Are you married? If so, you likely love your wife, right? Despite a deep and intense love for
your wife, you may still want to see an improvement in your intimacy. After all, what man
doesn’t want good sex?

If you want to improve your intimacy with your wife, it is important to know that you have a
number of different options. Unfortunately, many men automatically start think of the
bedroom. Yes, you do want to “wow,” your wife in the bedroom, but that is not all that sex
and intimacy is about. In fact, that is where many marriages go wrong. Too much focus is
placed on the sex or the lack of it.

To help you properly improve your intimacy with your wife, please continue reading on. A few
easy to implement, yet successful approaches are highlighted below for your convenience.

1 – Date Her
How long have you been married? If you have been married for a number of years now, do
you honestly remember when your last “real,” date was. Unfortunately, many men
underestimate the power of a date. You will not want to make this mistake. If you opt just for
the sex, your wife may start to feel like it is her responsibility to please you and this is not
how a relationship should work.

To not only improve your satisfaction in the bed, but to improve your wife’s satisfaction, take
her out on a date. Many times, getting out of the house is enough to bring new excitement
into a relationship. For the best level of success, choose a romantic date theme, such as a
fancy dinner, a romantic movie, or a night at a nice hotel.

2 – Compliment Her
When is the last time that you have paid your wife a truly nice and unique compliment? If it
has been a while, it is time for you to start again. Is your wife wearing a new outfit? Has she
recently started a weight loss plan? Did your wife get her hair cut? If so, be sure to
compliment her. Complimenting your wife on her appearance will increase her selfconfidence.
This, in turn, can improve experiences in the bedroom.

As important as it is to compliment your wife on her appearance, it is also important to
remember to compliment her on other areas of your relationship. Do you notice that the
house is clean? Has your wife prepared a nice dinner? If so, thank her for the job well done.
This will not only help to improve your relationship in general, but it can have an impact on
your experiences in the bedroom.

3 – Seduce Her
What is sex like in your home? Does it occur like clockwork? Do you actually take the time to
ask your wife if she wants to have sex? If so, try to refrain from doing so. Yes, you may be
rejected, due to a headache or being tired, but why not take the chance? Be spontaneous.
Seduce your wife. Make her want to have sex with you.

4 – Fulfill Her Fantasies
In keeping with seducing your wife, let her know that you want to fulfill her fantasies. It may
take your wife a few times to open up about what she likes or fantasizes about sexually, but
the information will likely come out soon. Give it your all to fulfill your wife’s sexual fantasies.
It is also important to note that afterwards is the perfect time to share your fantasies and
sexual desires with your wife. In end, you may all end up being much more pleased.

As you can see, there are a number of different ways that you can go about improving the
intimacy in your relationship. Please remember, however, that you want to get started in
someplace other than the bedroom. Sex in a marriage is about more and should be more
than just the act itself. Taking the time to date and compliment your wife will more than pay
off in the end.

4 Easy Ways to Spice Up Things in the Bedroom

Are you in a relationship that seems as if it is stalled in the bedroom? If so, your first thought
may be to terminate the relationship. But, what if your relationship is long-term? What if you
are married? What if you really do love your partner? What steps should you take then?
When it comes to being unhappy in the bedroom, it is important to know that ending a
marriage or a relationship should only be used as a last approach. Instead, you will want to
take steps to spice things up. Doing so may improve more than just your intimacy, but it may
do wonders for your relationship in general.

As nice as it is to hear that you can and should spice things up and in the bedroom, you may
be unsure as to how you should proceed. If that is the case, please continue reading on.
Below, four easy ways that you can spice things up in the bedroom, are covered.

1 – Engage in pre-intimacy
When you do have sex, what happens? Do you and your partner get right down to business?
If you do, that may be a huge problem. Unfortunately, many couples do not realize that
intimacy is more than just about having sex. It is also about having a happy and healthy
relationship. If you rely on sex to make your relationship succeed, there is a very good
chance that it will actually fail.

