tensazangetsu20:


Oh okay. Apologies to the op. Her brother is a wise man.

Thanks for the apology. Sorry for calling you a fool too.

Dailyparrot:


Your argument is like saying that a dog is a female does not mean you should call it a b$tch

LOL

As much as it hurts to see your loved one called the name that he deserves, you have to bear this one.

When you take a decision as foolish as this, you are a compound FOOL!

I am assuming that he knows the family that he comes from. That you will always come to his aid. Let anyone take such a decision in my family and watch himself trek from North Cyprus to Nigeria bare footed

I’m thinking the same. Because in my family one person’s problem is everyone’s problem. We don’t leave people by themselves without help. But you cannot consistently be taking advantage of everyone’s kindness just because we are family. It is well oo.

CaveAdullam:
1. Every commander goes to war with a winning expectation. Even the general with a lower number of men in his legion is ambitious that he will win. He sees himself as the exception. He wants a name for himself. He wants to become the first hero, the pioneer, the pacesetter of a mission thought impossible.

2. The male gender is like that kind of commander and army general. He seeks freedom. He seeks glory. He's not just hopeful, but energetic to accomplish his mission. This is your brother.

3. He has the future of the family in his heart. If you pierce into his aorta, you'll find out that he doesn't seek glory for himself alone, but for his family, friends, and other loved ones.

4. Before launching a war, the general must weigh the strength of his army and enemy. He must understand the terrain and atmosphere. He must understand his mind and that of his enemy.

Having a good strategy is important, however, he must be flexible with his strategy when it fails to meet demand. He must be versatile. The wise general doesn't only plan for victory. He puts failure into consideration and good counterattacks.

5. From a good number of information online, Cyprus is a bad choice for every immigrant. However, your brother was a hasty general. His motives were limpid, but he lacks both a good strategy and counterattacks. He has lost the war.

6. Every attempt to resuscitate him will make the situation worst for him. His best option is to conclude with his study mission or better abort it and fall back to base - Nigeria.

He must be counseled by your good father that he must put shame aside, and not allow his ego to blockade him. When he comes back, he can go back to the drawing board and plan another mission.

Thanks.

Thanks for the advice. At the moment, he has enough money just to finish the program he has started. He has his return ticket because to go to North Cyprus you must present a round trip ticket before you’re even allowed to enter the country. My father has advised him to use the ticket to come back to Nigeria and re-strategise. I hope he will listen.

Regex:


But your brother has displayed the characteristics of a fool. Why is he not a fool but the person you responded to?

He made a foolish decision but that doesn’t make him a fool. So please mind your language.

tensazangetsu20:
Fool wanted to Japa and chose north Cyprus of all countries. Doesn't he have Google . Even some popular good countries with good economies are a no go area. I won't advise anyone I love to move to a country like Switzerland even though it's one of the best countries in the world. People need to read and research a country before they immigrate.

You’re the fool! Don’t call my brother a fool.

Nazgul:
Tell him to pick whatever is left of himself and come back to Nigeria. Once he's back home, he can go back to the drawing board and make plans for a much better country.

There's no need for him to remain there since it's not favouring him anymore.

Not all Japa are worth it, the sad reality is that Nigeria is far better than most of these eastern European countries.

True. Not all japa are worth it 😩

sisisioge:
North Cyprus bawo? It is well fa....may fortune smile on him. I am mostly in awe of people who have the boldness to come back to people who advised them against a decision to help repair a failure as a result of their decision. It takes some serious boys to do it

Good luck with the new strategy. His certificate acquired in that country will be mostly useless in other countries except naija. It is well.

It is well 🙏🏾

1Sharon:
For him to ask your parents for money shows he doesn't want to delve into crime.

because na so so fraud boys and ashawo full Cyprus.

I thank God he isn’t into fraud 🙏🏾

Exmilitant:
Dat one na bad decision? Aje butter things.

if i tell you of a very worse decision made; a decision that may affect even unborn children in the family you go no say ya brother matter na indiscretion.

Sorry about that. I guess what we classify as bad decisions vary from person to person.

Acidosis:

He needs to come back to Nigeria and strategize again. Very bad to make a life-long decision hastily.

If you say he should come back, he will say that is not an option. Matter taya me. Even my mum will say he cannot come back but she will not bring money to keep him there

JOACHINpedro:

Do you want help with that?

