₦airaland Forum

Oxb90:
Why are they not bombing the USA directly, why their proxies. Yeye people. All they think about day and night is nothing but war. They are the ones producing and supporting terrorism all over the world. No thought of how to help humanity at all. Has all the wars they've fought helped their economy?

You don't understand war obviously..

specialmati:
you proved him right

I proved who right?All you overexcited,immature "juveniles"...

Mtchewww...

Tenses:
The difference between Obidients and batists is that Obidients will condemn him for his crimes while batists will defend their people for the same crime or worst.

STOP lying like a kid..

Celebrityblog:
Video of Margaret "Maggie" Obi dancing joyfully at a lively evening party with colourful lights and other guests.

How I imagine my future wife to be enjoying my money as I’m fighting for Nigeria. pic.twitter.com/1Ef00hpymD

— Morris Monye (@Morris_Monye) July 15, 2026

And so what??

Mhizclara:
Atleast he wasn't a drug dealer 🤣

It's a known FACT his late father was one..

Jukwa Ese!

Tenses:
The way tinubu government talk 24/7 about Peter Obi must have confused European countries that PO is the president of Nigeria.

The rate PO is being invited by international bodies to represent Nigeria is becoming to much.

Fake invite...

Peter "Pathological Lying MACHINE" Obi has done it again..

TUFIAKWA nwoke'a...

Ezigbote onye Asi!

Judemarco31:
Very funny that you data bois are always having sleepless nights because of Obi, very obvious, always burning data day and night in search of Obi, your nightmares will continue till 2027, you guys shall never have rest. Nigeria must work because these evil leaders and corrupt leaders must leave.

And Peter Obi will make them.leave next year...

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

SeeWahala:
If you know the amount and sheer number of corn 🌽 chewing enthusiastic beings that will tune in to listen to Peter Obi you will marvel 🤗

The man goes everywhere and is for everybody 🥰 even GEJ didn't get invited as much as this after he was president 😇

Who even invites athiku to where self? 🤔 When last was he invited to anywhere else apart from Dubai? 🧐

Let him use it and become president, make we hear word abeg.

PresidentMUGABE:
Europeans, Asians, Indians Americans and Africans are always happy to be around him.

And because of that,they will make him President next year..

BIG FOOOOOOOOOL!

CodeTemplarr:
Out of tens of thousands of Nigerians involved, they are sampling the face of one morrocan guy. Same people who refused to sample the face of kidnappers and killers of Oyo teachers. Makinde was right to call for UN probe.

Some of you need a Brain Transplant...

Understanding is non-existent for you..

floss:
It's only talk and talk that ICC will do, nothing will happen... How many times have ICC declared trump wanted, same with Netanyahu but has anything happened?

It even got to the point that ICC was telling countries to help arrest Trump if he visits...

I'm just telling you that nothing will happen, obey the laws of your host country if you want your head to remain on your neck....

You can call barbaric or undiplomatic, truth remains that UN law or ICC law doesn't supercedes the law of any country.

Stop embarrassing yourself and learn...

Helinuse:
Not everyone is like ya dad.
Go home and find him bro.

my dad at almost 88,since the 70s,has been a multimillionaire...in ANY currency on earth...just like me...pls don't believe me..I beg you not to believe me ..do your findings...I can help you with some "snippets"..and yes ..I MAKE BOAST OF IT...the worst you can say is that I'm too boastful and arrogant...

I accept...

PDPdestroyer:
Hand don touch the Obidient defamer. Na so una go go down one by one.
Just see how haggard he looks, to think there are many like him here on NL calling their betters hungry and broke, is why people say social media is a leveler

His Obidient "clones" are atleast 5M strong ,with 3M online at every given time of any day ..

sekeyso:
The public apology was for what then?
Tihat guy is obviously going to spend some time in the prison.

But these people (apc apologists) can't take what they used to dish out to others people

When did Soludo decamp to APC

jmoore:
Soludo and misplaced priorities.

Obiano built an airport. What is Anambra doing with 2 airports?
And he calls himself a professor.

The clown will name the airport 'solution airport'

Atleast he is better than Peter Obi as Governor...he has NEVER owed salary unlike Mr "Him TuLie",that owed Health workers 13months salary.... Lecturers,14 months...dont take my word for it ..check it out...It's on record .

Helinuse:
This man normally dey press neck of all our dubious politicians.

God bless him.

Give am money...

Him no go press neck...

