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LiteratureRe: unHOLY MATRIMONY by Mario1983(m): 9:21am On Mar 20, 2015
thanks for the update, trouble in paradise
LiteratureRe: Why I Want To Be Bad - A Story by Mario1983(m): 12:53pm On Mar 14, 2015
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LiteratureRe: Black Maria by Mario1983(m): 4:03pm On Mar 12, 2015
nice one, following
LiteratureRe: MY JOURNEY TO Eko(lagos). Part1 Episode 1 Story By Kelly9ice by Mario1983(m): 4:12pm On Mar 11, 2015
nwoke kedu ife na'me, abeg come update
LiteratureRe: Flow And Snow by Mario1983(m): 5:20pm On Feb 26, 2015
nwanne wetin for updating
LiteratureRe: Story Of Addiction..... (love Story) by Mario1983(m): 4:02am On Feb 26, 2015
nice story, following
LiteratureRe: I Killed My Husband. (a Short Tragedy) by Mario1983(m): 4:03pm On Jan 13, 2015
wow nice story
LiteratureRe: The Devils Advocate- The 666 (I Am Not Responsible For Whatever You See Or Read) by Mario1983(m): 2:32pm On Jan 12, 2015
Nice story waiting for update
LiteratureRe: Why I Want To Be Bad - A Story by Mario1983(m): 11:10am On Jan 11, 2015
haba chistar I read this story the first chapter on naijastories.com yesterday, guy no fall my hand this story has gotten to me like a virus in my system
LiteratureRe: Story Of Addiction..... (love Story) by Mario1983(m): 10:25am On Jan 07, 2015
chia love is wicked
LiteratureRe: Why I Want To Be Bad - A Story by Mario1983(m): 2:12pm On Jan 02, 2015
wow, love d story following
LiteratureRe: "Last Night" by Mario1983(m): 9:19am On Jan 02, 2015
good wan, following
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LiteratureRe: Why I Want To Be Bad - A Story by Mario1983(m): 5:05pm On Jan 01, 2015
OK bro,
LiteratureRe: Why I Want To Be Bad - A Story by Mario1983(m): 6:29am On Dec 19, 2014
chistar01:
Hi guys, I owe you all an explanation for not posting yesterday. I Had a series of tests and was stuck in school all day so didn't have anytime to type. Tomorrow is a lecture free day for me and I plan on staying on this thread all day, typing and updating... No proof reading... Just straight from my head. So be around.

PEACe.
me like that
Nairaland GeneralRe: Vibrator Wahala For Married Men by Mario1983(op): 6:49am On Dec 17, 2014
A friend said
To be candid with you, I will better allow my wife to used it, than to
go out and be sleeping with everyone on street, you know that you
are busy to give her what he want, and how can you have a child
when you are to busy to do your duty, all you have to do is to let
her be using it, if you don't want her to bring HIV home for you,
what you dint know is that she's adictted to it and she enjoy it
more than when someone is on her, I think she's happy having sexy
with toys, to me I will say look for a time, go to doctor check on
yourslef and check her up too, to see what is causing the delay for
the baby, after that encourage her to be using the toys. I ant you to
believe this it will get to a stage that she will be tired of the toys,
and when she's pregnant she will reduce it, and toys will give you
more rellief if you don't like sexy, thanks God that your wife dont
know how to sleep with other man, all you need is to encourage
her to be using it, I travel a lot and I don't mind getting one for my
wife, because she's a human too. Thanks
hahaha funny
Nairaland GeneralVibrator Wahala For Married Men by Mario1983(op): 6:39am On Dec 17, 2014
Meet a 34 year old hard working and very focussed banker, while his wife whom
he met at the university works as a secretary in travelling agency. They are both Christians and have been married for close to three
years, but he would rather not take his vibrator problems to his pastor for personal reasons.

