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eee777:
Lets deal

u selling or u buying?

what of neteller

how much do you buy netteller now and in how many minutes do you pay?

who has traded with this guys before?

odikwa serious

how much do you buy skrill?

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wow

one piece

QuietHammer:
Closing of borders and the new immigration law doesn't mean the US is heartless. I lock mu doors every night. I don't lock them because I hate the people outside. I lock them because I love the people inside.

true talk

nawa

nawa oooo

rebirthforgoody:
How are you sure that she is cheating on you.,is it because she is calling names while making love maybe they are her church members naaa.don't take it at heart oh.

Hehehehehehe

afi church members oooo

kindly go and die throway ooooooo because u decide to put your life in jeopardy because of puna

odikwa serious



the babe don turn to walking skeleton oooo

nyc write up

quick recovery to dem

re u kidding?

Sezua:
Good day Stella,

My friend's cousin has been missing since January, her name is OLOFINKUA Theresa omowunmi,22yrs.

she went for her routine medicals at Luth and she has not returned home,her phone is switched off and we are really worried cos she recently started staying with us and I hope it doesn't become a family problem.

we have reported to the police and SSS.

please help post maybe somebody might have an information or can provide futher assistance.

I can be reached on 0814154422 Ronke or
O9074486023 Bisola


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Please help move to fp

provide a picture so that people that recognise her can give you the information you need.

lalasticlala abeg move am to the front page


i pray she gets found on time and unhurt

well good

still thinking

good news

without pictures the list is useless

talk and no do

where virgin get experience from

this one is strong

chimo

Hehehehehehehe

make i park here

good

It is a widely known fact that every relationship  is unique in its own way. What rocks my boat might sink yours and whats good for the goose is not neccessarily good fort the gander  but there are certain factors  that can crash any relationship if not properly checked. 

I would briefly explain  five of these common reasons  why relationship fail and marriages  destroy.  




*Lack of communication :* communication they say is the basis of every interpersonal  relationship and same goes for a romantic relationship  or a marriage. When couples stop  communicating, it spells doom on the relationship as it gives room for other minor factors that destroy relatiionships to creep in. Without communication  a relationship cannot simply exist so if you find out you are not communicating  with your spouse there is a big problem which would grow bigger if not looked into. Communication as the basis of relationship  can also be the reason a relationship  crash. If you can't  communicate  with your spouse about certain things  and experess your pleasure or displeasure about certain things such relationship is heading for the rocks. In asmuch communication  is important , it is also vital for you to know when to communicate  about certain things to syour spouse and when not to communicate. For instance when you want to discuss sensitive issues with your spouse make sure he/she  is in a relaxed mood and not in a tensed mood as that  can hamper on the outcome of such discussion. 

*Lack of Trust:*it is so ironic that what builds a relationship can also bring it down.  Trust is also an important pillar on which relationships are founded and once there is a reduction in the value of trust given or earned in a relationship it breeds jealousy and resentment. Once trust is evicted and jealousy  creeps in, feelings of insecurities begin to grow and also side by side with resentment. This is not healthy for a relationship. Once you notice you  are loosing trust for your spouse because of certain instances or actions, communicate with your spouse and pour out your mind.  However if you know that  because of certain actions or instances your  spouse cannot gain your trust anymore, thats the point where the best and wisest decision  is to take a bow out of such relationship.

*Shortage of love:*many would wonder what i mean by shortage of love since love is not a commodity.  When love is not being circulated in a relationship its just a signal for an impending doom. A relationship  is not meant to be onesided so if only a party is showing love  while the other is at the receiving end without at least reciprocating the gesture occasionally that means there is lack of love or shortage of love.  When we talk about love,  it does not just mean uttering the over used phrase "i love you" no it transcends  that.  It means having an high degree of liking the totality of the individual and showing it conciously and sub consciously with your actions and reactions. If that is missing, then there is no love. 

*Keeping too many secrets:*don't  get me wrong i am not saying that good relationships dont have secrets, they do but when there are lots of secrets being kept by both parties thats a red flag that such  relationship is not meant to be.  As i mentioned  earlier once there is "real love" exiting between spouse no secrets would be hidden because you both have advanced to a level where you are willing to accept each others flaws and building something better.  Some scholars would argue that there are some secrets not worth telling but i am of the opinion that if you dont tell your spouse those things about you and make him/her accept you the way you are those same secrets might come to haunt you at the verge of your happiness. 

*Domination of a party*: a relationship  in general sense is partnership.  This simply means everything that  happens in a relationship  must be a joint agreement between both parties.  If it seems one party is dominating and calling the shots  without consideration  of the other party such relationship is just a disaster waiting to happen.  This particular trait affects the men more  especially  when they  provide  everything financially in the relationship. They tend to want to call the shot always based on the fact that if they allow the lady call the shots occasionally  it would be a wound on their ego.  However,  there are ladies too who try to dominate their relationships probably because they are more educated or earn more than their spouse. Domination in a relationship  is not meant to be considered at all as both parties are meant to make decisions as one. 

As i said earlier, i would be stopping at five but let me add one more. 

Intolerance: anybody in a relationship must be able to exercise an high level of tolerance and if you can't  do that it's  best you back out of the relationship as your spouse  might deliberately  or by chance annoy you so you have to be tolera t enough to enjoy your relationship.

Do you agree?  Please add yours. 



source: https://relationshipnsex./2017/01/16/five-things-that-destroy-relationships/