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wittywriter:
@OP if you have a GTCo/ GTB account then approach your account officer to apply for it via online through them..... It's a less stressful process to procure the Ecowas Passport....Thanks to boss@seniorwriter that made me get mine through the process.


Ecowas is the standard passport .


@Wittywriter.

wittywriter:
@OP if you have a GTCo/ GTB account then approach your account officer to apply for it via online through them..... It's a less stressful process to procure the Ecowas Passport....Thanks to boss@seniorwriter that made me get mine through the process.


@Wittywriter.

SlawG:
Apply for virtual card.

SlawG:
Download gomoney app from playstore

Lifeisgoody:
Calm down bro. I know how you feel.
Some factors are responsible for her change in attitude.
1. She has tasted the forbidden fruit. (Sex)
2. Peer pressure.

I can bet with you from experience that the girl is just starting to explore life. It's very normal. You did same too, if you can just flash back.
My advise: it's either you're patient with her or find another girl of your calibre (Finance, Education, Work).

All you are experiencing with her is just normal

HenryDion:
You're seeing her as a project you need to perfect, which can't work. You can't tell her what to do and not to do with her life, or try to mould her into something you want.

InTheCloudySky:
So you were chatting with her 4-years and she didn't tell you her real age until last year? Lol, you know that's not true. But let me suppose for a second that she didn't, you didn't ask about her life, school, siblings/family, or other things?! Because these things would've given her real age away. Or all your chats with her were about sex and nothing else?

InTheCloudySky:
If you met 5-years ago on the app and you thought she was "only 16" and now she's "barely 20", which means she's about 19 now and you were actually doing all those dirty talks with her when she was 14. She did tell you her real age when you got to talking and the proper thing for you to have done was step away because you don't do that with a minor.

Bignuell:
I don't know for sure but lemme tell you something. I know it's hard keeping it all this years and right now, you probably feel you're not appreciated enough. I don't know but maybe you have attachment or validation issues. I've been there. You're 27, she 19. You've lived enough to not want to make mistake, she's young, probably just want to start making mistakes. You still gat alot of love in ya. This is what'll i'll tell you. Some girls are like wild bird, virgins or not, they don't want to be caged, they want fly high, match their strength with the breeze from the forest. Get something productive doinh, delete that "i want to marry her thought" from your head. Since you point her fault countless time and no change, let that ship sail. Remember, she just started living,

InTheCloudySky:
She doesn't meet your emotional demands because she doesn't send you selfies or do video calls when you ask? Mtchew. Let the girl breathe and stop pestering her.

According to what you wrote up there, she was actually 14 when you met, so you were dirty-talking with a 14-year old. Someone who could've been your little sister. That's sick, dude.
Almost 16, I'm not the first, Akon had the same issue at a time and faced many controversy, but nobody questioned the girl why she had to lie about her age

InTheCloudySky:
She doesn't meet your emotional demands because she doesn't send you selfies or do video calls when you ask? Mtchew. Let the girl breathe

According to what you wrote, she was actually 14 when you met, so you were dirty-talking with a 14-year old. Someone who could've been your little sister. That's sick, dude.

Dannyyoung26:
Just be patient bro, my babe same attitudes, and I have been monitoring and studying her.
Firstly don't force actions on her, you will worsen the situation.
When she does what you don't like. Just give some time. Discuss the issue but don't talk much.
Play her like you don't care also.
Don't show that you love her all time
Put her in a situation of doubt.
She will do what you want...

Iyaebe:
All ladies ain't the same,some of us went through school without keeping a boyfriend or visiting any boy to do rubbish, check her background and other things.You are insecured.

Starz825:
I have come to notice something
Most people who kept their virginity so dearly tend to lose it at 27...as in 27 (that age number in particular) both male and female..it could be as a result of pressure or curiosity that causes this sha..I don't know..
If you can see past 27 with your virginity... nothing go freak you again...

Iyaebe:
If you love her then be patient with her,she'll outgrow some things eventually. There are silly things I did just this last year that I can't do anymore, I've never seen anyone as silly as I am but I discovered that I'm growing and leaving some behind. She's still young and she'll grow, we all would grow.

Iyaebe:
Not all ladies like that video calls and sending of pictures, I personally hates it and I'm not comfortable with men having my pictures on their phone, I don't just like it.You are stressing her too much,she's young pls let her grow, I hate men who lacks understanding.

goshikid:
Wahala for who still dy do online love like Op

With so many fine chicks around na babe where no sabi how to wear pant well you go the love, she don see who she go use shine.

A grown up man of 27 years come the do as if small nut don lose for him head

Op to use 2 by 2 plank ontop you for go well i swear

ParpahSeventy:
At 20 you should know most people are confused about what they want and what they don't want.

KiNg0G:
I doubt if this op don pass 17.

27 kee you there....small children And their tantrums full nairaland remain.