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I love this post. But i want advice on any trade or business a young lady can engage on, with little income for a start of about =N=50,000.

i will appreciate positive inputs, comments and advice.

I really appreciate all ur post and commment @chasong tanks very much i really appreciate d post, Have given him distance for 3weeks now but the distance is really killing me now I dont want him thinking i dont care about him because he has not been calling either but when we see it tells in his face that he cares but going through emotional distress, I really dont want to lose him

hello everyone on this trend i have a problem that i really need advice from u all, I met a guy that claims he love me and wants me for marriage , i do love him too but the problem here is his girl friend or i should call her ex-g/friend the girl is so obsessed about him and clings to him alot. But since we met i told him to keep a distance with me until he sort out his problem with his g/friend though he was nt happy about it. I found out about the obsession yesterday when the girl called his close friend and the friend ask me to take up the call and she was all hagging on d phone. I had to ask his friend what d problem his , that was when he told me that my boy friend and the girl has courted for 9yrs , from school days i was shocked n he said the guy never promised her marriage but she is just having an obsession, though i felt for her, she called more than 20times n d guy refuse taking the calling saying he is tired of her childish behaviour and moreover he does not kw where her man his, Though he know that his friend is so much intrested in me cos he asked me out n i told him love the friend n nt him , So i dont kw what to do, I can visit my boyfriend because of her n my guy has been affording her seriously yet she does nt want to give up, Although my b\f said i shouldnt worry about her , but as a girl i should cos he kind of want us to get married soon and i dont kw what to do

fellow nairalanders i need advice from you, i have a guy that really wants me for a serious relationship and i love him too but the problem i have with him is his smoking habit , though he is responsible, he does not smoke weeds just the normal cigarette. But am not so confortable with it but he said i can make him quit smoking i shouldnt leave him because of that, so my question is how can i make him quit, steps to take and all that though have been praying to God to change him but i still need advice from you guys , i will appreciate your contributions

Sallam Alekum My fellow Muslim

Allihamdullah its another Year again, May the Blessing of Almighty Allah be on Us all this peacefull year (Amin)

Muslim women are not required to cover their face and hands.

remember,

"Verily, this religion (of ours) is simple and easy to follow; whoever makes it hard will only be overwhelmed by it."

well said. We just need to be careful with what some people come out to preach all in the name of Islam.

@frizy

I wont ask you for sex while we're unmarried. In fact, I would teach you Islam in a stylic fundamental
way but yet kind and affectionate.

I assumed your are kidding right

Salaam Alekum
Infact i just cant express my gratitude to all of You that have contributed to this post
I never knew we still have people like this in Islam to be sincere He is the second Muslim guy have dated that is why i give up hopes that all muslim guys should be the same but pretending in the outer shell. Am really very greatful for your contribution.

The truth is i just wish this my Igbo guy will convert but to be sincere it will really be difficult like what one of the posters said but nothing is not possible. He is someone that reminds me of salaat when its time for it. and If he comes for visit he likes to Salaam to me and ask me if have observed my prayers before any further disscusion. duing Ramadan, he knows the rules and abide to them. And above all he is ready to learn things about Islam and to know the do's and dont.

Infact this is usually fun when we discuss about our believe and hear each others view about a particular Issue

I will stick to what you all advice because i know you all want the best for me. But deep down i know if we eventually dont end up together, His memories will always linger with me no matter where I will be.

Salaam

Salaam Aleykum fellow Brothers and sisters in Islam.
I want you people to advice me on what to do because am very confuse.
I am a student in one of the Universities in Nigeria. In my first year I met a guy who is from the eastern part of this country that was asking me out I declined because He is a Christian Although I liked his person. But he insist it’s not a problem that we should just allow God see to it I still stood my ground and he accepted and choose to be my friend. And later I met a Muslim guy was happy because of the love he professed and his characteristics as a Muslim and we happen to be from the same state and speak the same tongue. I fell in love with him so much that I got to know other family member. Till date I and the sister are so close that people find it hard to believe we are not related. But lately things took turn when I knew he was cheating on me, the first time I caught him red handed, he came pleading that I just had to forgive him thinking he will change this time he actually break my heart by cheating on me again with a Christian girl and from the eastern part of the state.

I could not really bear the pains because I was so into the relationship I never cheated on him, I told him about my male friend some times he will say that I may be cheating on him with this guy the truth is we were just friends. My guy was actually cheating on me due to sex and nothing else.

I refuse to go into a sexual relationship and I told him at first he accepted the later he started pressurizing me by saying he can’t cope since he has had sex before it’s difficult for him to abstain after about 8months relationship with me. And he ended up cheating on me with a girl we all knew in the house as a friend and she even knew we were dating. It’s so painful that she is not even ashamed about it. To the extend that when I call my guy she picks the phone to warn me to stay clear off her guy it really baffles me. I cried for months and still can get over it. My friend never knew that my guy’s sister is not my cousin and he was the one that stood by me and today am so much in love with him. He never bothers me about sex for like 2 and half years now that have known him and does anything to make me happy, Am considering having sex with him soon not for anything but for love even if I don’t end up marrying him because is so frustrating meeting our fellow Muslim that will still be demanding for premarital sex. And am 22yrs and still a virgin.
The truth is my parents will not even hear of it an Igbo and a Christian for that matter.
Am just confuse, I find happiness in him and he does too but how do we go about it?
Should I stay with him or wait for another Muslim guy?
Please advice me on what to do
Jazakullah Khairan