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Jobs/VacanciesRe: BEDC Recruitment 2017 by Markfedel(m): 3:32pm On Jan 25, 2017
bro plss I need it too. alanemetochukwu@yahoo.com
RomanceOyinbo Lover Comes Down To Nigeria For His Traditional Marriage by Markfedel(op): 10:17pm On Jan 07, 2017
you got to love this picture of Manuel and Debbie at the hometown of the girl for there traditional marriage. you could see the man really enjoying himself trying to pound the popular FUFU known as UTARA in Igbo

HML to them!!!

CareerRe: Fg Yet To Pay Federal Workers November And December Salary by Markfedel(op): 12:29pm On Dec 29, 2016
eejo:
are you a ghost worker because fg had paid december salaries
fg hasn't paid health workers November and December
CareerFg Yet To Pay Federal Workers November And December Salary by Markfedel(op): 9:30am On Dec 29, 2016
I don't really know what's the problem in Abuja or what the finance ministry is facing but somehow its really very bad for a government that always say they care for its workers to owe salary during this festive season from November till this moment. so I don't really know how they want this workers to survive even if they are already surviving since last month not getting there salary. Serious I think no matter the problem is, something like this should have been avoided especially during this period when workers need this salary to feed there family, prepare for children school fee and other things. my neighbour who works in a federal hospital is really complaining but still hoping something would be done. plsss FEDERAL GOVERNMENT, the minister of FINANACE, minister of HEALTH and other head of ministries, department, agency and parastatals have to say and do something about this. Workers are really tying, owing them shouldn't be encouraged.

mod plsss move this to FP
CareerRe: ICAN November 2023 Diet Exam - Let's Meet Here by Markfedel(m): 3:04pm On Dec 27, 2016
I need softcopy material for foundation... alanemetochukwu@yahoo.com
RomanceHilarious Response To A Frauster by Markfedel(op): 9:57pm On Dec 08, 2016
A friend of mine got a message from an unknown source about CBN blocking his account but looks like he already knew its from one of this boys looking for who too defraud so he replied the sender with this hilarious response

PhonesRe: What's The Best 20k Phone In The Market Right Now? by Markfedel(m): 3:14pm On Aug 27, 2016
Znokor Rocket-Z5000 #19500 Thank me Later
LiteratureRe: A Client From Hell by Markfedel(m): 8:25pm On Aug 22, 2016
seriously you did a good job on this....very interesting and I love the suspense....but you were very brutal to the major characters
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EducationAn Appeal To State And Federal Govt On The Bad State Of FUTO IHIAGWA ROAD by Markfedel(op): 10:09am On Aug 09, 2016
Seriously I don't really know if ihiagwa has a functioning local govt to relate the issue of the state of ihiagwa Futo road which has been a nightmare to student of federal university of technology owerri, the ihiagwa, umuchima, eziobodo, umuelem and also some student of federal polytechnic nekede. This road has been bad for some years making motorist trapped in the muddy water or motorist taking another far route thereby increasing the cost of transportation.

Sometimes students go on protest but nothing is been done instead u see them come to pour red sand behave as if they are working on it and the next thing they are gone and when it rains it becomes very bad.

plss we appealing to both state and federal govt to look into this issue as students are suffering

Mod plss this needs to hit FP.....Thanks

BusinessRe: SMS Alert Charge: Is First Bank Stealing My Money? by Markfedel(m): 2:18pm On May 29, 2016
first bank can deduct your money anyhow.....imagine me getting SMS alert twice 44naira. don't know there problem if we could send text for 4naira why would dey collect close to 50naira for sms
NYSCRe: Enugu Batch A"2...let's Meet Here by Markfedel(m): 8:38pm On May 17, 2016
add me up to the WhatsApp group....... posted to Enugu awgu camp 08169155622
NYSCRe: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Markfedel(m): 8:33pm On May 17, 2016
Enugu corper.......awgu camp.....Add me if there is any WhatsApp group 08169155622 and anyone going to Enugu from Lagos holla me
NYSCNysc Batch A Stream 2 Call Up Letter Out by Markfedel(op): 9:41am On May 17, 2016
yes I just checked mine now and I got ENUGU, so my patient stream 2 screw you can check yours and hopefully our 10billion will be released by people in charge.
NYSCRe: NYSC Batch A 2016 Stream 2 Corp Members by Markfedel(m): 2:19pm On Apr 22, 2016
one month at home bcus of stream 2.....didn't sign up for DAT BT ....my option Kaduna Enugu akwaibom abuja .....am waiting for any
RomanceWho Is A Virgin? by Markfedel(op):
Many young people are very idealistic
about marriage; at least, that is the
impression I get when I interact with them.
At a youth gathering sometime ago, a
young man told me this story and asked for
advice. His friend and the fiancée had
agreed that there will be no premarital sex,
mainly on the insistence of the lady.