Switruth:
All these ones no get anything to talk about Obi again....
Bwala go and pick form if you reach Obi shoe lace

RUBBISH!!!!!!

WIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kalatium:
There is one question every man should ask himself before calling any woman the 'love of his life' .

If everything you have worked for disappeared tomorrow, if your job was gone, your business collapsed or your income suddenly stopped, would she still look at you with the same love, respect and admiration? What if she starts Earning more than you, will she remain with you?

For a long time, I believed the answer would be yes because love was supposed to be unconditional.

Life eventually answered that question for me, not once, not twice, but eight different times in a period of 10 years. Every relationship was different, every woman had a different personality, from different ethnic groups but the lesson at the end was painfully similar.

Story One: When I Lost My First Job

We had been together for two years and I genuinely believed we were building a future together. When my former company downsized and I lost my job, the first person I wanted to speak to was the woman I loved because I expected comfort, encouragement and reassurance that we would get through it together.

Instead, the conversation immediately shifted to : What would become of the relationship now that I was unemployed. The warmth gradually disappeared, the phone calls became less frequent, the replies became shorter and within a few weeks she had emotionally checked out. Before long, she had moved on with another man. Two years of commitment disappeared almost as quickly as my monthly salary.

Story Two: "I'll Find Someone Else"

Months later i got into another relationship. As of then i started a business i got introduced to and at it was booming. Then came a point, where the business became slow and money was unusually tight. For the first time since we started dating, I could not spend the way I normally did. I communicated this to her and she said okay but just a few days later she called and asked me to send her money so she could buy a dress and shoe she saw.

I honestly explained that I was struggling financially and simply needed a little time to recover. Instead of asking how I was coping or understand me or encourage me to stay strong, her response was, "It's okay. I'll find someone else." Those six words changed the way I see her because I suddenly realized I had been valued more for what I provided than for who I actually was. This was a major trigger that orchestrated our breakup later.

Story Three: Betrayal After Sacrifice

The lady was very lovely that i thought we will get married. She was from a humble background, looked gentle and portrayed herself like the kind that will be faithful to me (ride or die). I paid bills, solved problems, handled emergencies and constantly made sacrifices because I genuinely loved her and believed we were building something meaningful together.

Unknown to me, another man with a bigger bank account had quietly entered the picture and was doking her. By the time I eventually discovered what had been happening, she had already moved on emotionally while I was still investing my time, energy and resources into a relationship that had quietly expired. I felt betrayed and shattered.

Story Four: I Helped Her But She Left
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This one pained me the most because of extend i went for her. She is in the health profession and graduated without securing an internship placement. She was frustrated about her future because her mates have already started and are already ahead of her. I refused to watch her struggle alone. I reached out to people I knew, made several calls and eventually helped her secure internship in where i did mine previously. While she worked without salary for months, I continued encouraging and supporting her financially because I genuinely wanted to see her succeed.

All of a sudden everything changed. The communication reduced, the effort disappeared and eventually she walked away from the relationship. She gave no solid reasons saying it's not me it's her and she needs to find herself. Later, I got to found out she had already started earning before she broke up with me. Looking back, I sometimes wonder whether she simply felt she no longer needed me as she is now earning or feel i will ask her for money or what . I became an overnight philosopher.

Story Five: She claimed not to have money and later got scammed.

We dated for three years and during that period I never hesitated to support her financially whenever life became difficult. Helping her was almost natural to me because I believed that was what partners were supposed to do for each other. This was the lady i loved the most.

One day I genuinely needed financial help myself and reached out to her after other options failed. She calmly told me she did not have any money. This was my first time of asking her this and since i trusted her, i thought she actually didn't have. Many days later, she was moody and closed off. I asked repeatedly what was wrong only for her to end up crying, saying someone had scammed her with a significant amount of her money. The painful part for me was not that she got scammed. The painful part was realizing she had the money all along but told me she doesn't have anything. She simply chose not to help me when I needed her. I felt betrayed. When i reflected on everything i realized that even when i am in a precarious situation, she won't ever help me. I never took her serious since then.

Story Six: I Was Always the One Giving

This relationship forced me to reflect on something I had ignored for a long time: reciprocation. I was having this mentality that when my woman needs help, I will always show up immediately without thinking twice. Whenever she faced a challenge, I considered it our challenge. However, looking back today, almost every meaningful sacrifice came from my side and i was shooting myself on the foot.

