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Nairaland GeneralRunning Your Race To Win In 2015. A Write-up By Merzybenedict by merzybenedict(op): 12:06pm On Jan 06, 2015
As we all know, running a race is not just an entertainment thing on the path of the athlete, it takes a lot of determination, confidence, faith, exercise, power, among others. To throw it into parts, disappointments, challenges, breakdowns are also part of the requisites of winning a race. No athlete can ever give a testimony of disappointment free, breakdown free race because it is part of the game and they have to play it as well.
The year 2015 is a great year for you because a lot will be happening on your path to a successful destiny both positive and negative.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO RUN ?
According to the oxford dictionary, run can be expressed as ' a move with quick steps and with always at least one foot off the ground.'. This definition expressed the basic nature of running because I guess that whenever you are running, your two legs can't be on the ground at the same time, NEVER !!!. One has to be off the ground. Fly if you can dude !.
In order to win the race, it is not an easy task because there are divers of people out there that are also planning to run with you and your ideology of running a race will be different and there must be a winner !. That is exactly and absolutely what God has inspired me to teach, mentor, coach you about. All you need is just to follow me patiently.
Have you ever wondered what Usain Bolt put in place to be the world fastest runner and a major winner today ?. Or, how often do you take time to study various athletes out there winning major titles, breaking and setting new records made effective in their lives. If you have not done this before, I am giving you an exercise to do. Mind you, you are going through research !.
Now, let me present to you the dose for the year 2015 to be a successful year. There are twelve(12) tablets in this portion which represents the twelve months in a year. I want to urge you not to think of drug abuse because it is detrimental to your success in the year 2015.
I present to you 12 tools, instruments, equipment to running your race to win in the year 2015.
DETERMINATION ; This is literally expressed as firmness of purpose. In any area of your life that you want to experience success in, the key factor is Determination. You cannot win if you don't have a firmness of purpose. Be determined in every area of your dealings- academically, financially, in business, spirituality, in every area of your life. Determination entails focus because immediately you are determined, focus will follow. Take note that successful people have determination in everything they find themselves doing.
Reflection; How often do you engage in determination exercise ?. if seldomly, I'm urging you to invest in it daily.

DISCIPLINE; After determination, you have to be disciplined. Your determination can never work without discipline. Determination is directly proportional to Discipline. Majority of runners are not able to clinch their success podium because they lack this very aspect of life. Discipline is enacted to curb unlawful acts on the way to a successful life.
For you to win the race this year, you don't have a choice than to be disciplined in every area of your life. I don't know all the core areas of your lifestyle but you have to be disciplined in the following areas- finance, academics, relationships, social life, spiritual life, among others I am not aware of. The best way to finish greater, stronger and better is to have yourself disciplined an every segment of your life.
Winning is easy to be spoken out as statement but it takes a lot more than a spoken word. Acting must follow !

CHARACTER; This can be equally analyzed as your personality because your character decides your personality and your personality therefore determines the level of your extravagant success.
As often quoted by Dr. Myles Munroe of blessed memory, " character before dominion" as traced through the Bible in the book of Genesis chapter 1 verse 26, where God created men and women in his image which is character before He grants them dominion over their environment. This particular verse of the Bible says it all, before you can be guaranteed to win in the year 2015, your character is very sacred.
Let me analyze various quotes on character for you in one of Dr. Myles Munroe's character seminars during his lifetime.
Character tests your word
Don't be attractive with charisma, seek out character.
The character is the very essence of God.
The first gift God gave man was not dominion, it was character.
Character is the foundation of leadership.
Everything you built in your whole life without character can be destroyed in 5 minutes
A person of character doesn't care if you discover their private life.
If you enter a school today, they will give you certificate at the end of the day but they will never give you character.
Tempting will constantly be in your life to test your character
I planned this because I want you to make it. Are you going to make it ?. If you really want to, eradicate all the things affecting your character and that includes some friends, habits, et c.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: The Skills That Will Get You Hired In 2015 - Linkedin.com by merzybenedict(m): 11:43pm On Dec 22, 2014
Rexphobia:
Time to update my profile
dude.. Plss update your profile o and have a good plan ahead. You'll surely win in the coming year
Jobs/VacanciesRe: The Skills That Will Get You Hired In 2015 - Linkedin.com by merzybenedict(m): 11:33pm On Dec 22, 2014
Great !!!. Many will see this and their life will never remain the same. But in this part of the world, it's so absurd how we put entertainment as our basic priority rather than motivation to move on and achieve greater things !!!. Have you ever wondered the comparison in the number of spectators at Night of a thousand laugh to a career talk of Fela Durotoye or Seun Ibitoye !!!. I aint criticizing social life because all work without play makes someone a dull dude but it shouldn't be our basic priority !!!. Peepz let's wake up to reality and win our world in the coming year. Read Self-help books rather than Romance books because the author of the romance book you are reading is fulfilling his or her purpose already. Let's change our world in the coming year. May God bless us !!! - Merzybenedict. A big thumb up to @linkedin !!!
Nairaland GeneralRe: Does Anyone Have An Answer To This Question ??? by merzybenedict(op): 4:37pm On Dec 14, 2014
motherlode:
cheesy The interviewer wants to act wise by luring you for the job with all those adds on benefits without specifying how much salary you will receive? undecided He or she( the interviewer ) must be joking grin
With the austerity @ hand in Nigeria OWO - MONEY matters more to the person interviewed! wink
Cheyichola:
salary
Hmmm. Correct !
Nairaland GeneralDoes Anyone Have An Answer To This Question ??? by merzybenedict(op): 3:31pm On Dec 14, 2014
You go for an interview and you eventually get an appointment to work for the company. Then the company representative started giving you the tips of the job.
He made mention of a free car,free apartment, healthcare, insurance covers, baby care, and a lot. Also made mention of the fringe benefits which includes paid for programmes. In fact, in one word, it's a very PLEASANT job !!!.
But, there's a thing which he forgets to tell you which is huh??
Nairaland GeneralRe: Great Quotes By Dr. Myles Munroe (tribute) by merzybenedict(op): 5:17pm On Nov 17, 2014
Nairaland GeneralGreat Quotes By Dr. Myles Munroe (tribute) by merzybenedict(op): 5:05pm On Nov 17, 2014
To serve as a tribute to one of the greatest men that Ever lived, one of the world greatest leaders, I am pulling up these quotes to serve as a tool for Instigation among various people dreaming of getting there someday. RIP. DR. MYLES MUNROE. You'll be forever remembered.
You guys can post yours too.


