whoaaaaaa that's to much lol,how do you know that? have you been a victim?

190:

Lol are you in nigeria would like to personally meet you

Knee down and give you a rose,

Look into your eyes and tell you how beautyful you are!!

hehehe lol, you're sweet though,wish you can find a nice woman to share your sweetness, I am not in Naija now but will be there soon

190:

I met mediatrix8 and we dated for 3weeks

we cant wait to see each other, ^{That nite would be awww}

:ooh well,hope to see you in naija one day with my babe

;DWaiting for the airfare , if it will be available soon that means you can meet atlast

Mrs. Eve:

Jaybee is always asking QUESTIONS I have already asked! Hmmph!

Well, Media I do wish you and yours the best! There would be alot of hurdles upon marriage that you will have to stand firm with your husband and nothing will knock you off your peg. Remember that!

Yeah,I also notice that, I guess You and Jayvee have something in common hmmm, Thanks for the pieces of advise sister, I WILL REMEMBER THAT

Annie,just keep on observing him to know the truth behind,you should find out if he is lying.But,while on the process guard your heat and your self, expect the unexpected ,if you won't submit yourself to him and you discovered his real story and there's nothing to regret about, I will be back and talk to you tonight, gotto go now for work.Take care girl

awwwwww, I'm touched by your words of encouragement.Thank you so much Jaybee,you are so nice! God bless you even more

Both places are ok with me,Anywhere we can build a new and happy family together .Though we are looking forward to a place were we can raise our kids better.

jay bee:

9 months is a long time especially if you guys were sexually involved before he travelled
Have you considered going to visit him?
What happens if he doesn't make good on the promise of seeing you before xmas?
Nothing more you can do to be honest as you guys already communicate daily.

Jayvee,Yes in deed long enough.I would love to visit him in Nigeria but I have no chance because of my work.I am waiting for him to come back before Christmas as he promised me but if there are things will happen beyond his control and he can't come back it's ok with me.But our plan is to visit my country together during the spring Festival that will be February,and then will visit Nigeria in Summer,August for our wedding.We communicate daily,I have trust in him as he do to me.

annie15:

@mediatrix8 tnks so much dt is jst it and evrything is happening just now, l suspectd that HE IS MARRIED but he denied it bt nw he admittd sayin dt he wan to have confidence in me first befor he can face me. d fact dt his wife still stays in his house with his mother n children as l learnt 4rm him, dat made me totally confused, BUT I STILL THINK THERE IS MUCH I DONT KNW ABT HIM THAT STILL MAKE ME SUSPECT HIM OR IS HE TESTING ME. BUT HE DONT LOOK 45, HE REALLY LOOK 34 OR THEREABOUT AND SOUND SO TRUE , BUT AM WILLING TO TAKE ADVICE SO I CAN HANDLE MY SITUATION EFFECTIVELY AND MATUREDLY, TNKS SO MUCH

What is the meaning of the phrase I highlighted above? What confidence he is talking about Perhaps,He just wanna get you intimately that's it.I am very sure still have a lot of things you don't know about him.Alright you are suspecting he is 34 as his physical look but he told you he is 45.Wait, do you know how old are his children? If he has teen-ager kids absolutely he is 45.You said,,he is testing you,in which aspect? He maybe testing your sincerity and love,and that his family story are lies?I mean he is single or what? or maybe testing you to get you and then leave you, I am also confused yet interested to know everything and help you out If I may,

Mrs. Eve:

SMH AT KAY,

Be strong Media! It will be okay, well if you guys get married, WHERE YOU GUYS STAYING? CHINA OR NIGERIA?

Thanks for your words of encouragements :DI would love anywhere we can build up a happy family together.

shuai ge mr bones howdy? You forgot our class na

Annie,This guy you are telling is married and you said his wife is still living in his home.That means The family is still in tact and he can't exchange his family for you.If it's true that he loves you and you love him as well.You will just be his mistress,sorry to say but it's the outcome of entering his life.You are only 24 and very young.Your future is bright.Since,you haven't had an intimate relationship with him.It's not yet too late for you to move on and find a man of your own.Unless you wanna fight your love for him and accept the consequences, then the decision still on your hand.I just hope and pray for you to be strong in dealing situations like this for it will determine your destiny.God luck& God bless you!

davidylan:

tough especially on the woman. I know guys can survive.