I began to notice that whenever I genuinely needed emotional support, encouragement or even small acts of kindness, there was almost always another excuse, another reason or another delay. I don't like to keep score but i can't help but noticed she has never did anything worthwhile, even when monetary aspect is kept aside. She is always asking and taking but have never giviing and she is 30. Loving someone should never feel like carrying two people on your shoulders while pretending the weight is equal.

Story Seven: The ₦100,000 I Never Saw Again

This relationship was still very new when she called saying she had an emergency and urgently needed ₦100,000. I explained that the money had already been set aside for something very important, but because she was my girlfriend, I agreed to lend it to her after she repeatedly promised to repay me.

The money never came back. Whenever I reminded her, she started making me feel guilty for asking for money i send to her oooo. At one point she even asked why I was behaving as though she were a stranger. That moment taught me that borrowing money should never automatically erase accountability. I ended the relationship out of disgust. This was the shortest relationship i had ever been.

Story Eight: The Experiment That Changed Everything

After everything I had experienced, I recently decided to quietly test one relationship earlier this year after the lady was claiming she is not after a man's money. So I deliberately reduced how much I spent while making sure nothing else changed. I still called regularly, stayed emotionally available and continued showing genuine affection. The only thing I reduced was the money.

The result shocked me. Almost immediately I was accused of no longer caring, no longer trying and no longer loving her like before. Nothing about my character had changed. My attention had not reduced. My commitment remained exactly the same. The only thing that changed was my spending, yet that alone completely changed how I was treated. That experiment taught me one lesson no relationship expert ever could.

My Overall Reflection

Before anyone misunderstands this post, let me make something very clear. I am not saying every woman behaves this way because that would be dishonest and unfair. These are not all the ladies i have been in a relationship with but this is a result of majority of those i have been with. I know there are loyal, supportive and emotionally mature women who genuinely stand beside their partners during difficult seasons.

My concern is that I have personally experienced this pattern repeatedly as well as others, and many men quietly carry similar stories without ever talking about them. Society constantly reminds men that their value lies in what they provide, while very few people ever stop to ask what emotional support men receive in return.

A man is expected to provide, protect, remain emotionally strong, solve problems and carry responsibilities without complaining. The moment he experiences financial difficulty, many people begin questioning his worth instead of asking whether he is mentally exhausted, overwhelmed or silently struggling with responsibilities nobody else can see.

Money is important. Bills are real. Responsibilities cannot be ignored. Every serious relationship requires financial responsibility from both partners.

Genuine love, however, should never disappear simply because someone enters a difficult season. Every human being will eventually experience moments when life does not go according to plan. Character is not revealed during comfort. Character is revealed when circumstances become uncomfortable.

Today I no longer judge relationships by sweet words, romantic promises or social media displays. I pay attention to how people behave when there is nothing material left to gain because hardship exposes intentions that comfort successfully hides.

My biggest lesson is one I will carry for the rest of my life.

Money can attract attention.
Money can attract admiration.
Money can even attract temporary affection.
Money cannot buy genuine loyalty.

If someone's love expires the same day your money stops flowing, then perhaps what you had was never really love.

It was simply a transaction wearing the mask of a relationship.

So let me leave you with one honest question.

If you lost everything tomorrow, would your partner still choose you, or would they quietly begin searching for someone with a healthier bank account?

If you understand what Hypergamy is,you won't be bothered or taken aback by women..

Women are INCAPABLE of loving a man GENUINELY...it's their NATURE...It's BIOLOGY!

It's like saying Men are incapable of carrying a foetus for 9months,as Pregnancy,to eventually deliver the baby....or is it?

When you understand this,you have solved 80% of your confusions and issues with that gender..

EVERY WOMAN'S BEHAVIOR IN A HETEROSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP IS BASED ON EVOLUTIONARY SURVIVAL INSTINCTS OVER THOUSANDS OF YEARS.

Most of the things women do,they do UNCONSCIOUSLY!

Na "FOLLOW COME" , evolutionarily speaking..

WOMEN ARE INCAPABLE OF LOVING, GENUINELY, THEIR MATES...they can only do that for their offsprings they procreated with you....

You as the man isn't there to be loved by your woman/wife/girlfriend...

You are there to be "exploited" ,based on survival of the gender..

When you understand this FACT,you can now easily "play their game" without losing out..

I'm speaking as a married man of coming close to 26years...

Once you DONT expect love from your mate,once you get your mind right in these sphere of life... YOU'LL SEE THE GAME FOR WHAT IT TRULY IS......

