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Mrs EVE SAID:
Mediatrix,

You fell in love WITH YOU WHO WANTED so why can't she fall in love with who she wants?  Just because someone have a preference does not mean they are racist nor sexist.  That just like saying you a racist because you won't marry your own kind or a gay man a sexist because he like men.  WTF,   

The girl have the right to LIKE WHOEVER SHE WANTS, and if she doesn't want a Nigerian man, SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO. 

Poster get over yourself, NIGERIAN MEN aren't the only men IN THE WORLD, damn!

HEY girl, you've got me wrong here, according to the poster's explanation,he concluded that he was dumped by this girl simply because he is a Nigerian,and didn't know the real reason behind.who knows what happened to her why she can't reply, and if her reason of  not replying is because she have known that he is a Nigerian , that means she generalize them(NIGERIANS) without even giving him the chance to prove himself  that he is different from others, Isn't it that RACIST? If not then how do you call such girl?

Yes,It's true we have every RIGHT to choose as to whom to marry or love and don't ever call me racist by not marrying a man from my own,why not?,I can marry anyone but I am not choosing the color or race but I am considering what my heart tells me, how can I marry someone I don't love?

Woke4all:
Thanks for info

You're welcome!

all I want for Christmas is to be with

thinking about Christmas Party

Ogechi

Received From Australia today.

 

 

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@post You said you exchanged contacts.Have you tried to call her? You can't say that you were dumped for being a Nigerian simply because she didn't reply your e-mail after you told her you're from Nigeria.You should have called her to know whether she is in good health.
If she dumped you because of your Nationality, She is damn racist and you shouldn't take such a person seriously ,you deserve a better one!

Inbreeding common? :oWhere? Because here,it's an isolated case.And i think people doing it are evil or drug addict!They are not normal at all

a laptop

sleepy

amplifier

We had a heart to heart talk last night and I shed so much tears,goshh,i am just been so emotional with him.I don't know why.

28

obligation

ok

angry

angry with someone

I wish all people on Earth show love and be nice to everyone then the World would be a better place to live!

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Laydee go away [/color]

I am thinking if it was me?

him,him & him,nothing but him,

^^Victoria's secret can do

yes,it's true and we experience all these things in our relationship, thanks~

Emmyk:
I'll love you more for that!! *blow kisses* and take u all around the world.

wow, that's absolutely perfect!

@post an APPLE Iphone 4

yes,I am always so emotional specially when I feel in love and felt the love of my baby.Whenever I am touched by his words and care.

A Levi's Jeans , i can see it fit him

a dozen of sunglasses

Can you post your picture here so I can judge?

How to be a Good Girlfriend

Don’t Rush

First of all, take things slowly. Don’t make him rush into things. Let him take his time to introduce you as his girlfriend. Agreed, marriage is a very important part of the relationship, but don’t remind him so on a daily basis. Just go with the flow and let time take its course.

Be Independent

Yes, he is a very important part of your life, but please don’t center your life on him. Have a life of your own, spend sometime with yourself, hang out with friends and attend family functions. Being there for him when he needs you is definitely desired, but don’t keep clinging on to him.

Appreciate

Appreciate him for what he is and don’t be constantly on the look for habits that you can criticize. Don’t try to change him completely. Remember, this is the same man who made you fall in love.

Have a Mind of Your Own

It is not necessary that you should agree to what he says and disagree to what he doesn’t like. Have a mind of you own. Two people, who live together, have a difference of opinion on many issues and it is very natural too. However, please do not oppose him in everything he says.

Space

Remember, both of you are different individuals and have a life beyond each other too. Let him have his share of independence & space in a relationship. Having a night-out with the boys, once in a while, is good for him. Again, too much space is also not too good. After all, both of you are a couple.

Be Cheerful

No guy likes a girl who is a cry baby. Once in a while, all of us get emotional and end up crying, but do not make it a regular feature. Infact, guys like girls who have a good sense of humor. Have the ability to laugh at yourself.

Share His Interests

No, we are not asking you to start lifting his 10 kilo dumbbells. Nonetheless, try to share his interest in cricket, football, or any other area. You can watch a game with him every now and then, trying to understand the game from him. If you don’t overdo it, I’m sure he will love explaining the nuances to you.

Pamper Him

Most of the guys are pampered by their mums and if your guy is in the majority, it is your turn to pamper him. Do small things for him like cleaning his room, getting his laundry washed, cooking his food, etc. It will show how much you care for him & there are all the chances of his responding likewise.

Self-Respect

Guys like girls who hold their ground and do not take crap from anyone. Nobody is asking you to have an inflated ego, but never ever compromise on your self-respect either. He will respect you only if you respect yourself.

Be His Friend

You have moved on from being ‘just friends’ to being a ‘couple’. Still, this does not mean that you will forget the ‘friend part’ of your relationship. Make sure to keep the friendship in the love alive.

Communicate

Your boyfriend is a human being, not a magician, who will get to know your feeling on his own. Whether you are happy, sad or hurt, talk to him! You don’t need to tell him every detail of an incident, but please don’t keep him in the dark either. Never ever stop communicating with him.

Be Expressive

Though guys deny it, they love reading romantic messages, receiving gifts, getting hugs, etc. Please be expressive in a relationship. He knows that you love him, but expressing it will keep the romance in the relationship alive.

Consistency and Patience

This is one thing most of the girls lack. Do not keep shuttling between different moods and emotions. Be consistent in your feelings and moods. Do not jump to conclusion. Be patient and hear him out before saying anything.

Yes,I think so. If you have some doubt better go to home for disabled people and ask them personally if they can

BeeMe:
i love the one in 9ja more. my program is for 2yrs,

then follow your heart sweetie,you said he has nice job in naija,that's good.But if you wanna live in US and still love him,encourage him to migrate there with you.Or saved money and come back to Nigeria and do business with him.Either ways,just consider things for good.

190:
i beg your pardon money would last and give you peace of mind!!

@190 I pointed on my first post here,MUCH MONEY,not lacking Money!
If Money will last in the hand of every one,There will be no bankruptcy,no economic crisis,no hunger!

Too Much Money WILL NEVER GIVE YOU PEACE OF MIND but instead,it will give you much responsibility as to how to spend it wisely and where to invest it.You won't have freedom to do things as you wish to.You will always go out with a body guard and a fear of being killed or hold-up.
Having Enough is enough to live,you will be more than happy and live simply.