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JESHAL007:
You are correct, if you have sense and not that ambitious, bringing a child with average means especially a male child is setting him up for failure, 80% of men are failures, they are poor or average at best, life for them is a miserable existence where they serve as cheap labour to the few top 10% men, statistically most men would end up here even if they are ambitious and put effort to escape the matrix, it's life, it's now wise to kill your genes since you won't be able to give them the leverage, capital, connection needed to survive the harsh reality of life, inflation worsen every year, the future generation would meet a worse inflation and economy than you

My pain is that the supposed failed men are the ones pressuring young ones to get married at all cost. They will say, "even if na palm Kernel you get still marry, God will take care of the children 🤣🤣🤣
Is that not wickedness? Bringing more humans to suffer and cause more pains because of their fear of loneliness in old age. Old age weh some of them no go reach.

JESHAL007:
it's true, men achieve through conflict. Conflict with self and conflict with the world. Nothing is given on a silver platter. This conflict is what builds character. Usually for most men that conflict is during their 20s while they discover themselves, finish their education and try to carve out a career. It's also a man's loneliest and most bitter time filled with frustrations of all kinds from sexual to financial. But a man is to persevere. Cause it's his rite of passage. The essential lessons of patience, persistence and relentlessness gained during this period are what will make him the Rock that his women and children will depend on. The ability to not be overwhelmed by the odds, the ability to persist under utter discouragement and the ability to retain hope while nothing is going his way is what will make a man the Head that people in his life can follow with confidence and trust. It's called The School of Life. Circumstances are the teachers.

Being a man is never going to be easy. It would be nice to inherit a softer existence. But that's not what destiny has planned for us. Ours is a bloodstained path sprinkled with sweat and tears. No easy mode. No cruise. No dodging consequences. No hiding behind excuses. No nothing. You stand up straight and you take it. And survive it.

All these pains and you still choose to bring another human to come and experience it. Why don't you pass through it alone and just escape the matrix once and for all instead of bringing more humans through your lineage to come and suffer

Master master how can we learn to emotionally detach?

RealNiggaDee:
Learn EMOTIONAL DETACHMENT if you're in a long term relationship, this is the only way to maintain your masculine frame.

The day you decide to fall miserably inlove with a woman , that's the very day you've signed your death warrant.

PeterObi4Presid:
Kai. Instead of me to become the soldier of any country I would rather become a pastor.
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Dying for God as a mathyr is more honourable than dying for politicians in a needless war I didn't cause

It is still the same thing

Travellers pass through that route ooo a lot

SpencerForbes:
Unfortunately. That’s the society we live in and I’m not sure we’re going to see a change anytime soon. As long as young boys still keep seeing the older ones flaunting illicit cash, there’ll always want to go the short cut just to get what they want. Poverty is truly the root of all evil.

They are learning from the oga at the top them.

The Analiation of Christian in Nigeria is a proof that there is no God up there protecting anyone. The binding of evil spirit and prayer would have stopped the bandit from carrying out their annihilation on the Christined population.

Oh! Africa go back to worshipping of our ancestors because through them, we can use sharm to protect our self and territory. Use your head. A pastor is using bullet proof car.

SpencerForbes:
One thing I’ve learned is that motivation is fuel. You have clean fuel and you have dirty fuel. Both might move the car forward for a while, but the dirty one will eventually knock your engine.

If pressure pushes you to do "yahoo" or rituals, fine—but I hope you have the chest to face the consequences. Don’t expect any pity when the law catches up.

A motivated young man has better options: upgrade your CV, learn a trade/handwork, or hustle for a better job. Deciding to enter crime just to impress a woman is the definition of a dumb move. No woman is worth a prison sentence.

Unfortunately most of our young men are motivated to follow the wrong part and some of these girls paid it with their lives. Some of them are used for rituals

Hhh4444:
women think calling men broke,stingy, unromantic will make us do their bidding. Na mvmv man dey take such words from women as insult. One called me stingy and unromantic yesterday,and I said "Thank you."

Give this man a balondior.

SpencerForbes:
Being called broke should be a motivation to every young hustling guy. Because it means you’re either focused on your ambition or you have some home work to do. Instead of sulking, it should make you sit up and work harder.

If you’re focused on your ambition, then I can assure you

This is what push young men to do Yahoo and rituals just to sponsor those girl's lifestyle.

Enjoy your money alone don't let qny girl call you broke. Let them go and make their own

AngelicBeing:
You don't have to be Born again to be free from addiction, some atheist and nonreligious people live a life of Absolute chastity, an advice for you, Stop attacking peoples opinion online or offline, respect peoples opinions

I will always attack if the opinion reeks of hypocrisy and holier than thou

[quote author=AngelicBeing post=137789959][/quote]You are being petty so much for a born again brother. Repent before it is too late

AngelicBeing:
Since you don't know how to respect others opinions, you are henceforth a sand and your life will forever be a SAND... In all your generations.... Amen

We are both sand with breath and we shall return to sand permanently. Amen and learn not to rub your perceived righteousness on others people's faces because you are a typical hypocrite.

