numericalguy:


Anyone referring to Oshiomhole as a Taylor is just DUMB because Oshiomhole worked as a senior staff of Nigeria textiles in Kaduna.

Also, there is absolutely nothing wrong in being a Taylor

numericalguy:


Anyone referring to Oshiomhole as a Taylor is just DUMB because Oshiomhole worked as a senior staff of Nigeria textiles in Kaduna.

Also, there is absolutely nothing wrong in being a Taylor

otipoju:


She must forgive her husband to ever have peace!!! As in the useless husband na Prince of Peace.

He needs to stay the f**k out of their lives like he had for 20 years.

Cromagnon:
but na una de wail loudest. Everyday lament. Those that voted for their family are quiet. That should tell you something

otipoju:


The man did not realize any mistake. He is older and is left with very little economic options. You don't leave abandon a woman for over 20 years and expect her to have any feelings for you. He is a selfish man and has no modicum of self respect. He needs to stay away from them.

She needs to tell him to leave the house and go get his own place to live in instead of leeching on her.

otipoju:


An absolute Yes. I've been married for about 10 years now. Your first duty is as a husband to take care if your wife's material and emotional needs by providing for shelter, food and utilities and taking care of her sexual needs. As a father you are responsible for feeding, sheltering, clothing and teaching those children to become responsible adults that can fit into society and be useful to themselves.

If you did not fo any of these, then you have no reason to ask that they be with you after twenty years.

The woman should move out and continue her life. I am with her 100%.

Do you know how many fantastic offers that I have had to let go just because my priority is to raise emotionally and intellectually healthy kids because my precense is more important than my presents.

If this man was even visting regularly and providing for their needs, the case will be different. You abandoned your family and are demanding they accept you after many years.

You were never a husband and you were never their father. You are a stranger to them and you should have no place in their future.

He was a mere sperm donor. Nothing more nothing less.

otipoju:


No!!! You don't abscond from your duties and responsibilities as a husband to your wife and a father to your children for over 20 years and then demand forgiveness or to be involved in their lives in any way. That is not how life works.

Forget about love. Marriage is about duties and obligations.

membranus:


Mr. Judge, and Mr. Holier-Than-Thou, are you truly SAVED in Christ as you are claiming here. Search yourself and judge yourself first.

otipoju:


The house rent is being paid by the woman. The man refused to pay rent saying he can't be paying for rent in lagos and paying another rent for his family back home

membranus:


Judge not, for the same measure you used in judging others will be used in judging you too. Can you truly say that if you stand in front of your maker now, you will not be found wanting.

You are not in Kirk Franklin position, and have not experienced what he had gone through in life through parental abandonment. When you go through that and find it in your heart to forgive, then you can maybe raise a negative comment about the man.

Many of you raising negative view of the man's disposition against his mother are the chief tribalists on this hate-filled platform. Just because their candidate lost an election, many are daily spewing acidic and abusive comments against the opponent and his supporters. Yet they are all preaching forgiveness here, claiming fake Christianity.

Cromagnon:

Mediocrity is better than outright failure


Where
This is why waec English is compulsory



Confusion

What shackles
Who is chaining you


Who caress whether you protest or not
Have you protested Monday sit at home

GSyntax:
Kirk admitting this does not make him less of Christian; it makes him human. Many of us here are quick to judge him because we do not know the background of the story!

Kirk Franklin's mother abandoned him as an infant! He was adopted and raised by his aunt. Kirk never met his father until Kirk turned 53 years old. How difficult could one's childhood be?? We should cut him some slacks.

Now, this story was a singular opportunity for his mum to make amends, yet, she walked out as usual. Before we cancel Kirk, I'd suggest all put ourselves in his shoes for a day!

PrimadonnaO:




I'm personally shocked reading this of him

...and also that he has come out to publicly state this.

But then again, everyone of us is at different levels of pruning.

This is probably an area of his life the Holy Spirit has been labouring over...to bring him to perfection.

Please pray for him instead of condemnation.

