₦airaland Forum

InvertedHammer:
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You owe yourself a duty to be responsible. As a man, you have no right to pursue happiness. That's why you should get married.

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Hahaha to continue the cycle of suffering on earth

Sparkxx90:
If your parents were single, would you have been in existence?..your thinking is shallow and very myopic..I guess it's the kind of friends you are moving with that's affecting your mind set.

Non-existence is better than existence. If you were not given birth to, you won't know about Nairaland. But since you are in existence, you know about these things. You know about hellfire designed to roast humans forever if they don't follow the commandments of the most high. And I'm sure many people will end up there because they don't follow what the most high says but doing everything to acquire illicit wealth and oppress their fellow humans.

SpatialKing:
Until you hit 55s - 60s above you will start regretting.. You will die without any legacy...

My uncle is currently dying a lonely man now in Washington..

He decided to never marry,but he kept knacking all the ladies in his prime... now no kids no grandkids, no legacy, no body to talk to or share stories with..
By now his children should be around him celebrating him...
He is alll a alone in his old age...

If you die today, you will be forgotten. So legacy is absurd and nothing. Your uncle is great man. He is a role model. My greetings to him.

Good one so far they are not bringing children to suffer in this world it is okay. If they can, adoption will be cool.

It is better to cater for those alive now than to bring innocent kids to this world to suffer.

pigmania:
No go kill yaself o! Why you still dey exist?

I'm existing because life is harsh and meaningless. Many are hypocrites. Dog eat dog kind of world. So I can never kill myself because of hypocritical beings

Except from Emil cioran's book

"The only successful philosophies and reli-
gions are the ones that flatter us, whether in the name of progress or of hell Damned or not, man experiences an absolute need to be at the heart of everything. It is, in fact,solely for this reason that he is man, that he has become man.
And if someday he no longer feels this need, he must give way to some other animal prouder,
madder than himself.
He detested objective truths, the burden
of argument, sustained reasoning. He disliked
demonstrating, he wanted to convince no one.
others are a dialectician’s invention."

SpencerForbes:
I no blame you, I blame your Ibadan dealer
If your sister is there, tell her to soak a bowl of garri for you. You’ll be okay.

Ogoligo fire
Ogoligo fire

Samantha125:
You're worshipping him because of his power and influence like he's some kind of a God.

That is the problem we have in Nigeria. That is why a rich man will commit a heinous crime and go scot-free because people here worship money

Imagine watching your child being set on fire, stoned to death, etc for crime he or she does not commit and you call that braveness. I call it wickedness, gullibility and lack of empathy. You are just selfish. No wonder some parents maltreat their own children.

Stolen:
THIS IS COWARDLY, U ARE BORN TO HOLD GROUND.


NO SHAKING!


STAND ON WHAT U BELIEVE.

Cowardice is giving birth so that your children will take care of you at old age. Braveness is looking at this wicked world and choose not to give birth.

You will not be doing it for yourself but generation that will come from your loins. Some of them can become victims. So spare them the future pains.

I feel some common sensation in my pennnis
I thought it was herney, but when I looked at my screen, Sarah Banks told me it is a white liquid that wants to come out.

Angela White told me not to panic, that the sensation is sweet like honey.

Please how can I stop this common sensation and stop the white liquid from coming out?

In my pennnis I felt some rare sensation, cause my heart bleed for this nation. Many people are being served poor ration and the equation was never been balanced even with much salad.

I hail Haaland the destroyer of Maguire. I'm okay I don't need a rewire, cause my soul is on fire so I will never be tired.

Spread the love because there is nothing in this life. We shall all die one day. One love

I will keep on preaching antinatalism. No one deserves to be brought into this world to come and experience or witness the pains that this earth gives. It doesn't worth it all.

If this guy was not given birth to he won't have known what is sex talk less of laying with someone's wife and getting killed. Non-existence is the best.

What the world needs is just good food and clean water but because of greed and oppression, many killings and wickedness abounds.

What do you gain by oppressing your fellow humans

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dalass:
Bitterness is evil, don't let it consume you.

The Bible says that the whole world lies in wickedness. Wickedness has been at work since bible times. It is here, it's in US, children and adults killing themselves, imploding!

The Bible also warned that there would be fake prophets so I don't know why you should believe that all fake prophets are part of the genuine but few ones.

If Dangote has a jet, you won't question him but, assuming that baba Kumuyi with over 50 years in ministry with his branches all over the world. The baba is so recognized that he was part of the legit pastors called to offer prayers at Donald Trump's second term as president.

