rokiatu:

Are you in a long distance relationship?

mediatrix8:

Yes, We haven't seen each other for 9 months now.So hard to cope specially when I miss him most.

sweeery dont worrrry about him. am hear for u!

star*:

I think you just need to try to keep busy, make sure you are seeing your friends etc and try not to spend too much time alone.
Its the quiet moments that get to you more, Communication is the only way to cope. Just look after yourself in all the other ways  

How long has it been?
How long are you planning on being apart?

mediatrix8:

Yes, We haven't seen each other for 9 months now.So hard to cope specially when I miss him most.

mediatrix8:

It has been 9 months and the distance and time difference sometimes hinder us to communicate as much as we can.He said he will be back soon.I kept on waiting.I am always busy at work but in the midst of my free time, i really miss him

mediatrix8:

Yes, We haven't seen each other for 9 months now.So hard to cope specially when I miss him most.

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If you don't mind me asking why are you apart?

freecocoa:

Ah ah,9 months,you should be used to it by now nau.

boomii:

Kip yourself busy or you will miss him more,try and keep the communication lines open,[s]same tin too for me but thanks to skype and Y-messenger[/s]

rokiatu:

Get busy, spend time with friends, go for a walk, even watch a movie (stay away from romantic movies) but to be honest with you,
you will still think abt him. You just got to deal with it.

y me:

what matters is not really being in a distance relationship, you need to know what that relationship has gat to offer you
just be sure it is for real
Thanks for your response ,Yes,I believe it's for real.We can't be together for 3 years if the love that bind between us is not strong and real.I am looking forward to our special day being one.

freecocoa:

@mediatrix,eyah mami don't worry,he'll soon be wiv you and you won't miss him again u hear?meanwhile just stay busy.

Dyt:

D tym u v waited is nt up2 d ones u v left
n pls dont try 2 get close 2 anyoda 4 now cos u ll lustfully go wrong

Eyah:

Being into a long distance relationship is like a roller coaster, the ups and downs, and the emotional hangover that comes along is really painful and annoying. But then we have to deal with it.

Our life does not only turn around entirely with our partner. We do have our own life to live for and there are a lot of things that we have to achieve and enjoy apart from being with our loved ones. I understand what you are going through. As for me, sending him romantic messages, jokes and e-mail were part of my daily routine. I keep myself busy, goes out with friends, watch movies and TV series. And at times, I pamper myself by going out for shopping; try new outfits just to have something to look forward.

Though the list is just temporary, coping up and avoiding loneliness depends on you. Make yourself happy; after all, happiness is a choice.

k-money £:

mediatrix8** His absence is never for long*** Be strong do not be weary**

davidylan:

tough especially on the woman. I know guys can survive.

Mrs. Eve:

SMH AT KAY,

Be strong Media! It will be okay, well if you guys get married, WHERE YOU GUYS STAYING? CHINA OR NIGERIA?

jay bee:

9 months is a long time especially if you guys were sexually involved before he travelled
Have you considered going to visit him?
What happens if he doesn't make good on the promise of seeing you before xmas?
Nothing more you can do to be honest as you guys already communicate daily.