I sincerely believe in my heart, that the next we'll hear about this is that he has moved past this hurt, and forgiven his mother.

If he's truly a child of God, as I want to believe, he'll have a redefining encounter.

qtguru:



Fire , you as a man cannot condone such, so why should she ? 25 years of resentment should dissappear because of peace.. easier said than done.

Ojiofor:
The memories of Biafra should be allowed to rest in peace.Biafra belongs to history and nothing more...those who are trying to recreate are chasing shadows with the blood of innocent Igbos.Say no to yahoo yahoo freedom fighters.

CyrusVI:


This doesnt make any sense at all
You couldnt really counter any of his points but just have to deflect into irrelevancies

Obinna, Wetin concern the other group with una matter

Amotolongbo:
The same people insulting everyone

Pzpropertylimit:
If u are my sister , I will advise u to quit the marriage

qtguru:


You can leave away from your wife like that, which kain long distance marriage be that.

otipoju:



Thr man is a bad man. No one want to live with a bad person. He was not involved in their lives for 24 years financially, emotionally physically and any other other ally

He rejected his family and should stay away for good.

Coolsat:
You made no sense bro. You are very insensitive. In order words it's not out of place for an absentee and irresponsible man to abandon and never bond with his wife and kids? You actually think you were making sense but it's giving irresponsibility.
Someone lived his life as he pleases for over 25years and expect an open arm from the people he abandoned and somehow the wife should carry the cross? Don't tell people how to react to a situation you have never experienced, whatever decisions she takes God will surely be with her. Stop your subtle gaslighting

Na this type of advise kill that nyamri woman Osinachi

Kobojunkieee:
See how this religious nutjob is trying to convince us that Jesus Christ who is recorded to have said He was sent by His Father only to the Lost sheep of Israel lied; this the same Jesus Christ who declared that in the same way the bronze snake was raised by Moses to the condemned of Israel in the Desert, so He too will be raised to the condemned of Israel. Yet he wants us to believe that it is that same Jesus Christ He considers a liar that he believes in. Abeg, carry your religious brain- damage get off my mention.

Namaster:


MAD man!

OP, go see a doctor.

If the hemorrhoid has not progressed beyond a manageable stage, the doctor will recommend drugs to manage it. Otherwise, it may require surgery.

Meantime, follow this guide:

1. Drink a LOT of water. Always have a bottle of water with you and sip as FREQUENTLY as possible.

2. STOP eating bread, eba, cake, meat pie and anything with the NONSENSE flour that's everywhere.

3. STOP eating rice.

4. STOP eating meat/fish/egg.

5. STOP eating fried foods.

6. STOP drinking alcohol.

7. STOP smoking.

8. STOP drinking ALL soft drinks. Any drink other than water is your ENEMY.

9. EAT food rich in FIBRE like banana, apples, watermelons, etc.

10. Get a small paint rubber for SITZ BATHS.
Sitz vaths is a fancy name for adding disinfectants like Dettol to hot water and sitting over it to let the STEAM hit the hemorrhoid.


Finally, see a doctor ASAP!

Namaster:


MAD man!

OP, go see a doctor.

If the hemorrhoid has not progressed beyond a manageable stage, the doctor will recommend drugs to manage it. Otherwise, it may require surgery.

Meantime, follow this guide:

1. Drink a LOT of water. Always have a bottle of water with you and sip as FREQUENTLY as possible.

2. STOP eating bread, eba, cake, meat pie and anything with the NONSENSE flour that's everywhere.

3. STOP eating rice.

4. STOP eating meat/fish/egg.

5. STOP eating fried foods.

6. STOP drinking alcohol.

7. STOP smoking.

8. STOP drinking ALL soft drinks. Any drink other than water is your ENEMY.

9. EAT food rich in FIBRE like banana, apples, watermelons, etc.

10. Get a small paint rubber for SITZ BATHS.
Sitz vaths is a fancy name for adding disinfectants like Dettol to hot water and sitting over it to let the STEAM hit the hemorrhoid.


Finally, see a doctor ASAP!