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We met in camp last year October. We now started dating. B4 I agree to date him, he told me about his ex gf, what he wanted, like taking in for him first, doesn't want white wedding, and after he is married, after one year of the marriage he will travel abroad to go hustle. I agreed to dat I will take in for him, and dat he can travel abroad but after he must have gotten his papers, he will come carry his family along. But along d run, as the relationship is going on, I found out that even if at all he travels abroad after getting married to him and giving birth for him, he will forget his family in Nigeria and marry a white woman abroad and make his wife in Nigeria a house wife to be watching over his properties here in Nigeria.
As d relationship is going on too. I found out dat he still communicate with his ex almost everyday, even sending her money,airtime, and even want to rent a house for her. Aprt from that, he tells his ex almost all his plans and any moves e plans to take.
Since I av known a man I av never one day taken in cause I was scared of pregnancy and I don't want my dad to disown me. So I was always careful. Remember I told u I agree to take in for him. But we be been dating for 7 months now, and I haven't taken in for him dunno y. My guy na went to tell his ex dat I cannot take in for him,dat he is worried and told d gal dat is like God don't want me to take in for him. He now told d gal, dat dey would av been good couples and give birth to beautiful kids if only d gal had agreed to his plans.
Before now, he use our pix as his screensaver, same tin with me. But since e started dating dis white woman abroad, he remove our pix as his screensaver and put the white woman pix there. And dis is d guy dat I don't ask money, I find it difficult to ask him money, I feel pity for him cause of the load on his head. Still he doesn't give me back d same love I av for him,.
Also, he is a catholic and e doesn't believes in miracles, prophecies. And I attend pentecostal church. And I don't attend catholic church. He is saying if e marries me I must attend catholic church with him and take his kids to catholic church.
Please I need ur advice. Do u guys think he is d right one for me I feel he still love his ex and equallly loves d white woman. I just feel e want to use me for his personal gains, like watching over his properties, turning me to a hux wife. And make me suffer. I av been asking him to start business for me so I will be supportive. He didn't open d business. But when he and his ex wer dating he opened a business for her and till today e is still giving her money to support the business.
PLS I need ur advice am confused I don't want to be fooled, used and misled. Please. I want to liv the relationship