Fibel:



Scanfrost 1.5hp Ac SFACS12m low voltage - SOLD
Bosch microwave HMT72M450B - SOLD


Recheargeable Fan pic below.

How many hours does the fan last?

Thazard:

Sofrosh

Cc sofrosh you are a foolish person..... Did sumone forced you to post a phone without price here.....?

You came online to complain but u didn't tell us the kind of msg u sent back to thazard... You are definitely a foolish guy.....

Is the phone sold? I am willing to pay 30k and u will beg me for it

lokalbouy:
Brought from the Uk with broken screen, the screen replaced
All other things works perfectly fine.

Iphone 6s 32 gig

Price......60k only

Non Negotiable

More Enquires
08066894577.

Check in to the hospital. You are definitely not feeling fine....
If anyone buy dt thing from you for 40k, na mumu the person be

rinzaugustine:
Lies and propaganda have been stock in trade of APC since 2015 with nothing to show for it ..what are the names of the 58,000 pupils..I am sure the real number is not even up to one tenth of that figure

Omo yìína.... You sound pained right

100,000 Gbarebo Rhodes will never become Lagos state governor

Poor man dey do ritual of success for person make impoverish am

nairalanda1:


Helinues does open threads that are deliberately provocative. At the end, while people don't have to be uncontrolled as to allow themselves to be easily provoked...if a thread on the net makes you go angry....the problem is with you.....being deliberately provocative is also not right.

Ur fellow obidents did more than this.. I can't count how many thread Ur people open every
Day that is all about insulting yorubas all bcox tinubu beat una messiah

nairalanda1:



Well, both sides do do trolling. God knows I know...

But the person I quoted has been on it for years. At a point one wonders what's really the matter.

(By the way, its amusing to be called an obidient. Some think I support tinubu, lol.).

U shud be concern about ur fellow obidients opening multiple account just to troll helinues..

Heli is commenting like every other person will comment but ńa ur fellow obidients dey troll am.

You know but keep pretending

Rgp92:


Nairaland1, you are one of the unbaised commenter on nairaland. I have been on this forum for along time and i had to log in again to ask you what has Helius done to be called a troll? The other guy have been making account daily to troll him for a long time now, and imo what helius say is not different from what a lot of ppl on nairaland do. How does that make him a troll? Like i said sir, i just want to know what he does that is different from the other commenters

nairalanda1 is an obidients.. The answer is not far fetched.

When it is obvious that it is their fellow obidient that is trolling, they ignore and attack the person being troll.

Na u get time dey respect am....

Ask him who is the troll between helinues and the guy that opened many accounts just to troll?

He will go silent

Afe11:


I do mind. Sorry buddy.

Aiit thanks. Kindly help edit and remove

Thanks

fils1:


127k monthly net pay is absolutely correct.
Kindly see below deduction applicable based on the figures you have;
PAYE: N11,177.62
Pension : N12,020
Net Pay: 127,052.37

Your employer is expected to contribute 10% of your monthly gross to your Pension account i.e. N15,025. While employee contributes 8% i.e. N12,020

You are calculating pension 8% on the total fee.. It is not supposed to be

You only charge pension on basic, housing and transport.. Those are the chargeable

julybaba:


PAYE tax is 7%

So , the calculation is correct.

He should collect 127,500 after deduction

Mind sending a calculation of this pls

Prec1ous:
Something around 130k net

Pls how did you calculate this

Tax matter and payroll no easy ooo. Many people are just giving different figures.. I am totally confused

He already called the HR but she said they would discuss when he gets to office next week...

So he wants to know now before he approaches the HR to get explanation

Note: he got his first pay of 127k...and he thinks it is wrong as he expected 130k upward ..


Besides, employers pension contribution; is it supposed to be taken from the staff salary or the company pays that separate?

Nairalanders, my friend got a job in a depot although he didn't get the position he wanted as a logistics person.

He was paid as this is his first month..

Offer letter shows below per annum:

Basic - 650000
Transport - 240000
Housing - 240000
Telecommunications - 120000
Lunch - 125000
Medical allowance - 125000
Wardrobe - 125000
Pension - 113000
Annual leave allowance - 65000

Total is 1,803,000 million.

Monthly salary is 150000k.

