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Send a text message, wait a day, then try a call if nothing happens. Phrase your words, to say checking in, just in case you sent it, I didn't not receive it. If not, happy/patient to wait for your email.

Hollyharjii:
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I'm not here to comment on the subject matter but for a professional advice


Please I did a pre-interview (via telephone call) with one Recruiter on Monday 27/02/23 and the recruiter was happy with the way I responded to all questions been asked, and said she'll be expecting a mail in respect to the actual interview, but till now 02/03/23, I have been checking my mail each millisecond

Please should I call the recruiter as I saved the number after the call or I should wait more


Please I need a professional advice.

Hello guys,

How does one get a police certificate from outside Nigeria?

Thanks

Hello guys,

How does one get a police certificate from outside Nigeria?

Thanks

Hello guys,

How does one get a police certificate from outside Nigeria?

Thanks

I have my own thoughts, but I would love to hear what you think.

With all the empty houses in Nigeria, why don't Landlords reduce rent and get tenants in?

And why is it that more property developers dont agree to rent to own schemes?

Hello guys,

Con someone please help with an estimate on the cost of building a condominium block.

I know there are many factors, so this is a rough estimate. Ignore cost of the land.

Building should house 500 - 600 units. Unit types can be equal mix of 1 to 3 bedrooms.
Enough internal car space (preferably from the ground to 3rd floor) to match the number of units.

Room quality should be such that one should be able to fairly get an average rent of 400 - 600k per unit.

Thanks.

Hello guys,

Con someone please help with an estimate on the cost of building a condominium block.

I know there are many factors, so this is a rough estimate. Ignore cost of the land.

Building should house 500 - 600 units. Unit types can be equal mix of 1 to 3 bedrooms.
Enough internal car space (preferably from the ground to 3rd floor) to match the number of units.

Room quality should be such that one should be able to fairly get an average rent of 400 - 600k per unit.

Thanks.

Can I get some advice on this?

I am planning a wedding. My original plan was something moderately priced, not too big. Though of course, my woman would like something extra special, she is supportive on our moderate budget. However, seems some top people would be attending by the look of things, and contributions, support has been flying in especially from her side.

Some of my close well off friends say I need to increase my budget . A few of my family members saying the same thing. In a way, it will bite me for now, but I can afford it. In a year's time, I think I would have balanced out.

I have read on threads here, advice on minimal expenditure. However, I also know you cant place a value on human relationships and network. Left to 2 of us, we just want a happy memorable day. However, one can consider families, social, cultural factors. I think some people here would understand what I am trying to say.

It is also possible I am looking for a reason to convince myself. What would you advise?

How did you choose your groomsmen?

I never responded to this. Thank you, this is very good advice.

Yusufisraelj:
My guy as your level keeps going up, you will notice the following with rich and struggling friends.

Rich friends aren't loyal (most of them), they may steal an opportunity or idea from you and impliment it, and may not compromise their lifestyle for you, mostly they don't care about you but the strategic advantage you bring to them etc

Struggling friends may act loyal, just to fit in and not get you offended, else they lose their support structure (most of them), all your suggestions are okay and the likes, Some are always putting their problems on you and will not seek for tangible ways to become financially independent etc

My advice

Search among your rich and struggling folks sincerity; the willingness to remain true and want to be right and honest in all they do, only keep this kinds close and mingle with them.

Not perfection, bkos everyone is a work in progress, even more importantly you cannot be going up and be keeping certain struggling or rich friends, you will have to edit your circles to keep people of integrity, else your attacks will come from friends without character, opportunist, pretender's etc.

You should edit your circles along your lines of convictions, you cannot love God and keep friends who don't, you cannot love hardwork and appreciate process and entertain those who don't, bkos friendship influences big time.

There's a lot to talk about, but I hope this helps.

Hello all,

Reposting here.. so i can get more responses.. thanks

So I want advice on this.

Background is I am the average guy that was very broke in the past, jobless for some time, doing my little hustling, and now after some big breaks doing well (thanks to God). There are many of my guys we were all hustling together, for some, things are better, for some, not yet. Along to the way to my present position, I've made lots of new, well off friends, in professional and social circles.

I'm comfortable been with very rich friends who can spend 1m in a day, at the same time also comfortable going to bukka with my other guys for 200 naira eba and okro soup. I dont use money to judge if someone is a friend. Now some people have been advising that this is naive, and I should maintain my new social class. There is some truth there because I've experienced a few drag downs, but overall it's still ok.

So if I am getting married now, all the rich guys want to show up for me, do I invite some friends who are still gathering themselves? Is it unfair to them to ask them to be groomsmen? Or to ask them to pay xx amount for clothes? I've toyed with the idea of paying for those who dont have enough, dunno if that makes sense.

One person fi dey ask me 10k support, the other one go dey invite me for event wey go chop 500k. Loyalty is a big value for me, so I guess that's why I still hold dear all my old guys. I notice the well off are sometimes snobbish, or want to maintain certain standards. In the past, I might have thought that was bad, but with some experience, I also understand why people do that.

What's the best way to handle these different types of friends?

Officialgarri:
Don't you think your claim is contradicting?

Yes it is contradicting, I think that is the essence of why I am feeling conflicted. I want to invite them. But is it fair to them? If I dont have much, and my guy is inviting me to come and spend a lot of money, I wont be comfortable.. In that moment, that isnt helping me life. So should I just invite them anyway, and they'll sort themselves out? Some of these guys ask me for support from time to time, or even owe me. Its no wahala, I know they'll return when they have.

What's the best way to handle these different types of friends?
Thanks

Hello all,

So I want advice on this.

Background is I am the average guy that was very broke in the past, jobless for some time, doing my little hustling, and now after some big breaks doing well (thanks to God). There are many of my guys we were all hustling together, for some, things are better, for some, not yet. Along to the way to my present position, I've made lots of new, well off friends, in professional and social circles.

I'm comfortable been with very rich friends who can spend 1m in a day, at the same time also comfortable going to bukka with my other guys for 200 naira eba and okro soup. I dont use money to judge if someone is a friend. Now some people have been advising that this is naive, and I should maintain my new social class. There is some truth there because I've experienced a few drag downs, but overall it's still ok.

So if I am getting married now, all the rich guys want to show up for me, do I invite some friends who are still gathering themselves? Is it unfair to them to ask them to be groomsmen? Or to ask them to pay xx amount for clothes? I've toyed with the idea of paying for those who dont have enough, dunno if that makes sense.

One person fi dey ask me 10k support, the other one go dey invite me for event wey go chop 500k. Loyalty is a big value for me, so I guess that's why I still hold dear all my old guys. I notice the well off are sometimes snobbish, or want to maintain certain standards. In the past, I might have thought that was bad, but with some experience, I also understand why people do that.

What's the best way to handle these different types of friends?