The greatest tragedy in life is not death, but a life without a
purpose.


“ Solid character will reflect itself in consistent behaviour, while
poor character will seek to hide behind deceptive words and
actions.

“ People generally fall into one of three groups: the few who make
things happen, the many who watch things happen, and the
overwhelming majority who have no notion of what happens.
Every person is either a creator of fact or a creature of
circumstance. He either puts color into his environment, or,
a chameleon, takes color from his environment.


“ Healthy relationships should always begin at the spiritual and
intellectual levels - the levels of purpose, motivation, interests,
dreams,and personality.


“ It is the same way with dating. The time you are most prepared
for dating is when you don't need anyone to complete you, fulfill
you, or instill in you a sense of worth or purpose.


“ When purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable


“ Friendship is not a gift, but is the result of hard work.


“ One of the greatest tragedies in life is to watch potential die
untapped.


“ You must decide if you are going to rob the world or bless it
with the rich, valuable, potent, untapped resources locked away
within you.


“ We are a sum total of what we have learned from all who have
taught us, both great and small.


“ Being open to correction means making ourselves vulnerable,
and many people are not willing to do that.


“ ...success is not a comparison of what we have done with what
others have done.


“ A woman may be beautiful but have poor character. A man may
be a business genius, making money left and right, but lack
common courtesy, sensitivity, and compassion.


