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Romance › Re: 8 Truths Most Men Would Hate To Hear From A Lady ! by mespusinglez(op): 7:07pm On Apr 17, 2018
Stycon:
Because most times they are just semblance of truth undecided
Some How
Romance › Re: Top 5 Unpleasant Things You Should Never Do On A First Date by mespusinglez(op): 7:05pm On Apr 17, 2018
cyborg123:
Very important punctuations were omitted in your post which makes it quite difficult to read.
See This One...Just Read Jor...Who Puntuation help?
Romance › 8 Truths Most Men Would Hate To Hear From A Lady ! by mespusinglez(op): 6:20pm On Apr 17, 2018
They say the truth is bitter but it has to be told; there are so many things that might be true but men would hate it when it has to come from their partner, this is exactly the reason why most times some women keep certain things from their man but would tell it to their friends as they solicit for advice on what to do. .


. The male ego is quite a huge ego and anything that might not boost the male ego could hurt it. Men love being kings, we love it when we are deemed to be good at what we do and anything other than that might have a pernicious effect on the male ego. However, I must say that this doesn’t apply to all men out there but a lot of men would feel a snag on their ego if they are told some of these truths.

1. TERRIBLE IN BED Every man wants his lady to see him as the king of the jungle as far as love making is concerned, men pride in the fact that they can ensure that their lady gains satisfaction when in the sheets. When you make it clear to a man that he isn’t good in the act, it might have a detrimental effect on his ego; men love it when their act is applauded and not the other way round.

2. I’M NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU When words like these hurt is when a man is trying to woo a lady and she makes it clear to him that she isn’t attracted to him especially in a direct and precise way; this would definitely have a pernicious effect on him. On the lady’s part, she might be saying the truth but on the man’s part, it hurts.

3. MY FRIENDS DON’T REALLY LIKE YOU This would hurt when a man is trying to woo a lady. There is this underground rule men understand, men know that to win a lady’s heart, he also most times have to win the heart of her friends; if her friends see you as the enemy then you might never win that war. So when a man is made aware of the fact that her friends don’t see him as an ally then it could hurt.

4. YOU ARE NOT ROMANTIC I think this is another one that might have a knock down effect on a man; most men would love to be that prince charming that would blow his lady away in a whirlwind of romance; if he’s told that he is far away from being that prince charming then this could hurt his ego as well.

5. IF YOU DON’T TREAT HER RIGHT, SOMEONE ELSE WILL Men probably don’t like being made aware of the fact that there is another man in the picture or even close to the picture. Just like some male animals, men love to mark and protect their territory and the awareness that other men could do the job better wouldn’t go down well with many men.

6. YOU DON’T HAVE A GOOD FASHION SENSE After going to a boutique to pick up a cloth that you so admire and it turns out to be that your lady doesn’t find it fashionable is one truth most men would rather not appreciate. The look on a man’s face when a lady tells him that he doesn’t have a good fashion style is hardly ever a good one, especially when it’s true.

7. LET’S JUST BE FRIENDS No other words might hurt as this one when a man is trying to woo a lady. Whether you honestly want to be friends with him or not wouldn’t probably matter, what matters is that he feels you don’t deem him worthy enough to be her man and this would hurt the male ego; every man hates to be friend zoned by a lady he cares about, it’s never a good feeling.

8. OUR RELATIONSHIP IS GETTING BORING Most men want to be that man who would always make his relationship spark; telling him the opposite would clearly do a lot of harm to his ego. Men hate to be seen as boring, it’s never a good expression rather it’s an expression that would make him feel not too good. When a relationship is boring, it isn’t just the man’s fault, it’s the fault of both partners, but a man would hardly see it this way, he might feel that it means he’s boring and that could hurt. If you ask me, I think the first, second and seventh are some truths most men would rather not know to handle.
#Mespu_Explains
Romance › Top 5 Unpleasant Things You Should Never Do On A First Date by mespusinglez(op): 6:08pm On Apr 17, 2018
Ordinarily, no one needs to tell you that your appearance, table manners and overall conduct matters on this occasion. Of course, you should also know that good grooming is important. Neither sloppy nor smutty is allowed. Let’s not also forget that with your nerve all over the place, you may just end up doing all the wrong things you never thought you were capable of. So does it mean that if you have all the above covered, then nothing could ever go wrong? It may not be safe to think that. And that’s why we made a list of some unpleasant things you wouldn’t want to be remembered for after that first date.

