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Cherlene:
Read the following:

Don't worry about other people's OPINION of you. God never told you to IMPRESS people, only to LOVE THEM.

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You are not what others think YOU ARE.
You are what God knows YOU ARE.

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The more you love YOUR DECISIONS, the LESS you need others to LOVE THEM.

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Happy Sunday

Cherlene

Hmmmmm...Thank you ma'am. I'll start appreciating myself more then cos I've spent alot of time pleasing others at the expense of my happiness. I really appreciate the words.

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Cherlene:
Greetings

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Cherlene

Thanks ma'am but this current World doesn't think in that direction really.

It has come to a stage where I'm really desperate to have a gf even if it's a mad woman

dredmatthew234:
i understand my brothp problem here ...
shyness
but obviously ladies nowadays flows normally
irrespective of how you asked them out, fot real best way to start a relationship is from friendship and later just confess to her u want the both of to be more than friends ...simple!



most ladies nowadays are mature enough to understand thsr statement

Hehehe.... I didn't want to mention the word shyness

Approachingthem for friendship is a problem or should I go where they're buying stuffs and I'll then offer to pay for the stuffs?

englishmart:
if you are mature enough to have a gf, you will find it much easier. when I was 18/19, I faced similar challenge. but now, I've grown older, na ladies dey disturb me ghon self

I'm mature enough but my social life is zero.

joviegghead:
Since u're handsome,1 problem don comot,cuz,good looks increases ur chances .. Be confident..smile.. Take good care of ya self,i mean,physically.ur hair,clothes,odour etc.. Make attempts to start conversations..get contacts..follow up.. Etc. Abeg guyz,help this dude..oh finally,when u see that girl u like,tell her ur mind,tell her how u feel. But make sure,she's worth it. Not like some mumu girls that will start doing shakara or playing hard to get just because u've expressed how u feel.. Pls note: never tell a girl u met recently:'i love you'. Why? Cuz u can't,dumbass.it's too soon. The best word is: 'i like you'.u can add 'really'. 'I love you' comes later.. Just be smart,bold,confident,smooth and tactful.

I don't meet girls on a regular basis to start with. Hair, perfume, clothes are intact. I don't think girls fancy such stuffs these days. Even touts get very beautiful gfs while good boys are dying somewhere.

kehinde1588:
There is nothing hard in getting a g.f bro just b kind to everyone and be urself surely a girl will come that will love everything about u and try to b bold,girls love guys that her bold..u looking for a sincere and loyal g.f without sex? oboi she go later dey go get sex somewhere else.

My kindness is one of the things that hindered relationship stuffs then. Boldness? I don't have it.

Hello Romancelanders,
Think I've got a problem that I'll like to share.
It goes like this... Relationship stuffs is one thing I'm yet to understand fully.
During my sec sch days, I was was everything lady would die for and I thought it was always going be like this. ******Fast forwards to the present state.

Right now, life is boring cos I feel I haven't really experienced love and I feel intimated and sad whenever I see a guy and a lady making out. I wonder why I don't get to enjoy such stuffs.
I've been told I can get any girl cos I'm quite handsome but it's just overrated cos it's not a criteria for getting a gf.

I feel isolated and lost in this world cos of relationship issues.

Sex? Not about sex but I think of it and shake it off cos I don't want a relationship that's all about sex. I want one that will make me feel loved.

You see your supposed ex with her bf and get sad.


QUESTIONS....

HOW DO I TOAST A LADY?


I really suck in this aspect and I'll like to learn from you guys.

Assist a bro...

Ellimist:
I'm so so sorry i didn't reply earlier. Been in school and lost my fone and stuff. i saw that you emailed me buh i can't seem to retrieve it. could you resend it? happy you replied.

Yeah, same here.will beep you

Cutehector:
dnt get

Asin, those experienced guys that create threads on sex stuffs

Cutehector:
hahaha ur crazy...


Konan d destroyer

Oya, pls mention all those Nairaland badoos here

Cutehector:
leav me ooo

You be pu destroyer that's why

Ultimate001:
KEEP-OFF! YOU WILL BE REWARDED FOR KEEPING YOURSELF FROM PRE-MARITAL SEX...STAY FOCUSED and God bless!

Hmmmmm...I'd take this admonishment sha. Thank you sir

Cutehector:
I do... Just dah dr is smth I would hav liked to let u knw buh I just dnt wish to write it here . So let's leav it like dat..


Endure bro

You don't wanna write it here? Damn use other means drop am oga.

Cutehector:
Nobody is stoppin u from havn sex.......

You don't get though

Cutehector:
lmao..... Sitdown leme read the beatitudes for u

False witness, gerara where? Hia

lekjons:
Ok, now listen attentively get these 'house remedies' ready right now;
1. ice-cold water
2. salt(mr chef preferably)
3. garri
mix everything together, then pour am on top or soak 'it' inside for 5mins...

holla back at me if 'he' still no surrender, then we go no say this ur own strong oo, and maybe needs holy-cain!

No no no... Give tuface

Cutehector yaf come

Educate me

lekjons:
c'mon, Jesus said 'only the sick needs a doctor'

u no even allow am to preach finish, maybe he go tell us say, he neva shine the 'kini' before

oya go sleep. I create this thread for wrong time

SUGARBEE:
Hmm


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You just come show yourself or you're horn y?

lekjons:
u see? u don insult a 'man of God'

Man of God we dey hide for romance section?
Be like say you be virgin ba?

lekjons:
i don tell u before say God don catch u tonight!!

E don dey disturb for weeks na. Virgins dey suffer oooo...

lekjons:
which one?! PI or PU?

Na the pu na. At this rate, even sugar mummies and mad woman own dey needed

kinibigdeal:
Read your bible and arrest your evil thought

Evil thought and you're in this section? Haba Oga

lekjons:
Op, your own iyaf'inish tonight!

lemme tell what i used to do when it seem my balls're about to burst...
PIRITON!.. in no time u'll sleep off!

MBA, this John Thomas needs that thing

CUM4WHAT,you na wa ooo

Hi friends,

I've been acting weird of late. I'm yet to have sex and it's getting me all worked. Don't if it's a curse but it getting worse each day. Like I'm being tempted to go and have sex with a prostitute.
They're stances I've taken against such stuffs and I don't wanna break em. Imagining sex has become the order of the day for me.

This world is making it look as if without sex, you're nothing.


It's killing and I don't know what to do.

I don't watch stuffs that will trigger such feelings.


Help a Nairanlander...

donholy28:
wetin be IBO?

Gerara hia