And you know what they say :

"Once you "see" it,you can't UNSEE IT.....

tanigororo:
She did not know what God has done for her

ANYONE that goes abroad for "greener pastures"...to work and earn a living(how does one even say they are "earning a living when they are already alive"?)is a SLAVE to the system...

Folks that are mentally emancipated don't bother about such trivial nonsense...

Great100000:
Lady Who Was Denied US and Canada Visas Multiple Times Opens Up, Displays Document Embassy Gave Her

• A young Nigerian lady drew people's attention to the letter the embassy gave her after her visa was rejected

• She mentioned that she applied for a US visa several times, but her application was rejected despite having complete documents

• She also shared her experience applying to Canada and explained how she finally got her student visa approved

A Nigerian lady who applied for a visa to travel abroad for education four different times has shared her experience after her visa was rejected on four occasions.

In the video, she showed the document she received from the US Embassy in Nigeria after her visa was rejected and revealed what she was told during the interview at the embassy.

Lady shares US, Canada visa rejection experience

She explained in the TikTok video that the experience made her feel bad because she believed there was no reason for her visa to be rejected, as all her documents were complete. Despite that, her application was rejected multiple times.

She applied to both the US and Canada, but her visa applications were still rejected.

@aishadollarz said in the video:

"You see this thing. This blue paper is what they'll give you at the American embassy in Nigeria when they deny your visa. I got two of these. I was denied an American visa twice."

"Why would they deny me? I felt like I had everything."

"I refused to accept defeat. When I got out of the embassy, I told my dad they did not give me the visa, but I'll come back and apply again."

"My family restrategized. They said, 'Let's do Canada this time,' so we used an agent."

After her visa was rejected four different times, she explained that she applied for master's programmes at different universities. Eventually, on her fifth visa application, her visa was approved just weeks before the resumption of academic activities at the university she chose.

She continued:

"I applied to the university. I applied for the master's, and by the time my dad called me and was asking what was the next step, I had already applied."

"I applied to two or three schools in the US, and then I got admission into a US university. I applied for the visa, and the approval came in less than a month."

Reactions as lady shares visa rejection experience

HAIR LAUNDRY by DAMMY stressed:

"Got denied after asking me just two questions next thing I hear is deny everywhere first blurrrr I was like I have e be everything with me and was not even ask to bring them out American embassy will stain ur white 😭😭😭😭😭 I just sat down one side they practically denied everyone there."

Digital Genius noted:

"We wey no get person wey dey run am for us nko... was denied USA 2 times."

Eyitee said:

"Got denied three times. 2 Canada and 1 Portugal for 3 different visas. Not giving up sha."

Samiah explained:

"I feel for you sis .disappointment can be very frustrating but then wen everything set you no go believe it . The fact that you kept on praying is really good coz it not really easy to face disappointment 4 time enhhh."

Sarah Oris noted:

"I watch to the end ooooo sha sha you left us in Nigeria ,you did well😂😂 I’m coming to meet you."

BnkLuxe Extensions shared:

"May God bless your Dad and may Canada be good to you."

Temmie_ace said:

"Alhamdullilah i only try canada twice nd i got tired but Alhamdullilah not stopping tho."

Tianah_fits✂️ wrote:

"Knowing how long and stressful the process can be,I can imagine the joy you felt the day the visa arrived."

Double "" added:

"Mine was 5 good times for SOWP to canada🇨🇦. On the 5th time, i applied for reconsideration request which was finally approved after 6weeks by november 28, 2025 will be in canada🇨🇦 by this january ending. and i did everything by my self."

Wale Opeyemi | studyvisaexpert said:

"When I tell people career progression is important when it comes to Canada study permit applications… now that’s not the only factor that gives you the visa oo but one of it … so work with a professional travel agent that knows how to handle applications."

Watch the video of the lady documenting her visa rejection experience below.
https://www.tiktok.com/video/7594560823444688135?_r=1&_t=ZS-97rV7n2AB88

Source: https://www.legit.ng/people/1718222-lady-denied-canada-visas-multiple-times-opens-displays-document-embassy-gave-her/

If you have some money...like 5 million dollars...

NO GOD DAMN Country will deny you Visa..

You won't even want to go anywhere,if it isn't change of environment for exposure,medicals or business..

Imagine Dangote being denied visa by even Heaven?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Visa denial na for "poor" folks...