[quote author=AngelicBeing post=137789714][/quote]You used your hands to type those words. I didn't type it, but you inserted it in a way like I'm the one that type it. Remember you are just a sand with breath. One day you shall become a sand again in your grave.
The worms shall eat your flesh and in millions of years your shall turn to petroleum. Everyone shall die one day.

AngelicBeing:
By The Grace of God, l am currently addicted to None, because The Grace of God, has enable me to die to all the addictions mentioned above and God- enabled SELFCONTROL has helped me to remain disciplined till date ooooooooo mucheche Hahaha 😂.

Oh the peace you enjoy when you are able by The Grace of God to kill the desires of the FLESH

Hypocrite you are rubbing it in our face

Tell those charlatans to sell off their earthly treasures and give to the poor. That is when we will take that religion serious because they are not living a Christlike life. Jesus did not have Benz, rolls Royce and mansions. He turned stones to bread to feed the sheeples. That bread runs into billions of naira if it is to be in today's Nigeria.

Tell those charlatans to sell off their earthly treasures and give to the poor. That is when we will take that religion serious because they are not living a Christlike life. Jesus did not have Benz, rolls Royce and mansions. He turned stones to bread to feed the sheeples. That bread runs into billions of naira if it

Repent from adultery

SmartPolician:
God is a father who loves with discipline because if you don't discipline your child you will raise a beast. He doesn't give a damn about emotions. If He gives rules and you disobey them, you go collect. If you obey, you enjoy!

Ending up in hellfire is a decision you made for yourself - God is not to blame for it. Speaking of gain, what does God gain from a sinner in the first place? A sinner is useless to God.

repent from the tomtom of God is at leg

SmartPolician:
God is a father who loves with discipline because if you don't discipline your child you will raise a beast. He doesn't give a damn about emotions. If He gives rules and you disobey them, you go collect. If you obey, you enjoy!

Ending up in hellfire is a decision you made for yourself - God is not to blame for it. Speaking of gain, what does God gain from a sinner in the first place? A sinner is useless to God.

With this your analogy you go surely end up in hell because you no fit holy at all

Amotolongbo:
That is why we say all these things na scam.
The concept of Heaven and Hell is to empower the leaders (spiritual or political) to enjoy this life to the fullest, making the followers to be docile to their authorities and command promising them good life after earth in heaven. The same good life the leaders on earth are enjoying, not waiting to get it in heaven.

That is why they are sponsoring pastors to build churches and keep the masses docile. Na only them wan enjoy for this world, why dem no go share the resources so that all of us go enjoy if they so love humans and want them to go to heaven.

This is one of the reasons humans should stop giving birth because it is very hard to live a holy life according to Yahweh. No one can adhere to those rules no matter how. Even all these pastors are living in sin, so don't be fooled. If you just go to hell go alone.

Bringing kids to this earth means creating more hellfire candidates, that is if hellfire is even real. Middle finger to that being that derive joy in burning humans in hell, Like say Dem tell am to create them 😭😭😭😭😭

Egalitarian1:
It's quite surprising to note that no one is talking about the poor observation of safety rule by the owner of the house. You must give at least, 15 meters away from the road before erecting your fence let alone, building the main house.

Religion has so much delt badly on us that we hardly condemn offences than "we praise God for evading the repercussions of our gross stupidity".

Any small thing God God God and our society keep doing the wrong things but shouting God always

SultanOfPuna:
Imagine say you dey do soapy for bed
Bus from nowhere send you go Heaven

How you wan take explain to God

You go locate one female Angel white and hold am sharp baba go the watch live blueeeeee f

Onegai:
Evil and wickedness will age you.

He looks like he's in his late 60s or early 70s

Genetics, drug abuse, inner conflict etc. Not wickedness. If it is by wickedness 80percent will look older than their age. Haven't you seen very wicked people looking all fresh and younger than their age?

Greedy people, heartless, cold, deceptive, hypocrites

SlavaUkraini:
By the time they are done with us,

our great great great great grandkids will be the ones to finish paying these loans.

And you will bring this great great great grandkids to suffer in this hellhole?

Instead of standing up and demanding good governance. We are cowards but don't bring another child to come and suffer this mess if we have not solved the problem of this country.

If they have focused on Agriculture research on how to make more yields, encourage giving birth to less children. Using our vast land for agricultural purpose instead of building hotels, clubhouses and needless giants churches et all.

But the only problem of this world is that ordinary paper called money. It has led us astray from important things like water, food and love for our neighbors. everyone now want to amass a lot even if it causes pain to other humans. Truly money is the root of all evil.

Some people looked older than their age