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UDUJ:
I am good bro. It's like you were talking to the past me bro. I felt that S H I T.

oh oh oh well it all past sha, what matters now is what you have now and who you are now, everybody all have one horrible past/old times to talk about, so it not just only you...

anyway how is ur wife /girlfriends and kids doing?

UDUJ:
Martin you are making lots of sense these days. Good one

how far na

Note to women.

When a woman allow a Man to constantly hurt her over and over year after year with the hopes that maybe one day he will grow up and start acting like a Man usually her hopes become reality but unfortunately some other women reality and she is stuck watching all her sacrificing and hard work benefit the next Woman.

Moral of Status: Settling can make you sacrifice 5 yrs worth of tears just to watch the next woman's 5 yrs worth of smiles

highpriestess:
no longer players,men that sleep around are called moloshos.

na wa for una ooo

NOTE TO MEN...!!!

Fellas we often look down on women who have sex with a lot of men. However, as men we are just as wrong & guilty when we have sex with a lot of women. Men get called "players," & women get called "hoes" for making the same decisions. Men know that we are not being players, we are playing ourselves. Because the more women as a man you use & abuse, the more fear you create inside of you. Promiscuous men often fear commitment, because of the guilt that lives in their spirit & conscious based on how they have lied to & mis-treated women.
Their fear is that one day what they've done to women will happen to them, if they allow themselves to fall in love & be committed with a woman regardless of how much they love them.
Which is the fear & suspicion that lives within a insecure & guilty conscious. To be a player you have to be a part of a game. Games have rules as well as winners & losers. So if you are a player. What are the rules to your game, & what are you really winning & losing... When what you gain & lose is the inability to love or trust anyone, including you.

khiaa:
1. I don't know why, but they do.
2. I heard some unbelievable things, I wanted to get confirmation.
3. I don't know what God you serve. I don't serve a God, I serve The Most High, The Father in Heaven, The Holy Spirit, The Anointed.
4. Let's stop derailing this thread, the op is correct in a way, owning a car and paying rent on an apartment is not success to me, but to others, it can be a great achievement.

OK ooo

well all I can say ,as far as it coming from a Nigerian then it a big time achievement! see don't tell me u don't know how they so much love these things here..

DrinkLimca:
Well you are right but you know, here in this part of the world,, we like seeing our partners..
It's kind of emotionally hard not to see your lover for long time.
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90% of those involve with long distance relationships, are cheaters..

yeah it true! very emotional sha!

But this your statistics eh na wa oooo Na wa oooo



see, Nobody says it is going to be easy — the extra distance makes many things unachievable. Things could get complicated, and you could get sad and lonely at times. However, the extra distance also makes the simplest things the sweetest, being able to hold the other person’s hand, eating together at the same table, feeling each other’s touch, taking a walk together, smelling each other’s hair… these small wishes could suddenly mean so much more in a long distance relationship.

But I will always say this and suggest this

Avoid excessive communication.
It is unwise to be overly “sticky” and possessive. You two don’t really have to communicate 12 hours a day to keep the relationship going. Many couples think that they need to compensate for the distance by doing more. This is not true. And it might only make things worse. Soon you would get tired of “loving.” Remember: Less is more. It is not about spamming — you are only going to exhaust yourselves. It’s really about teasing at the right moments and tugging at the right spots.

DrinkLimca:
lol i nor even get power to argue with her..
i hear say, she dey fight for market always..

hia Na wa for u oo;F

MhisTahrah:
I don't read epistles on Monday mornings. Wish you same.

monday morning haha ah ah see u

DrinkLimca:
madam class is bae,, You think i date local girls?

relax ee these Na woman oo u wan argue with her

DrinkLimca:
we can't handle it,, it won't work..

long distance relationship is hard, I agree, but I most tell you, 70percent of distance relationship fail because of unplanned changes !!!

DrinkLimca:
we can't handle it,, it won't work..

see let me tell you something, there is only one thin I believed in, trust/truth!

addiction helps alot in relationships!

MhisTahrah:
Too Long.

MhisTahrah me I know u will not read, anyway happy Monday morning sha

DrinkLimca:
Long distance caused the ex,, though she visited Nigeria on few occasions but dammm a student in Nigeria can't be dating a lady based in south Africa..
It won't work..
though she tried to make it work but the distance na barrier.. and with all other ukwus con dey distract me for school again, so i come get second thought..

ha Na WA ooo, is it that u guys can't handle a long distance relationship or u people are not just focused...