He has tried to work things out with hi wife when he notice she was not interested in having sex with him but it has not yielded any positive result as his not convinced about the situation. he feel too
ashamed to discuss the problem with his pastor and even worse with his mother because he know that will only escalate things. Trust me, he know his mother and mothers generally. As for his friends, he was afraid they might turn around to use it against him and make him the butt of their jokes

His problem started last December, over the festive period to be precise. He caught his wife on their matrimonial bed having sex with a
vibrator. He almost collapsed because he was shocked beyond what words can describe. he found himself shaking from head to toe, unable to even say anything. He felt so disgusted and sick that he had to rush to the bathroom to splash water over his face to avoid vomiting.
She must have been so engrossed in what she was doing that she did not even know when he entered their apartment and walked into the room to find her in that position. It was his movement that brought her back to reality. What he found most disturbing at that moment was why she could not wait for him if she was so in need of sex, since he’d called her earlier on
that he was on his way home. And though she got up immediately and started pleading with him that it was the devil, he did not bring himself to talk to her until very early in the morning of the next day.

She told him a friend in her office had given it to her to try out and it was her first time of using it. And that she would have told him about it but wanted to try it out first. She mentioned somebody’s name which she said he have never met and pleaded that she would return it and never use it again. She managed to convince him that it was an innocent one-off-thing which he did not need to bother himself about
and he accepted.
But it was difficult for him to forget as he kept seeing the picture of her in that position in his head and wondering if it was right for a married, Christian woman to be doing such a thing. To him, it is something made by the Satan for his children.

Later that week, she told him she had returned it and things went back to normal between them but he was surprised to find the instrument again in her underwear drawer by accident. She was not at home, so he took it out and laid it on her side of the bed. As soon as she came home and saw it, she went on her knees again and began to beg him She said she did not know how to return the thing since it was a gift
and would not want to upset her colleague at the office, nor embarrass herself. She insisted she was not using it and was also scouting for
whom she too can give it to.

Since he did not catch her using it, he had no choice but to let it go. However, he was not comfortable and began suspecting her. he later
hatched a plan to catch her and before long, it worked. What he saw that evening was worse than the previous one and still haunts him till
today.
He’d never seen his wife look that way before even when we are doing it. he was transfixed that he had to hide quietly behind the door way to allow her finish before he opened the door. Immediately his wife went on her knees, begging that it was the devil again.

He refused to talk to her and walked out of the apartment. he just walked round and round the neighbourhood because he felt lost and didn’t know where to go or who to talk to.he felt thoroughly betrayed. he had never looked at another woman in his life, before and even after he met her. he’d never looked at porn magazines or movie, not to talk of having a girlfriend, and worse still, owning a intimacy gadget.
he could only manage to keep his anger for two days as she kept crying and asking for forgiveness, promising never to use it again. he could not bear to see her that way too, so, he insisted she had to tell him the truth. She then told him that since the matter was no longer a secret, it was better she confessed everything to me. She said the vibrator was hers and she had been using it even before she became a born again Christian, as she was introduced to it while in Secondary school. (A girls only school) he didn’t understand the logic, but she said it was a way to show that they did not need male company? Were they Lesbians?

She insisted they were not. When she became “born again” in the university, she stopped, she said. This was where we met and started
first as friends, then he got the message that she was his wife and eventually got married two years after our service year. She said she was forced to go and buy another vibrator after a discussion with some ladies in her office about how much they enjoyed their sex life
and she missed the fun she used to have. She also told him that she does not get satisfaction from what we do together but did not want to hurt his feelings by telling him and begged him to allow her to continue using the thing and that it will not affect what they have together, after all, I never would have guessed it, if I had not caught her using it.