The young man grudgingly agreed and
looked forward to deflowering his wife after
wedding, but alas he encountered no
roadblock on their first outing. He was
angry and disappointed. He then asked me,
what should his friend do?
It was my turn to fire him questions. “Did
the lady tell your friend during courtship
that she was a virgin?” He answered no.
So the friend only assumed. “What or who
is your friend marrying, the virginity or the
lady?”
“The lady,” he answered. “So what is the
problem? This friend who is obsessed with
virginity, is he a virgin?” The answer was
“no.” A lot of the time we chase shadows
instead of substance.

Then I remembered a story another friend
told me some time ago and I started
wondering, who is a virgin? My friend said
in a particular country (name withheld
because I could not independently verify
his tale), it is a crime or taboo for a girl to
lose her “virginity” before marriage.
So what the girls do is to engage in anal
penetration (AKA anal sex) and the men
also grope their breasts, bums and other
parts of their bodies during pre-marriage
relationships. But their hymen (the
membrane partially or totally covering the
opening of the vagina) is still there for their
future husbands to “proudly” break after
marriage. My question is: are these girls
still virgins? Na who be fool? Who be
mumu?

Also in some relationships where fiancés
and fiancées agree to no sex before
marriage, they engage in all forms of
sexually intimate acts, except actual
vaginal penetration with the penis; are they
still virgins? There are lesbians who are
actively involved in same sex relationships,
but have never been penetrated, so their
hymen might be intact, are they virgins?
Now it gets a little complicated. A school of
thought argues that rape victims, who were
virgins before the rape, are still virgins,
even though they have been penetrated
and the hymen, broken. They argue that as
long as they did not consent to the act,
they are virgins because consent is a
prerequisite for losing your virginity.
We know for a fact that sports women and
others involved in some physical activities
can inadvertently break their hymen. The
implication is that there is no evidence to
prove their virginity, but can those of them
who have never had sex still be classified
as virgins?

Who is a virgin? The simple dictionary
definition of a virgin is “a person who has
never had sexual intercourse.” So what is
sexual intercourse? Wikipedia says sexual
intercourse “is principally the insertion and
thrusting of a male’s penis, usually when
erect, into a female’s vagina…” This
definition is old, traditional and does not
address emerging trends.
Humankind has “moved” on. Same sex
relationships and marriages have been
legalised in many countries, a fact
Wikipedia acknowledges. So, sexual
intercourse now includes “MouthAction,” “anal
sex” and “fingering” among many other
new trends.
So who is a virgin? The definition of a
virgin has become a matter of individual
interpretations to many, but I will associate
virginity with one who is pure, chaste,
undefiled, unpolluted and unadulterated.
You make your deductions.

Many young men want to marry virgins,
but cannot find them. Water everywhere,
yet none to drink. Who are the pollutants?
Why are the virgins scarce? We all know. If
married men and women leave bachelors
and spinsters alone and bachelors and
spinsters keep their hands off one another,
there will be an avalanche of virgins. We
are knocking our heads over a situation we
contributed in creating?
To young men looking for “virgins” to
marry, this is my take. It is your life and
you have a right to live it the way you like
within legal limits, of course, but I have
issues with people who come to equity with
filthy hands. Also, what exactly do you
want from marriage? You must have clarity
of purpose, so that you do not focus on the
ephemeral to the detriment of recurring
issues in marriage.

Virginity is a virtue and it is good for
spiritual reasons and the feel-good factor (
na me disvirgin, actually deflower, my
wife), but transgressors should be forgiven.
God’s grace, if not, I will not be here
running my mouth, sorry pen.
I belong to groups who encourage young
people to live chaste lives, but we do not
condemn others who have made mistakes,
because “there is no condemnation unto
those who are in Christ Jesus.”(Rom: 8:1).
“If the son of man sets you free, you are
free indeed.”(John 8:36). The simple
message is “go and sin no more.”(John
8:11).

Let me conclude with an analogy. Prior
apologies for comparing God’s created
with manmade objects, but I see a
relationship between virgins/non virgins
and brand new cars/fairly used cars.
Everybody loves a brand new car. We love
the freshness, the pride of being the person
who tore off the “rubber,” but can
everybody afford a brand new car?
Again if you are offered a brand new Kia
Picanto and a Lexus Jeep that has done
only 5000 miles, which one will you
choose? Also, between a brand new Honda
Accord and a Rolls Royce with a 10,000
mileage, which offers superior
performance?