1. Keeping Your Date Waiting As with every kind of date or appointment, keeping to time is a good way to start. Except there was an unavoidable emergency, it is utterly insensitive to keep someone waiting for longer than bargained for. It sends a wrong message to the one doing the waiting. Lateness often communicates disregard and a nonchalant attitude. It says tons on one’s commitment level. It’s called a date, which literally means the appointment had been fixed prior to the day of the meeting. It’s only fair and expected that you plan towards it. If you need to cancel, please do that prior to the day itself and with a super-good reason. Otherwise, it wouldn’t hurt to adjust your own schedule and avail yourself of the date. For the ladies, Looking good is serious business. So if you need hours for that desired look, then start the face beats early enough. That way everybody wins. Besides, a toned down makes up look is best for both formal and romantic dates.

2. Keep The Phone Away Some debaters have argued that the highly treasured social devices of the modern time are doing more harm than good where ideal communication is concerned. Some have actually gone as far as categorizing them as anti-social devices which in other words contradicts the very essence for which they were made. Imagine being engrossed in a chat with strangers who are possibly miles away or just drifting away while surfing the internet, meanwhile taking little or no recognition of the person sitting next to you in a bus. Whether it is the first or the fiftieth date, all phone distractions should be cut off. Beeps, alerts and a constantly ringing phone gets in the way of what could be a great time. There are non-verbal communications that you should be paying attention to. Things that only a one on one meeting can reveal. In two words, “Be present“. Agreeing to the date was not at gunpoint, so just enjoy the moment. Unpleasant

3. Complaining About Everything It may not have been a good day but trust me half the people you came across today have probably had worse. There is no wisdom in whining about everything, from the cab driver to the doorman to the “tasteless food”. It’s great advice to know that character is everything. Set your priorities straight for that given moment, ditch the drama and be happy for goodness sake. Did you know that treating hospitality staff with respect is a plus to your personality?

4. Wrong Line Of Conversation/Questions So what really is safe to talk about on a first date to avoid unpleasant memories? Something that always works is to find a common topic of interest. This is easier to know when there’s been a sort of acquaintance before the date. Otherwise, it’s cool to ask what your date likes. From there you can start a lively conversation. Unpleasant The idea is to be comfortable with each other. This is a time to get to know someone and not necessarily to impress. Bearing that in mind, please endeavour not to make it a lecture, a debate or an interview. By the way, don’t ask questions you won’t be comfortable answering yourself.

5. And Who Pays The Billshuh Irrespective of who ends up picking the tab, it is safe and wise not to leave your house with an empty purse or pocket. In fact, it is thoughtful to offer or assume you would take care of it. Besides, you never know what unpleasant surprise may show up. Keep some cash or credit/ debit card handy. With a mutual understanding, it’s really not a crime to both pay the bills.
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Romance › Can You Trust A Nurse Whose Husband Sales Coffins? by mespusinglez(op): 11:03am On Apr 17, 2018
Imagine You Took Your Loving Mum To The Hospital Who Is Critically Sick...And The Nurse Incharge Happens To Be The Wife Of A Carpenter that sales Coffins.
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Will You Trust Her And Leave Her Alone With Your Mum?
Romance › Re: Let’s Talk Guys!! What Was The Reason Why You Broke Up With Your Ex-girlfriend? by mespusinglez(m): 3:24pm On Apr 16, 2018
She Like To Partake In Everything...Quick To Anger...During Sex She Can Decide To Stop When She Had Enough...She Don't Like It Hard...Chai Make I Just Stop Here
Romance › My Break-up Didn't Hurt Me Like Barcelona Lose Against Roma by mespusinglez(op): 8:24am On Apr 11, 2018
I BrokeUp With My Girl Last Week And I Didn't Feel A Thing I SLEPT PeaceFully.....But BarCa Losing To Roma Didn't Let Me Sleep Yesterday...I Was Just Angry with everyone even refused to eat..
right now i'm still on bed self thinking of how to go out and face the Mockery...

