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TemporaryHansel:
I support child support, but only where the man actually supported keeping the pregnancy.
You cannot insist on “my body, my choice,” shut a man out of that decision entirely, and then turn around to impose responsibility on him after the child is born. Choice cannot be selective.

I also support alimony, but in very specific circumstances. If a woman was gainfully employed and her husband pressured her to quit her job to focus on marriage or raising children, she absolutely deserves compensation if the marriage collapses. That sacrifice has value..
Beyond that scenario, I do not support alimony. Anything else is entitlement dressed up as justice.

A stay at home wife would also be working and earning money on her own if she was not married and bundled with taking care of the family so why does she not deserve alimony in a break up?

A40:
Lool. What is blud waffling about? Anyway I don't blame you. Your naivete is glaring

Why does a man have to fight for access to his own children? Are you hearing yourself at all. After covering legal costs of divorce he should also spend money to fight for custody while still paying for child support after winning shared custody. Does this make sense to you

Pray you don't jam agbako cos all this your Simpin talk will not save you from a ruthless broad that views you as a sperm donor and safety net. I strongly doubt you're in a country that puts men through the blender else you will not be this aloof

There's a reason fewer and fewer successful or even moderately successful dudes in the West even consider anything legal marriage

You are twisting narrative on his head and showing your ignorance. No court will deny a man access to his kids if he's not abusive or problematic. Fighting for primary custody means the child stays with you for majority of the time and you won't need to pay child support. Majority of men don't fight for primary custody and they just allow the women to keep the kids majority of the time which is why you hear the media rubbish of the man was kicked out of his house. Men who fight for primary custody usually wins more than 70% of the time.

Bimmarlykay:
Maybe the guy is also running from responsibilities.

This story is so funny, one sided and not helping your case of men being oppressed by western laws. She had the son for 5 weekdays which involves preparing the son for school, waking up early to prepare meals, washing, ironing etc plus she might also be working as well and he has the weekend Saturday and Sundays but somehow he thinks he is doing more because he occasionally buys clothes

Bimmarlykay:
Lol...if i go digging online,SM to post guys complaining and stuff,this space won't hold.

ok

What the hell happened to Amiggos. Just noticed I haven't seen him post for a while.

Bimmarlykay:
So she's a gal, little Wonder

Na all the men for your family be gal. Nor repeat this thing.

Bimmarlykay:
The only thing you setting straight is your Siimpee.


Your views on divorce,extortion in the name of child support and others nasty stuffs that gender do to a man,especially considering you are a guy is PELLERin.

I have never seen anyone that hates the idea of men being accountable and taking care of their offsprings as you. Gender war have warped your brain so much that even when the childs need are placed above the parents, you still see it as a gender thing lmao.

I will keep on setting the record straight and correcting bias notion and misinformation. Whatever you want to attribute it to is for your own pocket. This is the first time I am seeing asking fathers to take care of their children and protecting children during divorce is called Simping.

TemporaryHansel:
Have you heard of Emmanuel Eboué?

Anyway, I remember our abortion discussion. You argued that women should have absolute authority to decide whether to keep or terminate a pregnancy, without any input from men. Yet, in the same breath, you insisted that men should not have the right to opt out of a child’s life , even when they never supported keeping the pregnancy in the first place.

That contradiction told me everything I needed to know about where you stand on any matter involving men and women.

There was no contradiction anywhere. You are just bias not to see it was all about giving the child a good up bringing by both parents.

A40:
They make these laws and wonder why guys have checked out of any serious long term commitment and have gone rogue

You get kicked out of your house, can't see your kids and you're bleeding money. Look at Russell Simmons recent bants. This babe has married two other men and still answering his last name. Stole his money and was collecting 50k a month for 20 years. That shit is not sustainable

Stop over exaggerating. You don't get kicked out of your house and denied access to your kids without a reason. Most of the men don't even fight for custody of their children in the first place and the woman don't just get the house without giving up something and it's mostly for the kids to continue schooling and living in the same house without disrupting their lives. That's another media nonsense purported . Just a search on Reddit on normal people who went through divorce will set you straight. Stop using the case of one useless celebrity with 10 baby mamas or Simmons that's currently hiding in Bali running away from rape and sexual allegations to draw conclusions.

Something must be done with these car races in Abuja.

Look at this acc!dent. Wow
pic.twitter.com/EvHmXbmiNH

— POOJA!!! (@PoojaMedia) December 15, 2025

Abuja boys with their rubbish car races now you don get accident break multiple bones.