So to facilitate babas itinerary travels/ ministrations all over the world, one of his billionaires sons in his churches or more buys, fuels and pays all his missions expenses trips, you can still call him names?

Btw, not all who call Jesus Lord will enter heaven because he doesn't know them!

If the availability of fake currency doesn't stop you from spending cash, 😔. Fake and poisonous foods don't stop you from eating and fake shoes and clothes, can make you pick the genuine ones then.... Don't lump every one up in Christianity, those killers for ransom no be your concern, it is those who you don't know how they got their money that you are embittered about

You have a scripture underneath your post.

This is not bitterness but facts. All these leaders left what is important but only chasing what will kill humans, using religion and politics to mask and cover their wickedness.

bong4:
At least you have associated the church with something worthwhile. If as you say, the churches be converted to stores where foods are kept to feed the starving peole, kindly tell us what the mosques would or should be converted into...

They should leave them because that is where the truth is being preached and practiced

Nyascobar1414:
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Thus Spoke Zarathustra by Friedrich Nieztche.
Ecce Homo by Friedrich Nieztche.
The trouble with being born by Emil Cioran.
The Height of Despair by Emil Cioran.
The Stranger by Albert Camus.

Good luck man😹🏹

Thanks for the recommendation. I have read like three before but I will check out the rest.

Dtruthspeaker:
So because of liability you are denying your brother? So your neighbour, village people, Nnamdi Kanu and all those people who steal your brothers property in the name of traditional are not your brothers, now that you are running from fallt, responsibility and liability ehn?

I don't understand what you just typed seriously.

StillDtruth:
Are you not the one who mordered your brother and took his land, wife and properties and turned his children to your slaves?

God even offed your father who did it, yet you came and did and then you taught everyone to do the same.

Everything going on is you reaping the fruits of your labour and definitely this your blasphemous utterances will not go unanswered

See this one who told you my brother is married. You are clearly mistaken me for someone else

CondemnBattery:
Who will keep food in the buildings for you or whoever is hungry to go eat?

You better hold your government responsible.

The government will have to encourage farming and provide the necessary things that will make the process of farming easier and safe.

I'm not blind to other people's plight as it is a custom of hypocritical Christian. You think I'm speaking for self. They are millions out there hungry and it's very easy to solve this problem but religion and politics won't allowed them to do the right thing

These are fairy tales to deverts the citizens attention. Tell the government to prioritize agriculture so that food will be surplus for all of us. No be say some people go the chop while some go the starve.

What is life when the people who are meant to make life easy for citizens keep making it hard, both religious leaders and politicians are in the same both. Hypocrites only after their pocket. Buying useless private jets and mocking the poor. Shouting grace up and down and deceiving the gullibles and docile. And the wicked praise them because of crumbs they stand to gain.

All the churches should be converted to store where foods are kept to feed the starving people. We can't be pursing ephemeral materials while people are starving and dying of hunger.

He doesn't deserve to be served, because he is responsible for all the atrocities in this world.

Dtruthspeaker:
Very True.

Even your parents and siblings are part of it.

But this is very funny. Parents kwa

Why are you 🌈 sir

BucketHat:
Bro, wait a minute oh, You wan use Yankee environment compare Nigeria 🤔 Government get their own role to play den the citizenry go tag along too.

Make we take Nigeria as a case study fess;

1. Insecurity 💯
2. Epileptic power supply 💯
3. Poor road network across the country💯.
4. Poor health care system 💯
ETC

Make Nigeria government do the needful fess

One thing he failed to note is that these Yankee ancient leaders made a lot of sacrifices to make their country better but our own is just looting, looting and looting by our ancient political leaders and modern ones ruling us now.

ibedun:
Very unsmart response. Let’s use our cerebral for once. Dangote is right but I will go further to say the FG must now institute 2 child policy for the married couple and 1 child for the unmarried woman. The increasing birth rate demonstrates that our people are ignorant and irrational.

They are bringing more kids to this Nigeria to suffer starvation and wickedness, just to obey the saying, "multiply and fill the earth."

The being that made that statement don't help anyone raise kids. He just made that statement for his own selfish gain but Nigerians are so gullible and can't think for themselves

Invest in agriculture and make sure food is available for every citizens. All these acquiring of cars, plane etc while people are starving doesn't make sense.

How much you deh even waste self weh we no go hear word.

With your 50naira and 100naira bet slip

Nnamdipapa:
What about the wife and kid in Naija who were hoping to japa?

