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Happy New year love

daveP:
(walks in hand in pocket, with a drink in his left hand, looks up at the gigantic countdown clock as it chimes away. Notices the bustle and movement for last minute preps)


(exhales, climbs atop podium)

2015..... This is for all the friends, etc that made the 1st day of this year to the very last to be something worth it, happy reflect-worthy. 52weeks waving goodbye, and i can see many faces happy to survive, to be a part of the new year. Gracias to these wonderful personalities as i jot a thing or two....



To my e-fam members

Lanicky: contunu the 'goodwork' youve been awesome

Charijee and Cheripet: i learnt a thing or two from you two. HNY

Immortalvoices: You keep calling me tha boss, i think you are. Talented G.

Logodwhiz- Greater heights i pray.

Toniro, Jigsawkillah(guy you get rep, no be small o), Tempem, Seunfavor, Laveda, Starshyne, etc you all were great. It was wonderful, fun e-serving you(crazy chef)


Amicable, hardworking maestros and Ladies, Fellow Judges of the Prestigious Mr&Miss Nl Contest. Tha best and hottest on this forum:
Dygeasy
Mizmycoli
Karchisbarbie
Friedplantain
Ivyy
Dechandel

A big thank you. Few appreciation comes for hardwork that few can see, but i cant but say you've all been wonderful. Appreciate you guys One Loff! (dodges a limca bottle hurled@his head)


To my personal persons

KelvinGraphics
Dahjhi
Adufetohposh
Afrok-How that jerrycan ministry? jst kidding o.
Omavik

and the online personalities i admire/respect and i follow/otherwise

Sleekyshuga
Lalasticlala
Caracta
Kingtom
Marieolae
PrettySpicey


(a bottle of squash sails thru the air and this time around, meets its target, silence, then silence again.)

Uhm thank you very much, i very much appreciate that. A lovely reminder.

Thank you all and welcome to 2016, join me at that doorway so we can show the world that we're the 1st to shout HNY, and (interrupted as they move en masse toward the said spot with noise and excitement)


Happy New Yeaar.

(somewhere behind stage, a lil boy dances to Niyi Adedokun's Ayo ni maa fi la odun yi ja) huh!

Decker:
Wow, I am quite elated to hear this from you. Thanks.

All your comments are amazing, I learn quite a lot from you. Thumbs up
[size=4pt]I secretly stalk [/size]

Decker:
First of all, my heart goes out to your girlfriend. I thank God she wasn't raped and she made it out alive.

What your girlfriend is going through is a post traumatic psychological response to what she suffered. The problem is not with you, she'd definitely react the same way to any guy who tries to touch her.

Most times, the aftermath of a rape encounter deals a hard blow on the mind and general psychology of women. It's understandable. But what you should do is give her some space, and by that I mean; don't try to engage her in any sexual activity, for now. Let her emotional and psychological wounds heal first. It might take time to heal, and you have to be patient. Don't rush her into anything now.

I would also advice that you see a psychologist that would guide her through this tough process and time in her life. She also needs you to be there by her side, so, in trying to give her space, and letting her wounds heal, don't stray too far, still always endeavor to be by her side. Let her know that you are always there to protect her no matter what. Give her that assurance and try to make her feel happy and secure always, and hopefully, with time, she will come through.

You could also advice her to peruse through the web, there are definitely websites or forums that deal specifically with people that have passed through similar rape cases. She can spend some time on these sites, read people's own experiences and how they handled theirs and maybe conversing with them. This could also help in speeding up the healing process.

softappless:
What is marieolae even reading?

joseph1832:
Hello. Been a while I saw you around, hope all is good?.

What's your real moniker

DonChippy:
Don't worry, I'll calm her down since she's my babe.
Just ask first when she's online.

Ayt27:
Shay na santa be this abi na satan?

hmmmm

cupidhero:
Wu tang clan ain't nothing to fucckkkk with! Mariolae is cool,she easily gets tired of people & things sha.

0ldirtybastard:
Marieolae I still respect.




ODB was here.

Ok oh..oga i don hear

Hahaha Mr know it all..I'll slap you now, be careful

DonChippy:
See ehn Marie, that diary is just you. You were too real to be ignored.
Granted we all grow up and sometimes our past deeds can be hunting but it's all part of the process.

*******

Now I can't let this slide, you and dechandel are so fake. Does it mean ya'll ain't talking offline despite that you both school in the same country?

I give up.

Hian no wonder..School Is stressful
I get tired of education sometimes lol
I'll pm you..we've got loadddsss to catch up on

dechandel:
Sweetie I have been somewhere in between essays, reports, case studies, wrapping up Christmas gifts and trying to have a minute me time!!

What's up with you? Been a longgggg while!!

You sef just vanish like ghost
Mehn I'm just living my quiet life oo..How's youu
I get gist oo

priscaoge:
U still dey this planet? Babe eyaf tey ooooooo

I don't understand

immortalvoices:
Marie


Free yourself, make LIGHT your burden

If you can't manage 10 naira how will you fare when you have 100 naira

pneumaticos:
All of yoy missed the point,,,no matter the
financial capacity of a woman,she will always need something from a man,this may be emotional needs or physical needs,no matter how rich a woman is,she will cherish the gift a man gives to her,...the writer is actually talking about the position of men in a womans life