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They say the truth is bitter but it has to be told;
there are so many things that might be true but
men would hate it when it has to come from their
partner, this is exactly the reason why most times
some women keep certain things from their man
but would tell it to their friends as they solicit for
advice on what to do.
. . The male ego is quite a huge ego and anything that might not boost the male ego could hurt it. Men love being kings, we love it when we are deemed to be good at what we do and anything other than that might have a pernicious effect on the male ego. However, I must say that this doesn’t apply to all men out there but a lot of men would feel a snag on their ego if they are told some of these truths. 1. TERRIBLE IN BED Every man wants his lady to see him as the king of the jungle as far as love making is concerned, men pride in the fact that they can ensure that their lady gains satisfaction when in the sheets. When you make it clear to a man that he isn’t good in the act, it might have a detrimental effect on his ego; men love it when their act is applauded and not the other way round. 2. I’M NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU When words like these hurt is when a man is trying to woo a lady and she makes it clear to him that she isn’t attracted to him especially in a direct and precise way; this would definitely have a pernicious effect on him. On the lady’s part, she might be saying the truth but on the man’s part, it hurts. 3. MY FRIENDS DON’T REALLY LIKE YOU This would hurt when a man is trying to woo a lady. There is this underground rule men understand, men know that to win a lady’s heart, he also most times have to win the heart of her friends; if her friends see you as the enemy then you might never win that war. So when a man is made aware of the fact that her friends don’t see him as an ally then it could hurt. 4. YOU ARE NOT ROMANTIC I think this is another one that might have a knock down effect on a man; most men would love to be that prince charming that would blow his lady away in a whirlwind of romance; if he’s told that he is far away from being that prince charming then this could hurt his ego as well. 5. IF YOU DON’T TREAT HER RIGHT, SOMEONE ELSE WILL Men probably don’t like being made aware of the fact that there is another man in the picture or even close to the picture. Just like some male animals, men love to mark and protect their territory and the awareness that other men could do the job better wouldn’t go down well with many men. 6. YOU DON’T HAVE A GOOD FASHION SENSE After going to a boutique to pick up a cloth that you so admire and it turns out to be that your lady doesn’t find it fashionable is one truth most men would rather not appreciate. The look on a man’s face when a lady tells him that he doesn’t have a good fashion style is hardly ever a good one, especially when it’s true. 7. LET’S JUST BE FRIENDS No other words might hurt as this one when a man is trying to woo a lady. Whether you honestly want to be friends with him or not wouldn’t probably matter, what matters is that he feels you don’t deem him worthy enough to be her man and this would hurt the male ego; every man hates to be friend zoned by a lady he cares about, it’s never a good feeling. 8. OUR RELATIONSHIP IS GETTING BORING Most men want to be that man who would always make his relationship spark; telling him the opposite would clearly do a lot of harm to his ego. Men hate to be seen as boring, it’s never a good expression rather it’s an expression that would make him feel not too good. When a relationship is boring, it isn’t just the man’s fault, it’s the fault of both partners, but a man would hardly see it this way, he might feel that it means he’s boring and that could hurt. If you ask me, I think the first, second and seventh are some truths most men would rather not know to handle. #Mespu_Explains |
Ordinarily, no one needs to tell you that your
appearance, table manners and overall conduct
matters on this occasion. Of course, you should
also know that good grooming is important.
Neither sloppy nor smutty is allowed.
Let’s not also forget that with your nerve all over
the place, you may just end up doing all the wrong
things you never thought you were capable of.
So does it mean that if you have all the above
covered, then nothing could ever go wrong? It
may not be safe to think that.
