jaksmillioniar:
jelous woman

hypocrite. Are you not a jealous man too? Or you'd be happy with a cheating wife? Divorce is the best option here. Cus if you don't divorce, he's still going to kill you with std. So what's the point. If you die, another woman will take care of ur kids. So one should leave while one is still alive

Rukkydelta:

I think you are the mad one here
Where in my post did I supported a second wife as the best option ? and Marcus didn't either
Please next time before you jump to just a conclusion try to look through

please, ignore her. She's not worth it. Trust me.

Rukkydelta:

I think you are the mad one here
Where in my post did I supported a second wife as the best option ? and Marcus didn't either
Please next time before you jump to just a conclusion try to look through

Please, ignore her. She's not worth it.

Prettythicksmi:
I choosed what i like! So you can go fuvk yourself, just stop spewing thrash goat.I am allergic to polygamus stuff. You can marry many wives, nobody cares!

there is nothing like 'choosed', sis. And obviously I'm not a goat lol. But all the same, take it easy on yourself. And always take your time to go through threads before commenting

Prettythicksmi:
You and marcus01 are both mad! So you want a second wife?what gives you the assurance that he won't still want a third wife? You both must be thinking with your anus.

wow. Calm down please and read through the thread. Wow. You're slow. I'm sorry to say. But it's the truth. It is well with you. Please take it easy on yourself

Prettythicksmi:
oh lawd!you mean i should accept a second wife? You must be insane!I am in my house coman beat me.

mehn, I have no words for you.

uzoormah:
Why should a lady steal...mumu gals everywhere

your question should be why should anybody steal.

ashewoboy:





what i don't get is why would you wanna cheat back on your husband? you should not cheat. be loyal to him. he is your husband.

lol imagine someone that is not loyal asking for loyalty. Does it sound well to you? Or you think it's a robot you're dealing with. You're cheating on a woman with veins and blood running through her. You receive only what u dish out. A cheat should be married to a cheat . You cnt be doing rubbish and expect a faithful wife. I don't just understand how people claim to love someone and still cause the person pain. Please, tell me. How do you do it please

Prettythicksmi:
He should cheat I don't want a fucking second wife.

... Yes, he will cheat and kill you with std. You have very low self esteem. So as wonderful as God created you, you don't deserve a man that will love you wholeheartedly? I can imagine the kind of lady you are with your comment

sgtponzihater1:


Men make mistake and should be forgotten. So because I cheated in d past my wife should leave me and leave d baby stranded. D guy has said d truth. Few Women may cheat, but men definitely cheat more in marriage, it's in their DNA, it take maturity and a firm decision to overcome it. A guy told me of how a man was arranging a hotel venue for his friends a day to his marriage, saw a cheap lady, asked for her price, played and still service her a day to his wedding. Men need prayers, patience and understanding.

Please don't ever say that. It is not in your DNA. Don't be a coward . You're a cheat. Own it. Own your title and be proud of it. Wear it like a boss. I have people that don't cheat. I have real men that don't cheat. They live up to their vows. Just look at what you said. Yes. Your wife can leave you. And the baby won't be stranded, mind you. She's going to leave with your baby. She's going to leave your cheating ass. Cus you can kill her with std. So what's d point? Men need prayers. Smh. Weak men claiming head of the family

ashewoboy:






I know they cheat buh the magnitude is not up to that of men. btw, why are you all over me? I stated my opinion whether you are cool with it or not, don't bother me.

I'm all over you cus you're not intelligent. I owe it to God to educate you. Women cheat, men cheat. The moment you realise that, u become a happy person. The solution is self control. Nobody should stay with a cheating partner. You keep saying Nigerian ladies. Like God gave them a special power to tolerate cheating men. We all deserve to be happy. And nobody should remain with a cheating partner. That is why marriage is not for babies. It's a whole lot of responsibility.

ashewoboy:






you don't get it. this is Nigeria, not abroad. the moment ladies understand this the better for them. that's all.

this is Nigeria, not abroad. Just listen to what you're saying. Nigerian ladies don't have the right to be happy? Don't u know the emotional trauma you put these women through when u cheat on them. I feel it's wickedness. I'd never cheat on someone I claim to love. If I fall out of love, I'd get a divorce and do what I want to do. Cheating is for cowards. Get out of the marriage if you're not happy.

ashewoboy:







a lady was veracious up there. the truth is that ladies prefer a cheat to a second wife. as long as he protects himself and he does not bring her to their matrimonial home, they can endure. not as if they like it but what can they do since the husband is a serial cheat. most men cheat, not all men. most ladies are faithful in marriage, few cheat. irony of life.

lol you're really behind. So you don't know most married women cheat? And mind you, all I wrote is for both men and women. It's for cheating wives and husbands. Tbh, most married women I know have cheated or are still cheating on their husbands. Don't just come here to type trash. People cheat. It's all abt lack of self control. Women cheat too.

ashewoboy:






why are women fond of threatening mean with cheat when men cheat? as a wife, are you supposed to cheat? you should be faithful to your husband whether he cheats or not.

wow. You're not smart. So a woman has shock absorber to someone cheating? What a man won't take, a woman should take it cus God gave us special organs to tolerate cheating? What's wrong with people? You were not brought up well. If they didn't teach you that you should treat people with love and you should never dish out what you won't take

sgtponzihater1:


