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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 3:21pm On Aug 27, 2017
sgtponzihater1:


That's why I told her not to judge. Because she is not God. My grandfather married 3 wife's and he was quite wealthy and a good man. A woman married a man who she knows is from a polygamous home, now d guy wants to marry a second wife she is blocking him. When we where marrying whe said she doesn't have any problem with it. But I will never marry a second wife again because if I do I may not leave long, because women can be dangerous.
thank God you know you won't live long if you do so

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by ashewoboy(m): 3:22pm On Aug 27, 2017
lalanice:
cheesy nawa o, so asking you your own questions in reverse is now a threat but it's so easy to throw it to ladies.

now I believe men prefer lies more than they are willing to admit. I should have just said. "yes yes please cheat on me as long as you don't bring her home" (like that new monicker in pg1 cheesy ) so that y'all will like me. cheesy cheesy

I'll try that next time






a lady was veracious up there. the truth is that ladies prefer a cheat to a second wife. as long as he protects himself and he does not bring her to their matrimonial home, they can endure. not as if they like it but what can they do since the husband is a serial cheat. most men cheat, not all men. most ladies are faithful in marriage, few cheat. irony of lifecheesy.

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 3:23pm On Aug 27, 2017
ashewoboy:






why are women fond of threatening mean with cheat when men cheat? as a wife, are you supposed to cheat? you should be faithful to your husband whether he cheats or not.
wow. You're not smart. So a woman has shock absorber to someone cheating? What a man won't take, a woman should take it cus God gave us special organs to tolerate cheating? What's wrong with people? You were not brought up well. If they didn't teach you that you should treat people with love and you should never dish out what you won't take

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 3:26pm On Aug 27, 2017
ashewoboy:







a lady was veracious up there. the truth is that ladies prefer a cheat to a second wife. as long as he protects himself and he does not bring her to their matrimonial home, they can endure. not as if they like it but what can they do since the husband is a serial cheat. most men cheat, not all men. most ladies are faithful in marriage, few cheat. irony of lifecheesy.
lol you're really behind. So you don't know most married women cheat? And mind you, all I wrote is for both men and women. It's for cheating wives and husbands. Tbh, most married women I know have cheated or are still cheating on their husbands. Don't just come here to type trash. People cheat. It's all abt lack of self control. Women cheat too.

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by ashewoboy(m): 3:27pm On Aug 27, 2017
Marcus01:
wow. You're not smart. So a woman has shock absorber to someone cheating? What a man won't take, a woman should take it cus God gave us special organs to tolerate cheating? What's wrong with people? You were not brought up well. If they didn't teach you that you should treat people with love and you should never dish out what you won't take





you don't get it. this is Nigeria, not abroad. the moment ladies understand this the better for them. that's all.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 3:29pm On Aug 27, 2017
ashewoboy:






you don't get it. this is Nigeria, not abroad. the moment ladies understand this the better for them. that's all.
this is Nigeria, not abroad. Just listen to what you're saying. Nigerian ladies don't have the right to be happy? Don't u know the emotional trauma you put these women through when u cheat on them. I feel it's wickedness. I'd never cheat on someone I claim to love. If I fall out of love, I'd get a divorce and do what I want to do. Cheating is for cowards. Get out of the marriage if you're not happy.

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by ashewoboy(m): 3:31pm On Aug 27, 2017
Marcus01:
lol you're really behind. So you don't know most married women cheat? And mind you, all I wrote is for both men and women. It's for cheating wives and husbands. Tbh, most married women I know have cheated or are still cheating on their husbands. Don't just come here to type trash. People cheat. It's all abt lack of self control. Women cheat too.





I know they cheat buh the magnitude is not up to that of men. btw, why are you all over me? I stated my opinion whether you are cool with it or not, don't bother me.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 3:39pm On Aug 27, 2017
ashewoboy:






I know they cheat buh the magnitude is not up to that of men. btw, why are you all over me? I stated my opinion whether you are cool with it or not, don't bother me.
I'm all over you cus you're not intelligent. I owe it to God to educate you. Women cheat, men cheat. The moment you realise that, u become a happy person. The solution is self control. Nobody should stay with a cheating partner. You keep saying Nigerian ladies. Like God gave them a special power to tolerate cheating men. We all deserve to be happy. And nobody should remain with a cheating partner. That is why marriage is not for babies. It's a whole lot of responsibility.

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by sgtponzihater1(m): 3:45pm On Aug 27, 2017
Marcus01:
I'm all over you cus you're not intelligent. I owe it to God to educate you. Women cheat, men cheat. The moment you realise that, u become a happy person. The solution is self control. Nobody should stay with a cheating partner. You keep saying Nigerian ladies. Like God gave them a special power to tolerate cheating men. We all deserve to be happy. And nobody should remain with a cheating partner. That is why marriage is not for babies. It's a whole lot of responsibility.

