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Spy360:
I am imagining seeing how the parents will be telling the teacher that slapping a child is abuse, and then goes ahead to slap the teacher. 😂

What a story with morals 😂

Very pathetic. Some parents would even come over the most flimsiest reason to confront a teacher.

Theflint1:
Yea, it's more about protecting the child.

Las Las whether man and woman are unable to come to an agreement on the child being born, if the child eventually gets born, it's deserving of catering.

A society where men and women abdicate responsibilities towards children (regardless of whether they wanted said kids or not) slowly turns out worse for everyone.

Finally someone who can actually read and understand a simple point.

ChristineC:
I didn't reference the child support part.
your argument can be summarised in a very short sentence; and that is support for non consequence violence against children as long as the perpetrator is a woman. that's alright, it is your kid.
what I don't understand is why you think the woman is stripped of same choice and term it murder as soon as the kid is born.

Seems you misquoted the wrong post cus nothing you are saying is tied to any of my points.

When a woman chooses to 'opt out' there is no child. When a man chooses to 'opt out', there is a child that needs to be taken care of. Once the child is born it's no longer about either parent, but about the child. If you can't grasp that then forget about it and move on.

Bimmarlykay:
You know nothing.You only focus on protecting women, women, women.

These American laws are established to balance responsibilities, fairness, and equality,not just to protect the female gender,they should be fairness but reality keeps showing otherwise reason u femni.t b.c.t.h like d.c.k riding those laws.

Very la.zee, de.ce.it.ful folks always having an entitlement/manipu.lateev mindset.

Infact Ned should keep pressing Regis neck.

What does child support have to to do with protecting women? Gender war has really messed with some of your heads.

Melvyn: Fathers should provide and take of their children.

Bimmarlykay: You are protecting women, you are a feminist etc

It's all good chief 👍

Bimmarlykay:
What do you see there?

Why are you showing me like you are not one who needs to educate yourself.

Bimmarlykay:
Who said only Celebrities, don't start having imaginations?

What's the goal of Child support?

When you see child and support what goal does that tell you? I am really tired of these kindergarten back and forth.

ChristineC:
course there is.
she can wrap in a plastic bag and chuck onto some garbage truck on a cool Wednesday morning.
wtf is the differenqce?

The man could also wrap in a plastic bag and chuck onto some garbage truck on a cool Wednesday morning and that would be murder. You need to actually read that post properly before jumping in.

Bimmarlykay:
Do you even Know how Child support works over there? There's a reason Tyrese Gibson's was crying online,you think its your average fend for my kids.

You funny sha

You must think only celebrities are paying child support. You see the huge sums they spend on expensive schools, housing, clothing, feeding, and more for their kids , and you assume that’s the norm lol.

Ellexy:
You that is for the lady aborting the child against the guys wishes is now suddenly concerned about the child having both parents present ...if you don't geddifok with this performative nonsense

If you genuinely cared about child having both parents, you’d advocate for joint responsibility and joint decision making, not this one sided woman decides everything nonsense. If you want two parents involved, then two parents must have a voice. Simple logic, no pea sized brain needed.

How exactly does that contradict each other?

The woman has bodily autonomy. If the baby is inside her body, she has the will to eject it.

The woman does not have the way out once the baby is born. Once the baby is born, both parents have the exact same options and both should contribute to the well being of the child.

Ellexy:
Now for the last time. When two adults have unprotected sex and pregnancy occurs, both created the pregnancy, so the decision about keeping or terminating it should be a joint one. Not one person dictating terms while the other is told to petition God for permission to have a say.....whatever that means.
If both created it, both should have a say.
It’s called fairness.

Sorry if I think the person who is going to be in pain for nine months and go through a near death experience gets to have a bigger say. If you want fairness and a bigger say write petition to God to transfer a womb to you.

Ellexy:
You this male feminist simp, stop surrendering all your agency at the feet of women. It's an upside down operation. Even the God you keep mentioning didn’t design any hierarchy where men have zero say. On the contrary, His book said man is the head of the woman.

The fact you even think this is about men vs women and not the child who should have both parents present just shows how gender war have corrupted that pea size brain of yours.

Ellexy:
Quick question, what if your Mum decided to abort you despite you Dad's plea to keep you?

Is that what happened to you?

CAPdan21:
It's almost like the man who has to use his blood and sweat to pay for child support for a child he was not interested in...How dare He get no input

Then dont have sex. You cannot create a child and then not be interested.

Ellexy:
A simple abortion would have solved all this brouhaha.

Likewise.

CAPdan21:
But if the man decides he want to take responsibility, the woman can decide to what she likes....VAR checking: Offside

Its almost like she's the one who go through nine months of pain and the possibility of dying through child birth. How dare she get the final decision.

