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Hello nairalander, I hope we all good. I have a lil issue I sincerely needs matured advice, most especially from matured,newly married and people that has passed through a similar situation of mine. I'm a young guy of 27, working and all, about 5 years ago I met this lady online on a flirt app, we got talking and all. Initially the age she has on her profile wasn't her real age and I took it to be her age,as she was very matured looking and was only 16 then. We just talk dirty all those while and as time went by, we became close friends,and she made me know it wasn't her real age she uploaded as I kept giving telling her an age higher than hers. We got dating,and for the very first time we saw last year and we both got intimate which was our first experience,as she actually bleed during the process,and this made the connection I have for her more intimate. Though not something to be proud off, but it was one of my best moments,as I enjoyed the fact that we got intimate as virgins,and this made me love her very much. Now the problem I am having is that she barely meet up with my emotional demands, after work on a good day, if we get chatting and I ask for a video call or a selfie of her, she will tell me she can't, or not in the mood, aside this she barely do whatever I ask her to do without she complaining, even when it is for her own good, and as a man it makes me feel sad. I have discussed this with her severally that I don't like this, that she isn't submissive as I want her to, she will tell she noticed I get angry when she doesn't accept to do what I tell her to,that can't she have her own say. Overtime I have listed things I initiated her to do even when she didn't want to and the positive results it yielded. I personally love her dearly and I have done a good number of things for her, aside this I have settled it in mind that I want marry her when she is done with studies, but I am having many doubt. She doesn't do anything for me that cause her any financial burden and if as little as agreeing to send me recent selfie of her as we chat and accept video call becomes a problem Even when I provide data, then I don't know what to do. Personally I feel it's jus an age thing as she is barely 20,and I am going to 27, and maybe with time she will change. Or maybe she is jus taking the advantage because she knows I love her and will forgive her if she messes up. On my part, am I not being to emotional, or is it that she is not as ready for a relationship as much as I am, and am I not jus being blind to obvious signs. No Matt how I'll the society speaks I'll about love,it is a good thing to be in love, to have someone that is compassionate about you,and gives an alm for you to rest on,and that's what I only want. Now I'm that kinda person that easily get along with a woman when my heart is somewhere else,and it can be hard to believe,I find it hard to believe that a man in his right senses won't think twice and jus sleep with any lady even if he uses a condom, all this things I don't enjoy and I need jus one person that can accommodate my emotional needs and I'm finding it difficult. I jus need a matured and sincere advice and counsel .

Hello everyone, I recently got a job in a company in ojota, and for the past few weeks I have been spending heavily on transportation and feeding, almost equivalent to my start up salary in a month. I am soliciting for an accomodation from any responsible working class guy(s), around ojota and environs,for a short period . As soon as I am fully staffed,as it is a graduate trainee for six months I got a job into, and as soon as I gather some cash, I will get a place to rent, or better still, join in paying rent. I hope to get a positive reply from someone on this platform, thanks.

The only problem I have with this lady's post is the generalization. There are quite a number of ladies that are very responsible,and work to meet up there needs,and even more. But the truth is,all she said is very true of majority of Nigerian ladies, very true. We all know the genesis of all this shit is the bad government we have, but this girls are not even considerate at all, and they are not ashamed to display the act. Why put so much burden on someone's son with your insatiable personal and sometimes family needs,with jus sex to offer. Sometimes I don't blame them, I blame guys that knows all of these things and still decide to keep them as gf because of sex. I have a good number of ladies I stopped messaging, because what follows next is demands. one forcing herself on me to complicate the little I am managing, I had to tell her openly,I don't love you and we can't work for several months until she finally lock up. The most senseless thing a Nigerian lady told me was that I should go and learn yahoo,so my parents won't suffer at old age,such senseless talk...... I have had a good experience with naija ladies and many of there stupid attitude. nevertheless, I wont settle to marry a white, I will patiently keep my head's up in whatever I am doing till that one black woman that best suit me cross my path, trust me, black is beautiful and blessed.

I have been waiting patiently for the Fg ban on Twitter to be lifted and I think it taking too long. Can someone please recommend an ads free,or ads less vpn for me, the one that will work perfectly well for the sole purpose of using Twitter, thank you.

Please I need help here,after serious war to enroll and finally getting my Nin slip from a glo office enrollment center, I tried entering my Nin number on the Nimc app,and am get a no record found response. What could be the reason for this,and any possible solution?

Can anyone recommend an IT firm I can intern with around yaba Lagos. I jus got started in frontend development, knowing just the basics. I need mentorship on this path,and volunteering as an intern is the best thing I can think of now. You can please reach me on my mail , thank you.
jamesafolabi931@gmail.com

I have tried this o, but I ended up getting scrambled channel. I noticed there are alot of satellite to choose from,but of all I have blink scan,none brought more than 3 stations. I don't know the one to blink scan to get the stations there before.

In trying to get more station for my Aunty viewsat VRT 4922HD satellite decoder,I restarted the decoder,and now I have lost all the station,and I couldn't get anyone again. She use to have more of church stations, I need help on how to get them back please

What is the cheapest price I can get as transportation fare from Zaria to Port Harcourt. Name of bus company,and the location in Zaria, thank you

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