“ A wedding is and event, but marriage is a life.
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“ Desire is craving enough to sacrifice for
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“ A person's readiness to date is largely a matter of maturity and
environment.
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“ When certain parts of our bodies are touched, certain enzymes
and chemicals that trigger sexual desire are released into our
system. The more our bodies are stimulated, the more chemicals
are released and the greater our sexual desire grows until it
becomes a virtually unstoppable flood.
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“ Junk is in the eyes of the beholder. Some look, but others see.
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“ Here are a few important principles to remember with regard to
the giving and receiving between males and females. When a
male demands, a female reacts; she doesn’t respond. When a
male gives, a female responds. When a male commits, a female
submits. Nothing is more precious to a female than a committed
male. Nothing is no more depressing to a female than an
uncommitted male. Here’s the secret, guys: If you want a
submitted female, be a committed male. It’s that simple. When a
male abuses, a female refuses. Whenever a man abuses a
woman, she refuses to respond. When a male shares, a female
cares. If you find a man who is willing to share with the woman
in his life, you will find a woman who is willing to care for her
man. When a male leads, a female follows. When a man carries
out his God-given responsibility for leadership, a woman
responds by following his lead. Leadership does not mean being
bossy, always telling others what to do. No, leadership means
going ahead, not putting others in the front. Good leaders lead by
example, not by decree. Jesus led by example, and so did Moses,
Peter, Paul, and all the other great leaders in the Bible. Leading
by example means doing ourselves the things we wish others to
do.
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“ God did not create woman from man’s head, that he should
command her, nor from his feet, that she should be his slave, but
rather from his side, that she should be near his heart.
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“ God’s will and desire—His pleasure—is that we love Him. We
cannot please God unless we love Him. We cannot love Him
unless we know Him, and we cannot know Him unless we have
faith in Him.
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“ A promise is a commitment to do something later, and a vow is a
binding commitment to begin doing something now and to
continue to do it for the duration of the vow. Some vows, or
contracts, are for life; others are for limited periods of time.
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“ Don’t ever make the mistake of telling God that you have
nothing to offer. That simply is not true. God does not create any
junk.
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“ Marriage is two imperfect people committing themselves to a
perfect institution, by making perfect vows from imperfect lips
before a perfect God.
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“ The first basic need of a male is sexual fulfillment; for a female,
affection. The second most basic need of a male is recreational
companionship; for a female, communication and conversation.
The third basic need of a male in a relationship is an attractive
woman; for a woman, honesty and openness. The fourth basic
need of a male is domestic support; for a female, financial
support. The fifth basic need of a male is admiration and respect;
for a woman, family commitment.
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“ When trying to communicate with each other, a husband and
wife should be careful to make sure their voices and faces agree
with their words.
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“ God’s love sets us free from the need to seek approval. Knowing
that we are loved by God, accepted by God, approved by God,
and that we are new creations in Christ empowers us to reject
self-rejection and embrace a healthy self-love. Being secure in
God’s love for us, our love for Him, and our love for ourselves,
prepares us to fulfill the second greatest commandment: To love
our neighbor as ourselves.
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“ A man leads with his mind while a woman leads with her heart.
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“ When we evaluate the rightness or wrongness of actions or
behavior, we need to ask ourselves if that behavior will edify—
build up—ourselves or someone else, or if it will tear down. The
question is not what we can get away with, but what is healthy
and edifying. When it is all said and done, are we edified
spiritually? Have we been built up and strengthened in our
relationship with the Lord or with our spouse, or have we been
weakened? Do we come away encouraged or discouraged,
confident or filled with a sense of guilt or shame? Is our
conscience clean?
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“ Marital faithfulness involves more than just sexual fidelity.
Being faithful to your wife also means defending her and
affirming her beauty, intelligence, and integrity at all times,
particularly before other people. Faithfulness to your husband
means sticking up for him, always building him up and never
tearing him down. Marital fidelity means that your spouse’s
health, happiness, security, and welfare take a higher place in
your life than anything else except your own relationship with
the Lord.
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“ God is the source and giver of our prosperity: “But remember the
Lord your God, for it is He who gives you the ability to produce
wealth” (Deut. 8:18a).
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“ I’m washed, I’m forgiven, I’m whole, and I’m healed. I’m
cleansed and I’m glory bound. I am only a sojourner on the
earth. I am but a pilgrim on this planet, on my way to perfection,
and I don’t need anybody to tell me who I am, because I know
who I am. I am a child of the King, a son (or daughter) of God,
born again through Jesus Christ, bought with the price of His
blood. I am a new creation, totally new, thoroughly loved and
completely accepted as a child of my Father, precious in His
sight.
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“ Submission is the willingness to give up our right to ourselves,
to freely surrender our insistence on having our own way all the
time.
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“ Within the overall context of loving his wife, a husband’s first
and primary role is to be the spiritual head and covering and
teacher in the home. Through his words, lifestyle, and personal
behavior the husband should teach the Word, the will, and the
ways of the Lord to his wife and children.
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“ Submission means that a wife acknowledges her husband’s
headship as spiritual leader and guide for the family. It has
nothing whatsoever to do with her denying or suppressing her
will, her spirit, her intellect, her gifts, or her personality. To
submit means to recognize, affirm, and support her husband’s
God-given responsibility of overall family leadership. Biblical
submission of a wife to her husband is a submission of position,
not personhood. It is the free and willing subordination of an
equal to an equal for the sake of order, stability, and obedience
to God’s design. As a man, a husband will fulfill his destiny and
his manhood as he exercises his headship in prayerful and
humble submission to Christ and gives himself in sacrificial
love to his wife. As a woman, a wife will realize her womanhood
as she submits to her husband in honor of the Lord, receiving his
love and accepting his leadership. When a proper relationship of
mutual submission is present and active, a wife will be released
and empowered to become the woman God always intended her
to be.
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“ Every conscientious husband and wife should measure their
marriage by the unchanging standard of the principles found in
God’s Word.
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“ For a woman, language spoken is an expression of what she is
feeling. For a man, language spoken is an expression of what he
is thinking. A woman says what is on her heart while a man says
what is on his mind.
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“ We will never obtain God’s kind of marriage simply by going
along with the crowd, doing what everybody else does. We have
to dig deep into the heart of God to discover His principles.
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“ Any time we base our self-image on how we feel, we will run
into problems because our feelings change. As long as we feel
good, our self-image is good. When we begin to feel bad,
however, our self-image plummets. We need to anchor our self-
image on something that does not change. Where do we find it?
When we become believers, we become new creations in Christ,
recreated in His image. The image of Christ in us will never
change. Although our outward appearance will change over time,
