KiNg0G:
I doubt if this op don pass 17.

27 kee you there....small children And their tantrums full nairaland remain.

ParpahSeventy:
At 20 you should know most people are confused about what they want and what they don't want.

Mautinfoster:


You can drop your mail, let's make a video call later in the day Bro and confirm you jus said something that's false, don't pour out your aggression on an innocent individual please.

goshikid:
Wahala for who still dy do online love like Op

With so many fine chicks around na babe where no sabi how to wear pant well you go the love, she don see who she go use shine.

A grown up man of 27 years come the do as if small nut don lose for him head

Op to use 2 by 2 plank ontop you for go well i swear

Iyaebe:
Not all ladies like that video calls and sending of pictures, I personally hates it and I'm not comfortable with men having my pictures on their phone, I don't just like it.You are stressing her too much,she's young pls let her grow, I hate men who lacks understanding.

Mautinfoster:

Hmmmm, considering the fact that , that is the only way I can bridge the distance barrier we have, as im in Lagos and she far in a south south state. If we see at least weekly,I wouldn't be asking of that, and I am not jus a random guy to her, we are both dating,and it's a different case. If there is a better way you think I can employ to bridge the distance barrier aside this, you can let me know.

Iyaebe:
If you love her then be patient with her,she'll outgrow some things eventually. There are silly things I did just this last year that I can't do anymore, I've never seen anyone as silly as I am but I discovered that I'm growing and leaving some behind. She's still young and she'll grow, we all would grow.

Starz825:
I have come to notice something
Most people who kept their virginity so dearly tend to lose it at 27...as in 27 (that age number in particular) both male and female..it could be as a result of pressure or curiosity that causes this sha..I don't know..
If you can see past 27 with your virginity... nothing go freak you again...

Starz825:
I have come to notice something
Most people who kept their virginity so dearly tend to lose it at 27...as in 27 (that age number in particular) both male and female..it could be as a result of pressure or curiosity that causes this sha..I don't know..
If you can see past 27 with your virginity... nothing go freak you again...

Mautinfoster:

The exact same feeling I have, but I'm jus scared if I won't be deceiving myself, while she is somewhere getting intimate with another guy.
No matter how a lady was before getting into school,no matter the innocent face they can have, with what I have seen passing through university, I really don't have as much trust as I had before,and if it eventually happened she is doing all of that, I will be really pained, these are my fears on this.

Iyaebe:
All ladies ain't the same,some of us went through school without keeping a boyfriend or visiting any boy to do rubbish, check her background and other things.You are insecured.

Dannyyoung26:
Just be patient bro, my babe same attitudes, and I have been monitoring and studying her.
Firstly don't force actions on her, you will worsen the situation.
When she does what you don't like. Just give some time. Discuss the issue but don't talk much.
Play her like you don't care also.
Don't show that you love her all time
Put her in a situation of doubt.
She will do what you want...

InTheCloudySky:
She doesn't meet your emotional demands because she doesn't send you selfies or do video calls when you ask? Mtchew. Let the girl breathe

According to what you wrote, she was actually 14 when you met, so you were dirty-talking with a 14-year old. Someone who could've been your little sister. That's sick, dude.

InTheCloudySky:
She doesn't meet your emotional demands because she doesn't send you selfies or do video calls when you ask? Mtchew. Let the girl breathe and stop pestering her.

According to what you wrote up there, she was actually 14 when you met, so you were dirty-talking with a 14-year old. Someone who could've been your little sister. That's sick, dude.
Almost 16, I'm not the first, Akon had the same issue at a time and faced many controversy, but nobody questioned the girl why she had to lie about her age

Bignuell:
I don't know for sure but lemme tell you something. I know it's hard keeping it all this years and right now, you probably feel you're not appreciated enough. I don't know but maybe you have attachment or validation issues. I've been there. You're 27, she 19. You've lived enough to not want to make mistake, she's young, probably just want to start making mistakes. You still gat alot of love in ya. This is what'll i'll tell you. Some girls are like wild bird, virgins or not, they don't want to be caged, they want fly high, match their strength with the breeze from the forest. Get something productive doinh, delete that "i want to marry her thought" from your head. Since you point her fault countless time and no change, let that ship sail. Remember, she just started living,

Mautinfoster:

I feel your point. Attachment issues, I will say yes. Thank you for your time.