No thanks

I have a brother who was very desperate to travel abroad over a year ago. He wanted to go through school and he tried Canadian and Turkish schools but he wasn’t given visa. We advise him to try good European and USA schools but he was too desperate and couldn’t wait. He eventually got a school in North Cyprus and travelled out. All of us spoke to him to calm down and go to a good country. My father advised him and told him that North Cyprus is like a glorified Nigeria, but he wouldn’t listen. He felt everyone didn’t want him to move forward in life. When he didn’t listen to anyone, we wished him well and had to support him. Everyone supported him in every way possible, spiritually through prayers, emotionally through advise and encouragement, and financially through sending initial money for upkeep and paying school fees.

Normally in my household, for those who have travelled out, the idea is that we support with the initial money needed to get the visa and when you get there, you should get a job and continue to fend for yourself. The problem now is that this my brother is still asking my parents for money even after 1 year. The truth is that my brother has tried to look for a part time job so many times but is not finding. But how can he find when he didn’t go to a country that has a good economy. My parents don’t have any money to send because Nigeria is just somehow right now. They said many people are owing them and are not paying. My father now will call me to send money to my brother. At the moment, I don’t have a problem with it but it’s not sustainable. I’ve told him that he shouldn’t think I’ll always bring out money anytime he asks. Because a time will come, my responsibility will not even let me look at his face. Except if God blesses me to be a multimillionaire or a billionaire.

Right now, my parents have just left him to his fate. I can completely understand because they themselves are just trying to survive in Nigeria. My father said if he cannot fend for himself he should come back to Nigeria. My dad keeps repeating it that he has done what he is supposed to do as a father and that everyone is an adult and should take care of themselves now.

I wanted to leave him to his fate like my parents because he made his decision after all. Why should I stress myself for a decision he made himself even when everyone advised and warned him. But at the end of the day, my conscience will not allow me. He is still my brother at the end of the day. I’m working with him now to see how he can leave North Cyprus immediately after his studies.

Bottom line of this is that everyone needs to make the right decisions. Don’t come and stress innocent people who didn’t make your foolish decision with you.

JOACHINpedro:
How far?
You later do am?

I no do am. They called me again to go and do it. I go do am when I’m no longer a virgin.

Yes I have. We were very close in secondary school. We went to uni and everyone grew apart. I don’t even know where she is at the moment.

Another person I cut was someone who I always try to be around for but when I was hit by a car on Tuesday, she came to see me on Sunday. When she arrived, she still asked me to help her make her hair. Which I did. But at that point, I realised she just wanted to use me. I cut off from her but she still tries to keep in touch from time to time

LordErrk:


So according to you, the world is spoilt because an 18 yr old, who is an adult, is having sex and enjoying her life...but you a 26 yr old adult virgin hasn't had sex.
Is like head is paining you. Ya'll carry this virginity of a thing on your head, as if it's worth anything. Lol

It is not paining me. It is just sad that she changes guys so often. That means before she is my age, she would have slept with so many guys, maybe over 50 guys. God have mercy on us.

I stay in a shared appartment. I have a roommate who is 18yrs old. This is the second boy I’m seeing in a space of one month coming to sleep with her. Even though they try to be quiet, I still hear them because the walls are thin. I’m 26 and have never had sexual intercourse. The world has spoiled.

I love Apostle Paul. I loved his missionary works.

Beautiful

SirVamo:


When ?

Bought my iphone 14 pro max ($1,600) approximately N1,300,000 presently

This was April 2021. It’s been about 1 year and 6 months ago

obi4eze:

That's too much. Why didn't you do credit purchase?

I just wanted to pay once and for all.

Lol

Wahala no dey finish

I have been scammed during MMM time. I lost 50k. I have also been scammed in my year 2 in Uni. Scammed of 3k naira

I bought my iPhone 12 Pro Max for 1500 €. I paid in full.

Congrats to her

Happy birthday to him. Yusuf Datti Baba-Ahmed is our visit ce President. Peter Obi is our President

Channah1:
My favorite combo, gbegiri and ewedu.

With Ogunfe. Yummy

Nigerians in Taiwan need to start leaving now. That was how this war started in Ukraine

They have failed. All the evil people have failed in Jesus Christ name Amen. Peter/Baba-Ahmed for president and vice

decatalyst:
45mininte To cook spaghetti alone?

20mins max should be enough to prepare this.

. You can do customer service for a product. But you still need the minimum tech stills of operating a computer

. I understand. She means her favourite colour