Christ’s image in us will stay the same. Like His image, Christ’s
attitude toward us also will never change. No matter how good
or bad we may feel, no matter how up or down we may be, Christ
loves us, accepts us, and thinks the world of us. His opinion of us
is the only opinion that matters. We should base our self-image
on what He thinks about us, not on what others think, or even on
what we think about ourselves.
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“ The husband provides direction; the wife, maintenance.
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“ Communication is the ability to ensure that people understand
not only what you say but also what you mean. It is also the
ability to listen to and understand others. Developing both of
these aspects of communication takes a lot of time, patience, and
hard work.
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“ Humility is simply believing and accepting what God says about
us, and God says that we are anything but worthless.
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“ We should always keep our behavior or performance separate
from our sense of self-worth.
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“ All married couples should examine themselves periodically and
ask, “What have we done with the resources God has given us?
How are we handling His blessings? Are we spending our money
wisely? Have we progressed over the past year? Are we moving
in the direction God wants us to go? Are we obeying His will? Is
He pleased with our management? What does He want us to do
next?” These are important questions for growing in
stewardship.
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“ It is not enough just to know who we love; we need to know
what we love. We need to know why we love the person we love.
This is critically important for building a happy and successful
marriage.
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“ Satisfied needs produce fulfilled people, and fulfilled people are
free to pursue and exercise their full potential as human beings.
The primary goal, then, in any relationship should be the
meeting of needs. We should not concentrate so much on
meeting our own needs, but those of the other person in the
relationship. A good test for the health of a relationship is to ask
ourselves periodically whose needs we are meeting, ours or
theirs? If we are focusing on our needs, the relationship is in
trouble. In successful, healthy relationships, both parties put a
priority on meeting the needs of the other.
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“ The adversary’s global attack on marriage is actually an attack
on society itself, and ultimately an attack on God, the creator
and manufacturer of society and marriage. The adversary knows
that if he can destroy marriage he can destroy families; if he can
destroy families he can destroy society; and if he can destroy
society he can destroy humanity.
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“ is chosen freely, not imposed from without. Essentially,
submission is the willingness to give up our right to ourselves, to
freely surrender our insistence on having our own way all the
time. Submission means putting the needs, rights, and welfare of
another person ahead of our own. A marriage built on this kind
of submission will grow healthy, strong, and fulfilling.
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“ If we hope to become effective and successful in life, ministry,
and especially marriage, we have to learn to be good managers.
Stewardship means being accountable to God for every resource
under our care. Effective managers do more than simply keep
things running; they add value to everything they have
responsibility over. Under a good manager, resources will
appreciate in value.
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“ One of the great truths of the Bible is that whenever God gets
ready to do anything in the earth, He always works through a
person or a group of people whom He has called and who have
willingly responded to Him. The human factor is key for God’s
activity on the earth. When God prepared to deliver the Israelites
from Egypt, He called Moses. When He got ready to rescue His
people from the Midianites, He called Gideon. When God
wanted to warn His disobedient people of His judgment and call
them back to Him, He called Elijah, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Amos, and
the other prophets. When God was ready to send His Son into the
world, He chose Mary, a humble peasant girl, to be His mother.
When Jesus Christ prepared to send His message of salvation
throughout the world, He called and anointed men and women—
His Church—and commissioned them for the mission. This
illustrates an incredible principle under which God operates:
Without God we cannot, and without us God will not. For
everything that God desires to do in the earth, He enters into
partnership with those to whom He has already given dominion.
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“ Where training and discipline are concerned, short-term pain
means long-term gain. It may break our heart to inflict the pain
of discipline on our children and to see their tears, but the long-
term goal of preparing them to live responsibly as adults
justifies the short-term pain of disciplining them while they are
young.
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“ Be fruitful. God’s command in Genesis 1:28 is most often
understood as referring to procreation, but filling the earth with
people is only part of the meaning. The Hebrew word for fruitful
means more than just sexual reproduction; it refers to being
fruitful in either a literal or a figurative sense. Fruitfulness can
be qualitative in nature as well as quantitative. Mankind has
never had a problem being procreative—a current global
population of over six billion is proof of that—but we do have a
problem with being fruitful in the other ways God desires.
Essentially, being fruitful means releasing our potential. Fruit is
an end product. An apple tree may provide cool shade and be
beautiful to look at, but until it produces apples it has not
fulfilled its ultimate purpose. Apples contain the seeds of future
apple trees and, therefore, future apples. However, apples also
have something else to offer: a sweet and nourishing food to
satisfy human physical hunger. In this sense, fruit has a greater
purpose than simply reproducing; fruit exists to bless the world.
Every person is born with a seed of greatness. God never tells us
to go find seed; it is already within us. Inside each of us is the
seed potential for a full forest—a bumper crop of fruit with
which to bless the world. We each were endowed at birth with a
unique gift, something we were born to do or become that no one
else can achieve the way we can. God’s purpose is that we bear
abundant fruit and release the blessings of our gift and potential
to the world.
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Nairaland General10 Keys For A Successful November. A Write-up By Merzybenedict by merzybenedict(op): 9:17pm On Nov 01, 2014
C'mon it's a new month. It calls for celebration !!!. Do not forget to praise God for what He has done and what He'll still do for you !
In this new month, let's try to cultivate a positive habit, the habit of goodness, the habit that is ready to take us through Higher places. Do not mind negative things people has done or said bout you, never mind the present circumstance, all what you just need to do is to have a positive mind and thought that you are gonna finish the year Greater,Stronger, and Better !!!. I believe in the Optimist theory. Though your beginning was small but I promise you one thing, your end shall be great. Optimists believe there is a future for them. They believe that, no matter what, they are gonna reach where they are going to I.e., the future !!!.
Now, what are you gonna do to make this month worthwhile huh. Here are Ten Tips specially made for you !
1) Always praise God !!!!!!!!!
2) Always be positive !
3) Do not mind those talking bout you !
4) Have it in mind that you'll finish Greater, Better and Stronger.
5)Live by your dream. Cultivate the platform of showcasing your dream. I don't mean you should be showing it to others. I literally meant that you should have a plan for the future by using your dream to realize some stuffs. E.g., Impact lives through it.
6)Stay cheerful
7)Stay away from what might ruin you. I guess you know what I mean. STAY AWAY FROM SIN !. It kills faster than diseases !. As The Holy Bible says, Death is the reward of Sin. Be careful my brethren
coolIn this month, have a target of helping at least 30(Thirty) souls. Not necessarily in form of money. You can give advice, honour them, appreciate them, In short, do positive things with them, serve as a blessing to them and God is fully ready to bless you aback abundantly.
9)Try to associate with destiny helpers this month. People that can help you realize your dreams. People that are ready to guide you through. You know what I mean right huh. Well, c'mon get up and have a lunch with your MENTORS and ADVISERS!!!
10) Finally, you should believe in the future. Trust God for divine provisions.