Chikita66:
Clubbing kwa, not a clubbing person biko.

hahahah oh ibu nwa Mary Amaka okwia

khiaa:
1. I was thinking of joining another forum because Niaraland has become so juvenile.

2. I was searching for some information on African men, 99.99% of the time when you ask Google about Africa it sends you to Nigeria, go figure.

3. The Most High is Yahushua Ha Mashiach.

really don't know about that sha, maybe coz of many reasons will make them carry u give us na

hmm khiaa khiaa so what are you searching about African men

is that the same God I know

Letter to Single Ladies!!!



This is to you girlfriend: Please help yourself by doing everything you can to keep that look of disappointment off your face. I know your age mates are all married. I know your colleagues get married every Saturday. I know we need men as much as they need us. I know your mother wakes you up every morning with, " my daughter, is there no one yet?" I know you are bothered about menopause and childbearing.

But I want you to be happy at all times. Some unmarried ladies are not attractive,not because they are not beautiful; they are not attractive because when people look at them all they see is pain and disappointment. What has happened to that positive vibe you were known for? What has happened to the face that brought hope to others? Why have you allowed yourself to age prematurely just because there is no man yet? Your look and the glory that has left your face could be all you need to get a man hooked.

A good number of single women live in perpetual bitterness and depression. Many of them sleep and wake up in hatred for their fellow lady simply because they cant understand why it should be her and why God should be loving and blessing her. I really do understand your frustration. But there's no reason good enough to justify this wrong. If you love good, you will have good in your life. We all have our times and seasons in life, never pray for yours to come before God's time because that would mean pain.

Do you stop wanting to be married? Do you stop waiting for your husband? Well, of course not. Desiring to be married is never the problem.

How you allow the lack of a husband to hold you back from the other blessings that God has for you is the problem. Too busy sulking and longing and not enough time considering that God was elevating your life in so many other ways. Why invest so much of your time and emotion into something that is not yet? I know how badly you want to be happy with your life, but you are missing the forest for the trees.

Stop deceiving yourself by believing you must sleep with every Tom, Dick, and Harry to get them to marry you. Stop throwing yourself at men just at the sound of "I will marry you"; a good number of them only want to go in between your legs. They won't marry you; they can only use and dump you. Because men have seen high level of desperation among the sisters, they now feel they can enjoy themselves as they like just by using the word, 'I want to marry you'.


Some of them are genuine and they mean whatever they say to you, but he also understands that it's not just about good sex and beautiful figure; he knows that marriage is serious business and must be entered with eyes wide open. He wants to see a woman with great vision who will give him the necessary push he needs to become great. He needs a woman who can discuss business and issues with him, not just sex, movies, holidays, and shopping. He wants a woman who fears God because she will be his backbone and pillar. Even in their madness, men still love having a very godly woman for marriage. He wants a woman who will be a mother and raise godly seeds. He wants a woman who will be busy building lives and working with her hands, not busy destroying with her mouth. He wants a woman, not a girl.

Stop running away with all kinds of excuses when your friends invite you to their wedding. When you are invited, please dress well and enter the hall with so much laughter and smile. Don't go about castigating your married friends and causing problems in their homes by devouring with your mouth because there is karma and it's real. Some women confide so much in their single friends without knowing that they are behind whatever problems they are into. Don't get it twisted; I am, in no way, saying that you shouldn't keep single friends as a married woman; I have very reliable single - never-married, divorced, and widowed women who are better than many married in terms of sound advice and confidentiality. But you must be wise.
Stop the excess makeup and dress to look younger. Makeup is meant to enhance your natural beauty and not turn you to a masquerade. When I say "dress to look younger", I am not talking about nudity. Know what hairstyle and colour makes you look younger.

Know the dress style that accentuates your best features. Don't go for anything because it's in vogue or because it looks good on your friend. Dress for men to know that you are single and available. Stop dressing to make yourself a "thick madam" before your time; dress for a younger and more vibrant you.

If you can get that smile back and wear it again, you will see years taken off. Work on your character, carry yourself well remembering that the pride of womanhood must be protected. No matter what you do, never allow anyone make you less of a human because you are not married, but be sure it's not because of you.