If you and your partner don’t already engage in pre-intimacy, start doing so. Also, remember that
pre-intimacy doesn’t have to start in the bedroom. Call your lover, send a text message, or a
handwritten note expressing your desires to get intimate with them later on.

2 – Be Spontaneous
When you want to have sex, what do you do? If you actually take the time to ask your
partner if they want to be intimate with you, you may be doing more harm than good. Asking
first can make being intimate seem more like a chore than something that should bring you
pleasure. The next time that you want to move to the bedroom, don’t ask first. Just lead
your partner there. In fact, who needs a bedroom?

Know that being spontaneous is about more than not talking about sex first. Ways that you
can be spontaneous with your partner is to have sex at a different time, date, or place.

3 – Talk About Your Fantasies
One of the biggest reasons why couples have problems with sex is because one person isn’t
having their desires fulfilled. If that is the case with you? Does your partner know what you
like or what you want to get out of being intimate? If not, it is time for you to let them know.
Be sure to talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies and desires. What would you like
to try in the bedroom? In addition to expressing your wants, needs, and darkest fantasies, be
sure to let your partner do the same. Remember that both of you should walk away from an
intimate encounter pleased.

4 – Experiment in the Bedroom
Another one of the easy ways that you can spice up things in the bedroom is by
experimenting. When doing so, you may be pleased with all of your options. For starters, you
can try a new sex position. This may not only lead to extra pleasure, but fun and excitement.
intimacy gadgets, romantic or pornographic videos, and role playing are other good ideas for
experimenting in the bedroom.

Dear friend, their are rules for making money, to acquire wealth, certain guild lines need to be followed. Below are some of these rules.

DON'T MISTAKE YOUR VOCATION
The safest plan, and the one most sure of success for the young man starting in life, is to select the vocation which is most congenial to his tastes. Parents and guardians are often quite too negligent in regard to this. It very common for a father to say, for example: "I have five boys. I will make Billy a clergyman; John a lawyer; Tom a doctor, and Dick a farmer." He then goes into town and looks about to see what he will do with Sammy. He returns home and says "Sammy, I see watch-making is a nice genteel business; I think I will make you a goldsmith." He does this, regardless of Sam's natural inclinations, or genius.
We are all, no doubt, born for a wise purpose. There is as much diversity in our brains as in our countenances. Some are born natural mechanics, while some have great aversion to machinery. Let a dozen boys of ten years get together, and you will soon observe two or three are "whittling" out some ingenious device; working with locks or complicated machinery. When they were but five years old, their father could find no toy to please them like a puzzle. They are natural mechanics; but the other eight or nine boys have different aptitudes. I belong to the latter class; I never had the slightest love for mechanism; on the contrary, I have a sort of abhorrence for complicated machinery. I never had ingenuity enough to whittle a cider tap so it would not leak. I never could make a pen that I could write with, or understand the principle of a steam engine. If a man was to take such a boy as I was, and attempt to make a watchmaker of him, the boy might, after an apprenticeship of five or seven years, be able to take apart and put together a watch; but all through life he would be working up hill and seizing every excuse for leaving his work and idling away his time. Watchmaking is repulsive to him.
Unless a man enters upon the vocation intended for him by nature, and best suited to his peculiar genius, he cannot succeed. I am glad to believe that the majority of persons do find their right vocation. Yet we see many who have mistaken their calling, from the blacksmith up (or down) to the clergyman. You will see, for instance, that extraordinary linguist the "learned blacksmith," who ought to have been a teacher of languages; and you may have seen lawyers, doctors and clergymen who were better fitted by nature for the anvil or the lapstone.