Hope it helped huh
For more words of truth and advice on how to live a life full of God's glory, contact the writer on +2348105161710(whatsapp inclusive) or on FB, www.fb.com/oyedelebenedictolalekanaanu. BBM PIN;296D5A34.
Thanks for taking time to read this, You are surely BLESSED !
CareerRe: Discovering Yourself- A write-up by merzybenedict by merzybenedict(op): 10:12pm On Sep 25, 2014
ortopazz: nice write up, it's just that there are times you find what u feel you wanna do but just lack the determination, zeal to follow through!
.. U are right brother... It's just based on the state of the heart.. If we really knw whr we r going,,, the determination will still be thr no matter wat we r going through
CareerRe: Discovering Yourself- A write-up by merzybenedict by merzybenedict(op): 4:39am On Sep 23, 2014
KillerBeauty: Great write up
... Thanks Sis. I'm grateful.. Hope it helped ?
BusinessDiscovering Yourself. - A Write-up By Merzybenedict by merzybenedict(op): 3:32pm On Sep 21, 2014
Good day brethren.. This is the word that God has inspired me to share with you and I believe as you are reading through, God'll inspire you for the best...- OYEDELE BENEDICT AANUOLUWAPO OLALEKAN OYEWUMI (merzybenedict)
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I titled this piece DISCOVERY.. Discovery is a particular aspect of one's life that'll determine the level of success of such person. Discovery gives someone to make plans for the future. Without accurate discovery, there's absolute nothing to live by. God has put something inside everyone of us before we were born. The book of Jeremiah in the Bible made this to be known. Jeremiah 1:5(NLT), " I knew you before I formed you in your mother's womb. Before You were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet(vessel) to the nations".
The discovery I'm talking about here is not just a mere discovery. e.g. A discovery about my best subject. NO!. It's a discovery of your purpose of being in the planet earth. God put you down on earth to make you inspire others through your purpose.
DR. Myles Munroe said this at 'SHILOH 2012' that "the wealthiest spot on earth is the cementary". Why the cementary ?. Why would the cementary be the place that has much glory in place of the world ?. What benefit does the cementary have to the humanity ?. DR. Myles Munroe literally meant that the cementary consumes more glory than the world because people failed to discover their purpose of living.
Looking at the present transformation of the humanity, it is easy to deduce that people especially the youths are not making effective use of their purpose because they have not discovered their life. The new life God has planned for them hasn't been received by them..
Let's take it this way.
WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF DISCOVERY ?
*) through discovery, you have peace of mind. If you haven't discovered yourself, you are just a wanderer. You have absolute nothing to live by. When you discover yourself, there's peace for you, you'll have a free mind.
*) through discovery, you grasp your purpose; what is a purpose ?. A purpose is the reason for something. A purpose on the other hand is the reason you were created by God ino the humanity and not into the beasts of the forest. If you are able to discover yourself, you are being apportioned to knoe your purpose.
*) through discovery, you gather wealth; I can tell that this is the major reason many youth of this generation fail to discover themselves. Their mentality is all wrapped in getting rich. So, they leave behind discovery and keep searching for what is not lost !. When you discover yourself, true wealth comes into your life (when you take the right steps of attaining your destiny... As time goes on, I'll share the steps involved to attain destiny.. Just keep following me). Wealth entails or things, money, wisdom, knowledge, understanding, among others. The moment you discover yourself, these wealth sets in and your life is changed.
The benefits of discovery are numerous, the moment you starts discovering yourself, you'll be priviledged to grasp into the unseen..