Which is better, marrying a virgin you will
live turbulently with for the rest of your life
or a spouse who is a soul mate, although
she had a prior relationship? Virginity is
good, godly and holy, but marriage is
much more than virginity. Marriage already
has trailer-loads of issues. Sort out prior
issues during courtship and leave them
there; do not import them into marriage.

FP....plsss...do d needful for my brodas to get dis into dia head
EducationSee What FUTO NMS Did To Graduating NMS Student by Markfedel(op):
it has been a normal routine for both Man o war futo.command and NMS futo to drill graduating member. This time NMS graduating student who jst finished there last paper were taken on aware when they asked to roll around pool of dirty water in front of popular girls HOSTELs D.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Fought Corruption In More Civilized Way Than Buhari - Falana by Markfedel(m): 12:59pm On Aug 25, 2015
beta talk
HealthRe: How The World Media Is Celebrating Nigeria's Ebola Victory Pictures And Video by Markfedel(m): 4:56pm On Oct 07, 2014
9ice post......am proud
PoliticsRe: Another 60 Soldiers Face Trial For Mutiny Today by Markfedel(m): 3:21pm On Sep 30, 2014
na wa ooo DHQ should take it easy wif dis soldiers
PoliticsRe: Tony Tetuila's New Campaign Poster (Photo) by Markfedel(m): 3:07pm On Sep 30, 2014
9ice one
TravelRe: Pictures Of Air Conditioned Pedestrian Bridge In Port Harcourt. by Markfedel(m): 5:34pm On Sep 24, 2014
its not yet opened......make we hear word....OP
Nairaland GeneralRe: Elephant Raju Cries After Being Rescued From 50 Years Of Suffering In Chains by Markfedel(m): 3:56pm On Jul 21, 2014
Eyaa
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: 7 Pieces Of Stunning Street Art That Cleverly Interacts With Nature [photos] by Markfedel(m): 3:36pm On Jul 21, 2014
9ice 1
Foreign AffairsRe: Aircraft Carrying US Soldiers Make Emergency Landing On A Highway In Uganda by Markfedel(m): 8:49pm On Jul 18, 2014
Hmmm God save this Pilot he was not in a lagos nigeria airspace dat airport he was tryin to avoid would hv been d best choice cuz d fear of BRT and CONTAINER trucks and D Young and all dis fast and furious Niggas wont allow him try dat landin
SportsRe: FIFA Lifts Ban On Nigeria by Markfedel(m): 7:43pm On Jul 18, 2014
well FIFA is very organised dats why the nigerian govt had to listen.....if not
TravelPassenger On Doomed Flight MH17 'joked About The Flight Disappearing'. by Markfedel(op): 7:27pm On Jul 18, 2014
A haunting photograph of flight MH17 is believed to have been posted on Facebook by a Dutch passenger just moments before he boarded the doomed plane.

The plane, pictured on tarmac, took off from Amsterdam's Schiphol Airport at lunchtime today. It was shot down hours later on the Russia-Ukraine border in an 'act of terrorism', killing all 295 people on board.

Cor Pan, who is listed on Facebook as living in Volendam in North Holland, uploaded the picture of the aircraft with the caption: ‘If it disappears, this is what it looks like.
The comment is believed to have been a reference to Malaysian Airlines flight MH370 which disappeared while flying from Kuala Lumpur to Beijing on 8 March.

After seeing the photo friends initially went along with the joke and wished him a good trip, but their messages quickly turned frantic when news of the crash emerged.

Posting underneath the picture they asked whether his flight was the one that had gone down and said that they were praying that it wasn’t true.
His cousin later posted the flight number underneath the picture and wrote: 'Turns out our cousin Cor was on this plane.’

Friends and family members began to leave touching tributes to the Dutch traveller, with one posting ‘rest in peace’.

Their posts also suggested that he was on board the plane with his girlfriend Neeltje Tol.

One said: ‘Rest in peace Cor and Neel this is surreal, with sympathy for family and friends.’

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Foreign AffairsRe: Faces Of The Innocent Victims Of Flight MH17 That Killed All 298 People. by Markfedel(m): 6:56pm On Jul 18, 2014
seriously RUSSIA should be held responsible since they made there border porous for such heavy weapon to pass through and straight to the hands of terrorist.........RIP

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