They should be allocated plots of land for intensive farming too. It is not a must to go to USA

Nnamdipapa:
Lady Who Spent $15,000 To Bring Her Husband To The US Shares Reason She Had Him Deported

I deported my husband. I didn’t just divorce him; I put him on a plane back to the trenches. And I slept like a baby the night he left.

Half the people in my church are calling me a demon. The other half are whispering that they would have done the same thing.

But before you type "Wicked Woman" in the comments, listen to what this man did to me.

My name is Sarah. I’m a Registered Nurse living in Houston, Texas. I worked double shifts, standing on my feet for 12 hours a day, wiping backsides and taking abuse from patients, just to save enough money.

Why?

To bring the "Love of my Life," Michael, to America.

We met when I went home for Christmas three years ago. Michael was charming, handsome, and spoke with that smooth accent that made my knees weak. He was a struggling engineer with "big dreams" but no opportunities.

"Baby, if you just get me to the States, I will treat you like a Queen," he promised. "I will work hard. I will build us an empire."

I believed him. I was 32, single, and lonely in a big house. I wanted a family.

I spent $15,000 on lawyers, filing fees, and flights. I sponsored his K-1 Visa.

When Michael landed at George Bush Intercontinental Airport, I cried tears of joy. I thought my life was beginning.

For the first six months, he was perfect. He cooked. He cleaned. He rubbed my feet when I came home from the hospital.

"You are my angel," he would say.

We got married at the courthouse. We filed for his Green Card (Adjustment of Status). The interview was scheduled for next week.

Last Sunday, I came home early from my shift because I had a migraine.

The house was quiet. Michael wasn't in the living room.

I walked toward the bedroom, and I heard him laughing. He was on a video call.

I stopped. Something about his tone was... different. He wasn't speaking the sweet English he spoke to me. He was speaking Pidgin, fast and aggressive.

"Don't worry, babe. The maga doesn't suspect anything," he said.

Maga?

My heart stopped. In our slang, "Maga" means a fool. A victim of a scam.

I crept closer to the door.

"The interview is next week," he continued, laughing. "Once I get that Green Card in my hand, I give it six months. Then I will file for divorce, claim 'irreconcilable differences,' and by next year, I will file for you and the kids to come over. America is sweet, babe. Just be patient."

A woman’s voice crackled on the speaker. "We miss you, daddy. Junior asks for you every day."

"Tell Junior daddy is working on his future. This woman is just the ladder. You are the owner of the house."

I didn't scream. I didn't kick down the door.

A cold calmness washed over me. The kind of calm that scares you more than anger.

I walked back to my car, drove to a coffee shop, and sat there for three hours.

I realized everything was a lie. The love. The foot rubs. The cooking. It was all a performance to secure his stay.

I went home later that evening and acted like everything was normal. I even kissed him.

But the next morning, while he was at the gym, I went to the USCIS website.

I withdrew my Sponsorship.

I wrote a letter to the immigration officer explaining that the marriage was fraudulent and that I was no longer willing to support him financially.

I didn't tell Michael.

The morning of the interview, he put on his best suit. He looked so handsome. So confident.

"Ready to make us official, baby?" he asked, fixing his tie.

"I'm ready," I smiled.

We sat in the waiting room. When they called his name, the officer didn't invite us into an office.

Two ICE officers walked out instead.

They asked for his ID. They told him his petition had been withdrawn by the sponsor and his visa had expired.

The look on his face? It wasn't fear. It was pure confusion. He looked at me.

"Sarah? What is going on?"

I stood up, smoothed my dress, and looked him dead in the eye.

"I am not a ladder, Michael. And this Maga has closed the bank."

I walked out of that building while he was shouting my name in handcuffs.

He is currently in a detention center awaiting deportation. His family back home has been blowing up my phone, cursing me, sending me Bible verses about forgiveness.

His "real wife" even sent me a DM begging me to reconsider for the sake of their children.

But I feel nothing.

I worked too hard for my peace to let a squatter live in it.

Now, I’m sitting in my quiet house, drinking wine.

Did I go too far? Should I have just divorced him and let him stay? Or did he get exactly what he ordered?

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You did the right thing. He should be deported back to Nigeria and start farming.

Sandralight:
That the only person that will always be with you is yourself, people will come and go, some will walk out, some will die, you just have to make peace with it.

Also human beings are very selfish people so don't put too much faith on them because you will he disappointed

In this world you cume and go