Now, the question goes, how will I be able to discover myself huh
To tell you the truth, it's very simple. Steps of discovery are simple tasks. I would like to call it 'a piece of cake'.
TO DISCOVER YOURSELF;
1) Absolute dedication; you have to be dedicated in knowing your purpose/reason for being. Alive.
2) Observe yourself; YES! Observe yourself. Know what you are good in doing. Study yourself and things deep inside of you.
3) Pray to God for your purpose or request from God for your purpose.. Request for His WILL. For your life, pray earnestly to Him to give you your Vision,dream,purpose of your living. Submit to Him and He'll grant you your heart desire and your purpose of being alive..

I believe you are blessed with this Little words of truth ?..I hope so.
Stay put for more to come as God is leading us to greater heights......
BusinessRe: Free Ebooks For Nairalanders by merzybenedict(m): 3:30pm On Sep 21, 2014
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EducationDiscovering Yourself- A Write-up By Merzybenedict by merzybenedict(op): 3:24pm On Sep 21, 2014
Good day brethren.. This is the word that God has inspired me to share with you and I believe as you are reading through, God'll inspire you for the best...- OYEDELE BENEDICT AANUOLUWAPO OLALEKAN OYEWUMI (merzybenedict)
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I titled this piece DISCOVERY.. Discovery is a particular aspect of one's life that'll determine the level of success of such person. Discovery gives someone to make plans for the future. Without accurate discovery, there's absolute nothing to live by. God has put something inside everyone of us before we were born. The book of Jeremiah in the Bible made this to be known. Jeremiah 1:5(NLT), " I knew you before I formed you in your mother's womb. Before You were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet(vessel) to the nations".
The discovery I'm talking about here is not just a mere discovery. e.g. A discovery about my best subject. NO!. It's a discovery of your purpose of being in the planet earth. God put you down on earth to make you inspire others through your purpose.
DR. Myles Munroe said this at 'SHILOH 2012' that "the wealthiest spot on earth is the cementary". Why the cementary ?. Why would the cementary be the place that has much glory in place of the world ?. What benefit does the cementary have to the humanity ?. DR. Myles Munroe literally meant that the cementary consumes more glory than the world because people failed to discover their purpose of living.
Looking at the present transformation of the humanity, it is easy to deduce that people especially the youths are not making effective use of their purpose because they have not discovered their life. The new life God has planned for them hasn't been received by them..
Let's take it this way.
WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF DISCOVERY ?
*) through discovery, you have peace of mind. If you haven't discovered yourself, you are just a wanderer. You have absolute nothing to live by. When you discover yourself, there's peace for you, you'll have a free mind.
*) through discovery, you grasp your purpose; what is a purpose ?. A purpose is the reason for something. A purpose on the other hand is the reason you were created by God ino the humanity and not into the beasts of the forest. If you are able to discover yourself, you are being apportioned to knoe your purpose.
*) through discovery, you gather wealth; I can tell that this is the major reason many youth of this generation fail to discover themselves. Their mentality is all wrapped in getting rich. So, they leave behind discovery and keep searching for what is not lost !. When you discover yourself, true wealth comes into your life (when you take the right steps of attaining your destiny... As time goes on, I'll share the steps involved to attain destiny.. Just keep following me). Wealth entails or things, money, wisdom, knowledge, understanding, among others. The moment you discover yourself, these wealth sets in and your life is changed.
The benefits of discovery are numerous, the moment you starts discovering yourself, you'll be priviledged to grasp into the unseen..

Now, the question goes, how will I be able to discover myself huh
To tell you the truth, it's very simple. Steps of discovery are simple tasks. I would like to call it 'a piece of cake'.
TO DISCOVER YOURSELF;
1) Absolute dedication; you have to be dedicated in knowing your purpose/reason for being. Alive.
2) Observe yourself; YES! Observe yourself. Know what you are good in doing. Study yourself and things deep inside of you.
3) Pray to God for your purpose or request from God for your purpose.. Request for His WILL. For your life, pray earnestly to Him to give you your Vision,dream,purpose of your living. Submit to Him and He'll grant you your heart desire and your purpose of being alive..

I believe you are blessed with this Little words of truth ?..I hope so.
Stay put for more to come as God is leading us to greater heights......
CareerDiscovering Yourself- A write-up by merzybenedict by merzybenedict(op): 3:12pm On Sep 21, 2014
Good day brethren.. This is the word that God has inspired me to share with you and I believe as you are reading through, God'll inspire you for the best...- OYEDELE BENEDICT AANUOLUWAPO OLALEKAN OYEWUMI (merzybenedict)
All Rights Reserved




I titled this piece DISCOVERY.. Discovery is a particular aspect of one's life that'll determine the level of success of such person. Discovery gives someone to make plans for the future. Without accurate discovery, there's absolute nothing to live by. God has put something inside everyone of us before we were born. The book of Jeremiah in the Bible made this to be known. Jeremiah 1:5(NLT), " I knew you before I formed you in your mother's womb. Before You were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet(vessel) to the nations".
The discovery I'm talking about here is not just a mere discovery. e.g. A discovery about my best subject. NO!. It's a discovery of your purpose of being in the planet earth. God put you down on earth to make you inspire others through your purpose.
DR. Myles Munroe said this at 'SHILOH 2012' that "the wealthiest spot on earth is the cementary". Why the cementary ?. Why would the cementary be the place that has much glory in place of the world ?. What benefit does the cementary have to the humanity ?. DR. Myles Munroe literally meant that the cementary consumes more glory than the world because people failed to discover their purpose of living.
Looking at the present transformation of the humanity, it is easy to deduce that people especially the youths are not making effective use of their purpose because they have not discovered their life. The new life God has planned for them hasn't been received by them..
Let's take it this way.
WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF DISCOVERY ?
*) through discovery, you have peace of mind. If you haven't discovered yourself, you are just a wanderer. You have absolute nothing to live by. When you discover yourself, there's peace for you, you'll have a free mind.
*) through discovery, you grasp your purpose; what is a purpose ?. A purpose is the reason for something. A purpose on the other hand is the reason you were created by God ino the humanity and not into the beasts of the forest. If you are able to discover yourself, you are being apportioned to knoe your purpose.
*) through discovery, you gather wealth; I can tell that this is the major reason many youth of this generation fail to discover themselves. Their mentality is all wrapped in getting rich. So, they leave behind discovery and keep searching for what is not lost !. When you discover yourself, true wealth comes into your life (when you take the right steps of attaining your destiny... As time goes on, I'll share the steps involved to attain destiny.. Just keep following me). Wealth entails or things, money, wisdom, knowledge, understanding, among others. The moment you discover yourself, these wealth sets in and your life is changed.
The benefits of discovery are numerous, the moment you starts discovering yourself, you'll be priviledged to grasp into the unseen..

