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Ellexy:
A simple abortion would have solved all this brouhaha.

Likewise.

CAPdan21:
But if the man decides he want to take responsibility, the woman can decide to what she likes....VAR checking: Offside

Its almost like she's the one who go through nine months of pain and the possibility of dying through child birth. How dare she get the final decision.

Ellexy:
If a woman can opt out of motherhood before a child is born, a man can also opt out of fathering a child he has zero say in keeping.

Maybe if your Mum aborted you back then against your father's wish, you won't be struggling to understand this simple logic today.

Don't have sex if you are not ready to father a child. Taking part in that activity already means you are conscious of your actions and ready for the responsibilities.

I am glad your father didn't follow this your sick advise and actually took good care of you and your mother. I hope you won't ruin the life of an innocent child as well by running away.

CAPdan21:
Is it you that created the Male body?...But it's you that's attributing responsibility based on genders...Omoh if you like be father of all nations that one concern you

How is asking for both sex to take responsibility for their child attributing anything to gender or is it the man that carries the pregnancy. How old are you?

CAPdan21:
Okay it's not God again it's body anatomy...

Was it you that created the female body?

Ellexy:
Your mental battery finishes every time accountability for women is placed on the table.
If a woman gets the final say on whether a pregnancy continues, then fairness demands the man also gets a say on whether he becomes a parent. God did not empower women to murder their unborn babies, better keep God out of this.

Says the individual trying to exclude father's from taking care of their children. Did your own Dad run away from his responsibilities and duties towards you?

God and Biological anatomy places it in the womans hand. Unless you want that responsibility then write a petition to God.

CAPdan21:
Shey na God give her the out?...Abi where did God prescribe abortion for women

Her body anatomy gives her a way out. Are you 2?

CAPdan21:
Make she sef control her obough...what is good for the goose is good for the gander

She has an out with abortion you don't.

Ellexy:
Nah God finished work with freewill and choice. If she can choose to end a pregnancy regardless of the guy’s wishes, then the guy can also choose not to be financially or emotionally responsible for a child he had zero say in keeping.

You can’t enjoy my body, my choice and then switch to our baby, your responsibility. It doesn't work that way eje.

You are currently just beating around the bush. The consequence of having unprotected sex is a child. You knew that when you engaged in it and God didn't give you a way out like the woman In terms of bodily anatomy. If you don't want a child, abstain.

CAPdan21:
So my John Thomas only matters when the lady says it does...
And where in the bible were people going about doing abortions...

Control your John Thomas if you don't want to have a child.

Bimmarlykay:
Nice one,so if you marry,and your wife files for divorce because you was too perfect and she's bored.

Court then weigh -in and tells you to pay a huge sum for child support, Who would be the wic.ked one here,what would be wrong here?

This example doesn't even make sense. Where you not taking care of the children when you were married Or because you are divorcing you will stop taking care of them or what exactly are you saying.

Ellexy:
So the decision of the guy doesn't matter because it's her body right?

Do you have a problem with how God made it?

Ellexy:
From your last 2 replies, you claimed what I said didn't make sense, so I had to ask for you to educate me. What should happen when the guy wants the baby and the girl doesn't?

😏😏

She can decide to terminate it. What do you think should happen?

TemporaryHansel:
I respect the idea of bodily autonomy, but if a woman has full authority to decide whether a pregnancy continues, then logically the man should have a corresponding right to decide his level of involvement. You can’t claim absolute choice for one party and zero choice for the other.

If someone chooses to keep a pregnancy knowing the other person wants no part of it, that decision is theirs, but the responsibility shouldn’t magically become shared by default. Fairness means both people get a say in their obligations, not just one. 💁🏽‍♂️

Fairness is taking care of your child. The child didn't force you have sex knowing the consequences.

Ellexy:


E don hook you to answer abi

Hook how? I am trying to grasp what you think should happen. Tell us what you think should happen

CAPdan21:
if the woman is not ready to be a mother let her abstain too na...abi how you see am, afterall it takes two to tangle

We are saying the same thing. The woman has an out with abortion you don't. Control your dick so you won't start crying about child support when it's time to reap the reward.

Ellexy:
What happens when the guy wants the baby and the girl doesn't?

What do you think should happen?

Ellexy:
Lol of course he knows the consequence, that’s why he’s fully responsible for whether he wants to be a father, not responsible for her decision to keep a pregnancy he can’t control.