Note:
1. Out of this 150k, 8% employee pension fee will be deducted

2. Employer is also expected to contribute 10%

3. Paye (i don't know the amount of paye tax on this salary)


My question is; with the information above, how much is the employee supposed to collect at the end of the month .i.e Net monthly salary

iamsomatil:
Bruh...I have been in your exact same shoe....only difference is the other wife had only one child..but our dad was a destitute,never cared for any of us...our mum saw us through school..Thank God she was well off, she used to work in a bank back then...when we grew up, he came to beg us..my elder siblings forgave him (i am the last born) i did not forgive him till he died....you don't want to imagine the guilt i hav been living with since then..i wish i had forgiven him regardless of everything.....believe me, the best thing you can do for yourself is to forgive him wholeheartedly....Free yourself from the shackles of the past

I have notin against him..

patorial:


Like I said, that's the only thing I can tell you.

I can tell. U dt u r a dreamer

You be trouble maker

GGIA:


tochez24

tochez24:


Nah your papa be beadbeat if at all you have one.... idiot⚠️

Did you hear me say my dad was one abi Ogun won kill you and your generations throw way😡😡

https://www.nairaland.com/7978467/how-clear-guilt-against-dad#128083917

I posted recently about how I still feel recently. I wish I can help it but it is not just working. I don't hate him generally but sometimes whenever I think of what he did most times to my mom, I just feel disgusted with him.

He has been calling me to visit him but I have been giving excuse. The last time he called me, I replied angrily to him on phone that he should stop pestering me with this visit thing. After the call, I regretted doing that and till now, I think about it and I regret replying him in that manner..

But all these were due to his actions towards us while growing.
Where do I start from?
Is it when my mother was seriously sick and my dad said "if she wants to die, she should die" and he doesn't have any money to buy drugs or hospital, omoo if I remember that statement, I feel so much hatred for him.

Same man had appendicitis but it was my mother that left her business to go sleep and wake at the hospital to take care of my father till he was discharged.

I think old man has grown now and I don't know if he regrets those things he did but I don't care. I just wana do my best for him without inconveniencing myself.


My fear is; I don't want to turn out like my father. I don't want to turn to wife beater like my father. I don't want some of his attributes.

How do I ensure that I don't turn out like what I complained and hate to be? This is my greatest fear.
I don't want to marry more than one wife, take care of my kids and family. Train them well and not be a wife beater.

Note: I don't hate my father anymore but I only feel that anger whenever I remember his actions but it's nt a big deal, he tried his best I believe but jsut that he didn't do how he could have done. If my dad did half of what my mom did, I am confidently things could have turned out differently but I still appreciate my dad though.. Atleast, I feed myself and send him money monthly without stress and also attend to my miscellaneous need even while I am not earning something huge at the moment

Nairalanders, I really need your opinion....

edward1106:


There is an age you get to as a child, your father or mom becomes like a very close friend. The difference btw him and others den becomes just the respect you accord but can't afford others.
Pay him a visit or better still, pay him a visit and let your mom be there as well. Preinform there is a matter to be discussed.
And then, table your restlessness you have been having. Tell him you want to know why things were the way they were then. If he doesn't explain. Greet him and walk away but still send him money. This way, you have aired your mind even if you didn't get any helpful answers.
But I believe he will explain things out, good or bad and be cautious as with your mother, you best know her personality and how her mouth might work in such situations.
SOMETIMES, mothers are the cause of why fathers behave the way they did, though not a valid excuse. But not wanting to go dark so it doesn't look like they are visiting the sins of the mother on the children, the father will just do some of his duties, but not all.
And these doesn't mean we still don't have irresponsible fathers who don't just give a damn.
And lastly, see it this way, some things are put in this life for us to learn from and so not make same mistake. There are certain actions by people we shouldn't be criticising.e.g Peter denying Jesus.
Sometimes I think they were meant to happen just the way they happened. What is most important is how we/they react to such actions afterwards.
In all, learn from your dad's supposed mistakes and be a better father than he is.
Am from a polygamous home. I understand your plight even though my dad is the exact opposite of yours. My father had his own demons he battled with. Such will be the life of every father. God help us all cos we aren't taught or trained to be fathers. We learn from our society and apply what we "think" best work for our immediate family.

Bro, mother is not the cause of anything..

If na mother, what abt my step brothers and sisters, they were even treated worst than us... Cud it be there mother too?

If i relate my experience with u especially how my dad treated my mother when she was very sick eh., chaiii

Same mother that left her own business to come stay with my dad during his surgery and operation.

My dad paid back with wickedness..

I no wan remember, bro.... Cos if I remember, I go dislike my papa more sha

waleolaniyan:
Manipulative power of woman at work. Truth will unfold with time. By then it may be too late.

Here come another African man.. Always Defending and believing that a man does no wrong

They blame the irresponsibilities of a man on the woman.