His problem now is that, though he have not caught her again in almost two months, his still not happy because he know she is doing it and its disgusting to him. Though she says it will not affect them, it is already affecting him because anytime I want to have sex with her, that picture comes to my mind and spoils my mood. I will have to just force myself because I have nowhere else to relieve myself.
work schedule is very tight as he works in the bank and have to leave home very early in the morning and most times, don’t return home
until around 10pm or even later.

also taking some professional courses, so, that also takes away most of his weekends. But his wife work is not demanding, so she has more than enough time on her hands to do all she wants before I return. Before you ask what he have done to make their love life better, he have tried to do everything she tells him, and though she says she is now enjoying it, his not convinced. he doesn't see that look on her face. And it is making him feel inadequate as a husband. they have been married for three years and we are yet to conceive a child and he sometimes wonder if this is her priority.
she know what he's facing with his mother and family on that issue alone, not to now add this one to it. Have he not bitten more than he can chew with this girl? His wife is unfaithful to him with a vibrator and his powerless to do anything about it.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Most Men Cannot Accept A Woman Who Makes More Money… by Mario1983(op): 3:39pm On Dec 16, 2014
hahn:
Word!

Most women tend to become too bossy when they start earning more money(guys too sha). I have a friend who is currently in such a relationship and his wife can never stop bragging and announcing what she has achieved or her new project thereby making it obvious that the guy isn't earning enough. However, if my wife starts earning more than me and is still able to be as loving as she is, she'll get nothing but my full support.
but with time she might see you as a burden
Nairaland GeneralMost Men Cannot Accept A Woman Who Makes More Money… by Mario1983(op): 1:29pm On Dec 16, 2014
We can all accept that the socioeconomic dynamic of relationships have drastically changed over the last 20 years.
Women have knocked down so many social and economic walls and many cases are in situations where they happen
to make more than their mate. The general social structure of a man being the primary or majority bread-winner has
almost been destroyed. The problem is that our mentality hasn’t changed to accommodate this new dynamic of life.
The honest harsh truth is that most men will not be able to truly accept a woman who makes significant more money
than him…
Yeah I said it!
But, this issue isn’t just the problem of a man not being able to have evolved to be able to accept this. The problem
also lies in the bed of some women too.
Most men grow-up being taught to be a protector and provider for the women in his family. Society projects to him
that a “man” takes care of the woman in his life (financially). Also, the darker side of the game is that
through survival of the fittest of viewing most men have seen that the more financial stable you are the more women
will want you. Men learn at an early age that with most women personality really doesn’t get you as far as the
proverbial money, power, and respect.
I know I was taught from the “playas”(uncles, cousins, and older associates) that if you aren’t “taking care” of your
woman another man can easily come and “take her”(financially or upgrading mentally). One of the main reasons most
men can’t accept a woman who makes a significant more money than them is… the male ego. The male ego can be the
strongest part of a man’s soul and the most fragile at the same time. A man’s ego is tied to the majority of the things
he does in life (that and Noncie ). If a man does not feel as if he is being a part of him will feel incomplete. A man
feels at his highest point of who when he is able to create and make things around him a reality. Any man wants to
the best for his lady because he thrives on it. A man is the utter reflection of the woman he is with(and if he has a
family his ability to provide and protect them) and if he isn’t taking her to another level that what does that say
about him as a man?
A man can do everything to take care of their woman (besides financially) but the question for women is that enough
sometimes? Can a woman truly respect a man who isn’t “the man of the household”?
The reason I ask this question is because society has taught us over and over that money, power, and respect have
always won in this world. A lot of women if they want to admit it or not are attracted to men that have are hungry for
the money, power, and respect. The classic Alpha Male vs. Beta Male rearing its ugly head once again. This has
always been the way things have been BUT if society itself has changed in its social construct shouldn’t the view of
what an Alpha male vs. Beta Male change?
Men have been socialized to believe in the hegemonic order of a man being a king of the castle. Men have been sold