And that’s why we made a list of some unpleasant
things you wouldn’t want to be remembered for
after that first date. 1. Keeping Your Date Waiting As with every kind of date or appointment, keeping to time is a good way to start. Except there was an unavoidable emergency, it is utterly insensitive to keep someone waiting for longer than bargained for. It sends a wrong message to the one doing the waiting. Lateness often communicates disregard and a nonchalant attitude. It says tons on one’s commitment level. It’s called a date, which literally means the appointment had been fixed prior to the day of the meeting. It’s only fair and expected that you plan towards it. If you need to cancel, please do that prior to the day itself and with a super-good reason. Otherwise, it wouldn’t hurt to adjust your own schedule and avail yourself of the date. For the ladies, Looking good is serious business. So if you need hours for that desired look, then start the face beats early enough. That way everybody wins. Besides, a toned down makes up look is best for both formal and romantic dates. 2. Keep The Phone Away Some debaters have argued that the highly treasured social devices of the modern time are doing more harm than good where ideal communication is concerned. Some have actually gone as far as categorizing them as anti-social devices which in other words contradicts the very essence for which they were made. Imagine being engrossed in a chat with strangers who are possibly miles away or just drifting away while surfing the internet, meanwhile taking little or no recognition of the person sitting next to you in a bus. Whether it is the first or the fiftieth date, all phone distractions should be cut off. Beeps, alerts and a constantly ringing phone gets in the way of what could be a great time. There are non-verbal communications that you should be paying attention to. Things that only a one on one meeting can reveal. In two words, “Be present“. Agreeing to the date was not at gunpoint, so just enjoy the moment. Unpleasant 3. Complaining About Everything It may not have been a good day but trust me half the people you came across today have probably had worse. There is no wisdom in whining about everything, from the cab driver to the doorman to the “tasteless food”. It’s great advice to know that character is everything. Set your priorities straight for that given moment, ditch the drama and be happy for goodness sake. Did you know that treating hospitality staff with respect is a plus to your personality? 4. Wrong Line Of Conversation/Questions So what really is safe to talk about on a first date to avoid unpleasant memories? Something that always works is to find a common topic of interest. This is easier to know when there’s been a sort of acquaintance before the date. Otherwise, it’s cool to ask what your date likes. From there you can start a lively conversation. Unpleasant The idea is to be comfortable with each other. This is a time to get to know someone and not necessarily to impress. Bearing that in mind, please endeavour not to make it a lecture, a debate or an interview. By the way, don’t ask questions you won’t be comfortable answering yourself. 5. And Who Pays The Bills
Irrespective of who ends up picking the tab, it is
safe and wise not to leave your house with an
empty purse or pocket. In fact, it is thoughtful to
offer or assume you would take care of it.
Besides, you never know what unpleasant
surprise may show up. Keep some cash or credit/
debit card handy. With a mutual understanding,
it’s really not a crime to both pay the bills.. Hope some people will learn. |
Imagine You Took Your Loving Mum To The Hospital Who Is Critically Sick...And The Nurse Incharge Happens To Be The Wife Of A Carpenter that sales Coffins. . . . Will You Trust Her And Leave Her Alone With Your Mum? |
She Like To Partake In Everything...Quick To Anger...During Sex She Can Decide To Stop When She Had Enough...She Don't Like It Hard...Chai Make I Just Stop Here |
I BrokeUp With My Girl Last Week And I Didn't Feel A Thing I SLEPT PeaceFully.....But BarCa Losing To Roma Didn't Let Me Sleep Yesterday...I Was Just Angry with everyone even refused to eat.. right now i'm still on bed self thinking of how to go out and face the Mockery... . . . #teamFrustrated |
BlairRachi:Is That A Reason To Cheat? |
whitebeard:Nothing Is Too Much |
Timagex:God Have Mercy ![]() |
I Heard This Question On A Radio Program...I Call Them And Told Them That I Will Need "10 Trillion Naira" And They All Scream Out.. . . . SO Lets Hear From You Guys. "HOW MUCH DO YOU NEED TO MAKE ALL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE? |
Why You No Sound Her Better Formating Hot Slap Na?!!....Some Girls Sha. |
habsydiamond:ASK ME AGAIN ![]() |