Like we were blind and deaf to see what's going on àbi..

edward1106:


There is an age you get to as a child, your father or mom becomes like a very close friend. The difference btw him and others den becomes just the respect you accord but can't afford others.
Pay him a visit or better still, pay him a visit and let your mom be there as well. Preinform there is a matter to be discussed.
And then, table your restlessness you have been having. Tell him you want to know why things were the way they were then. If he doesn't explain. Greet him and walk away but still send him money. This way, you have aired your mind even if you didn't get any helpful answers.
But I believe he will explain things out, good or bad and be cautious as with your mother, you best know her personality and how her mouth might work in such situations.
SOMETIMES, mothers are the cause of why fathers behave the way they did, though not a valid excuse. But not wanting to go dark so it doesn't look like they are visiting the sins of the mother on the children, the father will just do some of his duties, but not all.
And these doesn't mean we still don't have irresponsible fathers who don't just give a damn.
And lastly, see it this way, some things are put in this life for us to learn from and so not make same mistake. There are certain actions by people we shouldn't be criticising.e.g Peter denying Jesus.
Sometimes I think they were meant to happen just the way they happened. What is most important is how we/they react to such actions afterwards.
In all, learn from your dad's supposed mistakes and be a better father than he is.
Am from a polygamous home. I understand your plight even though my dad is the exact opposite of yours. My father had his own demons he battled with. Such will be the life of every father. God help us all cos we aren't taught or trained to be fathers. We learn from our society and apply what we "think" best work for our immediate family.

Thank you boss....

I really appreciate.... The treatment is not only on us but all his kids... Infact, he never cared abt any of us... My steps siblings and all..

Man was just all abt himself, parties and so on


But it's well sha....

COOL10:




Look at this one. Deal with what? 😆


You're the one with daddy issues, not me. You're the one whining all over the thread like a spoilt, hurt, little brat. You're obviously the one who has a lot to deal with. 😄


I initially didn't want to quote you, because I didn't deem it important to do so, but since you decided to be foolish enough to quote my reply to someone else's comment, now, I'm not going to restrain myself from telling you the cold, hard truth.


You think you're mean, right? You think your father deserves the harsh treatment that you give him. Clap for yourself; you're doing well 👏.


I laugh at your stupidity 😄. You know absolutely nothing.


If you think that I'm going to tell you to change, then you're wrong. Keep on treating him badly, you hear? As a matter of fact, I advice that you triple your efforts.


You may be blind right now, but one day, your eyes shall open and you'll see what you've done to yourself.


One day, you'll wake up to realise that you've turned into the very person you hate. All your efforts to be different from him, gone just like that, and by that time, it may be too late to do anything about it.


I feel sorry for you, I really do. You'll never know what a father's love feels like, but that serves you right, because you're not deserving of one.

Cry baby....

But we the children deserve the harsh treatment he gave us all right?

Trashy comment... I don't even want father love, what is the essence of father love I didn't get when I was small, ńa when I don dey feed myself I kon need father love?

Iranu

ariesbull:
you can't live with unforgiviness for years and still be okay ...that's wickedness

.
Unforgiveness is sending him money àbi..

Say another thing abeg

Chinny024:
There's nothing to feel guilty at all..
The only thing u owe him is a befitting burial..That's if u want to..

Take good care of ur mom pls..

She is the only reason u are productive to the society..Imagine, if u never had the opportunity of going to school?..How life would hv been?.

Lesson to men.

Love and care for ur kids...U never can tell which one would look at ur face at old age..Kids doesn't forget who was there when they needed them the most.

Mother's love can never be unmatched!!!!

I can't spend my saving to give the dead any expensive burial. I am still hustling and won't even commit 50% if my savings for burial anytin. We go just do small prayer and do it low key when his time reaches.. But i hope not now as I want him to carry my grand kids

If not for my mum effort and God, I for dey go hopeless and probably useless for street.

My younger brother sponsored his own self to school as my dad didn't care abt him....

These people don't know what it feels like

COOL10:



They don't understand. It's only those who've lost their fathers that'll understand where you're coming from.

Even if I don't have a father. Notin will shake me.


But a mother is wat I can't afford to lose...

Deal with it

ariesbull:
your name is Mercy so act merciful ...don't be a disgrace

How do you people live with bittermess and unforgiving for years


Una dey try ...Na only witch fit do that

Yen yen yen.... Tell me. How wicked I am pls

ariesbull:


Bitterness will lead me and my unborn kids to depression and they will either have stroke or commit suicide


Why are you bitter towards your father...return hate with love ...love him ,forgive him and make life simpler

Amen for you