the notion that Stacey Dash will be sitting in their kitchen cooking butt naked every day. He will sit down and have
his morning paper and orange juice and realize he is the king of his castle. Don’t believe that men are socialized to
feel like they have to be the king than think about any debate about chivalry being dead and you will see how most
men cannot accept it Maybe it is time as men that we reevaluate what this fictional “kingdom” is. Can we figure out
how to push the ego to the side and figure out how this new “kingdom” is to be made?
Some women have set th
emselves up for failure as well. Some women buy into the fantasy that some brotha who looks like Idris Elba is going
to ride in on a white horse and save them from their woes of their mundane life. I will say this and I will stand by it…
NO WOMAN WANTS TO REALLY WORK WITH MONEY! What I mean by that is that most women if given the option to do
what they want in life and money weren’t a worry they wouldn’t care about the intricacies of money. The reason I say
this is that money, power, and respect are more a part of a man’s being so he is naturally going to be attracted to the
paper chase.
A relationship is something that takes very hard work to grow and mature but one of the major things is a man and
woman will have to reconceptualize what the roles are for a man and for a woman. This has to be something that we
as a society really have to redefine. What are the roles for a man and woman in today’s world? Can a woman respect a
man even though he is not the breadwinner of the house? Is a man going to be able to put his pride to the side and
grow within a relationship where he is not the primary breadwinner? Can a woman still feed a man’s ego and make
him feel like a man even if he isn’t financially the man? Can a man give up some of his power and understand that his
make job description may need to be updated a bit?
Sometimes I wonder if the majority of our generation’s relationships are destined to suck because we hold on to so
many past preconceived notions of how relationships should be even though the landscape of the world has
changed. Sometimes it seems we are trying to live in an alternate reality instead of the world set before us. *Sigh*…
maybe our children will grow up with a clearer view of this aspect in relationships.
PoliticsRe: Can Jonathan Survive This Man Buhari Again by Mario1983(op): 7:27am On Dec 15, 2014
is a shame indeed. If this is what has become of president party, then its clear this is not the party to lead this country
come 2015. There has never been such a chaos and conundrum in any party. If there is really order in PDP which I
sincerely doubt, then why all these infractions? what can explain this disorder from people who are grossly
incompetent, clueless and inept? We are yet to see the worst in the upcoming days. Disgusting,….. to say the
least.
PoliticsRe: Can Jonathan Survive This Man Buhari Again by Mario1983(op): 7:23am On Dec 15, 2014
there is confusion in the national headquarters of the Peoples Democratic Party over the list of the
winners of the party’s recently conducted primaries across the
country. While the outcome of the primaries have seen different aspirants
claiming victory in the same election, others said there were no such
exercises in their states
For example, a former National Chairman of the party, Dr. Okwesilieze
Nwodo, is claiming victory over the outcome of the primary in the
Enugu North Senatorial District.
His claim was however contrary to the results submitted by the
electoral panel led by Senator Anthony Manzo, which declared
Chukwuka Utazi as the candidate.
At the Manzo- supervised election, which was held at the Government
Field, Nsukka, Utazi polled 324 votes, to beat Nwodo who scored four
votes. Dr. Martin Oke scored three votes.
But at another primary, Nwodo was pronounced the winner of the
primary.
The situation is even more worrisome in Anambra State, where in
Anambra South, Senator Andy Ubah and his brother, Chief Chris Ubah,
are claiming victory in their respective primaries.
Also in Anambra North, a former Minister of Aviation, Mrs. Stella
Oduah, and a former Minister of Water and Transport, John Emeka, said
they won the primaries.
In Anambra Central, a member of the House of Representatives, Mrs.
Uche Ekwunife, claimed victory while in the same zone, Senator Annie
Okonkwo, said he had been declared winner in another primary .
Other aspirants such as Senator Margery Okadigbo, who is
representing Anambra North in the Senate at present; Dr. Obiora
Okonkwo and Joy Emodi are alleged to be laying claims to victory .
Also in Enugu State, Senator Ayogu Eze has insisted that he remains
the only governorship candidate of the party validly elected during last Monday’s primary in Enugu State.
But Mr. Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi was announced as the winner at a parallel
primary in the state.
Eze dismissed claims that two parallel primaries were held, saying
‘’there was only one primary at which the genuine delegates, elected
on November 1, 2014, voted for me out of their free will.’’
The confusion over the directive from the members of the PDP National
Working Committee that its Ogun State chapter must not conduct last