Now, the question goes, how will I be able to discover myself huh
To tell you the truth, it's very simple. Steps of discovery are simple tasks. I would like to call it 'a piece of cake'.
TO DISCOVER YOURSELF;
1) Absolute dedication; you have to be dedicated in knowing your purpose/reason for being. Alive.
2) Observe yourself; YES! Observe yourself. Know what you are good in doing. Study yourself and things deep inside of you.
3) Pray to God for your purpose or request from God for your purpose.. Request for His WILL. For your life, pray earnestly to Him to give you your Vision,dream,purpose of your living. Submit to Him and He'll grant you your heart desire and your purpose of being alive..

I believe you are blessed with this Little words of truth ?..I hope so.
Stay put for more to come as God is leading us to greater heights......
CareerDownload Books For Free by merzybenedict(op): 10:40am On Sep 20, 2014
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It has helped me so far in Some areas of my Life. Such as; psychologically, spiritually, amidst others..
Pls, endeavour to go to this great site and download books for free and experience changes. God will bless us in abundance.
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EducationRe: What Should Be The Answer To This Mind Blowing Question ? by merzybenedict(op): 9:27pm On Jul 23, 2014
b3llo: The wisest thing at the time of answering the question is to politely ask him a similar question too.
grin ...
EducationRe: What Should Be The Answer To This Mind Blowing Question ? by merzybenedict(op): 7:17pm On Jul 23, 2014
chiimdee: Hmmm I would say .....sir what's your business?
.. And you've passed your course then.. Lol.. It's mind blowing
EducationRe: What Should Be The Answer To This Mind Blowing Question ? by merzybenedict(op): 3:49pm On Jul 23, 2014
jaryeh: I would say "I don't know what you're talking about."
. Lol. Yeah, i agree. But wouldn't you have paused a minute before you could say that ?.. You would have chosen either yes or no before that could come up .
EducationRe: What Should Be The Answer To This Mind Blowing Question ? by merzybenedict(op): 3:35pm On Jul 23, 2014
norbert101: cool yes
.. Meaning you used to beat her.. D; .... ? grin
EducationWhat Should Be The Answer To This Mind Blowing Question ? by merzybenedict(op): 2:48pm On Jul 23, 2014
During one of my lectures today, a lecturer asked of a question about a topic relating to a marital life.. Though, it was a funny one that made everyone laugh and think of what the answer should be.. The question goes thus; "Have you stopped beating your wife ?".. Should the answer be YES or NO or what else do we have besides positive and negative ?.. Lol
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is Your Own Definition Of Life ? by merzybenedict(op): 3:23pm On Jul 19, 2014
timsbee: life is a gift from God.
.. Yeah !.. I totally agree.. It's a gift from the most High !.. Thanks ms.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is Your Own Definition Of Life ? by merzybenedict(op): 3:22pm On Jul 19, 2014
Blebleswag: Life is life.
.. Hmmm.. So great..life is really life..thanks miss..
Nairaland GeneralWhat Is Your Own Definition Of Life ? by merzybenedict(op): 2:50pm On Jul 19, 2014
Majority of us have come across many quotes/definitions by numerous people about the word LIFE.. Many inspire us, many make us laugh and many gives us something to think about.. Life is great, Life is good, Life is so so so so... and many more.
To me, my own definition of life is just simple.. "LIFE IS EVERYTHING".
Now, for inspirations, fun, and insightful thoughts.. Add yours too and let's build a relation of what LIFE is to us..
Christianity EtcThe Word Today by merzybenedict(op): 7:55am On Jul 13, 2014
"Anyone who hates (abominates, detests) his brother [in Christ] is [at heart] a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding (persevering) within him." (1 John 3:15).. My word goes to you murderers today. Do you wanna have your eternal life in jeopardy or to have a good life, living well, and experiencing righteousness ?.. Then, stop hating and start loving.. God's word said, "when you love, pray for your enemies, it's as if you are turning burnt coal on their head".. You wanna have this experience ?.. You better keep loving even those you are loving are doing you negatives... Bang goes the drum !.. Start loving and start experiencing God's total care because God is love !.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Football Bloggers Needed by merzybenedict(m): 9:23am On Jul 12, 2014
footballbogger: If you have an email address you can kindly drop it
merzybenedict93@gmail.com
Career100 Ways To Be A Real Entity In Life by merzybenedict(op): 7:04pm On Jul 01, 2014
Almost everyone in this planet
always dream dreams of
greatness, blossom
achievements, big success and
many more but few of these
people can only execute this
project.
What I am about to share is a
great tool to let us live our life
accordingly to our glamorous
destiny here on planet earth.
Our destiny here on earth
differs from one another and
our ways of living is not also