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#teamFrustrated
Romance › Re: Lady Kept Waiting By Her Date Narrates What She Did by mespusinglez(m): 6:02am On Apr 10, 2018
BlairRachi:
But his not married to her
Is That A Reason To Cheat?
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Need To Make All Your Dreams Come True? by mespusinglez(op): 4:21pm On Apr 09, 2018
whitebeard:
Pls 10k would do...!!
Nothing Is Too Much
Romance › Re: How Much Do You Need To Make All Your Dreams Come True? by mespusinglez(op): 4:19pm On Apr 09, 2018
Timagex:
The first question should be, do I have a dream?
God Have Mercy grin
Romance › How Much Do You Need To Make All Your Dreams Come True? by mespusinglez(op): 3:31pm On Apr 09, 2018
I Heard This Question On A Radio Program...I Call Them And Told Them That I Will Need "10 Trillion Naira" And They All Scream Out..
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SO Lets Hear From You Guys. "HOW MUCH DO YOU NEED TO MAKE ALL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE?
Romance › Re: Please What Type Of Zone Is This? by mespusinglez(m): 6:34pm On Apr 05, 2018
Why You No Sound Her Better Formating Hot Slap Na?!!....Some Girls Sha.
Romance › Re: 10 Warning Signs That Your Partner Will Ch_eat On You by mespusinglez(op): 6:26pm On Apr 05, 2018
habsydiamond:
U are using science to judge if someone will cheat....how many people dem lock as lab rats to examine these theories nao....
ASK ME AGAIN grin
Romance › 10 Warning Signs That Your Partner Will Ch_eat On You by mespusinglez(op): 3:55pm On Apr 05, 2018
Infidelity has long been a topic of interest to
scientists who study se_x and relationships.
Over the years, they’ve uncovered a number of
surprising things about who’s likely to cheat,
why people do it, and the effects that it can
have on us and on our relationships. Here’s a
look at ten of the most interesting things
scientists have discovered to date on the topic
of cheat_ing.


1.) Research has found that certain physical
traits and characteristics are linked to
infidelity. For instance, men with larger
te_sticles and higher levels of testosterone are
more likely to cheat [1]. Some scientists have
suggested that there may be an evolutionary
reason for this: having these traits could offer
guys a competitive edge over other men when
it comes to passing along their genes because
higher testosterone stimulates more sexual
desire, thereby reducing the odds of missing
out on potential reproductive opportunities.


2.) Studies have found that when people in
monogamous relationships ch_eat, most of
them don’t use co_ndoms during the act.
cheat_ing is therefore a very high-risk
behavior for contracting and spreading sits.


3.) Despite the arrival of Ashley Madison and
other websites designed to facilitate infidelity,
the prevalence of cheat_ing isn’t any higher
today than it was 20 years ago. In other words,
it doesn’t seem to be the case that these new
technologies have encouraged more people to
cheat—rather, they’ve just given would-be
cheaters an easier way to do the deed....


4.) The frequency with which heterose_xual
women have or_gasms with their partners
does not predict women’s likelihood of
cheat_ing; however, the frequency with which
women fake or_gasms does. That is, the more
a woman fakes or_gasms with her partner, the
more likely she is to cheat on him.


5.) People don’t agree at all on what
“cheat_ing” actually means. Not everyone
thinks that se_xual contact with someone
outside of their relationship constitutes
cheat_ing; in contrast, others think that just
talking to another person or having dinner with
them can be a form of cheat_ing. Research
finds that men and women define cheat_ing in
different ways and, further, that what we think
of as cheat_ing also depends upon our
attachment style..


6.) Research has found that men and women
are more likely to have affairs just before
beginning a new decade of life. In other words,
when we’re at an age that ends in a nine, we
seem more inclined to cheat.


7.) There is some truth to the old saying “once
a cheater, always a cheater,” because
research has found that a majority people who
admit to infidelity say they’ve done it more than
once. However, this isn’t true across the
board. Whether a cheater is likely to cheat
again depends upon their reasons for
cheat_ing in the first place.


8.) It’s common to have fantasies about
cheat_ing on your partner. In fact, studies have
found that almost all men (98%) and the vast
majority of women (80%) report fantasising
about someone other than their current partner
at least occasionally.


9.) When affairs are discovered, it doesn’t
always mean the end of a relationship or
marriage. In fact, studies have found that some
relationships actually emerge stronger from
such revelations than they were before.


10.) The risk of having a heart attack during
se_x is very low; however, research has found
that when heart attacks do occur during se_x,
they’re more likely to happen to men when
they’re cheat_ing compared to when they’re
having sex with a spouse.



Why? Some scientists have argued that
cheat_ing induces psychological distress (eg,
by creating feelings of guilt, anxiety, or stress)
that, in turn, can have a negative effect on
cardiovascular function.
Romance › Re: Lady Kept Waiting By Her Date Narrates What She Did by mespusinglez(m): 6:42am On Apr 03, 2018
You're Not Even Ashamed of yourself...By Saying You Even Have A Boyfriend....Girls Are Really Bitches
Education › MY April Fool Worst Experience Today by mespusinglez(op): 3:11pm On Apr 01, 2018
Well Mine Happened This Morning When I Logon to FaceBook Only To See A Post By A Friend Saying
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"Bad News For All JAMB Candidates,All Results Have Been Cancelled"
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stroke nearly catch me as i com dey think for my mind say my hard earned 257 For JAMB Is Useless?
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But I Later Google it and i found out its all a lie..(april fool thing)
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so guys share your worst experience lets hear.
Education › Re: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by mespusinglez(m): 8:07pm On Mar 31, 2018
opera1:
Yet 2 get u clearly wit "NO ADM GIVEN YET"
Did u applied for last year DE?