Monday’s governorship primary is still vibrating. all this boils down to oga jona inability to lead Nigeria when
the head can not hold firm things fall apart
LiteratureRe: Why I Want To Be Bad - A Story by Mario1983(m): 9:38pm On Dec 14, 2014
Alobam u story tight pass my gal friend weavon
PoliticsRe: Can Jonathan Survive This Man Buhari Again by Mario1983(op): 9:11pm On Dec 14, 2014
golor:
But d core question is can 9ja survive Jonathan for d next 4years?
i don't think so , it a personal thing
PoliticsRe: Can Jonathan Survive This Man Buhari Again by Mario1983(op): 7:09pm On Dec 14, 2014
I think it would very close
PoliticsCan Jonathan Survive This Man Buhari Again by Mario1983(op): 7:02pm On Dec 14, 2014
You are watching a two-hour movie. President Goodluck
Jonathan is the “actor” (that’s what we used to call the
main character as kids). It is just 10 minutes to the end of
the movie. Jonathan has been dodging bullets on the
streets in the last one hour, running from pillar to villa.
Many of his fighters have deserted him and joined his
adversaries, led by Gen. Muhammadu Buhari. They lob
missiles at him, like javelin, from every direction as he
snakes towards his fortress. Out of breath, he uses the butt
of his AK47 to smash the padlock of his gate, and his rifle
falls into pieces. He is now left with only a pistol and a
hand grenade.
Eight minutes to go…
His vest torn, blood crawling from his exposed biceps down
to his forearm, he makes a dazed dash for his entrance
door, barely hooking the gate with a chain from inside. The
adversaries are closing in. They volley gunshots at the
fence as he desperately runs to open the door. He has
bruises all over his body. His nose is bleeding from a stone
just thrown by Obasanjo which landed on his nose with
mathematical precision. Soyinka had earlier knocked off his
front tooth at a blind corner. The scar on his forehead was
scribbled by Kolade. Jonathan now hates the mirror. It is a
hostile piece of glass.
Five minutes to go…
His right hand is hurt by the door knob as his trembling
arms try to force it open. His mouth is in dry season,
dreadfully in need of saliva or anything liquid in form. The
enemies are massing outside the fence. He whispers to
himself, in pidgin English: “Wetin I do dis people na?” He
does not quickly reckon that the door is playing its own
trick. It refuses to open. He has to fire the last bullets in
his pistol to force it open. He is now left with only a hand
grenade as he creeps into the villa.
Let’s pause there. I’m an amateur script writer and I don’t
know how to complete the remaining three minutes of the
movie. But let us leave the world of make-believe and
come back to reality. And the reality is that this is not the
best of times to be Jonathan. With a swelling crowd of
opponents hitting at him, the room for maneuver is getting
smaller. Now, if Buhari criticises him, you could say: What
do you expect? If it is APC, you would say it is predictable.
Even Soyinka, you might conclude that he’s been vocal all
his life. And Obasanjo? Well, he tackles even the dead.
But Kolade? Now this is a different proposition. There are a
few Nigerians I adore with every bit of my soul and pray to
be like them in my old age. Kolade is one of them. He is a
man of integrity, a role model, a patriot and a non-partisan.
I admire him to no end. So when someone like that
becomes your critic, then there is trouble. The biggest
mistake you will make is to lump him along with your
natural or regular critics. However, you can choose to lock
yourself up, read his statement word-for-word, get pricked
in your heart, and say: Dear God, what may I do to be
saved?
I have said this before and I would like to repeat myself: it
is not in the interest of President Jonathan to lump all his
critics together. As a leader, he has to sit down, analyse
his critics and their criticisms, arrange them in groups,
classify the key issues and work out his actions and
reactions appropriately. He sure has millions of critics, like
any other leader. People criticise with different motives.
People have different agenda even when they are saying the
same thing. Unfortunately, you will miss the message when
you lump everyone together and respond to every critic and
criticism with cynicism and antagonism.
I once identified at least four different categories of
Jonathan’s critics. In Group A, I placed opposition figures
and other political opponents. There is no way APC would
come out and praise Jonathan; that is political suicide.
They want power. They want his job. Theirs is to say
Jonathan or PDP has not done well and that if Nigerians
give them a chance, they would do much better. This is a
universal characteristic of opposition politics. You can
argue that they do not always work with the facts, but what
is politicking? PDP would do the same if APC were in
power.
In Group B, you have those who lost out in the political
game. Many politicians who supported Jonathan in 2010
and 2011 feel abandoned. They feel like a deflated orange:
squeezed, sucked and dumped. They feel Jonathan treated
them to a one-night stand, whereas they wanted an affair.
Some wanted appointments; others simply desired respect