A40:
The Bottomline is o le te obinrin lorun (you can never satisfy woman as what they want is always a moving target)

If she's poor she wants a rich nigga, if she has a rich man she will take a poor man that stirs her loins or gives her the attention her rich man cannot give cos who get time no get money and who get money no get time

Listen to philosopher Bobby Womack

If y'all don't mind, I'd like to talk about this woman of mine
She's always complaining 'bout me never being at home
But when I'm there, I'm broke
She's telling me 'bout the things that her girlfriend's got
What she ain't got
And she want me to go out and get' em for her, but
But girl, I can't be in two places at one time

Trying to keep a woman you attracted with money is a foolish mistake for one. That juice is not worth the squeeze.

Ultimately you need money to live comfortably. And whether you are poor or rich is not a guarantee a woman stays forever. But with money you're not as despondent when she invariably leaves

Well said.

GrammarNazi1:
A man like Dangote has high standards that a lot of women cannot cope with.

The surprising thing is these standards are normal standards, but these women want you to provide like your life depends on it, but they can't keep their end of the bargain, so they will continue to be bed to bed midfielders.

Same Dangote that one uk babe leaked his ass pictures? Leave story about standard,Dangote is a born player. He is a watered down version of Ned.

superintendents:
una Wan kill person for this thread I swear

This is just half of the story o.

raumdeuter:
How much Israel get, Why Chioma never run from Davido since

Do you know the circumstance of Dangotes separation if he was the one chasing them away or maybe he gave them enough resources to move away

Like I said when these billionaire wives run away and dont take anything from them, we can actually take them seriously

Chioma is not tired. When she is she will run away like Regina did to Ned.

You are jumping from pillar to post. Dangote with all his billions yet he can't stay married. The women keep running away. He even proposed marriage to one Yaradua daughter she refused.

For the upteemth time riches won't keep an unhappy wife. You can dance around it all you want but it's the fact.

raumdeuter:
Like Chioma gave Davido a $28k purse recently abi.

That's a gift. Pastor was allegedly begging for money.

raumdeuter:
So you agree the money and soft life attracted her in the first place before she realized its not all roses

Divorce their billionaire husband when they can get access to half his fortune. If they Divorce the billionaires and refuse to touch a dime of his money we might believe your hypothesis

If it was all about luxury Regina would not have ran same with Israel dmw wife. Like I said your riches won't keep an unhappy wife.


How many wives have ran away from Dangote?

raumdeuter:
Why Regina go meet Ned in the first place if nor be riches

If the billionaires do not want you anymore or you are guaranteed to make a huge fortune sure why not

Why did the riches, luxury and soft life not keep Regina? Why is she running away. If you like carry the riches of Nigeria, women will still leave when they are tired. Your money can only make them attracted to you but won't keep them like you are trying to sell with your example of Davido. The Israel dmw you mentioned why did his wife run away despite the access and soft life.


We have literally seen women divorce their billionaire husbands.

Ihebu4chelsea:
Still the same thing, Giving him money in order to collect more , It's the Luxury she got attracted to in the first place!

A pastor that's collecting money from his woman has no luxury or more money to offer.

raumdeuter:
Sponsoring Pastor with what? Like Maki was also sponsoring Ezra abi

According to her story which may be true or lies he was collecting money from her so it's not the luxury and soft life bulala you were trying to sell.

She was even the one sponsoring the pastor and dayo is talking about soft life , luxury and kini kon.

izzou:
These supposed pastors hold a lot of mental influence on these ladies.

This is the main and only relevant point.

raumdeuter:
The perks of office as mommy GO is not what an ordinary promising relationship can give

A wise man says Always follow the money, all those Pastors that have been accused of cheating, how many of their wives left them for it?

Its the same logic that babes wey dey open leg for Davido and get belle for am dey follow despite having a serious BF or why Davido wife never vex leave am

The fantasy of a life of luxury, vacations abroad, children in posh schools, with multiple willing workers tending to your needs as mommy GO vs promising relationship of rented apartment in Gbagada where your husband dey drive 2005 Corrola

With these perks of office some straight men sef go bend down collect abi who no like soft life

Dayo all these ones na super story. Nor be Regina dey run from Ned with all his riches, nor be women run from billionaires like Musk, Dangote, and Bezos. You just dey try twist narrative.

semid4lyfe:
Dangote is mad because he has not gotten the monopoly he's fighting for and still needs to compete with imported fuel. That's why he making this allegation.

Duru Bond explains it best in these two videos.

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSPfmRUo1/

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSPfmmS9M/

The way Dangote is moving is suspicious.

izzou:
https://www.nairaland.com/8580671/doris-ogala-accuses-pastor-chris

Life's crazzzy mhen...