Infidelity has long been a topic of interest to scientists who study se_x and relationships. Over the years, they’ve uncovered a number of surprising things about who’s likely to cheat, why people do it, and the effects that it can have on us and on our relationships. Here’s a look at ten of the most interesting things scientists have discovered to date on the topic of cheat_ing. 1.) Research has found that certain physical traits and characteristics are linked to infidelity. For instance, men with larger te_sticles and higher levels of testosterone are more likely to cheat [1]. Some scientists have suggested that there may be an evolutionary reason for this: having these traits could offer guys a competitive edge over other men when it comes to passing along their genes because higher testosterone stimulates more sexual desire, thereby reducing the odds of missing out on potential reproductive opportunities. 2.) Studies have found that when people in monogamous relationships ch_eat, most of them don’t use co_ndoms during the act. cheat_ing is therefore a very high-risk behavior for contracting and spreading sits. 3.) Despite the arrival of Ashley Madison and other websites designed to facilitate infidelity, the prevalence of cheat_ing isn’t any higher today than it was 20 years ago. In other words, it doesn’t seem to be the case that these new technologies have encouraged more people to cheat—rather, they’ve just given would-be cheaters an easier way to do the deed.... 4.) The frequency with which heterose_xual women have or_gasms with their partners does not predict women’s likelihood of cheat_ing; however, the frequency with which women fake or_gasms does. That is, the more a woman fakes or_gasms with her partner, the more likely she is to cheat on him. 5.) People don’t agree at all on what “cheat_ing” actually means. Not everyone thinks that se_xual contact with someone outside of their relationship constitutes cheat_ing; in contrast, others think that just talking to another person or having dinner with them can be a form of cheat_ing. Research finds that men and women define cheat_ing in different ways and, further, that what we think of as cheat_ing also depends upon our attachment style.. 6.) Research has found that men and women are more likely to have affairs just before beginning a new decade of life. In other words, when we’re at an age that ends in a nine, we seem more inclined to cheat. 7.) There is some truth to the old saying “once a cheater, always a cheater,” because research has found that a majority people who admit to infidelity say they’ve done it more than once. However, this isn’t true across the board. Whether a cheater is likely to cheat again depends upon their reasons for cheat_ing in the first place. 8.) It’s common to have fantasies about cheat_ing on your partner. In fact, studies have found that almost all men (98%) and the vast majority of women (80%) report fantasising about someone other than their current partner at least occasionally. 9.) When affairs are discovered, it doesn’t always mean the end of a relationship or marriage. In fact, studies have found that some relationships actually emerge stronger from such revelations than they were before. 10.) The risk of having a heart attack during se_x is very low; however, research has found that when heart attacks do occur during se_x, they’re more likely to happen to men when they’re cheat_ing compared to when they’re having sex with a spouse. Why? Some scientists have argued that cheat_ing induces psychological distress (eg, by creating feelings of guilt, anxiety, or stress) that, in turn, can have a negative effect on cardiovascular function. |
You're Not Even Ashamed of yourself...By Saying You Even Have A Boyfriend....Girls Are Really Bitches |
Well Mine Happened This Morning When I Logon to FaceBook Only To See A Post By A Friend Saying . . . . "Bad News For All JAMB Candidates,All Results Have Been Cancelled" . . . stroke nearly catch me as i com dey think for my mind say my hard earned 257 For JAMB Is Useless? . . . But I Later Google it and i found out its all a lie..(april fool thing) . . . . so guys share your worst experience lets hear. |
opera1:I DIDN'T APPLY FOR D.E LAST ....IT'S LAST YEAR THAT I FINISH THE COLLEGE |
gabazin080:NO MIND THE IDIOT |
opera1:COLLEGE OF EDU IN KAD...IT'S NOT JAMB THAT GAVE ME THE ADM "NO ADM GIVEN YET" RESPONSE |
[quote author=Olayatty40 post=66303603][/quote]PLS HOW MUCH DOES IT COST TO UPLOAD A RESULT ON JAMB? |
opera1:SENIOR MAN...IS IT POSSIBLE TO DOTHE D.E REG WITH MY OLD JAMB REG THEN DO THE REGULARIZATION LATER |
codesty:PLS CAN I GO AHEAD WITH THE D.E REG WITH MY PREVIOUS JAMB NUMBER BEFORE APPLYING FOR THE REGULARISATION? |
jeromeemmy:THANKS MAN |
northvietnam:I'M VERY SAD RIGHT NOW |
northvietnam: ![]() |
northvietnam:CHAI I DON DIE |
jeromeemmy:PLS BRO IS IT STILL ON COX I WANT TO REG NEXT WEEK |
Pls I Want To Know If The Form Is Still On Sale |
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bjayx:See This One....It's A PeCK In The Cheek |
QueenSuccubus:SUCCUBUS I Know You O...So Don't Let Me ExpoSe You ToR |
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Irrespective of who ends up picking the tab, it is
safe and wise not to leave your house with an
empty purse or pocket. In fact, it is thoughtful to
offer or assume you would take care of it.
Besides, you never know what unpleasant
surprise may show up. Keep some cash or credit/
debit card handy. With a mutual understanding,
it’s really not a crime to both pay the bills.