SELECT THE RIGHT LOCATION
After securing the right vocation, you must be careful to select the proper location. You may have been cut out for a hotel keeper, and they say it requires a genius to "know how to keep a hotel." You might conduct a hotel like clock-work, and provide satisfactorily for five hundred guests every day; yet, if you should locate your house in a small village where there is no railroad communication or public travel, the location would be your ruin. It is equally important that you do not commence business where there are already enough to meet all demands in the same occupation. I remember a case which illustrates this subject. When I was in London in 1858, I was passing down Holborn with an English friend and came to the "penny shows." They had immense cartoons outside, portraying the wonderful curiosities to be seen "all for a penny." Being a little in the "show line" myself, I said "let us go in here." We soon found ourselves in the presence of the illustrious showman, and he proved to be the sharpest man in that line I had ever met. He told us some extraordinary stories in reference to his bearded ladies, his Albinos, and his Armadillos, which we could hardly believe, but thought it "better to believe it than look after the proof'." He finally begged to call our attention to some wax statuary, and showed us a lot of the dirtiest and filthiest wax figures imaginable. They looked as if they had not seen water since the Deluge.
"What is there so wonderful about your statuary?" I asked.
"I beg you not to speak so satirically," he replied, "Sir, these are not Madam Tussaud's wax figures, all covered with gilt and tinsel and imitation diamonds, and copied from engravings and photographs. Mine, sir, were taken from life. Whenever you look upon one of those figures, you may consider that you are looking upon the living individual."
Glancing casually at them, I saw one labeled "Henry VIII," and feeling a little curious upon seeing that it looked like Calvin Edson, the living skeleton, I said: "Do you call that 'Henry the Eighth?'" He replied, "Certainly; sir; it was taken from life at Hampton Court, by special order of his majesty; on such a day."
He would have given the hour of the day if I had resisted; I said, "Everybody knows that 'Henry VIII.' was a great stout old king, and that figure is lean and lank; what do you say to that?"
"Why," he replied, "you would be lean and lank yourself if you sat there as long as he has."
There was no resisting such arguments. I said to my English friend, "Let us go out; do not tell him who I am; I show the white feather; he beats me."
He followed us to the door, and seeing the rabble in the street, he called out, "ladies and gentlemen, I beg to draw your attention to the respectable character of my visitors," pointing to us as we walked away. I called upon him a couple of days afterwards; told him who I was, and said:
"My friend, you are an excellent showman, but you have selected a bad location."
He replied, "This is true, sir; I feel that all my talents are thrown away; but what can I do?"
"You can go to America," I replied. "You can give full play to your faculties over there; you will find plenty of elbowroom in America; I will engage you for two years; after that you will be able to go on your own account."
He accepted my offer and remained two years in my New York Museum. He then went to New Orleans and carried on a traveling show business during the summer. To-day he is worth sixty thousand dollars, simply because he selected the right vocation and also secured the proper location. The old proverb says, "Three removes are as bad as a fire," but when a man is in the fire, it matters but little how soon or how often he removes.

Dear friend, their are rules for making money, to acquire wealth, certain guild lines need to be followed. Below are some of these rules.

DON'T MISTAKE YOUR VOCATION
The safest plan, and the one most sure of success for the young man starting in life, is to select the vocation which is most congenial to his tastes. Parents and guardians are often quite too negligent in regard to this. It very common for a father to say, for example: "I have five boys. I will make Billy a clergyman; John a lawyer; Tom a doctor, and Dick a farmer." He then goes into town and looks about to see what he will do with Sammy. He returns home and says "Sammy, I see watch-making is a nice genteel business; I think I will make you a goldsmith." He does this, regardless of Sam's natural inclinations, or genius.
We are all, no doubt, born for a wise purpose. There is as much diversity in our brains as in our countenances. Some are born natural mechanics, while some have great aversion to machinery. Let a dozen boys of ten years get together, and you will soon observe two or three are "whittling" out some ingenious device; working with locks or complicated machinery. When they were but five years old, their father could find no toy to please them like a puzzle. They are natural mechanics; but the other eight or nine boys have different aptitudes. I belong to the latter class; I never had the slightest love for mechanism; on the contrary, I have a sort of abhorrence for complicated machinery. I never had ingenuity enough to whittle a cider tap so it would not leak. I never could make a pen that I could write with, or understand the principle of a steam engine. If a man was to take such a boy as I was, and attempt to make a watchmaker of him, the boy might, after an apprenticeship of five or seven years, be able to take apart and put together a watch; but all through life he would be working up hill and seizing every excuse for leaving his work and idling away his time. Watchmaking is repulsive to him.
Unless a man enters upon the vocation intended for him by nature, and best suited to his peculiar genius, he cannot succeed. I am glad to believe that the majority of persons do find their right vocation. Yet we see many who have mistaken their calling, from the blacksmith up (or down) to the clergyman. You will see, for instance, that extraordinary linguist the "learned blacksmith," who ought to have been a teacher of languages; and you may have seen lawyers, doctors and clergymen who were better fitted by nature for the anvil or the lapstone.