If women want full autonomy over their bodies, then men also get autonomy over their wallets and fatherhood.

This doesn't even make sense in anyway. He knows the consequences and gets to reap the reward. It's as simple as abc. You will have to write a petition to God asking him why he put the womb into women and not men since you want to choose lmao

CAPdan21:
So you agree with abortion= Not the man's business, it's my body
No abortion= come and take responsibility

Women have an out with abortion you don't. That's the more reason for you to control your dick and abstain if you are not ready to be a father.

Ellexy:
She knew the consequences of opening her legs without protection. So don’t suddenly impose a whole human being on a guy who was never ready to be a father.
When it’s time for abortion, nobody asks the man for his opinion, it’s my body, my choice.

So if it’s her choice when removing the baby, then it’s also his choice whether he wants to be a father.
What is good for Lagos is good for Uganda too. Equality no be one way traffic.

Sorry but this is dumb. The man inserting his dick without protection doesn't know the consequence?

Ellexy:
It's no longer her body her choice?

I asked you a simple question. Did she create the baby herself? What does her body her choice has to do with a father taking care of his baby.

Ellexy:
Her body her choice, she chose to be pregnant.

Yes, she impregnated herself.

Bimmarlykay:
Same America where Men pay child support till they pass out.

What is wrong in paying child support? You think it's Nigeria where you can just impregnate any girl and leave her to provide and care for the child alone.

Bimmarlykay:
That union was built on Flash,clout and dubious gains.

If she had kept receipts just incase by now dem for dey court. Ned can't free her yet,he spent on them,na him wife,her cappings means shiit.

Make she go back to her Lambo or hush it.

Can you even hear yourself? When did marriage become by force. That weird old nigga should accept the bride price and stop harassing the girl and her family members. Is this kind of bullying and oppression that makes you appreciate America laws protecting women in marriages.

Bimmarlykay:
She's not smart,even a 5year old know say that marriage no go last,she should have drafted her receipts and prepare for days like this,she's just throwing weak jabs hoping one hits.

This is why America and Europe has so many laws protecting women in marriages. Why does she need receipts and all that to end a marriage she's no longer interested in. Ned should leave her alone and stop harassing her family members. The family already returned his bride price. Marriage don end,they should move on and stop disturbing us.

izzou:
Easy, bros

You are now more emotional than Wike, on this matter

I just don't like people twisting things to conform with their narrative. It's all good

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
You're on point. I watched the video. He say former Head of State (Obasanjo) called him on phone when he had land issues in Abuja, he say former chief of army staff (T.Y Danjuma) also reached him on phone to help settle things. So basically, he was expecting the Vice Admiral to look for him. Person wey dey preach due process, saying he's against lawlessness.

He mentioned those names to tell you people with higher power than the so called admiral went through the proper channel to resolve whatever land issues they have. They didn't break laws and send military men to beat up and intimedate people carrying out their duties.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Which FCDA? Same FCDA wey don come carry their bulldozer🚜?

https://www.nairaland.com/8560855/fcda-withdraws-bulldozer-disputed-land

Lere had the opportunity to ask officer Yerima this question face to face, eye ball to eyeball but he turn to camera📷 man.

You have not answered the core questions.

1) What is the duty of the FCDA

2) If the solder was asked to shot a civilian or rape someone would he jump in because he was ordered?

That was how police arrested FCTA officials after demolishing their illegal structures. Blatant disregard for law and order because they are military and security officials.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Wike wan dey do speech renovation after he don gba 4 public. If no be because of his pride and ego, he should simply apologize. No need for more shalaye.
Tagging the order as "illegal order" is funny. Because he cannot be executive, legislature & judiciary at the same time. Na court go decide if the order is illegal, also decide if the house documents and approval certificates are legal not Mr Agreement is Agreement

What is the duty of the FCDA?

Like Lere said if the solder was ordered to shot a civilian or rape a girl would be jump in because he was ordered? No he won't because it's illegal and unlawful same can be applied here.

CAPdan21:
So how does this statement show he married her as a minor (before 18) or is virginity now linked to being a teenager..

Her being a virgin adds credence to her age. Ned is a weird man.

izzou:
Something is obviously wrong with my ears and eyes. I must have heard wrongly

I think he's trying to explain the context behind the outburst. Like you are a fool for carrying out an illegal order