Now pause here.
Most people reading this thread will immediately choose sides emotionally.
Some will say: “The girl is shallow.”
Others will say: “The guy manipulated her.”
But me?
I sat down quietly and started asking myself deeper questions.
Was the guy wrong? Or was he simply adapting to a reality he understood?
Was the girl evil? Or was she responding to status, comfort, and perception the same way many humans naturally do?
That experience changed something inside me.
Not into bitterness.
No.
Into awareness.
SECTION 2: “Why Most People Fail in Relationships—and How Awareness Changes Everything.”
One dangerous thing about growing up protected is this:
You mistake comfort for truth.
You think the world is softer than it really is.
Then reality shocks you later.
The older I got, the more I realized that attraction is not always purely emotional.
Sometimes people are attracted to: • security, • confidence, • stability, • lifestyle, • intelligence, • beauty, • ambition, • potential, • influence.
And honestly? Both genders do this in different ways.
Men may overlook red flags because of beauty.
Women may overlook red flags because of potential.
Humans are emotional creatures pretending to be logical.
And logical creatures pretending to be emotional.
That’s why relationships confuse people so much.
SECTION 3: “The Hidden Psychology Behind Every ‘Perfect Match’—And Why Most Miss It.”
Over time, I discovered something about myself.
I’m not attracted only physically.
I’m attracted mentally.
If all we talk about is: “Let’s eat.” “Send money.” “Buy this.” “Take me out.”
My brain disconnects immediately.
But if I tell you an idea, and instead of just listening, you sharpen it further…
Now you have my attention.
For example:
Imagine I say: “If you place three books on a table publicly, people unconsciously feel like completing the set.”
Then the person replies: “Actually, four books may work better psychologically because the missing one feels easier to complete.”
That kind of interaction wakes my brain up.
That’s attraction to me.
Not just beauty.
Mental sharpness.
That’s why many modern relationships exhaust me.
Too much physical attraction. Too little intellectual chemistry.
Many people can date each other physically… but cannot challenge each other mentally.
SECTION 4: “The Invisible Codes That Dictate Who Stays and Who Leaves in Love.”
The more I observed life, the more I stopped asking: “Who is good?” and started asking: “What influences human behavior?”
And honestly?
Most humans are not evil.
Most humans are responding to: • survival, • insecurity, • ego, • attraction, • fear, • opportunity, • comfort, • pressure, • and timing.
That realization changed the way I judge people.
These days, I no longer worship fantasies.
I observe patterns instead.
And one painful truth I discovered is this:
Reality respects value.
A broke man with confidence still struggles. A successful man with confidence gets listened to faster.
Painful truth. But truth.
SECTION 5: “How Your Past Shapes Your Future Relationships—And What You Can Do Differently.”
Maybe that’s why I no longer rush relationships anymore.
Right now, I’m rebuilding myself quietly.
No pressure. No desperation.
In fact, I’ve gone about two years without sex or relationships, and I’m perfectly fine.
Because now I understand something many people don’t:
Love without stability can quickly become stress.
Some people hate hearing that truth.
But people who have experienced financial hardship inside relationships understand exactly what I mean.
Money is not everything.
But lack of money can damage many things.
That’s reality.
SECTION 6: “The Three Lessons My Mother Taught Me About Love That I’m Still Grateful For.”
As I grew older, life slowly taught me three important things:
1. Never allow emotions blind you completely.
2. Never build relationships only on temporary feelings.
3. Peace of mind is more valuable than forced attachment.
Those lessons stayed with me deeply.
Because the older you get, the more you realize attraction alone cannot sustain anything meaningful.
SECTION 7: “If You’re in a Relationship or Considering One, These Are the Three Forces You Must Know Before It’s Too Late.”
After years of observing people, relationships, attraction, and behavior…
I discovered there are THREE kinds of relationships.
1. Survival Relationships. People stay because they need something: money, security, comfort, status, access, support.
2. Emotional Relationships. People stay because of feelings: chemistry, attachment, loneliness, desire, excitement.
3. Mental-Spiritual Relationships.
This one is rare.
Very rare.
This is when two people genuinely sharpen each other’s minds, discipline, peace, growth, vision, and soul.
Not just romance.
Not just resources.
Alignment.
That third type?
That is the only kind of relationship I’m willing to wait for now.
Even if it takes years.
Because once you experience mental resonance with somebody, shallow attraction starts losing power over you.
And maybe that’s why I no longer panic about relationships anymore.
Right now, I’m still building. Still observing. Still learning people quietly.
Ironically, some of my writings have gone viral online multiple times…
Yet I still remain anonymous.
And honestly?
I like it that way.
Anonymity allows you to study human beings honestly.
No fame distortion. No fake energy. No performance.
Just pure observation.
So after reading all this…
Let me ask you, Nairalanders:
Do you think genuine love can truly exist without money, status, or potential…
Or are most relationships secretly built on value exchange from the beginning?
And which of the 3 relationship types do you honestly believe lasts the longest? 👀 |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Did God Create Some People To Never Lack? by Mani100: 8:44am On May 11 |
Background should be an excuse indeed... E get when Dangote pikin or Tinubu pikin go dey write CV for work? Partiality dey the life ..Do the maths... How many rich men children die in the hands of kidnappers or malaria or even almighty CANCER? How many end up wretched? Even the ones who do drugs, live recklessly still stand a better chance. The only thing I'll say is if you find urself in a domain of poverty, do your best , appreciate your progress and accept the outcome. In Nigeria, coming from a poor background is war on its own. In my opinion , some people are not meant to lack. Some children I've seen are so taken care of their food, clothing, pets , school, investment and all that. Some 5yr children are already billionaires bro. So what are you saying.. they are like a thousand years ahead of their mates! Dpsychologist:
You said it well. The background shouldn't be an excuse. |
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| TV/Movies › Re: If You Know About This You Are A Great Legend by Mani100: 1:30pm On May 03 |
I'm not a legend, I'm a Lacoco Skippyvibes:
If you know or have watched this and you are not married with kids na you know watin you dey wait for |
| Politics › Re: Peter Obi, Kwankwaso Ticket Can’t Give ADC Numbers – NWC Member, Oladimeji by Mani100: 4:28pm On Apr 28 |
PO was not strategic enough to know that he shouldn't have contested the presidential election on lP platform. If he had stayed back to contest against Tilumbu in 2023 as VP under PDP, by now Nigerians would have been in total prosperity. But No! Pride and ITK have made this Tilumbu grab this power and you think he will let go? The only thing taking away this power from Tilumbu is deat# |
