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Tried adding u on whatsapp but ur contact isn't reflecting on my list.....will call u 2mrw.

Do u deliver nationwide?

Thanks everyone for your advice and contributions, may God bless you all.

@menix he's close to God and very religious but I'll try the approach of making him understand how much he's hurting God by his actions. 2ndly what do I do concerning my job as regards the off and on issue? 3rdly as funny as it may sound he doesn't have any saved video on his phone, he watches them on net and again I ask how do I tackle that? My thoughts exactly on d porn being the trigger to self-service. Thanks all the same.

Thanks @ovarayted.

Thanks @deife i'll try all you've said.

Thanks @hrtbrksteve and ladyx

@mrval i've done alot of thorough thinking and will still do and make changes if need be. 2ndly am aware that most men watch porn but like u said the frequency is what am really worried about.....sometimes two or three times or more in a day. He tries to hide it sometimes and other times he just does it but Ofcoz within the house. I've talked, begged, prayed and even threatened to report him but there's still no positive change. Guess i'll just give him more time but will that work?

@tony am sorry about my response and honestly it's a very difficult 1.

@tony are you trying to justify his actions?

I've done that a countless time and he usually doesn't have anything to say other than he's sorry and will try to change. I never ever deny him sex.....i give it to him whenever and however he wants it.

Hey nairalanders i've been an adamant follower of this forum especially the family and romance section and I must really commend the likes of cc, rokiatu and co......well I got married a couple of months ago and about two months into my marriage I discovered that my husband is a chronic addict to porn and masturbation. We had 'the talk' about it and he promised to change but honestly I fear he's just getting worse. I've done practically everything possible to help him but all efforts are not yielding any results. We're presently trying for a baby and I also fear that might be a contributing factor to the delay. I'm an off and on wife ie not fully with him because I run some things in a different state but I make it a point of duty to come home every two weeks, although i've been with him for say two months on a stretch now and this period only confirmed my fears and no he never told me while dating.....found out it has been his long term secret. I don't know what to do and I need very matured advice....thanks.