Yeah really tough

k-money £:

mediatrix8** His absence is never for long*** Be strong do not be weary**

Thanks Kay for your encouraging words, but the picture you attached lol

Dyt:

D tym u v waited is nt up2 d ones u v left
n pls dont try 2 get close 2 anyoda 4 now cos u ll lustfully go wrong

Dyt ,Thanks so much,I know my limitations and besides ,I seldom go out with friends, I am WORK-HOUSE ,House-work ,woman, means If I have no work,I am just at home.

Eyah:

Being into a long distance relationship is like a roller coaster, the ups and downs, and the emotional hangover that comes along is really painful and annoying. But then we have to deal with it.

Our life does not only turn around entirely with our partner. We do have our own life to live for and there are a lot of things that we have to achieve and enjoy apart from being with our loved ones. I understand what you are going through. As for me, sending him romantic messages, jokes and e-mail were part of my daily routine. I keep myself busy, goes out with friends, watch movies and TV series. And at times, I pamper myself by going out for shopping; try new outfits just to have something to look forward.

Though the list is just temporary, coping up and avoiding loneliness depends on you. Make yourself happy; after all, happiness is a choice.

You are right eyah.I am doing exactly what you are doing except going out with friends often.
Take care always there my sister!

y me:

what matters is not really being in a distance relationship, you need to know what that relationship has gat to offer you
just be sure it is for real
Thanks for your response ,Yes,I believe it's for real.We can't be together for 3 years if the love that bind between us is not strong and real.I am looking forward to our special day being one.

freecocoa:

@mediatrix,eyah mami don't worry,he'll soon be wiv you and you won't miss him again u hear?meanwhile just stay busy.

Thank you again freecocoa sweetie,you are making me strong, love yahhhhhh

^^ my dear bother thanks.I am here in Nairaland talking to all of you,It feels good even he's not with me because I feel the warmth friendship,knowing that most of you here are his country people.

boomii:

Kip yourself busy or you will miss him more,try and keep the communication lines open,[s]same tin too for me but thanks to skype and Y-messenger[/s]

Thanks boomii

rokiatu:

Get busy, spend time with friends, go for a walk, even watch a movie (stay away from romantic movies) but to be honest with you,
you will still think abt him. You just got to deal with it.

You are right Rokie! I love watching romantic movies so I'll miss him more, go for a walk, naaaaa freezing cold here now, I hope and pray for his coming back soon so I will feel this way agan.

freecocoa:

Ah ah,9 months,you should be used to it by now nau.

Freecocoa sweetie,I should be but I can't help missing him just like now he is still busy.Many times,I am already sleeping here by the time he will be free from work to chat on line.

star*:

If you don't mind me asking why are you apart?

I am working in China and He went back home in Naija for his business.Though we talk on phone everyday and often online but you know nothing compares to being together.

Yes,before Christmas by God's grace

I maybe new to know all people posting on Romance section but as for my assessment for being on line here every day since I registered.Here are my nominations:

Romance poster/advisers

ROKIATO
MRS EVE
MR BROWN JAY

Romantic Comedians

MR CORK
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*Final choice highlighted*

Mr¬Cork:

hopefully before 2050

whoaaaaaa hahahha you are always funny.

mediatrix8:

Yes, We haven't seen each other for 9 months now.So hard to cope specially when I miss him most.

Thanks Mr cork dear but I need him back,so long naaaaaa.

star*:

I think you just need to try to keep busy, make sure you are seeing your friends etc and try not to spend too much time alone.
Its the quiet moments that get to you more, Communication is the only way to cope. Just look after yourself in all the other ways  

How long has it been?
How long are you planning on being apart?

It has been 9 months and the distance and time difference sometimes hinder us to communicate as much as we can.He said he will be back soon.I kept on waiting.I am always busy at work but in the midst of my free time, i really miss him

rokiatu:

Are you in a long distance relationship?

Yes, We haven't seen each other for 9 months now.So hard to cope specially when I miss him most.

:d

:d

Day after day of not being able to be together in person is so hard. Even though we speak almost every day, it isn't the same as being able to see each other for real like any offline, close in location relationship.

How do you cope with missing each other?

Dating within the fields of cyberland is very hard we all know.
So many have felt it can't be REAL love till you meet in person.
Others know the depths of imagination that grows in the waiting.
It's not uncommon to wait for years to meet. I want to know your distance and the length of time before your first get together.
Tell as well, would you have rather waiting longer or was it just about right!

    
Not met yet
6 months or less
12 months or less
2 years or less
3 years or less
longer (tell us the length of time)

hahaha that's why we need to consider the person we are dating before cooking something because he /she may not like it no matter it's delicious accordning to our taste.