If yes, u can't use same jamb registration number.
Since you graduated from College of Edu, you need jamb regularization or u can select "OTHER DIPLOMA" While registering for DE.
I DIDN'T APPLY FOR D.E LAST ....IT'S LAST YEAR THAT I FINISH THE COLLEGE
Sports › Re: I Have 1000 Odds For Free by mespusinglez(m): 12:35pm On Mar 31, 2018
gabazin080:
if its free then y not post it here
NO MIND THE IDIOT
Education › Re: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by mespusinglez(m): 12:26pm On Mar 31, 2018
opera1:
Which sku did u graduated from & is it jamb dat gave u
ya previous Admission?
COLLEGE OF EDU IN KAD...IT'S NOT JAMB THAT GAVE ME THE ADM "NO ADM GIVEN YET" RESPONSE
Education › Re: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by mespusinglez(m): 8:15am On Mar 31, 2018
[quote author=Olayatty40 post=66303603][/quote]PLS HOW MUCH DOES IT COST TO UPLOAD A RESULT ON JAMB?
Education › Re: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by mespusinglez(m): 8:11am On Mar 31, 2018
opera1:
Visit ya nearest Jamb Office or CBT center with #2500 pluz extra 1k.
SENIOR MAN...IS IT POSSIBLE TO DOTHE D.E REG WITH MY OLD JAMB REG THEN DO THE REGULARIZATION LATER
Education › Re: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by mespusinglez(m): 8:07am On Mar 31, 2018
codesty:
perhaps, your school did'nt summit your regularization form to jamb as early you may think they do.

With reasons being that, they may wait for others student to summit their(s) before taking it to jamb office in bulk for uploading. Kindly wait for jamb notification or you use your previous jamb registration number and check your admission status via jamb portal...
PLS CAN I GO AHEAD WITH THE D.E REG WITH MY PREVIOUS JAMB NUMBER BEFORE APPLYING FOR THE REGULARISATION?
Education › Re: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by mespusinglez(m): 6:51am On Mar 31, 2018
jeromeemmy:
yes
THANKS MAN
Education › Re: Pls Is Direct Entry Form Still On Sale? by mespusinglez(op): 7:09pm On Mar 30, 2018
northvietnam:
Just get it over with so that we can see space On earth..
what r u waiting for..huh Just Di.e abeg
I'M VERY SAD RIGHT NOW
Education › Re: Pls Is Direct Entry Form Still On Sale? by mespusinglez(op): 7:02pm On Mar 30, 2018
Education › Re: Pls Is Direct Entry Form Still On Sale? by mespusinglez(op): 7:00pm On Mar 30, 2018
northvietnam:
no
CHAI I DON DIE
Education › Re: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by mespusinglez(m): 6:58pm On Mar 30, 2018
jeromeemmy:
No date yet...but closing anytime soon
PLS BRO IS IT STILL ON COX I WANT TO REG NEXT WEEK
Education › Pls Is Direct Entry Form Still On Sale? by mespusinglez(op): 6:44pm On Mar 30, 2018
Pls I Want To Know If The Form Is Still On Sale
Romance › Re: Don't Let Anyone Kiss You This Week. by mespusinglez(op): 1:01pm On Mar 28, 2018
DeadRat:
Two Girls Won Kiss Me This Week... How Do I Do It?
wink
Romance › Re: Don't Let Anyone Kiss You This Week. by mespusinglez(op): 7:40am On Mar 28, 2018
wink
Romance › Re: Don't Let Anyone Kiss You This Week. by mespusinglez(op): 7:37am On Mar 28, 2018
bjayx:
How can a man kiss a manhuh Judas n Jesus try ooo
See This One....It's A PeCK In The Cheek
Romance › Re: Don't Let Anyone Kiss You This Week. by mespusinglez(op): 7:36am On Mar 28, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
grin


#TeamNeverBeenKissedNeverBeenTouched

#TeamVirginLips cheesy grin

I gonna punch his mouth if he tried to kiss me angry angry angry
SUCCUBUS I Know You O...So Don't Let Me ExpoSe You ToR

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