princesavo:
Bro dont agree with those who said she's having it somewhere else. It happened to babe and she said the same thing. She said she was already used to me and thats the major reason it happened. I had to just surprise her by playing often and not even being sexual about it. It’s totally normal bro. Take your mind off sex for now, and just be more romantic. Kiss her forehead when she’s not looking, peck her, watch movies with her, cuddle her, kiss her randomly and with time, she will loosen up

Thanks so much bro

Ximenez:
She is already bored and wants to try something else, something new.

You can still patch things up and drag it on a little further, but I'll advise you to not do anything and just observe. Chances are that she's already talking to your replacement.

OK bro

Ab025:
Dont fret out bro,

There is nothing you can do. If she doesn't feel attracted to you again, trust me.... don't force it.....let her be.

Do your own part and if it doesn't work out, walk away. Life continues.

OK bro. Thanks

Ahmed0336:
Guy are you sure she's not into lesbianism?

Very sure she's not bro

Monaco2:
How old is she

She's 26

Oh hail fellow Nairalanders!
Pls I do want to be as brief as possible.

I need a serious advice on how to go about this challenge.

I've notice for like a month now or so that my girlfriend and I we don't get too close any longer( don't mean we have issues, but like asexually) unlike before, she just can't wait to see me, she would hug,kiss and would want to be rolling all over me.

Since we've been dating we've had se**x and it was always awesome, at a time we both agree to stay off it till we get married.
There was a time she told me she at times she don't use to have urge for a long time. So I felt may be due to obvious reasons like stress and the likes.

To crown it all. Yesterday she open up to me and tell me that she has a problem, that for a long time now she never had any urg for me, she thought may be something went wrong that made her not have find herself attracted to me but that's not the case, that all men are even looking irritating to her, she doesn't want men close to her.

Her fears go deeper that even when she was surpose to have the urg as a normal being may be before, during and after her normal monthly period reverse is the case as she doesn't feel anything at all.

I became freez, because I noticed it but never wanted to wrongly conclude what I wasn't so sure of.

Pls elders and aunties of Nairaland kindly help a brethren in dear need.

Attn: Mod assist pls in pushing this forward.

Note! I'm not a good writer pls, so shun my bad nararion and focus on the point.
All questions will be answered.
Thanks.