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PhonesRe: Whatsapp Account Banned. Any Solutions? by Mear23: 8:46am On Jun 03, 2025
Stop sending fraudulent messages, you will not hear, now that your WhatsApp was banned, you are here disturbing us
Foreign AffairsRe: Ukraine Says More Than 40 Russian Warplanes Hit In Massive Drone Strikes by Mear23: 10:38pm On Jun 01, 2025
Someone should share the phone contact of Putin, we need to discuss
RomanceRe: I'm Tired Of My Marriage, This Is Why I Want To End It by Mear23: 9:43pm On May 26, 2025
Sorry to say this bro.
If the marriage is draining you, pull out please. Marriage is not an emotional prison yard.
You will score great points if you pull out first...but e go pain you pass if she first pull out


Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this account).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they supported me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't support me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life
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Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Struggling To Get Youtube Watch Hours? Here’s How To Hit 4K Fast! by Mear23: 10:37pm On May 24, 2025
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Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Don’t Start Youtube In 2025 Until You See This! by Mear23: 10:31pm On May 24, 2025
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FamilyRe: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Mear23: 9:33pm On May 23, 2025
Certain things can be learned even without sex.
Elementary biology is there, books on such topics are numerous too

Kobojunkie:
Wait a second.... How did he make this discovery of his? So the believer brother was some sort of sex expert before marriage, or what? undecided
FamilyRe: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Mear23: 9:03pm On May 23, 2025
Let me cite a case I know for you.
Two so called believers were in courtship. During courtship, the sister said se only had sex once, it's on the wedding night that the bro discovered the woman lied. Till today, the home has nit settled.

To avoid had I known, when it comes to marriage, don't give anyone an impression of what you are not.

Kobojunkie:
1. Oh, so the pastor husband, whose faults are equally plenty, is not genuinely born-again? 😄

2. What gives you the impression that a past was hidden in this case, though? Are you insinuating that the pastor husband who claims he sniffs his wife's panties whenever she comes home does so because of some hidden past of his sniffing women's panties? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
FamilyRe: "He Left Me, So He Must Pay Spousal Support!" Read This Before You Go To Court by Mear23: 8:58pm On May 23, 2025
I am not justifying the man.
But i pray you don't fall into a wrong hand.
One of the solid pillar of marriage is trust, once this is broken in marriage, the ship can capsize irrespective of who is involved.

Kobojunkie:
1. Oh, so the pastor husband, whose faults are equally plenty, is not genuinely born-again? 😄

2. What gives you the impression that a past was hidden in this case, though? Are you insinuating that the pastor husband who claims he sniffs his wife's panties whenever she comes home does so because of some hidden past of his sniffing women's panties? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
FamilyRe: Lagos Couple In Messy Divorce Battle by Mear23: 6:11pm On May 23, 2025
I think I need to say something at this point.

I am saying this to all genuinely born again Christians.

Don't hide your past from your intending spouse. Yes, we know God had forgiven you, that should not stop you from sharing your pastor.

Hiding your past is like keeping a bump that is about to explode in your pocket.

Forget the shame that comes with sharing your past.
PropertiesRe: LASG Enforces 10% Tenancy Fees Limit, Cautions Landlords &Agents On Overcharging by Mear23: 9:33am On May 23, 2025
This is an attempt to make Estate regulatory agency feel important.
Where is this woman when lagos state was collecting annual dues from house owners??
EducationRe: UTME Glitch: South East Reps Caucus Demands Oloyede's Resignation by Mear23: 8:42am On May 20, 2025
This is not the case.
It's now i am beginningto wonder why he announcedthe result knowing fully well that some studentswere disadvantaged.
What if no one had spoken about the issue. That's,
how he wouldhave gloss over it.

Sharpsharp00123:
they just don't like him cos he's Yoruba n also a Muslim.

They felt humiliated with the way he handled d mmesoma case so since them dem don Dey carry him matter for head.

He's going nowhere.