Men make mistake and should be forgotten. So because I cheated in d past my wife should leave me and leave d baby stranded. D guy has said d truth. Few Women may cheat, but men definitely cheat more in marriage, it's in their DNA, it take maturity and a firm decision to overcome it. A guy told me of how a man was arranging a hotel venue for his friends a day to his marriage, saw a cheap lady, asked for her price, played and still service her a day to his wedding. Men need prayers, patience and understanding.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by lalanice(f): 3:47pm On Aug 27, 2017
ashewoboy:







a lady was veracious up there. the truth is that ladies prefer a cheat to a second wife. as long as he protects himself and he does not bring her to their matrimonial home, they can endure. not as if they like it but what can they do since the husband is a serial cheat. most men cheat, not all men. most ladies are faithful in marriage, few cheat. irony of lifecheesy.
the truth is any lady that openly admits they don't mind a cheating husband has ulterior motive. I can't begin to tell you stories but most of the time these are ladies who only want to settle with a rich/wealthy man. well you might gather the rest from there

what I don't get is why men are happy to support cheating.

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 3:50pm On Aug 27, 2017
sgtponzihater1:


Men make mistake and should be forgotten. So because I cheated in d past my wife should leave me and leave d baby stranded. D guy has said d truth. Few Women may cheat, but men definitely cheat more in marriage, it's in their DNA, it take maturity and a firm decision to overcome it. A guy told me of how a man was arranging a hotel venue for his friends a day to his marriage, saw a cheap lady, asked for her price, played and still service her a day to his wedding. Men need prayers, patience and understanding.
Please don't ever say that. It is not in your DNA. Don't be a coward . You're a cheat. Own it. Own your title and be proud of it. Wear it like a boss. I have people that don't cheat. I have real men that don't cheat. They live up to their vows. Just look at what you said. Yes. Your wife can leave you. And the baby won't be stranded, mind you. She's going to leave with your baby. She's going to leave your cheating ass. Cus you can kill her with std. So what's d point? Men need prayers. Smh. Weak men claiming head of the family

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Aug 27, 2017
He should cheat grin grin I don't want a fucking second wife.

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Fearlez: 3:52pm On Aug 27, 2017
Prettythicksmi:
He should cheat grin grin I don't want a fucking second wife.
wise girl .
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Rukkydelta(f): 3:52pm On Aug 27, 2017
Avalon316:


Did you just write that God won't answer his prayers because he is cheating on the wife.

Will God answer the prayer of you girls that have sex before marriage, commit abortion (murder) etc. ? Or you girls don't understand that abortion is murder. Most of you naija girls are murderers( have had abortion). Which is a bigger sin eh? Murder or formication?

You are not just intelligent. Typing 100 lines and making no sense won't sell your dumb post.
Same way God won't answer the prayers of men that commit fornication and adultery. And men that also ask girls to abort their baby and give them money to do so
They are both murderers and will surely be judge
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 3:53pm On Aug 27, 2017
Prettythicksmi:
He should cheat grin grin I don't want a fucking second wife.
... Yes, he will cheat and kill you with std. You have very low self esteem. So as wonderful as God created you, you don't deserve a man that will love you wholeheartedly? I can imagine the kind of lady you are with your comment

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Rukkydelta(f): 4:02pm On Aug 27, 2017
Marcus01 just seeing your comments here makes me happy
Keep on doing the good job cos most peeps here are just suffering from ignorance

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Aug 27, 2017
Rukkydelta:

Same way God won't answer the prayers of men that commit fornication and adultery. And men that also ask girls to abort their baby and give them money to do so
They are both murderers and will surely be judge

Lol. All the murderers are feeling guilty . Guilty conscience? Why did you kill the innocent soul? Why ?? May their souls rest in peace.

IF YOU EVER COMMITTED ABORTION, YOU HAVE A PERMANENT RESIDENCY IN THE HOTTEST PART OF HELL. YOU CANT ESCAPE IT.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by YourImaginaryBF: 4:08pm On Aug 27, 2017
prestigiouslady:
Of course, yes. I'll surely have a second husband too. There is no harm in sharing.
grin
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Rukkydelta(f): 4:09pm On Aug 27, 2017
Avalon316:


Lol. All the murderers are feeling guilty .

IF YOU EVER COMMITTED ABORTION, YOU HAVE A PERMANENT RESIDENCY IN THE HOTTEST PART OF HELL. YOU CANT ESCAPE IT.