and recognition. But they are bitter that Jonathan jilted
them after getting what he wanted. In no time, they became
his sworn enemies. I would locate Obasanjo within this
group.
In Group C, you have those northerners who are still bitter
that Jonathan “hijacked” power after the death of President
Umaru Musa Yar’Adua in 2010. The north had conceded
power to the south in 1999, with the understanding that
Obasanjo would do only one term. But Aso Rock was too
sweet for him. So PDP agreed to a north/south power
rotation every eight years. Unfortunately, Yar’Adau died
prematurely. Jonathan took over and refused to let go. To
some northerners, there is nothing Jonathan can do to
make them happy. Even if he turns northern Nigeria to
Dubai, their message is clear: Thank you and just get out of
here.
In Group D are those who have neither partisan nor
sectional sentiments against Jonathan ─ they are sincerely
critical of certain aspects of his stewardship. Jonathan was
marketed as a breath of fresh air in 2011. But these critics
have been genuinely disturbed at his handling of critical
issues such as corruption and Boko Haram. In truth,
Jonathan lost a lot of sympathisers with the Chibok
schoolgirls saga which was turned into the “Na Only You
Waka Come” tragicomedy in the corridors of power. Now,
you cannot group these genuine critics with his political
enemies. You cannot put Kolade and APC or Obasanjo in
the same category. You will miss the point completely.
Let’s now unpause the movie. Jonathan is holed up in his
fortress with only one grenade left. The blitzkrieg outside
is intimidating. Some in the cinema hall are already
tweeting that Jonathan is down and out and Buhari is only
two minutes away from taking over. The social media
community is awash with “Sai Buhari” victory chants.
But,wait, Jonathan is still the president. He still has
enormous political and economic powers. He still has a few
more minutes to decide what to do with the grenade in his
hand. And he still has troops from 36 states trying to come
to his rescue.
Will he survive? Will he detonate the bomb? Let’s just
relax, with popcorn and Pepsi, and soak in the closing
scenes. There could still be a twist, who knows. It’s an
exhilarating political thriller.
AND FOUR OTHER THINGS…
OBASANJO’S WATCH
I find the circumstances surrounding Obasanjo’s latest
memoirs quite revealing. First, he defied a court order.
Typical Obasanjo: lawless. Second, he titled the book “My
Watch”. Wow. In 2004, Chinua Achebe rejected a national
honour, writing to Obasanjo: “I write this letter with a very
heavy heart… I have watched particularly the chaos in my
own state of Anambra where a small clique of renegades,
openly boasting its connections in high places, seems
determined to turn my homeland into a bankrupt and
lawless fiefdom… Nigeria’s condition today under YOUR
WATCH (my emphasis) is too dangerous for silence.”
Memories.
AU REVOIR, ATIKU
Alhaji Atiku Abubakar has wanted to be president of Nigeria
since 1993 and it would seem the dream is finally over after
the APC primary. If you had asked me in 2001 or
thereabouts, I would have said Atiku was the most powerful
politician in Nigeria and it was just a matter of time for him
to succeed Obasanjo. In his latest book, Obasanjo recalled
how an Atiku associate came to “gist” him on the VP’s
comprehensive plan to become president anytime he
wanted. Obasanjo said he thereafter told his ADC: “Why do
people plan and leave God out of their plan?” Deep!
WHO’S LAUGHING NOW
This is not funny, although there is a bit of fun in it. In
September, Malam Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso, Kano governor
and former APC presidential aspirant, described Malam
Nuhu Ribadu as a “laughing stock” for defecting from APC
to PDP and then failing to get the Adamawa governorship
ticket. But now Ribadu has the PDP governorship ticket,
while Kwankwaso has failed in his own bid, despite
reluctantly appointing Lamido Sanusi as Emir of Kano under
pressure from other APC governors who reportedly
promised him the party’s presidential ticket in return.
Ribadu would be saying: who’s the laughing stock now?
Irony.
JONATHAN VS BUHARI
And finally, we’re going to have a rematch between
Jonathan and Buhari in the presidential bout. To the
partisans, this is going to be a Rumble in the Jungle. To
the spectators, it is a Thriller in the Villa. But to the
security agencies, this could turn out to be a nightmare.
One thing we should all plead for is that the contest
should, for God’s sake, be conducted in good spirits. In
2011, it was too bloody. Violence erupted even before the
election. The combatants should stick to the issues and
undertake to control their supporters in the national
interest. Sportsmanship.
LiteratureRe: Why I Want To Be Bad - A Story by Mario1983(m): 7:22am On Dec 14, 2014
good story following
Nairaland General10 Things You Shouldn’t Do Now You’re Newly Single by Mario1983(op): 7:28am On Dec 11, 2014
Going through a break-up is hard but that doesn’t mean life should equally end because of
it. Most things are detrimental to the action you take when you are heartbroken. Here are
the things you shouldn’t do when this happens to avoid further damage.