Hope this ban something no go ban me again cos everything na ban
EducationRe: JAMB: Ohanaeze Rejects Resit Exam, Demands 300 Scores For South East Candidates by Mear23: 7:36pm On May 15, 2025
I suspect the Jamb Registrar is up with something.
I will even say he comes with religious mindset.
Since the last time, a student from deeper life high school scored the highest. After that year, this so called Registrar had always refused to celebrate the highest scorer.
I don't just understand, is he saying:
1. Students that perform very well in the exam are not worth celebrating?
2. Or is the exam of less important to celebrate best performance in it??
EducationRe: JAMB: Ohanaeze Rejects Resit Exam, Demands 300 Scores For South East Candidates by Mear23: 7:31pm On May 15, 2025
It doesn't really matter.
What if he has seen inner working and he tied to protect his job


Sharpsharp00123:
head of jamb ICT is called fabian okoro
EducationRe: FUNAAB Phone Thief Strikes Again! by Mear23: 8:32am On May 13, 2025
When I come across news like this, few things comes to mind.

1. The perpetrators maybe one of the previously expelled students. People like this usually come back for revenge

2. It Maybe one of those who could not meet up with academic requirements of their department.

3. One of the Off campus student, or

4. An outsider
CultureRe: Should I Be Worried About This Wall Gecko (picture) by Mear23: 7:37pm On May 11, 2025
I have a solution.
But tell me you keep camping the lady those night
EducationRe: Eleven Biggest University In Nigeria By Land Mass by Mear23: 3:49pm On May 11, 2025
@op where is Ahmadu Bello University
CareerRe: Resident Doctors Oppose NUC As They Upgrade Pharmacy, Physiotherapy To 'Doctor' by Mear23: 3:43pm On May 11, 2025
In as much as I respect Doctors so much.
This particular point is baseless.

For instance no patience confused a PhD Holder with a Medical Doctor.

Even in Engineering where everyone (computer, civil, electrical, mechanical, agricultural, Machantronics, to mention a few) are called Engr.
there was no confusion in the role
TV/MoviesRe: Pretty Mike Shows Up To AMVCA Looking Like Iron Man by Mear23: 9:07am On May 11, 2025
Sometimes I wonder what is truly the source of wealth of people like Pretty Mike and others in his category.
Few thoughts comes to mind.

1. Probably their parents bequeathed wealth to them
2. Or are the working in and establishm
3. Or
PoliticsRe: Herdsmen Responsible For Attacks In Benue, Plateau Are Not Nigerians – Military by Mear23: 10:17am On May 09, 2025
This guys are shameless, how can someone come from a far place and destabilise your country and still wrecking havoc unchecked.
PoliticsRe: Kogi Ex-first Lady, Rashida Bello Marks 40th Birthday Amidst Fanfare by Mear23: 7:43pm On May 05, 2025
I visited this thread to check her ijhab. But surprisingly, she was not wearing any.
LiteratureRe: My Twins Were Born By Surrogacy - Chimamanda Adichie by Mear23: 12:09am On May 04, 2025
You are actually getting it wrong.
In surrogacy, egg can come from anyone,

Let me break it down for you

In:

IUI: fertilisation is done inside the parent womb.
IVF: fertilisation is done outside and returned to the parents womb ( egg or sperm can come from anyone.
Surrogacy: a Surrogate carries the fertilised egg ( egg or sperm can come from anyone)


PressMyButton:
That's IVF. However, if another woman donates her egg, that's surrogacy. I'm tired of repeating myself.
LiteratureRe: My Twins Were Born By Surrogacy - Chimamanda Adichie by Mear23: 10:21pm On May 03, 2025
Your assertion is not completely true.

In surrogacy. The eggs or sperm can come from an intending parents or a donor.
But after fertilisation, another woman different from the intending parent will be implanted with the fertilised egg.

