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3rdlegxxx:
Do i really hmm thinking, nah just like a little spice to it, a lil bit of nibbling, teasing, spanking, switching positions (i kinda feel this is getting too raw, let me pause here) and.......

Kikikikikiki can't stop laughing..

it's indeed getting raw and.....

Lalasticlala , mynd44 help create awareness.. Thats if this is not too raw to be on fp

3rdlegxxx:
Well i like a girl who enjoys a little spanking, it drives me deeper into that wet spot and is such a huge turn on..

hummmm!! You must really like it rough..lol

3rdlegxxx:
Welcome to Nigeria social network dear, some guys are so backward they can't even imagine a female making any open minded intelligent statement or a sexually observant comment, i saw one dude telling one girl on a thread yesterday that he didn't know we had intelligent women in Nigeria, it's really sad and speaks bad of the intelligent level of most Nigerian guys see women, you made alist and some people just can't comprehend that you made that list from your head and of cos from experiences from yourself and friends and obviously some you've heard, abeg ignore and keep being you dear, take care

This made my night.. Thanks hun

If it were a man cheating on his wife, people would have claimed men are polygamous in nature or that karma is paying the woman back since there's a probability she slept with a married man during her youthful days..

Now a woman is cheating, people are labelling her an olosho, LovePeddler bla bla bla.
How abt the possibility of karma paying the man bk for sleeping with someone's wife??

Anyways, i pity that Doro(thy) cheerful giver. Enjoy yourself while it last coz the kinda shame and suffering you'll live with for the rest of your life when you get caught ehn, you'd regret the day you were born..
Repent now, its not yet too late

Qualer:
answer the kweshon joor!!!

That's confidential

faith551:
hehehe,you see? . try guessing then

The guy by the right

faith551:
hehehe,you see? . try guessing then

The guy by the right

Taolyn4lif:
Only God knows how many men the op sampled to come about this

I yaff die

Qualer:
soooooo.. which ones do you enjoy??

looool... That pix Is damn funny

jubrealguy:
lol....I don't even know if ds is a compliment

It is

jrerico1:
The lass just gave her view but Nigerians will condemn her that she's talking from experience, while it will be normal for a guy to post such

Thank you my brother. God bless you

UyiIredia:
@ Mercylin I hope you'll also wrote about the annoying things women do in bed. Like moan so loudly as if there's no tomorrow .

I believe a guy will counter this thread, so he'll write it.

faith551:
wow!! you did?.i didn't have that in mind seriously btw there are 3 guys in the pic i didn't expect anyone who didn't know me before to point me out,i still dnt believe u even know which is me in the pic

Lol like seriously I thought its same person.
Oh!! My bad.

So which is you?

faith551:
either way,am a gentle man, its even written on my face

you just use style make me check out your dp




Anyways you look gentle. hope you're happy now?

faith551:
i dn't believe in mal-treating a lady, guess that makes me a gentle man ryt?

you know yourself better

Na u sabi

Profnedu:
Someone is speaking from xperience
Op e bi like say ur boyfrend perfected all d skills he got from xvideos,phonerotica and naijauncut on ur body.




Painment

lol @painment
you can't be serious

faith551:
but then different stroke for different folks, i have heard my neighbor asking her boyfriend to spank that ass, or was it music playing ?

perhaps

Some women might like the spanking. BUT it's good to find out if she enjoys it.

So many men just believe they are just too good and perfect in the bedroom without knowing they do so many annoying things in the bedroom that women really hate.

Below are 15 annoying things men do in bed

1. Some men think it’s cool to spank a lady’s butt during sex but not every woman finds it amusing. So before you spank her butt, find out if she really enjoys it.

2. Women hate it when they are on top of their man, working real hard and he just stares at her like she is doing nothing. Very annoying.

3. Trying to recreate some awkward positions you saw on some videos is annoying. She is trying to make love and not create a s*x tape.

4. Stop asking her if she likes this or that while hitting her honeypot. Her body language would let you know if she’s enjoying it or not. Stop distracting her from enjoying the moment with too many questions.

5. It’s annoying when you act like she is doing nothing when she goes down on you. You make her look like an amateur. SMH.

6. It’s really gross when you go down on her first thing in the morning when she’s feeling unclean. She wants you to go down on her but she definitely doesn’t want it when she feels unclean.

7. Some men are so aggressive with their fingers and I wonder if they are searching for gold in her honeypot. It’s so annoying and frustrating when men do this.

8. It’s never cool to bite her nipple. It hurts and don’t think she enjoys it. You wouldn’t love it if she bites yours.

9. I believe watching too many videos is ruining the bedroom life. Pulling her hair so hard while you hit her honeypot is annoying. Are you trying to pull off her hair or what?

10. Some men are always in a hurry and they also bring that impatience to the bedroom. It’s really annoying when you rush pre-intimacy. She wants you to take your time.

11. Not paying attention to his boxers is really annoying. Every woman expects her man to wear a good and clean boxers not some old, dirty and baggy boxers.