You can be married to a lady, not knowing you're the side husband.

She got married to a guy, and the Pastor told her to leave, and she left. Imagine the level of emotional damage she left that guy in.

Then you are now crying about being dumped? Naaah. Until you run mad, the karma never complete

This was exactly why I spoke out the other time about people in authority going out with their subordinates. Most women will see a pastor telling them to leave their marriage as a direct order and prophecy from God. A pastor fornicating and have sexual images yet his church will still be packed to the brim filled with gullible worshippers. Nigerians and pastor worshipping is a very sickening phenomenon.

CrystalTiger:
Which kain prophecy be this na? On the average, how many twins do we get in a year?

You can clearly see the prophecy was for barren women and women struggling to conceive.

andrewbaba44:
No be say him no Dey ball for Madrid oo

But nothing consign am with midfielder work anymore since that false 9 by ancelotti ,even with mbappe as striker bellingham Dey fall inside box pass am ,na arda guler go Kuku suffer am pass

And yes he is a very hardworking B2B

Please elaborate what you mean by midfielder work that Bellingham doesn't do. You will find it hard to name a more complete midfielder in world football today than Bellingham not just in attack but also in defense.

raumdeuter:
Africans believe that if you have serious problems you will need actions and prayers that match it not simple and gentle prayers

This belief made many young people to leave the traditional churches for pentecostal fire brand churches whose ginger matches their African problem

One of the reasons pentecostal churches hate Catholics. If you not shaking your head furiously and speaking in tongues you are not praying right. It's a very annoying mentality.

[b] "In these 6 months of the Alonso era, the Real Madrid dressing room has not meshed well with him. He arrived to raise the bar, both in training and matches; to impose discipline and order in a dressing room that was spoiled and toxic; and to modernize the team's style of play. As the weeks went by, the players grew increasingly frustrated with his tactical demands, high press, advanced defensive line, endless video sessions, and limited rest days. And Alonso, knowing he was losing the dressing room, gradually gave in, eventually offering them his full support, his arm, and whatever else they asked for.

The latest example is recent. The before and after the victory at San Mamés demonstrates the power of the dressing room. Traveling on Tuesday instead of Wednesday angered a good number of the players, and after the win against Athletic, Alonso granted them two days off, when only one had been planned. So the preparation for the match against Celta included only one training session, on Saturday. This is just one example of the many that have occurred since the Vinicius case erupted.

Until then, Alonso didn't really know what it meant to coach Real Madrid. And that's despite being a player for five years, and having witnessed how a coach like Mourinho lost the support of a large majority of his players when things started to go wrong. Now Alonso himself is experiencing firsthand the influence players have at Real Madrid, but he doesn't understand why he was brought in if, at the first sign of trouble, the club looked the other way, as happened with Vinicius. That's when Xabi understood that he had to manage 25 egos and put his coaching role aside. The beginning of the end.

Alonso believed that coaching on his knees would boost the dressing room, but usually, it's quite the opposite. Everything that has happened in recent weeks has paved the way for what seems imminent: his dismissal." [/b]

AirBere:
Galactico is about big players, super stars, famous stars undroapable stars. You cannot drop Vini, Mbape, Bellingham, Valverde. Only a word from Perez can change this. Alonso himself cannot try it. It's why Vini started next game instead of being dropped to the bench or banished from squad entirely.

You think Vini can do what he did at Leverkusen under Alonso and start next game? No way. I also blame Alonso for taking him off when he was on top of his game Vs Barca. In fact, Alonso started this wahala. He wanted to start a power play and ended up losing all his powers because Perez supported the players instead.

Valverde has been dropped this season numerous times same with Vini. Why did you think they ganged up on Xabi yet the club backed Xabi over them.


Valverde has been terrible this season and always complaining about playing right back cua Xabi has no place for him in his midfield. If Carvajal and Trent were available he would be on the bench. Vini is asking for Ronaldo contract despite playing like a second division player.

AirBere:

Galactico 1.0 was all about the emboldened, this is literally galactico 2.0. If you think Perez or other clubs president do not have a single say in teams selection then you're just in delulu land. How long have you been following Madrid especially under the leadership of Perez?

If you think this current team is a galatico then you are really living in delulu land.

King2019:
He is coach, he can adapt.

We have good talent in the team, there is no need to fix himself on one single idea.

The match against Barcelona was so chaotic, you have to tell me he planned it that way?

Players blatantly going against the coach is a no no and will destroy any dressing room. Vini, Valverde and others need to stop ganging up and actually try performing like mbappe is doing.