the same with even our
siblings. But, this took will
ensure that we(almost
everyone) lies on the same path
to achieve our destiny, to be an
entity, to be a success and to be
amidst the Top achievers of the
nation.
Now, let's go to the ways to
follow to be an entity amidst
our colleagues and everyone
around us. Being an entity is
always the best thing for us
because without it, life might
be miserable.
The following tools are ways to
guide us through our journeys
in Life. Some of these tools
might be one way or the other
not 'ok' for some while many
will find it very pleasant
because as I said earlier, WE
ARE NOT ALL THE SAME.
Now, I proceed;
1) Be smart
2) Be associative
3) Be socialized
4) Engage yourself sometimes
in weird things that'll make you
feel experienced.
5) Study hard
6) Study people
7) Interact with different
people
cool Be focused
9) Discover new thing(s)
10) Improve your personality
11) Dress accurately
12) Explore
13) Improve your self-esteem
14) Visit places( tourism)
15) Improve your brain
productivity; solve maths,
engage in solving puzzles etc.
16) stay healthy
17) undergo research
programmes
18) stay calm
19) Invest; it might be in a small
scale or something valuable. It
might not necessarily be in
form of money. E.g investing
time.
20) watch pleasant movies;
films that will improve your
lifestyle
21) Go shopping
22) do cook. Or should I say,
Learn how to cook.; you might
find yourself in a situation
whereby you have no choice
than to cook.
23) Read Books; I guess you
know what I mean. 'Self-help
books'
24) Be motivated
25) Have a mentor
26) have an adviser; this differs
from a mentor. A mentor is
someone in line with your
profession. While, an adviser is
someone that offers you advice
in anything/areas
27) Go to seminars
28) learn how to drive a car
29) engage in a relationship
with the opposite sex; this does
not necessarily mean dating the
opposite sex but establishing a
strong relationship in the realm
of friendship.
30) no pre-marital sex !!!
31) have a bank account
32) learn how to operate a
computer
33) work for charity at times.
like a community service.
34) learn a trade
35) THINK BIG*
36) Be wise
37) do without technology
sometimes
38) Surf The net for great infos
that'll benefit your life
39) Go to church/
mosque..never be an atheist.
Believe In God
40) learn a foreign language.
No one knows tomorrow, you
might stand a chance to
international
41) Don't be outdated
42) listen to news/read dailies
also.
43) abstain from alcohol
44) Have a Journal(private
book) might also be a diary.
45) posses a dictionary
46) meditate in The Word Of
God. Be it THE HOLY BIBLE or THE
QURAN
47) listen to music.
48) have a core friend; the one
you share your personal issues
with.
49) have a dream( God's
purpose)
50) be visionalized
51) be time conscious
52) never be fearful
53) be flexible
54) be curious. Being curious
doesn't mean you stand the
chance of asking every
question. Some might not be
good to be asked.
55) be submissive
56) be respective
57) be confident
58) plan your goal
59) be Holy
60) engage in activities that'll
boost your experience
61) never Give up
62) be loyal
63) Hustle to achieve
64) struggle to attain
65) be trustworthy. Also trust
people that are to be trusted
66) be faithful
67) be accessible
68) be teachable
69) be joyful
70) be observant
71) never procrastinate
72) create the attitude of
speaking amidst the multitude
73) abstain from sin
74) be hopeful
75) don't be provocative
76) have a determination
77) be peaceful
78) be prayerful
79) never look down on people
80) never be lazy
81) stretch your boundaries
82) don't be shy
83) be a cheerful giver
84) undergo the process of
leading
85) improve your IQ(intelligent
quotient)
86)always have an alternative in
anything you engage in.
87) explore different culture
88) be careful
89) feel like a winner
90) don't be too emotional; it
might make you to do some
things you don't want to do
91) be rational
92) make mistakes if need be
93) abide with rules and
regulations
94) turn deaf ear to accolades
of men
95) read quotes by different
successful people
96)don't put all your eggs in
one box
97) be imaginative
98) think outside the box
99) be self-disciplined
100) FOLLOW THE NINETY-NINE
WAYS.
With these tools, success is
guaranteed with the help of
God.
Jokes EtcRe: A Message From Her Majesty The Queen Of England To America by merzybenedict(m): 12:05pm On Jan 10, 2014
zeekz: I saw dis somewhere and decided to share it dnt u have a sense of humour, u don't have to b serious all d time. FYI no lectures today
..sorry..,it's sense of humor i av nt that one of 'humour'..LOL !..Congratz 4 the no lecture stuff.,i guess na those small small uni. U dey.
Jokes EtcRe: A Message From Her Majesty The Queen Of England To America by merzybenedict(m): 8:36am On Jan 10, 2014
Don't tell me you wasted all ur precious morning to put down this rubbish..huh..bt wait,ASUU has resumd nw..y r u stil dng this ?..hmm
PhonesRe: Samsung Galaxy Note N8000 10.1 For Sale(nigeria Used). by merzybenedict(m): 7:37pm On Jan 09, 2014
N8000 or N80000 ?

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