PressMyButton:
In IVF, it is your own egg that will be used but in surrogacy, it's another woman's egg.. big difference.
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CelebritiesRe: Your Songs Are Healing- Davido To Moses Bliss As He Meets Him For The First Time by Mear23: 4:25pm On May 02, 2025
Personally, I don't see Moses Bliss as a gospel singer.
He is more of gospel entertainer
InvestmentRe: Tips To Identify And Avoid Digital Traps by Mear23(op): 9:07am On May 01, 2025
Most times, the warning signs are usually glaring. But greedy people will still fall victim
InvestmentTips To Identify And Avoid Digital Traps by Mear23(op): 7:05pm On Apr 30, 2025
Online Ponzi schemes have evolved with the digital age, taking on polished forms that can easily deceive even the tech-savvy. While their promises of quick returns and easy wealth are alluring, there are consistent red flags that can help users identify and avoid these traps.
Below are some common tactics used by these schemes, and how they are disguised as legitimate opportunities:

1. Easy-to-Navigate Website/App

Ponzi schemes often present sleek, user-friendly websites to establish false credibility. The interface may be attractive and modern, but underneath the design lies a scheme with no real product or service.

2. Emphasis on Referrals for more Income

One of the most common signs of a Ponzi scheme is its reward structure, where users are encouraged to recruit others to earn commissions. This pyramid-style incentive system is a hallmark of fraud, relying on new participants to sustain payouts.

3. Minimal Information Required to Open an Account

Legitimate investment platforms typically require thorough Know Your Customer (KYC) procedures to comply with financial regulations. Ponzi schemes, on the other hand, often ask for very little—just an email or phone number—making it easy for people to sign up quickly and without much thought.

4. Predetermined Withdrawal Dates or Fixed Duration

Another warning sign is the rigid withdrawal schedule—such as being able to withdraw only once a week or month, or after a set number of days. This tactic helps the scheme delay payments and control cash flow while buying time to lure in more investors. If you cannot access your own funds freely, it's a major red flag.

5. Lack of Transparency About Business Model

Most Ponzi schemes cannot clearly explain how profits are generated. If the business model is vague, overly technical without substance, or focused more on "community building" than actual investment strategy, it's likely fraudulent.
PoliticsRe: Okowa Confirms Atiku's Exit From PDP, backs Tinubu for second term by Mear23: 8:47pm On Apr 29, 2025
Wike himself is not even sure of where he stands

baralatie:
Is wike working for PDP
PoliticsRe: Okowa Confirms Atiku's Exit From PDP, backs Tinubu for second term by Mear23: 5:22pm On Apr 29, 2025
An analyst should explain how this defection may affect wike,
PoliticsRe: Bauchi Governor, Bala Mohammed Appoints 168 Political Aides by Mear23: 5:16pm On Apr 29, 2025
Please someone should enlighten me on the job of so called special assistance.
Christianity EtcRe: Church Cancels Wedding Over Bride’s Refusal To Church’s Pre-marriage Procedures by Mear23: 3:46pm On Apr 29, 2025
What is wrong there.
She was to receive counsel and do pregnancy test.
She failed in both. Let say she missed the counsel. What is she hiding by not doing pregnancy test. The whole thing is simple, if you want them to join you with pregnancy in your tummy, go to churches whose doctrine permits that.
Or better still, do traditional and court wedding.


spencekat:
This particular doctrine from the Assemblies of God Church is wrong.
Christianity EtcRe: Pope Francis Was Killed By The COVID-19 Vaccine – Chris Oyakhilome Claims (Video by Mear23: 7:09pm On Apr 27, 2025
Well, I don't know about that. But I can't remember a time I heard of it again

abbey621:
Who told you it disappeared? Many people are still being infected daily, what happens now is that there are less hospitalization due to people being vaccinated.
Christianity EtcRe: Pope Francis Was Killed By The COVID-19 Vaccine – Chris Oyakhilome Claims (Video by Mear23: 1:53pm On Apr 27, 2025
I know a man that died shortly after taking covid 19 vaccine too.
Though Pastor chris may be wrong. But the way covid 19 disappeared into thin air makes me think it's a conspiracy

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