Your character, fashion sense, job, location, and friends could be the problem you have; make changes where necessary. Stop hating on married friends. start dressing, walking, sitting, standing, and talking like a mother and wife material whose husband will count himself blessed.


Deal with those things that scare men away. Be happy again, deal with jealousy, bitterness, and hatred. Worship God in sincerity and not just jumping into the choir or becoming an usher or prayer warrior because you want to be noticed. I see some single women act very uncoordinated in their church group; they insult even heads of departments and treat young men like they are nothing. You do all these because it's just a church group without realizing that someone from that group may end up becoming your in-law tomorrow. As an usher in church or a community group, how do you talk to people? So many single sisters in church who are in the ushering department need to be taught to put on a smile and talk to people, especially fellow women, well even if they are older.

Is "asslicker " trying to say it's all as a result of our works? Certainly no; he's only telling you to do your best and leave the rest to God.

I acknowledge the fact that so many bad girls are married today and the good girls are waiting. I agree; she was a bad girl, but what if her smile and jovial nature helped? You are a good girl, no doubt, but what about your attitude towards people?

Do the right thing and hold on to God, the right man will come.

#My lovely female friends, I wish you all well#

Chikita66:
I'm fine.

OK oo, u nor go clubbing tonight, abi u and ya baby dey form gragra

Chikita66:
I am the lioness .

eheh OK oo nor let them hear you ooo
anyway how far na

Chikita66:
Imagine lolu denying his girlfriend when he was evicted, that is how some guys are when they become something, they forget the lady that stood by them when they were nothing.


Iranu!

come e be like u nor dey fear lion ooo

DrinkLimca:
Lol My brother, south Africans are the ladies on earth with the baddest, natural big asses..

50% of my Facebook friends are south African ladies,, mehnn you need to see the way these ladies dey kill me with ass and boobs..

Nothing beats south Africans when it comes to ukwu..
My ex is even from south Africa..

yeah I know all these

Waow Waow am so surprised, u dated a South African before now, but why did that word "ex"took it turn

khiaa:
You asked a question and I answered it, you did not say the question was rhetorical.

sorry this already was delivered before you replied

khiaa:
1. I found this forum on Google in search of information on African people, google sent me here.
2. I'm not loving nairaland, I'm finding it very difficult not to deactivate my account, most of the friends I had deactivated their accounts years ago.
3 Which god are you talking about? I believe in The Most Hugh.
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uhm OK ooo!

so deactivating your account is a good idea or u just irritated by some few or numerous humans who got (bipolar)
well stick and enjoy Africans nothing bad you came to this society!

what where you searching for actually, that is not the answer am expecting from you

u believe in the most high who's this most high?

DrinkLimca:
Alright let me go and find her through her pic..

I must get her before month ending..

thanks for the pic though..

hahahahah bad guy, relax eee we get Nigerian mad ukwu here ooo

khiaa:
Why would I want to live there? I live in Palm Springs but one day I will move to San Diego, I love it there, the Pacific Ocean is beautiful.

madam I did not ask you a question to reply me with one ooo

khiaa:
You can ask me anything you like.

hahahahah see free right's, not when I start asking and u running away

wait ooo how did you find this forum? why you so loving Nairaland, sometimes I wonder how far away creatures in America got this discovery character...

khiaa:
Tinseltown is Hollywood, I don't live in that homosexual, pedophilia, freak town.

hahahahah chai u crazy so why can't you live there? free world oo

wait o do you believe in God

khiaa:
Not San Diego County, Riverside County. I'm about 3 hours away from Mexico.

oh oh oh thought so sha!

come oo, I wan ask u small question oo

MrToothBrush:
You want them to ban my account abi ?? Dem don wash all my alternate already. Can't risk this one

hia OK ooo anytime anyday u really ready, just mention me

DrinkLimca:
You know her in person?

no no no, I only used her pics when I crossed her part during my search!

khiaa:
I'm on the boulevard. My vacation is over I start back tomorrow.

Tinseltown!

khiaa:
I'm on the boulevard. My vacation is over I start back tomorrow.

oh that San Diego county na just close to Mexican border it more of a desert area
oh good oo before u grow fat