12. Nothing annoys her most than you putting your fingers everywhere like you are playing some sort of instruments.

13. Squeezing her boobs like you are trying to squeeze out juice from an orange fruit. It’s really annoying when men do this.

14. It’s so annoying when he cums so quick and then sleeps off like he really did a hard job. It leaves a woman wondering how she just met this annoying dude that only thinks of himself in bed.

15. It’s really not attractive to taste urine so could the men please clean up properly if they want a woman to go down on them.

So no more excuses men. Ladies, ensure you make your man read this so he can stop all those annoying stuffs.

You need to be prayerful.. Move out, go back to your parents house or any of your sibling's and have the baby.
Try to join any powerful church, where you'll give your life to christ and repentt of your sins.. Keep praying for your hubby, I believe God will see you through and change (his heart)him.

It's your life. Mind you, if you die with this abortion of a thing, na hell fire straight. And the man you're trying to please will mourn you for a few months and eventually marry another.
He has nothing to loose.. Be wise!

Interesting

14th

Abortion is not an option here,It's a great sin. what if something goes wrong? Well, since the deed has already been done she should go meet her pastor and confess everything to him. i believe he'll help her break the news to her hubby and plead on her behalf. though it's not gonna be easy, and i doubt if her hubby will still want her back after such. but it's her cross, she'll have to bear it.
I pray God sees her through.

DaVinChiSam:
So In essence I should just pack my load and leave my own house for her. That's the only way I can stop doing half of all these things you wrote up here

lol... Then pick the one's you feel you can easily stop doing.
Besides, with God all things are possible

40 Things Husbands Should Stop Doing.

Some down-to-earth, practical advice for men who want to step up to their responsibilities.

1. Stop acting like the battle is won in pursuing and getting to know your wife. Have fun together, just like you used to do before you walked down the aisle.

2. If your wife is a stay-at-home mom, stop treating her like her work during the day is somehow less strenuous or less important than yours.

3. Stop coming home from work and plopping in front of the television for the night, leaving your wife to bear the responsibility for everything else going on in the home.

4. Stop working so much. Find a healthy balance between work and family. Your wife would rather have you than a big house, nice car, etc.

5. Stop acting like you’re listening when you’re really watching TV.

6. Stop allowing the spiritual leadership of the family to default to your wife.

7. Stop being passive when it comes to disciplining and training your kids.

8. Stop saying you know and understand what your wife is saying or feeling when you haven’t even listened to what she has to say.

9. Stop being a closed book. Open up to your wife. Don’t be afraid to show emotion.

10. Stop allowing your role as leader in the home to be an excuse for selfish behavior. Don’t forget that a true leader also serves.

11. Stop dishonoring your wife by criticizing her in front of your children or in public.

12. When your wife irritates you, don’t answer right away. Instead count to 10 and remember that she is a gift from God.

13. Stop using your size and strength and anger to intimidate your wife and children.

14. Stop using the word “divorce” in your vocabulary.

15. Don’t shy away from difficult conversations with your wife.

16. Stop saying you’ll do something and then procrastinating.

17. Don’t purchase any major item without first discussing it with your wife.

18. Don't allow your eyes to linger on beautiful women who pass by. You can't help the first look; it's that second, longer look that you need to avoid. (And if your wife is with you, don’t lie to her and say you didn’t see that woman. Just admit you looked.)

19. Stop thinking, I know more than my wife. You and your wife will each have more knowledge than the other in certain areas.

20. Don’t assume you know what your wife is thinking. Ask her how she is feeling and why.

21. When your wife tells you about a problem she’s having, don’t immediately try to solve it. She may just need you to listen to her.

22. Stop the sarcasm. You may be trying to sound funny, but you’re only cutting down your wife.

23. Stop treating your wife like a child. Remember that God has given her a wealth of experience and information that you need.

24. Stop acting like God and trying to control your wife.

25. Stop pointing out her mistakes and asking for explanations. Doing these things can make her feel like a failure.

26. Never casually or disrespectfully talk to other guys about sex with your wife.

27. Stop telling your wife that she is supposed to “submit” to you. If she is not following you, that means you’re not leading her as Christ loves the church.

28. Stop feeding your sexual desires from any source other than your wife.

29. Don’t be alone with any woman who is not your wife or related to you.

30. Stop discussing deep-level issues with a woman who is not your wife or related to you.

31. Stop deceiving your wife about your finances.

32. Don’t look up old girlfriends on Facebook.

33. Stop putting a number on how often you should enjoy sexual intimacy.

34. Stop acting as if you have a GPS programmed into your brain. Before you go somewhere with your wife, get the right address and find out how to get there. If you are lost, don’t hesitate to get directions—from your smartphone map, even from a person.

35. Don’t make fun of your wife to other guys.

36. Don’t allow guy-only activities (like playing golf, basketball, etc.) to rob you of leisure time with your wife and kids.

37. Stop expecting your wife to do all the housework.

38. Stop saying, “Honey … can you get the kids to be quiet?” when the kids are being monsters. Get up and go quiet them down yourself!

Is there anything you’d like to add to the list?

Source: http://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/staying-married/husbands/40-things-husbands-should-stop-doing