That's why I told her not to judge. Because she is not God. My grandfather married 3 wife's and he was quite wealthy and a good man. A woman married a man who she knows is from a polygamous home, now d guy wants to marry a second wife she is blocking him. When we where marrying whe said she doesn't have any problem with it. But I will never marry a second wife again because if I do I may not leave long, because women can be dangerous.

thank God you know you won't live long if you do so

ashewoboy:






what's wrong with ladies in this 2017? this is nigeria, a woman is not allowed to do such.

lol. U think it was then that women didn't go to school and all they had was the peanuts given to them by their husbands. Things are changing bruh. And if you're using technology discovered by the west, u should go all the way. U cnt filter it and take the one you want. Things are changing. Women are getting empowered. Bn divorced is not a crime. Nobody should be allowed to stay with a cheating husband. You sit your kids down and tell them their dad is an ass hole and you're leaving him cus he's cheating and he can giv you std which can lead to your death. Women are allowed to do whatsoever they want to do. Stop living in stone age bro. Things are changing. Nobody should be cheated on and treated badly emotionally. We all deserve to be happy. Remain single If you cnt be faithful

Avalon316:


Did you just write that God won't answer his prayers because he is cheating on the wife.

Will God answer the prayer of you girls that have sex before marriage, commit abortion (murder) etc. ? Or you girls don't understand that abortion is murder. Most of you naija girls are murderers( have had abortion). Which is a bigger sin eh? Murder or formication?

You are not just intelligent. Typing 100 lines and making no sense won't sell your dumb post.

ode. Even the married man I wrote the post for replied with sense. You're just too dumb. Two people went before God to take oath and before witnesses to promise to stay together for better for worse. And one is cheating. You think God is happy with him? It doesn't even have to be financially. But their end is always terrible. You're talking abt girls sleeping with men. Are the girls married? Did they promise anybody to be loyal. If you know you won't follow ur vows, you don't have any business with bn married. Just stay on your own and have so many girls. Likewise ladies too. If you won't be faithful, stay single. We have enough miserable things to deal with in this country. Everything shouldn't be sex sex. Ur mates are discovering things. Helping the needy. You're talking abt having another wife.

.

sgtponzihater1:


Well, don't play judge. There is no crime anywhere against taking a second wife. You have totally ignored the topics question, in fact no lady answered the question, "would you prefer your husband to cheat or marry a second wife" , and no lady answered the question. I am not broke financially FYI, *I only wanted to assist a lady with a good heart who happens to be a colleague*, marriageable but still single, she wasn't broke and wouldn't pose a financial burden. But ladies in their selfishness made life miserable for me, in fact I suffered grately. I am no more considering that for now, as I want my peace.

lol u wanted to help a lady with a good heart. Do you know how many single men that are out there too without wives. But your wife is not saying she wants to help them. The topic should not even be up for discussion cus it doesn't make any sense. And thank God you stopped considering it. Cus the lives of men that do that don't usually turn out well. They get old and rejected. Even the kids end up abandoning them. Just focus on your wife, if she's doing anything bad. Talk to her. And pls don't giv your poor wife any std. There are so any diseases out there. God won't forgive you.

sgtponzihater1:


What are u saying. Someone I went openly to tell that I wanted another wife, so they'll be 2 and live like sisters and she refused, if I like cheating will I think of marrying her?

just put yourself in her shoes. Do not do what you can't take. How would you feel if it was the other way? If she told you there's a guy she likes and she wants you guys to be like brothers. How would u feel? Or you think your wife is not seeing those hot guys with six packs? Finer and richer men? She sees them. But it's all abt self control. You should have remained single if you knew a woman won't be enough for you. It's not by force to marry. All those sweet words u told her when you were courting. You promised to always love her. Didn't you? Now you want another wife. I really don't know how some of you men think. Treat your wife as you'd love to be treated. You're cheating. And def God won't answer your prayers. Cus the prayers of a sinner is an abomination unto God. Check yourself well. I'm sure you're not doing well financially. Cus God is not happy with you. You made a vow with your wife. Be faithful. Or you divorce her. It is very simple

sgtponzihater1:
Women are just too selfish. There was a time I wanted to marry a second wife, my wife fought me and even threatened to leave. But I've been dating DAT lady for a year without my wife knowing and my home was peaceful. Is that not selfishness? All the great men in the old testament had more than one wife. I just pitied d gal because I had already met her people, they knew I was married but was ready to give me their daughter. We now I have no choice than to remain with one woman for peace sake.

lol that's why you men die before your wives. You think this life is all about sex? Keep cheating. We'll see how you'll end up. You guys will do rubbish in your prime and become poor and sickly when you are old. Karma is waiting for you. And trust me, your wife knows you're cheating. She's just waiting for the right time to treat your Bleep up. No wonder kids love their mothers more

.

mooremoney:
Something must kill a man. They should free smokers joor. Why not banned alcohol too? Oh i forget it gives vitamin. Nonsense :-XSomething must kill a man. They should free smokers joor. Why not banned alcohol too? Oh i forget it gives vitamin. Nonsense

mumu. Atleast if u drink alcohol, na only u e go kill. Abi we dey share the same liver and kidney?. But smoking affects both the smoker and people around the smoker. It affects innocent people. The smoke is polluting the air. So stay in ur house and inhale ur smoke alone and also die alone. Since your life is not valuable. Olodo

And plainmirror is not even commenting. And he's viewing this thread