1. Raise your standards higher . No, taking it a notch higher just to avoid getting the same
person you felt you wasted your time with and eventually got your heart broken isn’t the
remedy to getting a better person. So please take it all the way back down.

2. Change appearance . Changing the style or color of your hair from what it used to be ─ just
because he or she liked the way you normally packed it up or let it down or the way it
smelt or the texture you used to have ─ won’t attract a better partner. Neither is changing
the serious up-do to a more girly and playful one or casual jeans and tee. If you must, do
it for you and not with a motive of revenge or pain.

3.Avoid mutual places. The truth is, whether or not you do, sooner or later you will bump
into him/her at places you didn’t even expect you would. Maybe while at a new gym or a
new restaurant. Besides you don’t want the show of weakness to come from your own end.
If both of you used to attend stage plays together then by all means continue even if on a
solo train.

4. Stay away from mutual friends . You only end up giving them the impression that the break-
up hurts you and you don’t want that. They are like the intermediaries now and everything
that happens to you is being reported to the other when they hang out. So when they ask
to hang out, don’t turn them down or avoid them. Seize the opportunity to show them that
you are great.

5. Generalize . All men are dogs, all women cheats. No! There is a man/woman out there for
you; simply because one messed up doesn’t mean they all will. Always see your past
relationships as a course and a lesson to be learnt for you to be a better person in a relationship until you graduate and are ready for that life partner.

6. Reflect/Reverie . Thinking about what you should have done better or how good times were will not help you heal or even move on and neither will it make anything better. Just pick your mistakes like the previous point above and work on it.

7. Blame yourself . No, it wasn’t your fault, things just happened. Most of them are inevitable. If it wasn’t working, it wasn’t going to eventually. It was only prolonged because one of you refused to admit it for the fear of being alone.