SELECT THE RIGHT LOCATION
After securing the right vocation, you must be careful to select the proper location. You may have been cut out for a hotel keeper, and they say it requires a genius to "know how to keep a hotel." You might conduct a hotel like clock-work, and provide satisfactorily for five hundred guests every day; yet, if you should locate your house in a small village where there is no railroad communication or public travel, the location would be your ruin. It is equally important that you do not commence business where there are already enough to meet all demands in the same occupation. I remember a case which illustrates this subject. When I was in London in 1858, I was passing down Holborn with an English friend and came to the "penny shows." They had immense cartoons outside, portraying the wonderful curiosities to be seen "all for a penny." Being a little in the "show line" myself, I said "let us go in here." We soon found ourselves in the presence of the illustrious showman, and he proved to be the sharpest man in that line I had ever met. He told us some extraordinary stories in reference to his bearded ladies, his Albinos, and his Armadillos, which we could hardly believe, but thought it "better to believe it than look after the proof'." He finally begged to call our attention to some wax statuary, and showed us a lot of the dirtiest and filthiest wax figures imaginable. They looked as if they had not seen water since the Deluge.
"What is there so wonderful about your statuary?" I asked.
"I beg you not to speak so satirically," he replied, "Sir, these are not Madam Tussaud's wax figures, all covered with gilt and tinsel and imitation diamonds, and copied from engravings and photographs. Mine, sir, were taken from life. Whenever you look upon one of those figures, you may consider that you are looking upon the living individual."
Glancing casually at them, I saw one labeled "Henry VIII," and feeling a little curious upon seeing that it looked like Calvin Edson, the living skeleton, I said: "Do you call that 'Henry the Eighth?'" He replied, "Certainly; sir; it was taken from life at Hampton Court, by special order of his majesty; on such a day."
He would have given the hour of the day if I had resisted; I said, "Everybody knows that 'Henry VIII.' was a great stout old king, and that figure is lean and lank; what do you say to that?"
"Why," he replied, "you would be lean and lank yourself if you sat there as long as he has."
There was no resisting such arguments. I said to my English friend, "Let us go out; do not tell him who I am; I show the white feather; he beats me."
He followed us to the door, and seeing the rabble in the street, he called out, "ladies and gentlemen, I beg to draw your attention to the respectable character of my visitors," pointing to us as we walked away. I called upon him a couple of days afterwards; told him who I was, and said:
"My friend, you are an excellent showman, but you have selected a bad location."
He replied, "This is true, sir; I feel that all my talents are thrown away; but what can I do?"
"You can go to America," I replied. "You can give full play to your faculties over there; you will find plenty of elbowroom in America; I will engage you for two years; after that you will be able to go on your own account."
He accepted my offer and remained two years in my New York Museum. He then went to New Orleans and carried on a traveling show business during the summer. To-day he is worth sixty thousand dollars, simply because he selected the right vocation and also secured the proper location. The old proverb says, "Three removes are as bad as a fire," but when a man is in the fire, it matters but little how soon or how often he removes.

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