Lol
Just trying to correct what's bias in your post
Yeah and amen if ever commit abortion may hell be my permanent residence
Good evening
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Don4mark: 4:15pm On Aug 27, 2017
have ever wondered what is sexual deprivation and what it can cause in marriage..... then you need to read this https://www.thepagemagazine.com/2017/06/18/sexual-deprivation-marriage/
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by ashewoboy(m): 4:40pm On Aug 27, 2017
lalanice:
the truth is any lady that openly admits they don't mind a cheating husband has ulterior motive. I can't begin to tell you stories but most of the time these are ladies who only want to settle with a rich/wealthy man. well you might gather the rest from there

what I don't get is why men are happy to support cheating.




what i don't get is why would you wanna cheat back on your husband? you should not cheat. be loyal to him. he is your husband.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 4:47pm On Aug 27, 2017
ashewoboy:





what i don't get is why would you wanna cheat back on your husband? you should not cheat. be loyal to him. he is your husband.
lol imagine someone that is not loyal asking for loyalty. Does it sound well to you? Or you think it's a robot you're dealing with. You're cheating on a woman with veins and blood running through her. You receive only what u dish out. A cheat should be married to a cheat . You cnt be doing rubbish and expect a faithful wife. I don't just understand how people claim to love someone and still cause the person pain. Please, tell me. How do you do it please

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Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Aug 27, 2017
Marcus01:
... Yes, he will cheat and kill you with std. You have very low self esteem. So as wonderful as God created you, you don't deserve a man that will love you wholeheartedly? I can imagine the kind of lady you are with your comment
oh lawd!you mean i should accept a second wife? You must be insane!I am in my house coman beat me. undecided
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 5:49pm On Aug 27, 2017
Prettythicksmi:
oh lawd!you mean i should accept a second wife? You must be insane!I am in my house coman beat me. undecided
mehn, I have no words for you.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Aug 27, 2017
Rukkydelta:
Marcus01 just seeing your comments here makes me happy
Keep on doing the good job cos most peeps here are just suffering from ignorance
You and marcus01 are both mad! So you want a second wife?what gives you the assurance that he won't still want a third wife? You both must be thinking with your anus. cheesy cheesy
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 5:53pm On Aug 27, 2017
Prettythicksmi:
You and marcus01 are both mad! So you want a second wife?what gives you the assurance that he won't still want a third wife? You both must be thinking with your anus. cheesy cheesy
wow. Calm down please and read through the thread. Wow. You're slow. I'm sorry to say. But it's the truth. It is well with you. Please take it easy on yourself
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Aug 27, 2017
Marcus01:
mehn, I have no words for you.
Gerrarahere Mehnnnn shiit!Try borrow sense if you don't have money to buy. grin
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Aug 27, 2017
Marcus01:
wow. Calm down please and read through the thread. Wow. You're slow. I'm sorry to say. But it's the truth. It is well with you. Please take it easy on yourself
I choosed what i like! So you can go fuvk yourself, just stop spewing thrash goat.I am allergic to polygamus stuff. You can marry many wives, nobody cares!
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Marcus01: 6:03pm On Aug 27, 2017
Prettythicksmi:
I choosed what i like! So you can go fuvk yourself, just stop spewing thrash goat.I am allergic to polygamus stuff. You can marry many wives, nobody cares!
there is nothing like 'choosed', sis. And obviously I'm not a goat lol. But all the same, take it easy on yourself. And always take your time to go through threads before commenting
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by pocohantas(f): 6:04pm On Aug 27, 2017
Efewestern:


you ladies lack morals, you expect us to clean up your mess.

When a single guy goes after a married woman you will see guys discouraging him, insulting him and making sure he backs out, but if it's ladies, they will advise the single girl to sleep with the married man provided there is money, why are you now complaining ?

Go n tell you fellow ladies to let married men be, am a guy and I don't fancy any married lady, won't even get an erection for any married lady, preach to your fellow girls and let us be.


Stop churning facts out of your ass to make a point. Where have you ever seen ladies encouraging themselves to sleep with married men, except if they are all side chicks.

We have side guys too, they also encourage each other. It's their line of business.

On every thread a woman cheats, she is the one that gets majority of the insult. Whether you guys encourage such guys or not is totally irrelevant. It doesn't stop them from sleeping with married women. Same way discouraging such girls won't stop it, so far married men remain willing.

The only thing is, unlike men...women are very coded. A married man can easily tell his friend he has a side chic, a married woman would most likely never tell anyone, even her shadow.

Plz, you men should begin to take actions and stop blaming the other woman. Having in mind that men claim to be more sensible.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Aug 27, 2017
Marcus01:
there is nothing like 'choosed', sis. And obviously I'm not a goat lol. But all the same, take it easy on yourself. And always take your time to go through threads before commenting
oh Mr know it all, you are sighted. grin If you are not a goat, you won't keep quoting pple spewing thrash.I am entitled to my opinion,so carry your gutter mouth comot here. I would not be unfortunate in my life to accept a second wife.
Re: Would You Prefer Your Husband Cheat Or Take A Second Wife?? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Aug 27, 2017
Marcus01:
wow. Calm down please and read through the thread. Wow. You're slow. I'm sorry to say. But it's the truth. It is well with you. Please take it easy on yourself
I only give a simple ans to the topics, don't need to go through the thread. I hate stress mehnnn,you can summarize for me.

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