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livialives: It depends on the Mindset of the Couple and how each was raised.
The Dynamics of your relationship won't be the same for another.
I for one hardly make breakfast for my Man.
He insists on making me breakfast in bed ALL THE TIME!! I've only made breakfast for him twice but he refuses to let me and tells me to relax.
Also when I do cook and I'm about to start cleaning and washing used dishes he appears out of Nowhere to clean up for me . Telling me to relax and let him do the cleaning. I'm almost spoilt even but because he. Chooses to pamper me. I'm very lucky to have him and I don't take him for granted (because I know majority of men don't do it).
My point is "It all Depends on what works for You"

Wow! Bliss babyyyyyyyy, me likey, enjoy oh and keep stayin fresh

Oahray: hmmm... Sounding like a job interview already. We'd both get banned for derailing if I answer your question here.

Oya PM now now

chikeorji123: Morning for him?...what about me? oh i see *just passing*.

Ah ahn, lol, is dis jealousy I smell?

Oahray: Ask again and it shall be given to you.

Ok, u know my first name, wats urs and where do u know me from? Mornin

Oahray: Ok ask the question again

I'l bite u oh

Oahray: The same guy that called you Amina

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, I know! Dats not d question ogbeni

Oahray: leave am jor

Thank you ore mi

Oahray: True... Neither should men worship any woman for any reason, cos they would still end up being ex anyway. For example...

lemme oh! Who r u na pls?

Oahray: when it becomes the man's duty to provide for her needs.

#Gbam #Gbammer #Gbammest ur so on point!

chikeorji123: Relief! but is not a crime if things finally work-out for both of u hope the current one won't ended been Ex?..

U dey find tori

Oahray: Everything has a price, even love. It might not be monetary. If the scenario you just painted happens, it's only because the lady placed a N1500 price tag on herself, and it has nothing to do with helping her bf out with stuff.

More often than not, abuse is birthed from her overdependence (financial or emotional) on the guy. It's easier to disrespect someone depending on you than someone you depend on. I'm sure you know that.

Whether d guy is just a jerk or d lady is a bimbo, women should never enslave themselves to any man for any reason and with any means, no matter wat u do, if its not meant to b den it won't b

ifihearam: So performing your duties has transformed into slavery for 2013 babes??
na wa oooo

Try to understand a post before u quote it and a woman should b real to herself in a relationship and do wat comes from her heart to a guy dat deserves and reciprocates dat affection

chikeorji123: Did u said ur EX?..and u bear such a nice name MAYA2PRETTY why so many ex these days?..

Eh let's just say we weren't meant to b, we r still very good frienda though

Oahray: I like the bold part. Nice point. But this is an example of what I am saying... It's a thing of pride for you that he 'worshipped' you. Probably showering you with stuff. I'm sure no girl in this situation would object.
But something as petty as cooking could make the girl a 'slave'. Why? Cos most girls are only after what they can get, not what they can give.

If doing something for her so-called bf makes a girl feel like a slave, it really says alot about the kind of person she is.

True, my on take on slavery in dis context is wen d guy abuses u and ur good intentions and treats u like his 1500 naira house girl den most idiots would force sex on u as change to d 1500 value they attached to u, we all need to b wise in anythin we do

My ex couldn't even
cook indomie properly, it was my greatest delight to cook for him at every given opportunity while he worshipped me lol but he eventually learnt d basics of cookin cos I insisted dat he learnt somethings so he won't b totally dependent. If dere's love den it'l b ur pleasure to help out, not become a slave

Idowuogbo: Exactly... Don't mind all dis pepeyes dating mini-hitlers. Shooor!

Lol, a woman is a helper not a slave

ItsModella: No, I don't subscribe to cohabiting. But it doesn't take cohabiting to do wifey things for your boyfriend everyday.

But still he shouldn't just sit around everyday waitin 4 u na? He's not a baby, dere should b work free days

CFCfan: The lady can help out, but she shouldn't be doing it alone.

Exactly, a
reasonable guy dat cares always helps out even in marriage, division of labour, its fun

4words: you no fit commot eye. Mtcheeew

Lol

I believe anything u do in a relationship should b because u want to not because its wat d world expects. If u really love d guy den it comes from d hrt, u just want to make him happy and d extent u go is ur bizzz, keepin it real is vital in a relationship

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Ok, comin

@yoshiyuki and CFCfan, lol u guys rnt serious

Ivynwa: I understand how you feel.
How are you today. Hugs to you.

Bigger hugs to u dearie, my day has been cool

@ivynwa pressure? me ke? my dear d bible says he who finedth[/b]so he's d one under d pressure of findin me, mine is just to focus on my career and let God worry about that, afterall he said [b]cast all ur burdens upon me lol, the tot of meetin him and all just makes me happy it always does

Adam Levine of Maroon 5 and BankyW, Banky's song pierce thru my very soul while Adam's voice is... words cant explain it!

CFCfan: The person dey fear.
My 5'10'' lady, how u dey?

am fineeeee, chillin

jmoore: Oh Lord have mercy upon thy daughters!!

lol

chichi254: Hmmmmm! Can't wait 2 meet mine. Hav preserved so many things 4 jst him. Gonna count himself d luckiest man on earth. 'I luv u so much d future king of my world'!

awwwwwww

nbright: Who are U really.... U just say exactly what I've been saying ever since.... Most Nigerians (mostly our girls) don't watch what and how they eat... As long as they are not paying, they will order everything on the menu.... Pls girls, learn to exercise ur body and if u have a big/protuding tummy, go on a diet...

hahahahahaha Uncle Bright

@ivy sweetheart lol, I feel u, it's just d way God wired me, I cant even stand guys my height, I can cope wit slightly taller but it's BLISS when I look up to u 2 talk 2 u, when my head is on ur chest, am not like d averagelly heighted woman and I want my man to make me feel little, I love bein pampered like a doll and I need to feel small to actually feel dat way 4 real

CFCfan: Mine are Emma Nyra, Tonto Dikeh, Jackie Appiah, Yvonne Nelson, Chika Ike and Toke Makinwa.

hmmm, u like petite women and at d same time tall ones, u like fair and at d same time dark ones, ur just an oliver twisttttt

@carmy and Ivynwa God 4give me 4 what I want to say cos they didn't create themselves but my major turn off is a short guy talkin about love 2 me there's nothin more annoyin dan a man am taller dan professin love *shivers* I detest it, nobody should take it personal