8. Slack at work . Work doesn’t have to suffer because you went through a break-up: your boss doesn’t exactly care that that part of your life exists. Of course, the occasional jokes persist but the moment you give work a back seat because of that, it is the end of your stay in that office. So buckle up!

9. Pause mutual dreams. So you both had mutual dreams you were pursuing with the hope you both will end up spending the rest of your lives together but that unfortunately didn’t happen. Who says you have to end it? It is mutual, meaning two dreams put together to become one. So just pick your half and put it into action. No event as mere as a break-up should stop that. It is going to be hard ─ knowing it was a dual ambition but focus and the strength of two will be active in you.

10. Expect too much . So you’re heart-broken, you grab your gear, strap up tight in firm protection of your heart so as not to fall prey to a potential heartbreaker, while you grab your binoculars in search of only that perfect person. It is not going to work. Expecting to meet a perfect person only exists in your fantasy as perfect people do not exist.
PoliticsRe: Kashamu Threatens To Sue Obasanjo Over New Book by Mario1983(m): 7:50am On Dec 10, 2014
There were five president in Nigeria, and these were his wife the first lady, Diezani,
Oduah, Ngozi and the president himself, and Gej was the weakest of the five.” wow
PoliticsFormer President Umaru Musa Yar Adua by Mario1983(op): 7:14am On Dec 04, 2014
Dear Umaru Musa Yar’Adua, when you were around we called you:
The BAD one. The SLOW ONE. The SICK ONE.
Yes, you were sick, in fact, sick all through your administration. We
all cried for your resignation at the height of your sickness. Cursing
you, your first lady and your supporters (The first set of Cabals).
Asking you to die if you want to die and allow the man with all the
Goodluck in this world to lead us.
We forgot that even though you were sick, you were the first
Governor to have ever declared his assets publicly and you
remained the only President in the history of Nigeria to have ever
declare his assets publicly.
We conveniently forgot that even though you were gravely sick you
were the first president to ever reduced the price of petrol in
Nigeria, (From N75 to N70 and later from N70 to N65) and the
economy did not collapse like the present leaders are making us
believe. You even reversed the sale of our refineries.
We forgot that you didn’t afflict yourself with your sickness and so
could do very little about it. But we still insisted that you just have
to go, so that Nigeria can finally have her chance with Goodluck.
We forgot that even though you were terminally ill, you still
succeeded in solving the Niger Delta crisis which you didn’t cause,
but you found a solution. And even crushed d first Boko Haram
uprising and caught its leader.
You gave us rule of Law, Ameachi reclaimed his mandate as Rivers
governor, Andy Uba lost in court and was removed as Anambra
State’s Governor. Oni lost in Ekiti and was removed, Agagu lost in
Ondo and was removed, Osunbor lost in Edo and was removed even
though they are all members of your party (PDP).
Now we have seen what a healthy president has done with the
country.
His Excellency President Umaru Musa Yar’Adua, may your Soul Rest
in Perfect Peace.
We will forever remember you and your leadership.
PoliticsAutomatic Ticket In Pdp by Mario1983(op): 6:07am On Nov 18, 2014
I foresee more crisis in PDP which the automatic ticket of GEJ will cause. GEJ allowing the Governors to box him
to a corner when they dangled the automatic ticket to GEJ was the worst tactical decision ever. No doubt, GEJ
would have still won the primaries if “true democracy” was allowed to play out. But for greed and selfishness, the
Governors extracted automatic tickets for themselves as a result and GEJ forgot that there are other people in
PDP.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Navy (DSSC) 2013/2014 by Mario1983(m): 1:04pm On Jan 08, 2014
NN don make ppl dey yarn dust without source
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Navy (DSSC) 2013/2014 by Mario1983(m): 8:55am On Dec 18, 2013
O'steve:
Dreams are like stars. You may not be able to touch them but if u follow them, they'll lead u to ur destiny. Intending naval officers,the list wont be held incommunicado forever so engage in productive activities and believe in ur dreams! Onward Together!
Na so bros

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