Ellexy:
If a woman can opt out of motherhood before a child is born, a man can also opt out of fathering a child he has zero say in keeping.

Maybe if your Mum aborted you back then against your father's wish, you won't be struggling to understand this simple logic today.

Don't have sex if you are not ready to father a child. Taking part in that activity already means you are conscious of your actions and ready for the responsibilities.

I am glad your father didn't follow this your sick advise and actually took good care of you and your mother. I hope you won't ruin the life of an innocent child as well by running away.

CAPdan21:
Is it you that created the Male body?...But it's you that's attributing responsibility based on genders...Omoh if you like be father of all nations that one concern you

How is asking for both sex to take responsibility for their child attributing anything to gender or is it the man that carries the pregnancy. How old are you?

CAPdan21:
Okay it's not God again it's body anatomy...

Was it you that created the female body?

Ellexy:
Your mental battery finishes every time accountability for women is placed on the table.
If a woman gets the final say on whether a pregnancy continues, then fairness demands the man also gets a say on whether he becomes a parent. God did not empower women to murder their unborn babies, better keep God out of this.

Says the individual trying to exclude father's from taking care of their children. Did your own Dad run away from his responsibilities and duties towards you?

God and Biological anatomy places it in the womans hand. Unless you want that responsibility then write a petition to God.

CAPdan21:
Shey na God give her the out?...Abi where did God prescribe abortion for women

Her body anatomy gives her a way out. Are you 2?

CAPdan21:
Make she sef control her obough...what is good for the goose is good for the gander

She has an out with abortion you don't.

Ellexy:
Nah God finished work with freewill and choice. If she can choose to end a pregnancy regardless of the guy’s wishes, then the guy can also choose not to be financially or emotionally responsible for a child he had zero say in keeping.

You can’t enjoy my body, my choice and then switch to our baby, your responsibility. It doesn't work that way eje.

You are currently just beating around the bush. The consequence of having unprotected sex is a child. You knew that when you engaged in it and God didn't give you a way out like the woman In terms of bodily anatomy. If you don't want a child, abstain.

CAPdan21:
So my John Thomas only matters when the lady says it does...
And where in the bible were people going about doing abortions...

Control your John Thomas if you don't want to have a child.

Bimmarlykay:
Nice one,so if you marry,and your wife files for divorce because you was too perfect and she's bored.

Court then weigh -in and tells you to pay a huge sum for child support, Who would be the wic.ked one here,what would be wrong here?

This example doesn't even make sense. Where you not taking care of the children when you were married Or because you are divorcing you will stop taking care of them or what exactly are you saying.

Ellexy:
So the decision of the guy doesn't matter because it's her body right?

Do you have a problem with how God made it?

Ellexy:
From your last 2 replies, you claimed what I said didn't make sense, so I had to ask for you to educate me. What should happen when the guy wants the baby and the girl doesn't?

😏😏

She can decide to terminate it. What do you think should happen?

TemporaryHansel:
I respect the idea of bodily autonomy, but if a woman has full authority to decide whether a pregnancy continues, then logically the man should have a corresponding right to decide his level of involvement. You can’t claim absolute choice for one party and zero choice for the other.

If someone chooses to keep a pregnancy knowing the other person wants no part of it, that decision is theirs, but the responsibility shouldn’t magically become shared by default. Fairness means both people get a say in their obligations, not just one. 💁🏽‍♂️

Fairness is taking care of your child. The child didn't force you have sex knowing the consequences.

Ellexy:


E don hook you to answer abi

Hook how? I am trying to grasp what you think should happen. Tell us what you think should happen

CAPdan21:
if the woman is not ready to be a mother let her abstain too na...abi how you see am, afterall it takes two to tangle

We are saying the same thing. The woman has an out with abortion you don't. Control your dick so you won't start crying about child support when it's time to reap the reward.

Ellexy:
What happens when the guy wants the baby and the girl doesn't?

What do you think should happen?

Ellexy:
Lol of course he knows the consequence, that’s why he’s fully responsible for whether he wants to be a father, not responsible for her decision to keep a pregnancy he can’t control.

If women want full autonomy over their bodies, then men also get autonomy over their wallets and fatherhood.

This doesn't even make sense in anyway. He knows the consequences and gets to reap the reward. It's as simple as abc. You will have to write a petition to God asking him why he put the womb into women and not men since you want to choose lmao

CAPdan21:
So you agree with abortion= Not the man's business, it's my body
No abortion= come and take responsibility

Women have an out with abortion you don't. That's the more reason for you to control your dick and abstain if you are not ready to be a father.