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lefulefu:
and the funny thing of it all is that some of these ladies when they get married to rich men they start spending their rich husband's money on their broke ex if they are codedly having affairs with the ex.

. guy man ,abeg we need to yan

Twoclans:
My guy I dey .
How is martin today?

fine fine fine

Twoclans:
LOL

How you dey? You are just getting badder and badder everyday .I can't even count how many babes you have toasted this week. You even created a whole thread just to toast women. ohhhhhh chimooooo .

Do you like that position ? Try it with your babe her life will never remain the same

you too dey talk jor..

anyway how your side Na

lefulefu:
the pining for wall no be here oo. They so much into each other. Hey hw u doin?.

this your babe get character ooo, this girl hmmmm Lefulefu this girl they mingle with person wey I know ooo. ...

twoclans nwan Biko how you take get that pics

mhisbliss:
Yap and its kinda weird since he knows alot about me and i know alot about him aswell, it feels awkward

Exactly

mhisbliss:
Nope i didn't want him, in fact the thought of it is kinda awkward back then, he tried twice and i outrightly said no, and when he tried the third time, i was like ok let's give it a try, i was scared it'll ruin our friendship, yet here we are

That was your thoughts then, so now it different..

Now you sacrificed your friendship so to make a step... Your prediction then was it was never gonna work..

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mhisbliss:
You can mention him if you wish

what his moniker

mhisbliss:
Actually i haven't gotten close to any nairalander on a personal level, i just kill it here before it materialize into something tangible, i have seen things so you won't understand.

And my current relationship which is the first in a long time happened just like that, I'm not after his money or anything, he's an off and on friend, we've been friends for more than 8yrs and at one time he was my best friend and things kinda got awkward when i realized he wants something more, it just happened

That is because you ladies have different thoughts especially when we men ask for friendship, it translated to a different thing entirely...

So I won't understand, ummm this is coming from a lady " I won't understand " chai this got me laughing ooo

So you did realize huh, now that what I call a nice girl with great humor!

But we should conclude you already wanted him too especially more above friendship because I can say you already feel that lonely whenever his off..

pocohantas:
Martins oginni?
I did the needed. You didn't respond.
What should I do again?

Sorry for this disturbances, I saw it, but couldn't access due to a problem..

Just make ur written to me down here or probably check my profile, got an accessible one down along the lines... Sorry for this disturbances once again ....

mhisbliss:
Ya he's still a member, he's mostly in business section

Lets leave it at somewhere in the north

it will be a pleasure if I get to know him!

OK if you say so, I understand that!

mhisbliss:
My twin brother who has been a nairalander since 2014 told me about nairaland

Somewhere in the north

Tell me, how have survived guy's who woo or lemme say toast you? knowing fully well you got one in your life!

You know I have this fair believe ladies encounter the most difficult of a tempting times from men to be precise! How have you survived all these?

We seek relationship for various reasons, it either on platonic form or reversed, now what made you seek one?

probably because his handsome?
Rich, or because you fell inlove?

Are these probably one of your reasons to seek one and why you in it?

mhisbliss:
My twin brother who has been a nairalander since 2014 told me about nairaland

Somewhere in the north

Your twin brother, so he's still a member here?

Somewhere in the north... where is this place

pocohantas:
60%

sorry I missed it from you, please lemme have urs?

mhisbliss:
Ask away

how did you got to know about Nairaland?
where are you from?

wyzoe:
I
I dey greet you. I nor fit greet my guy again?

oh OK oo, I greet you too

mhisbliss:
Lol sarcasm? Can smell it from miles away

sorry, wanna ask some few questions please

wyzoe:
Martin0, weh done

wetin happen nau

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. I thought it was a real business offer! Like WTF? That's really an offence to my person.
I ain't interested dude! Who is offering the offer? I mean who's the Whizkid behind this?

hahahahah hahahahah hahahahah

mhisbliss:
I hope you made her understand

clearly I did..

mhisbliss:
So in a nutshell, you left her to protect her from you? Or because you want the best for her

I want the best for her!

sisisioge:

Ayam a child of God

yeye

sisisioge:
She's defo not in Nigeria! She probably in a country where the kids get free education, medicals and even collect allowance!

I love seex all natural too but naija is a good birth control

abeg use protection oo

mhisbliss:
You wooed her right? Not the other way around, If she was the one that wooed you, I'd understand why you took her for granted. Ask a Nigerian guy out and he'll start feeling like deputy jesus

OK. good to be specific I don't allow ladies especially to ask a Nigerian guy out because it definitely gonna be a different expression!

Then again we hmmmm OK I wooed her, whatever that means to you

But we didn't just start like that, it started as friends for a long long time... She was already part of me as more of like a guardian and a teacher..

But as you know, when you love deeply, like I mean true love, like real character of "love " Every negatives becomes a positive to you at that time of your life.. That is the more reason why relationships is more unless never predictable even if you try to...

The love was still there honestly, but sometimes it comes and goes... consistency was not achieved anymore...

See miz I can bet my ass you wouldn't notice when I suddenly change if it was you, never mind how much you know me, you wouldn't know..

it cost me pains, made me look weak and offcurse very weak before I could walk up to her and say my mind...

In this new generation of modern relationships people just walk out of it anytime they wish to not minding what the other goes home with..

No matter what happens in life you just have to sacrifice for the best...

She was financially OK better than me, served as a Helper, a teacher, guardian, but how about me, what will I serve to her when the time comes.. Now that is another question!

I would gladly choose to hold her to myself probably till this moment, because no one would allow a golden cup taken out of his mouth, he or she will always wanna drink from it continuously!

I would have gotten her pregnant I decided,
and yeah maybe gotten some little impunity from her country!

Now what? Is that all about life and relationships?

mhisbliss:
When you asked her out you liked her then, what happened now? The feelings just fade away over time or she did something wrong, and from the look of things, you're the one who choosed to leave after trying to butter her up ofcourse

please can you emphasize more on what you personally mean by "asked her out "

As you know, life is all about choice and choices.
We decide to make up for the best part of our lives, we always wish to have the best part of every moment to ourselves, but then again "decisions "are made..

Now answer my first line before I reply you what you wish to hear!

mhisbliss:
So thats a more humane way of saying she was duly compensated for the heart break, you're wicked fa

you concluded so quick?

I was still with her for possibly 1year and some few months just to make sure nothing goes wrong with her...

Tell me, what did you expect of me??
Deceive her? let to her? offcurse I can't lie not especially to her Coz she knows me too well we can't frame any fake attitudes to each other...

I did what I only managed to think of then, am just a mere human like you miz, remember ,you and I know human can never be satisfied!

We went on touring various locations, bills paid by her though! What else can I do to make her adjust to our decisions...

Do you know how old she will possibly be by now?See I care so much about so many things which is not to live a life of regret and hurt people too...

I will do same if it was you!
But if you will keep me for a reason as you said, then no problem, but I just hope you don't look into my eyes some day and call me "fucvked up nigga "

mhisbliss:
Ya, why?

Nothing !Just asking

mhisbliss:
But you're not supposed to pursue happiness without putting your partner first, thats selfish

No she was never left alone, I made sure I got the best for her before her birthday...

I linked her up soon after because you know, it was never gonna be easy for her...

So my friend was already in a secret mood loving her and she was aware... Just that my friend wouldn't accept some forms from her!

But then again the click and today they have a daughter and live together in petermeriztburg.

mhisbliss:
Which question

Are you in a relationship?

oh yeah let see....

mhisbliss:
Yap, happiness matters

You ignored one of my questions, but I dont care to ask you about it again! maybe you have a reason to have ignored it..