They say the truth is bitter but it has to be told; there are so many things that might be true but men would hate it when it has to come from their partner, this is exactly the reason why most times some women keep certain things from their man but would tell it to their friends as they solicit for advice on what to do. .


. The male ego is quite a huge ego and anything that might not boost the male ego could hurt it. Men love being kings, we love it when we are deemed to be good at what we do and anything other than that might have a pernicious effect on the male ego. However, I must say that this doesn’t apply to all men out there but a lot of men would feel a snag on their ego if they are told some of these truths.

1. TERRIBLE IN BED Every man wants his lady to see him as the king of the jungle as far as love making is concerned, men pride in the fact that they can ensure that their lady gains satisfaction when in the sheets. When you make it clear to a man that he isn’t good in the act, it might have a detrimental effect on his ego; men love it when their act is applauded and not the other way round.

2. I’M NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU When words like these hurt is when a man is trying to woo a lady and she makes it clear to him that she isn’t attracted to him especially in a direct and precise way; this would definitely have a pernicious effect on him. On the lady’s part, she might be saying the truth but on the man’s part, it hurts.

3. MY FRIENDS DON’T REALLY LIKE YOU This would hurt when a man is trying to woo a lady. There is this underground rule men understand, men know that to win a lady’s heart, he also most times have to win the heart of her friends; if her friends see you as the enemy then you might never win that war. So when a man is made aware of the fact that her friends don’t see him as an ally then it could hurt.

4. YOU ARE NOT ROMANTIC I think this is another one that might have a knock down effect on a man; most men would love to be that prince charming that would blow his lady away in a whirlwind of romance; if he’s told that he is far away from being that prince charming then this could hurt his ego as well.

5. IF YOU DON’T TREAT HER RIGHT, SOMEONE ELSE WILL Men probably don’t like being made aware of the fact that there is another man in the picture or even close to the picture. Just like some male animals, men love to mark and protect their territory and the awareness that other men could do the job better wouldn’t go down well with many men.

6. YOU DON’T HAVE A GOOD FASHION SENSE After going to a boutique to pick up a cloth that you so admire and it turns out to be that your lady doesn’t find it fashionable is one truth most men would rather not appreciate. The look on a man’s face when a lady tells him that he doesn’t have a good fashion style is hardly ever a good one, especially when it’s true.

7. LET’S JUST BE FRIENDS No other words might hurt as this one when a man is trying to woo a lady. Whether you honestly want to be friends with him or not wouldn’t probably matter, what matters is that he feels you don’t deem him worthy enough to be her man and this would hurt the male ego; every man hates to be friend zoned by a lady he cares about, it’s never a good feeling.

8. OUR RELATIONSHIP IS GETTING BORING Most men want to be that man who would always make his relationship spark; telling him the opposite would clearly do a lot of harm to his ego. Men hate to be seen as boring, it’s never a good expression rather it’s an expression that would make him feel not too good. When a relationship is boring, it isn’t just the man’s fault, it’s the fault of both partners, but a man would hardly see it this way, he might feel that it means he’s boring and that could hurt. If you ask me, I think the first, second and seventh are some truths most men would rather not know to handle.
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Because most times they are just semblance of truth

You're right on point op

Stycon:
Because most times they are just semblance of truth

Some How

mespusinglez:

1. TERRIBLE IN BED

any man should thank that woman for being honest (instead of being like the many who are faking it) and as much as painful to learn that you are no good in bed, it should be taken as a way to upgrade their bedroom acrobatics.

2. I’M NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU

honesty is very important in any union, so a man should be thankful if a woman says this to someone "wooing her". that said man should take the hint and move on with his life.... if he doesnt, then let HIM be blamed for his deluded state of mind.
btw: if a woman says the above after 3 months of dating (and possibly heavy spending) then she deserves a mind reseting heavy duty slap

3. MY FRIENDS DON’T REALLY LIKE YOU

the above is what immature low self esteem insecure women would say, because a confident woman, who REALLY cares about you, wouldnt give a damn what her friend thinks

4. YOU ARE NOT ROMANTIC

men should be careful about the above and demand an explanation before acting upon it... it could a blessing OR a curse. if the lady is genuinely interested in you then she will show you how to be more romantic and caring, but if her aim is to get freebies then get rid of her asap and count your blessings.

5. IF YOU DON’T TREAT HER RIGHT, SOMEONE ELSE
WILL

if that biatch values other men who gives her attention (while she is dating you) then she can either break it off with you or get her act together, but no man should be intimidated or blackmailed into doing what they are not willing to do, simply because there are other men after this deluded woman.

6. YOU DON’T HAVE A GOOD FASHION SENSE

if a stranger dont like your fashion sense, then fair enough, to each their own....if your gf dont like your fashion sense, remind her that you have been like that the day she 1st saw you, the day she started dating you and till that date, so she should have said something before if she had a problem with your fashion sense.

7. LET’S JUST BE FRIENDS

in life, you win some, you lose some.... the idea is that you should try as much as possible in order to have more chances of success. you cant possibly think that you will get ALL the women you set your eyes on. thats childish!

8. OUR RELATIONSHIP IS GETTING BORING

there is nothing wrong with someone being honest in a r/ship, so you should take it as a blessing....then tell this woman that BOTH of you should try to fix it, thats not a man's issue only. ask her what is wrong and try to fix it if you want/can.... if she has unrealistic demands then let her go. eod!

foliman:
You're right on point op

Thanks Man

More men need to know about no1. Because it’s pitful

With money, no lady will ever say any of those things to you

Because you must have bought their body, soul and sense

Man You're Good...You Deserve a bottle of ORIGIN